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deyemia:
I'm resisting the urge to call you a slowpoke . I'm reading all comments on this post so as to make informed decision and you are just seeing colour white as red...

keep commenting though, you might learn at some point

lezz:
The OP's case is slightly complicated.

First it's a relationship match-made. Who does that these days?

So there's no love hovering around them. If the OP's fiancée loved him, she wouldn't mind helping out financially if the need arose.

Evidently the finacee is having doubts if OP isn't marrying her for her wealth. Most wealthy women are wont to suspecting men's motives in relationships especially if they be below average in looks.

My opinion is if the wife works, she should share the financial burden at most 20% WITHOUT THE HUSBSAD DEMANDING.

After all, a working wife will sacrifice some amount of home care for office hours.

HateU2:
it says it all . Don't try to ask a girl out here on NL oo.

5minsmadness:
Oooooooooooooooooohhhh! Is that what it means
No wondeeeeeeerrrrr

Koinzino:
it would be irrational for u to dump her tho.. but if u cannot change her mind set, this is wat u Will do... invite her to yr place, make her feel loved, bang the hell out of her, dump her sorry ass and go ahead with her friend... that girl no get sense

netizenbuzz:
Shut up! You think giving birth is easy? A year ago, I would have said he shouldn't marry her but with the kind of lazy ass men we have these days, I will say the op deserves this. Women already bring so much to the table in marriage and the one thing we ask of you, you are complaining again. We give up our names, we give up the children we carried for 9 months to bare your names, we give up our dreams, we give up even our churches, we give up everything already. What more do you want? Until you run us dry abi? Abeg shift!

lezz:
It is a worrying trend nowadays!!!

The 21st century male has been effeminately indoctrinated.

Have you not noticed the increasing number of men who ponder more on their looks, clothes, cosmetics and personal ornamentation than they worry about skill acquisition or developing a sound world-viewworld-view or providing responsible leadershipleadership ?


The economic success of women has cast a shadow of blurred reality and expectation for many men.

obowunmi:
OP should marry a very poor woman who doesnt mind struggling with him and stop whining.

Toks2008:
She just said she is ready to drimk garri with you so what else do you need?

in my opinion that is a supportive woman and honest too.

faruku104:
LMAO! I know your type..... May God keep giving your much more money you are making. cos if God show you the other side of life, you will hear it bad bad.

uzoormah:
may u marry a stingy woman.

faruku104:
all I see is display of arrogance... stop being a f^ck boy

faruku104:
oh puleez zip it! life is never full of roses.... there is always a time in a man's hustle when he would have his dry season. if a woman cannot even spend N1 on u even in your rainy days then she is lacking parta d criteria of being a good wife.

God forbid he loses his job and during another hustle of getting another, it is then he would see the demon in her.

deyemia:
I pity you! I can tell you are single and shallow minded. You r not yet married and you are already mentally dysfunctional.

Keep nose diving bro. I work in health industry, you r a potential source of revenue.

Ewure

deyemia:
I wish you a wife that won't support you financially for any reason whatsoever since you are not lazy and not a gold digger. Please say Amen

HateU2:
Ur moniker gan self

elektra:
What qualities are you looking for? And what qualities do you have, that you feel will make you a good husband?