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deturla:
It's just an harmless question that requires a Yes or No answer.

Nigerians...!

I think it's irrelevant. I sent her a PM for an entirely different issue. Nothing in my posts so far suggests I intend hitting on her. If anything, now is the worst time any guy should try such with her.

deturla:
...Are you hitting on her?

Is it a crime?

If Buhari's fight against corruption is not vindictive pray tell what is T.A Orji doing in that senate??

foolinlove:
Ask him.

You don't want to reply my PM?

foolinlove:
He showed love. Then the love ran out.

What made it run out?

foolinlove:
Just be me. That's sure to turn any guy off.

I'll make your thing go down faster than a cold shower.

Guys can't stifle their vomit for long enough to fucc me. Unless there is promise of money. Then they will get it done asap and vomit afterwards. Scrub themselves like a rape victim.

Hmmm.

foolinlove:
That's not missing you tho. That's just boredom.

If one day a guy say he love you, you are his wife, then don't call or text for a week, that means he is a liar.

We relive our past.

foolinlove:
I showed my interest believe me. I reciprocated. I love him still. I am just stupid really. Lies, lies from tiny eyes.

So he never showed love from the word go? I sent you a PM.

foolinlove:
Yeah well she is young amd has a chance to be better and live a good life.

Same will be your portion.

foolinlove:
That's not missing you tho. That's just boredom.

If one day a guy say he love you, you are his wife, then don't call or text for a week, that means he is a liar.

Did you call or text to know why? It could be he expects you to reciprocate his advances. Maybe you've not been showing much interest. Love is best enjoyed when there is a full-duplex channel of communication set up by both parties involved.

foolinlove:
So if they stop calling and texting it means they've forgotten about yiu and have moved on.

Depending on the circumstances. They could move on for a while and come back later. I got a call from a strange number last night. It was a girl I once met on 2go years back when I was in the University. We never met in person. We lost contact shortly after my graduation. She stopped calling. Stopped taking my calls. Stopped replying texts. I deleted her contact. Moved on. Four years after, she called.

foolinlove:
This is awful but you need to leave him.

I've tried to take my life over a guy and it just made more trouble for me, not him because he didn't care if I live or die anyway.

Cut him off. Don't listen if he comes back begging. You may be able to find someone better.

The bottom line is that if he breaks things off all the time he just doesn't want to be with you. Accept it and live with that pain. It is a lesson. You're young. You overcame a lot of battles to be with him, so this is just another step to God's plan. Another battle. Fight through it.

Value yourself and show everyone, including yourself, that you are better than his behaviour. Better to be single than someone's punching bag.

You don't know how happy I am reading this from YOU!

foolinlove:
Something I've learned about men is that they say what they feel when they have no reason to lie. Like, they wont say they love you unless they want something (like sex or money) or actually feel something (unlikely).
If they don't say anything, they don't feel anything.

The last sentence is not true. Action, not words, is what shows a man's feeling.

chiwetel:
oh..nvm

Ok. But you may have my number if you don't mind.

chiwetel:
really?


talk jhr.

What do you want me to say? You need my FB ID?

chiwetel:
so....

So?

foolinlove:
Incorrect. I am one of God's rejects. God gave me desire to have husband and family, but no opportunity to do so. I give up already.

Could you furnish us solid proof of being 'one of God's rejects'? Maybe I need to remind you that there are opposites in life- love and hate, good and bad, kindness and wickedness, sincerity and deceit etc. We shall all have a taste of each of these at one point in our life's journey. What you passed through many before you had overcome even worse. Just believe me, you'll conquer. You'll find love. Real love. You'll savour the sweet taste of true love. Stop hurting and brace up. Beautiful heart.

chiwetel:
nah,didn't use my email.

you have a Facebook ID?

I do

foolinlove:
It doesn't worry me anymore, for myself I know will never be on relationship again.

You will be in relationship again. You will find love again. True love, devoid of deceit.

All you need is guidance. You need to rein in your emotions a little and use your head more. You don't give up on life till you draw your last breath.
Your best revenge for the men who broke your heart will be to find someone who knows your worth. There are many such men. Draw strength from your weakness. Wipe your tears. You've been wrestled aground. Stand up. Stand tall. Shake off the dust. Raise your head high and move on. I wish I could speak with you.

chiwetel:
was fair enough.. urs?

Wasn't bad either. Do u get PM?

chiwetel:
Thanks

How's ur day?

chiwetel:
hey.

ready to derail this thread?

..

chiwetel:
AMEN!

your dp is bae,I like

Hii

hmmmmmmmmm

Mobax is a real TELECOM firm.

chiwetel:
not exactly, yesterday was just lazy.

alright dear,need to be productive today.Do have a great day.cheers

I wish you a splendid day.

chiwetel:
hehehe..NOO,you can't find a partner in me o
finished all my sleep during the day,all my naps were more than 8hours

Are you a habitually nocturnal person?

chiwetel:
lol,its just us jhr.

Morning.. why do I feel ur night was really short.

Because you KNOW I chatted late into the night. I suppose it was same with yours.

chiwetel:
lool.. you said it oooo.its obviously just an hobby u enjoy then, cz u chose engineering over it

You are partially true. I am derailing your thread. Kpele.

chiwetel:
oh aii...I guessed wrong,buh that's a far cry from the realm of writing.

I was just expecting this! Lol. Who told you engineers don't make good writers, dear?

chiwetel:
yeah

Engineer.

chiwetel:
Thanks for the offer,till then.

what exactly are you?

Ok. You mean my profession?