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Confidence tells the story of who we truly are in the most authentic way possible. It is our representation of the way we want to be seen and how we want to see ourselves. by Christopher D. Connors Confidence is attained when we’re prepared and self-aware enough to appreciate who we are, faults and all. Confidence is desired in all kinds of relationships, and it’s the ingredient that colors our view of ourselves, as well as how we are perceived by society. So, it is confidence that is worth cultivating and being, in order to live in each moment of the day. What are the values that matter most to you? I think about this consciously and I recognize that subconsciously, my values structure is the core of my decision-making. As we continue moving forward in life, we should become more shrewd and selective with how we use our time. When we do, we become more confident in who we are and have a much greater idea of what we want. The centerpiece of most values-based structures is confidence. A major component of confidence is the value you place on yourself. Confidence is about the faith you have in your abilities, the person you are, and how you view your most important relationship — the one with yourself. Confidence gives us the strength to pursue our romantic partner, it psyches us up to get the job or opportunity we’ve prepared and dreamed about. Confidence tells the story of who we truly are in the most authentic way possible. It is our representation of the way we want to be seen and how we want to see ourselves. I’ve been tremendously blessed to have parents as role models who instilled confidence in me from a very early age and always told me, “The sky is the limit.” I’ve always believed that I’m destined for great things, not out of conceit, but because I believe in myself and I have the confidence to pursue building the relationships, and accomplishing the goals I desire. I wanted to share five things that I truly believe will give you the confidence to accomplish anything you desire. Here they are: 1. Don’t pick apart every mistake or foolish thing you’ve done. Laugh at them and realize life isn’t always a “repair job” of everything you did wrong On your path to becoming more confident, self-assured and successful, please make one promise to yourself: Stop beating yourself up over past mistakes and failures. Per Eric Barker, there’s tremendous value in being kind to yourself in an effort to build your confidence: I am the person I am because of the experiences I lived through. I don’t live with regret. I’ve learned from mistakes and failures but I’m completely at peace with all that has come and gone in my life. To the times I had fun, to the times that I suffered, it’s all good. What about you? How do you make sense of your mistakes? How do you move on from defeat and forward to victory? Learning about our pasts, making sense of our experiences, both good and bad, offers us a treasure trove of knowledge, wisdom and insight that will carry us throughout our lifetimes. Keep maturing, keep growing and don’t forget to laugh sometimes. Life is funnier that way. 2. You haven’t (yet) become what you thought you would. That’s OK. Accept it and make a difference. Start with these three principles which will help you redefine your perception of yourself: Be happy with what you’re working on and doing. How you look is so little of what should have to do with your confidence Focus on the positive feedback you get and don’t harp on the negative It’s not about how anyone else sees you — it’s about how you see yourself Realize that successes and failures will come and go all throughout your life. It’s what you take from BOTH experiences that truly makes a difference. A Stanford University professor did the following study that showed: 3. Surround yourself with one inspirational story every day If you want to build confidence, you have to find inspiration and motivation every day. I hope you’re able to find it in an article like this and other great articles here on Personal Growth. We all need something to lift our spirits that will positively influence our thoughts and lead us to greater confidence and belief. There’s a reason why some of the world’s most successful people begin their days with an inspirational story. It fires up their imagination and emboldens them to continue forward with ambitious plans for success. When you’re more inspired, you’re more confident. You believe anything is possible. 4. Keep a Mental Journal Sure, written journals are important. But what about the dialogue we play back to ourselves from our own inner voice? The power of speaking positively to ourselves — and finding the positive in our experiences will elevate us to a higher, more encouraging mental plain. So what do I mean by keeping a mental journal? When you make out your daily and weekly schedule, have a reminder for yourself literally every hour. Remind yourself to speak positively over your life. To take a break from whatever you’re doing and tell yourself that you’re giving your best, focusing on the moment and future with optimism, faith and confidence. We become what we say and do, but one of the hidden factors of success is our ability to manifest positive thought encouragement to ourselves through the power of autosuggestion. 5. Plan to Celebrate. Celebrate Your Wins Create a moment. Cultivate the circumstances that surround the end of your journey, which is when you get to enjoy the victory. Whatever you’re working for, focus on the journey. But have the victory parade in sight. We all need something to look forward to and while we shouldn’t dwell too long in the past, it’s imperative that we celebrate our accomplishments. This provides a sense of closure and helps lead to a breakthrough on our next step to becoming an even more confident person. Bill Carmody, a successful CEO says the following: Keep going on your journey and take chances to keep building up your confidence. You’ll find this powerful spirit re-energize and supercharge your human engine, leading you to awesome new opportunities. You Can Do This I’m helping thousands of people each day build their life on values and put together their personal game plan. Join me! Check out The Value of You, my Amazon bestseller. The e-book is available for a limited time for just $2.99! Order the e-book HERE! Join my newsletter if you’d like, Follow my Facebook Page and join me on your journey. Let’s GO! Additional Reading How to Overcome Procrastination and Develop a Productive Daily Routine 1 Hour Per Day Doing this Mental Exercise Will Exponentially Increase Your Success 30 Excuses Stopping You From Living Your Best Life (And 30 Solutions) Originally published at medium.com — Published on March 22, 2018 SELF IMPROVEMENT, RELATIONSHIPS, PRODUCTIVITY, SUCCESS, DECISION MAKING, INSPIRATION The Thrive Global Community welcomes voices from many spheres. We publish pieces written by outside contributors with a wide range of opinions, which don’t necessarily reflect our own. Learn more or join us as a community member! “In fact, one study, “Self-Compassion and Reactions to Unpleasant Self-Relevant Events: The Implications of Treating Oneself Kindly,” showed that people high in the trait had increased clarity. They saw themselves and the world more accurately but didn’t judge themselves as harshly when they failed.” Source: Eric Barkerity https://www.thriveglobal.com/stories/26490-these-5-things-will-give-you-the-confidence-to-accomplish-anything?utm_source=Thrive&utm_medium=Twitter |
Many may have found themselves in challenging long-distance relationships at some point or the other. While some people manage to surmount the encumbrance of distance, for many others, not so much. Here are ways to maintain a relationship separated by thousands of miles. Don’t over communicate It’s very easy to think that talking every minute will cover up for the distance, but it doesn’t. What you end up doing is exhausting each other and then it’s a downward slope from there. Do everything in moderation. Keep your word This is important now more than ever that you can’t physically be with each other. Your word is all you have. If you become unreliable because you never do what you say, it will have a negative impact on your relationship. Have ground rules to manage expectations Let each other know what you hope the relationship will do for you and what you expect from your partner. Talk to yourselves and come to a mutual conclusion so you don’t go in with one-sided expectations and get angry when your partner doesn’t meet up. Try to communicate regularly and creatively Not speaking for days is unhealthy. Even if it’s just a “good morning” and a “good night” at the end of the day, that would do. Always try and spice up the conversation. Don’t be distant. Talk dirty Sexual desires cannot be ignored. Engage each other in dirty talk over the phone and leave messages that will leave sparks in their minds leading up to the next time you meet up. Avoid dangerous situations Temptations will come but don’t go looking for it. You have no business going to clubs at night or places you know will lead you to make regrettable mistakes. Don’t hang out with the colleague or friend that has a crush on you. You may be faithful but you’re human, and susceptible to slipping. Do things together You don’t have to be physically together to engage in fun activities together. The internet has made it easy. Play an online game together or against each other, watch a movie at the same time. Stay connected and keep the love alive. Visit each other Plan interchangeable visits. One month should be his turn while the next is her turn. And the month when your partner can’t make it, take two consecutive months. That’s what love is. Have specific goals Your long-distance relationship can’t possibly be worth the stress if you don’t have realisable goals. Where is the relationship headed? What are your joint plans? At which point will it stop being a long distance relationship? Are you going to move in with each other? Do you have hopes of getting married? Draw out a timeline for the future that you can always revisit and readjust for the best possible outcome. Enjoy your time alone Yes, you’re in a relationship. No, your life is not over. Your happiness must not solely depend on your partner. Spend time with your friends and family. Have a life. Stay honest Lying has a ripple effect. One leads to another and it never ends until the truth surfaces. So the beginning of lies is the end of your relationship. Know each others’ schedules You don’t want to be a bother. Know when your partner is busy at work, at school, or an activity to avoid being told “I’m busy, I’ll talk to you later” from the person you love. That would be upsetting. Exchange personal items Sentiment carries plenty weight in long distance relationships. Give her your t-shirts, give him your bracelets. Give your partner something to hold on to. Stay positive The mind is the beginning and end of us. Negativity will make a clear sky turn to a cloudy storm in the blink of an eye. You know how they say, “It’s not the problem that’s the problem, it’s your attitude towards the problem”. Stay positive, stay happy and look at the distance as a learning process. A bad attitude will cut through your relationship like a double-edged sword. Update each other Let them know what’s going on in your life. Even things you think may be insignificant. Tell your partner about your family and work. There’s nothing worse than hearing news about your partner from someone else. Do the same things This is imperative if you never want to run out of conversations to have. If you are watching the same shows, reading the same books, and engaging in the same activities every day, there will never be a dull moment in your conversations.[color=#000000]Many may have found themselves in challenging long-distance relationships at some point or the other. While some people manage to surmount the encumbrance of distance, for many others, not so much. Here are ways to maintain a relationship separated by thousands of miles. Don’t over communicate It’s very easy to think that talking every minute will cover up for the distance, but it doesn’t. What you end up doing is exhausting each other and then it’s a downward slope from there. Do everything in moderation. Keep your word This is important now more than ever that you can’t physically be with each other. Your word is all you have. If you become unreliable because you never do what you say, it will have a negative impact on your relationship. Have ground rules to manage expectations Let each other know what you hope the relationship will do for you and what you expect from your partner. Talk to yourselves and come to a mutual conclusion so you don’t go in with one-sided expectations and get angry when your partner doesn’t meet up. Try to communicate regularly and creatively Not speaking for days is unhealthy. Even if it’s just a “good morning” and a “good night” at the end of the day, that would do. Always try and spice up the conversation. Don’t be distant. Talk dirty Sexual desires cannot be ignored. Engage each other in dirty talk over the phone and leave messages that will leave sparks in their minds leading up to the next time you meet up. Avoid dangerous situations Temptations will come but don’t go looking for it. You have no business going to clubs at night or places you know will lead you to make regrettable mistakes. Don’t hang out with the colleague or friend that has a crush on you. You may be faithful but you’re human, and susceptible to slipping. Do things together You don’t have to be physically together to engage in fun activities together. The internet has made it easy. Play an online game together or against each other, watch a movie at the same time. Stay connected and keep the love alive. Visit each other Plan interchangeable visits. One month should be his turn while the next is her turn. And the month when your partner can’t make it, take two consecutive months. That’s what love is. Have specific goals Your long-distance relationship can’t possibly be worth the stress if you don’t have realisable goals. Where is the relationship headed? What are your joint plans? At which point will it stop being a long distance relationship? Are you going to move in with each other? Do you have hopes of getting married? Draw out a timeline for the future that you can always revisit and readjust for the best possible outcome. Enjoy your time alone Yes, you’re in a relationship. No, your life is not over. Your happiness must not solely depend on your partner. Spend time with your friends and family. Have a life. Stay honest Lying has a ripple effect. One leads to another and it never ends until the truth surfaces. So the beginning of lies is the end of your relationship. Know each others’ schedules You don’t want to be a bother. Know when your partner is busy at work, at school, or an activity to avoid being told “I’m busy, I’ll talk to you later” from the person you love. That would be upsetting. Exchange personal items Sentiment carries plenty weight in long distance relationships. Give her your t-shirts, give him your bracelets. Give your partner something to hold on to. Stay positive The mind is the beginning and end of us. Negativity will make a clear sky turn to a cloudy storm in the blink of an eye. You know how they say, “It’s not the problem that’s the problem, it’s your attitude towards the problem”. Stay positive, stay happy and look at the distance as a learning process. A bad attitude will cut through your relationship like a double-edged sword. Update each other Let them know what’s going on in your life. Even things you think may be insignificant. Tell your partner about your family and work. There’s nothing worse than hearing news about your partner from someone else. Do the same things This is imperative if you never want to run out of conversations to have. If you are watching the same shows, reading the same books, and engaging in the same activities every day, there will never be a dull moment in your conversations.[/color]Many may have found themselves in challenging long-distance relationships at some point or the other. While some people manage to surmount the encumbrance of distance, for many others, not so much. Here are ways to maintain a relationship separated by thousands of miles. Don’t over communicate It’s very easy to think that talking every minute will cover up for the distance, but it doesn’t. What you end up doing is exhausting each other and then it’s a downward slope from there. Do everything in moderation. Keep your word This is important now more than ever that you can’t physically be with each other. Your word is all you have. If you become unreliable because you never do what you say, it will have a negative impact on your relationship. Have ground rules to manage expectations Let each other know what you hope the relationship will do for you and what you expect from your partner. Talk to yourselves and come to a mutual conclusion so you don’t go in with one-sided expectations and get angry when your partner doesn’t meet up. Try to communicate regularly and creatively Not speaking for days is unhealthy. Even if it’s just a “good morning” and a “good night” at the end of the day, that would do. Always try and spice up the conversation. Don’t be distant. Talk dirty Sexual desires cannot be ignored. Engage each other in dirty talk over the phone and leave messages that will leave sparks in their minds leading up to the next time you meet up. Avoid dangerous situations Temptations will come but don’t go looking for it. You have no business going to clubs at night or places you know will lead you to make regrettable mistakes. Don’t hang out with the colleague or friend that has a crush on you. You may be faithful but you’re human, and susceptible to slipping. Do things together You don’t have to be physically together to engage in fun activities together. The internet has made it easy. Play an online game together or against each other, watch a movie at the same time. Stay connected and keep the love alive. Visit each other Plan interchangeable visits. One month should be his turn while the next is her turn. And the month when your partner can’t make it, take two consecutive months. That’s what love is. Have specific goals Your long-distance relationship can’t possibly be worth the stress if you don’t have realisable goals. Where is the relationship headed? What are your joint plans? At which point will it stop being a long distance relationship? Are you going to move in with each other? Do you have hopes of getting married? Draw out a timeline for the future that you can always revisit and readjust for the best possible outcome. Enjoy your time alone Yes, you’re in a relationship. No, your life is not over. Your happiness must not solely depend on your partner. Spend time with your friends and family. Have a life. Stay honest Lying has a ripple effect. One leads to another and it never ends until the truth surfaces. So the beginning of lies is the end of your relationship. Know each others’ schedules You don’t want to be a bother. Know when your partner is busy at work, at school, or an activity to avoid being told “I’m busy, I’ll talk to you later” from the person you love. That would be upsetting. Exchange personal items Sentiment carries plenty weight in long distance relationships. Give her your t-shirts, give him your bracelets. Give your partner something to hold on to. Stay positive The mind is the beginning and end of us. Negativity will make a clear sky turn to a cloudy storm in the blink of an eye. You know how they say, “It’s not the problem that’s the problem, it’s your attitude towards the problem”. Stay positive, stay happy and look at the distance as a learning process. A bad attitude will cut through your relationship like a double-edged sword. Update each other Let them know what’s going on in your life. Even things you think may be insignificant. Tell your partner about your family and work. There’s nothing worse than hearing news about your partner from someone else. Do the same things This is imperative if you never want to run out of conversations to have. If you are watching the same shows, reading the same books, and engaging in the same activities every day, there will never be a dull moment in your conversations. https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/16-ways-maintain-long-distance-relationship/ |
The news of President Muhammudu
Buhari withholding his assent to the Bill
for an Act to Establish the Nigerian
Peace Corps (NPC) was received as a
huge shock. The rejection has however
opened a new chapter and it is our
desired hope that legislative actions will
be taken by the two Chambers of the
National Assembly.
Recall that when Chief Olusegun
Obansajo as President and Commander-
in-Chief rejected the Niger Delta
Development Commission (NDDC) Bill,
and returned same to the National
Assembly, they invoked section 58 (4)
and (5) of the 1999 Constitution to
override the President’s rejection.
This section states, ‘where the President
withholds his assent and the Bill is
again passed by two-third majority, the
Bill shall become law and the assent of
the President shall not be required.’
Similarly, when President Olusegun
Obasanjo withheld his assent on the
Freedom of Information Act, Dr
Goodluck Ebele Jonathan on assuming
office as President, assented to the Bill.
Let me state without any fear of
contradiction and equipped with
documented evidence, the rejection of
the Bill was at the instance of the
Nigeria Police, Nigeria Security and Civil
Defense Corps, State Security Service
and the Vigilante Group of Nigeria (a
relatively unknown organization). Their
ill advice to Mr. President was premised
on primitive, premeditated, parochial
and primordial sentiments. Like cases in
the past, the letter transmitted to the
National Assembly on NPC Bill never
made specific reference to any section
of NPC being in conflict with any
security agency. Besides, PCN, a
uniformed organization, never told
anyone that it is a security agency,
rather, a Youth Development Agency out
to complement conventional Security
Agencies by being pre-emptive to youth
vulnerability to crimes and other acts of
insecurities.
Though the rejection is a temporary
setback, it has only succeeded in
delaying the expectations of youths and
other well-meaning Nigerians. It is
ridiculous that one of the reasons stated
was that there is no money to fund NPC
when established, but there are Billions
of dollars to invest in equipping Security
Agencies to fight crime and insecurity
which runs counter to the ideals of
democratic principles and genuine
nation building. We are, however,
consoled that the two reasons stated by
Mr President in his letter to the National
Assembly are not strange to us as they
are in objection to the Bill, same
reasons stated by the Nigeria Police,
State Security Service, Nigeria Security
and Civil Defense Corps and the Ministry
of Interior during the Public Hearings
organized by the House of
Representatives and the Senate. It is
preposterous that a Bill passed by
majority members of the National
Assembly; supported by 574
memoranda and oral submissions made
during the Public Hearings by various
institutions such as Government
Ministries and Agencies, Religious
Bodies, National Youth Council of
Nigeria, National Association of Nigerian
Students, State Agencies and House of
Assemblies, Educational Institutions,
Civil Society Organizations and other
None Governmental Organizations is
being discarded because of the
mundane interest of less than Six
Government Agencies.
Notwithstanding Mr President
withholding assent on the Bill, as a
disciplined, uniformed and patriotic
youth organization, we remain
absolutely loyal and maintain
tremendous respect for him, while
hoping that the needful will be done
sooner than later.
At this juncture, while all hope is not
lost for the NPC Establishment Act to be
promulgated, let me make it abundantly
clear that the none-assent to the Bill by
Mr President does not invalidate the
existing PCN and its activities
nationwide as the Corps remains a legal
entity under the Companies and Allied
Matters Act 1990.
I have stated repeatedly in the past that
the essence of the Bill is to give
statutory backing to our organization
and to attract budgetary allocation,
including salaries, pensions and
gratuities etc. therefore, no one should
assume that our activities are illegal.
On this note, I register my absolute
regret and apology to the vast majority
of Nigerian youth, particularly the loyal
Officers and Men of PCN over this
temporary setback. While delay is not
denial, we should all bear in mind that
patience and endurance are said to be
golden but difficult to overcome. I have
been in this struggle since 1990. All the
while, I endured distractions and
humiliations because of my fervent
belief that in building an enduring
institution, which we are collectively
aiming at, there is bound to be man-
made obstacle but at the end of it all,
victory is certain and belongs to God. I
therefore urge all bonafide Officers and
Men to be unrelenting in their support;
be calm and law abiding. Very very
soon, I assure, we shall all have cause
to celebrate.
Amb. (Dr) Dickson A.O. Akoh, FCITr,
FCPA, FNSIS
www.idomavoice.com/2018/02/peace-corps-dickson-akoh-breaks-silence.html?m=1
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congrat dear |
KADUNA STATE
INTERNAL REVENUE
SERVICE
The Kaduna State Internal Reve
Service (KADIRS) is Now
Recruiting. Apply Now!!!
APPLY NOW
The Kaduna State Internal Reve
Service (KADIRS) as part of it
consolidation strategies, wishes
engage the services of compete
experienced professionals as w
as fresh graduates with integrit
drive and desire to succeed
professionally, to strengthen it
workforce.
Vacancies exist in the followin
Divisions;
1. Revenue Operations
2. Standards & Compliance
3. Information and
Communication Technolo
4. Legal Services
5. Corporate Services
(Administration, Finance a
Human Resources)
The opportunities are classified
into the following Positions/Sal
Level
Assistant Officer II
- SL 13
Assistant Officer I
- SL 12
Officer
II -
SL 11
Officer
I -
SL 10
Assistant Manager
- SL 09
Note that regardless of the
position advertised, the followin
are minimum general
requirements for all applicants.
Minimum Qualifications/skills
base
A Bachelor or Master’s
Degree in Accounting, Law
Economics, Banking &
Finance, Engineering,
Geology, Statistics,
Computer Science or other
relevant discipline in the
quantitative field
OR
A Higher National Diploma
Accounting, Economics,
Banking & Finance,
Engineering, Geology,
Statistics, Computer Scien
or other relevant discipline
the quantitative field.
Computer literacy and
conversancy with Microso
office, Web Applications a
the use of relevant
applications for efficient
delivery of service,
Strong leadership and
management skills,
Strong team spirit and abil
to effectively delegate,
Strong interpersonal and
communication skills,
Strong Analytical skills,
Knowledge of the Federal
Tax laws and Kaduna Stat
Tax (Codification and
Consolidation) Law, 2016
and appreciation of their
application and
understanding of the
regulatory framework withi
which the KADIRS operate
Knowledge of business/
industry environment withi
which taxpayers operate,
Ability to work as a regulat
with the courage to ensure
full compliance with law.
Other General Requirement(s):
In addition all Applicants must:-
1. Have an NYSC Discharge
exemption certificate
2. Present a certificate of St
of Origin and Local
Government signed by the
Chairman/Secretary of the
Local Government.
Certificates endorsed by
Liaison offices will not be
accepted
METHOD OF APPLICATION
KADIRS considers computer
proficiency a key requirement fo
anyone who aspires for a job in
the Service. Accordingly,
Applicants are expected to fill th
applications online as the Job
details and Application process
can be found on the KADIRS
website www.kadirs.kdsg.gov.
career
This KADIRS application portal
be available with effect from
TODAY and will be open for 2
weeks of this publication . Pleas
follow the instructions to fill in
your application. Only applicatio
in respect of the advertised
positions would be considered.
All individuals are expected to
apply for only ONE position.
Multiple applications by one
Candidate will be disqualified.
Upon submission, applicants wi
receive an acknowledgement
containing a reference number
which must be quoted in all futu
correspondences.
Deadline for submission of
application is two (2) weeks fro
this publication date.
Only shortlisted candidates will
invited for interview.
www. kadirs.kdsg.gov.ng/career/ |
FULL LIST OF GOVERNORS THAT
CANNOT WIN ELECTION IN NIGERIA
AGAIN COME 2019.
1. Yaya Bello- Kogi Sate
2. Abdulfatai Ahmed - Kwara State
3. Samuel Ortom - Benue
4. Badaru Abubakar - jigawa state
5. Victor Ikpezu - Abia state
6. Ifeanyi Okowa - Delta State
7. Sani Lolo Bello - Niger state.
IF YOUR GOVERNOR IS MISSING FROM
THIS COMPREHENSIVE LIST PLEASE
ADD HIM AND SHARE SO THAT THEY
WILL BE SENT PACKING COME 2019.
Note: Some States Governor are already
doing their Second Tenure no Need in
Adding those States.
THEY HAVE NO VALUE FOR HUMAN
LIFE, THEY NUMBER OF NIGERIANS
THAT HAVE DIED ON THE HANDS OF
THESE CONFUSED GOVERNORS IN 2
YEARS AS A RESULT OF POVERTY,
HUNGER UNPAID SALARY, UNPAID
PENSIONS, POOR INFRASTRUCTURE,
DEAD HEALTH CARE SYSTEM, POOR
WASTE MANAGEMENT, INSECURITY,
LACK OF SOCIAL WELFARE, ARE
UNCOUNTABLE.
80% OF THE SENATORS AND HOUSE OF
REP MEMBERS WILL BE SENT PACKING
COME 2019 FOR SCRAPPING THE
# NotTooYongToRunBill
IF YOU HAVE CLOCK 18YRS PLEASE GO
AND COLLECT YOUR VOTERS CARD IN
ANY LOCAL GOVERNMENT
SECRETERIAT BECAUSE NOTHING WILL
STOP THE YOUTHS FROM TAKING IN
2019
# YouthsAreTakingOver
# GoAndCollectYourVotersCard
# INECRegistrationIsInProgress # |
will you pay me, I will write it for you as a computer science student, and how much will you pay? |
I think it's benue state Governor |
Which state governor deserves
this in 2019.....?
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Losers fail
once and quit. Winners fail a thousand
times and eventually succeed.
Losers look for success at the finish
line. Winners experience success along
the way.
Losers work to make money. Winners
work to make a difference.
Losers seek respect. Winners earn
respect.
Losers stare at the problem. Winners
look around for the solution.
Losers review options. Winners act on
decisions.
Losers attempt to conquer the world in
one shot. Winners add up all their small
victories.
Losers expect certain outcomes.
Winners prepare themselves for the
unexpected.
Losers are paid for their time. Winners
are paid for their results.
Losers buy things. Winners build things.
Losers see things they don’t understand
and get discouraged. Winners see things
they don’t understand and get curious.
Losers talk. Winners communicate.
Losers let things happen. Winners make
things happen.
Losers want to get ahead of others.
Winners help others get ahead too.
Losers hangout with losers. Winners
hangout with winners who are more
successful than they are.
Losers label themselves as experts.
Winners know there is still much to
learn.
Losers over-sell. Winners over-deliver.
Losers frown. Winners smile.
Losers think winners are lucky. Winners
realize the harder they work the luckier
they are.
Losers escape fears. Winners face
fears.
Losers waste their free time (watching
TV). Winners use their free time
( learning or experiencing something
new ).
Losers live in the past. Winners live life
now based on lessons learned in the
past. |
1. 100 Ways to Boost Your Self-
Confidence—Barton Goldsmith
2. Audacity of Hope—Barack Obama
3. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
People--Stephen R. Covey
4. Mindset: The New Psychology of
Success--Carol Dweck
5. The Purpose-Driven Life--Rick Warren
6. Getting Unstuck--Pema Chodron
7. The Power of Habit: Why We Do What
We Do in Life and Business--Charles
Duhigg
8. The Power of Now--Eckhart Tolle
9. Thinking, Fast and Slow--Daniel
Kahneman
10. Good to Great: Why Some
Companies Make the Leap…and Others
Don’t --Jim Collins
11. The Art of Happiness--The Dalai
Lama XIV
12. The Road Less Traveled: A New
Psychology of Love, Traditional Values,
and Spiritual Growth --M. Scott Peck
13. Predictably Irrational: The Hidden
Forces That Shape Our Decisions--Dan
Ariely
14. The Power of Positive Thinking--
Norman Vincent Peale
15. How to Stop Worrying and Start
Living--Dale Carnegie
16. The Power of Myth--Joseph
Campbell
17. The Magic of Thinking Big--David
Schwartz
18. The Seat of the Soul--Gary Zukav
19. Awaken the Giant Within--Anthony
Robbins
20. As A Man Thinketh--James Allen
21. Fooled By Randomness: The Hidden
Role of Chance in Life and in the
Markets--Nassim Nicholas Taleb
22. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to
be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We
Live, Love, Parent, and Lead--Brene
Brown
23. First Thing First--Stephen Covey, A.
Roger Merrill, Rebecca R. Merrill
24. There is Nothing Wrong With You;
Going Beyond Self-Hate--Cheri Huber
25. Codependent No More: How to Stop
Controlling Others and Care for
Yourself--Melody Battie
26. A Return to Love: Reflections on the
Principle of “A Course in Miracles” --
Marianne Williamson
27. The Success Principles: How to Get
From Where You Are to Where You Want
to Be--Jack Canfield, Janet Switzer
28. The Power of Your Subconscious--J
oseph Murphy
29. The Science of Getting Rich--
Wallace Wattles
30. Unlimited Power: The New Science
of Personal Achievement-- Anthony
Robbins, Kenneth Blanchard, Jason
Winters
31. Care of the Soul: A Guide for
Cultivating Depth and Sacredness in
Everyday Life--Thomas Moore
32. The 80/20 Principle: The Secret of
Achieving More With less--Richard Koch
33. Psycho-Cybernetics, A New Way to
Get More Living Out of Life--Maxwell
Maltz
34. How I Raised Myself From Failure to
Success in Selling--Frank Bettger
35. How to Have Confidence and Power
in Dealing With People--Les Giblin
36. When Things Fall Apart: Heart
Advice for Difficult Times--Pema
Chodron
37. Success Through A Positive Mental
Attitude--Napoleon Hill, W. Clement
Stone
38. To Have or To Be?--Erich Fromm
39. I’m OK- You’re OK--Thomas A.
Harris
40. Learned Optimism: How to Change
Your Mind and Your Life--Martin
Seligman
41. The Secret Life of Pronoun
42. Feeling Good: The New Mood
Therapy--David D. Burns
43. Brainwashed: Tricks Companies Use
to Manipulate Our Minds and Convince
Us to Buy—Martin Lindstrom
44. Neuromarketing: Understanding the
“Buy Button” in Your Customer’s Brain
45. How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little
Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
46. Rules for Radicals—Saul Alinsky
47. Outliers: The Story of Success--
Malcolm Gladwell
48. Long Walk to Freedom: The
Autobiography of Nelson Mandela—
Nelson Mandela
49. My Life—Bill Clinton
50. The Communist Manifesto—Karl
Max and Freidrich Engels |
For a number of people, the thought of public speaking is enough to upset and unsettle their insides. Nevertheless, public speaking is one of those skills that need to be developed because of its inevitable use at certain points in our lives and careers. 1. UNDERSTAND THE MESSAGE OF YOUR SPEECH It is important to understand the message your speech is trying to pass across. Try to relate the message of your speech to a personal experience or something close enough to drive the message home to you. When you understand the message of your speech, it makes delivering it much easier because if you forget one or two things, you can easily fill the gaps with the right alternatives. Remember that one of the worst things you can do in public speaking is to cram the content of your speech without trying to understand it. Cramming rather than understanding your speech increases stress and anxiety over delivering the speech, impairing your ability to concentrate and deliver your speech well. 2. PRACTICE Please don’t let the moment you deliver your speech be the first time you have ever done so. It is important to practice before hand and perfect the art of your speech delivery. Every speech has a way it should be delivered, and you need to understand this and go a step further to personalize the style of this delivery so it is more authentic and thus more effective. This can only be done in the place of practice. You should take note that practice is not advised to give you time to perfect the cramming of the words of your speech, but to give you time to understand the message of your speech, discern the best style of delivery for the speech and tailor this style to suit your personality, strengths and abilities. 3. CONSIDER YOUR AUDIENCE This should be done alongside understanding your speech and practicing to be perfect. This very important step should be kept in mind from the very beginning of your public speaking preparation. Firstly, your speech – its content and message – should be relevant to your audience and something they can relate to. When you are done with the speech (if it is written by you), the next step is to consider your audience in preparing to give the speech. Consider what style of delivery will appeal to them (alongside the style of delivery that suits your speech type). Equally in personalizing the style of your speech delivery, you should also consider what will agree with or be offensive to your audience. In all, consider your audience at every stage because in the end your speech is about them not you. Learn as much about them as you can and use the information to deliver a speech that will be effective and memorable. 4. REMEMBER YOUR GESTURES Liven up your speech delivery with gestures that communicate confidence. You really don’t have to feel confident to use them – that’s the beauty of gestures. All you need to know are the right gestures to make at the right periods and you are good. The interesting thing is, most times in the course of making these gestures, you are likely to get comfortable and actually relax as opposed to when you are standing stiff and staring down the audience. An important thing to remember here is that the appropriate gestures for your voice, hands and even legs (in terms of walking from one point to another as you give your speech) are things that can be learnt. A visit to YouTube to see the many videos on this can help you. You can also consider hiring a public speaking coach, if you have the money to spare. Once these gestures, alongside how and when to use them are learnt, it will make the public speaking exercise easier for you and eliminate the possibility of overdoing or misusing these gestures. 5. ACCEPT AND MAKE PEACE WITH YOUR EMOTIONS The truth is, the nervous feeling might never go away, no matter what you do. It helps to accept this and do it anyway. Don’t waste time, energy and emotions hoping you stop feeling nervous, your hands and voice stops shaking or your knees stop buckling. Instead, learn the gestures, actions and reactions that can help you mask your visible cues of nervousness. As for your emotions, just remember that the fact that you feel nervous is known only to you, you don’t have to show it to the world. Make peace with the nervous feeling, know that you can even joke about your nervousness in the course of your speech (if you consider yourself someone with a good sense of humour) and go on to deliver a great speech. Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/02/5-ways-improve-public-speaking-skills/
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IT is with total disappointment that we received the news that authorities of the Umaru Yar’ Adua University (UMYU), Katsina, have outlawed “any other religious or tribal association” on its campus except the Muslim Students Society of Nigeria (MSSN). This dangerous directive will confront returning students to the university for the current semester beginning Januaryon 30, 2017. A memo entitled: “Re: Registration of Students Clubs/Associations” signed by the University’s Dean of Students’ Affairs, Dr Sulaiman Kankara, said all tribal and local government associations have been outlawed except the MSSN. Media reports have it that this step taken by the university appears to be in line with the mindset of the Katsina State Government which only recently approved N64 million for the construction of a Jumat (Friday) mosque for the state-owned Hassan Usman Polytechnic without extending the gesture to any other religious group. Though we recognise the fact that Muslims constitute the majority in Katsina State, it is not a justification to deny citizens their constitutional right of association and assembly. Section 10 of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria 1999 forbids the adoption of any state religion, while Section 42(1) guarantees all citizens freedom from discrimination on the basis of ethnic groups, places of origin, sex, religious or political affiliations. The UMYU is an institution built and run with public funds under the laws of the Federation. It is, therefore, bound to extend equity and all constitutional rights to all citizens under its jurisdiction. It is a great irony that a university established by a former President of this country (Alhaji Umaru Yar’ Adua) and later named after him when he died is portrayed as a symbol of institutional illegality and violator of the constitutional entitlements of some sections of its community. We call on the authorities of this institution, especially the Vice- Chancellor, Professor Idris Isa Funtua, to immediately ensure the directive is reversed to allow all groups their right to associate and interact peacefully. Should the university’s authorities fail to do the needful, then the Visitor, Governor Aminu Bello Masari (a former Speaker of the House of Representatives) as well as the Attorney-General of the Federation, Abubakar Malami (SAN), must quickly intervene. It is very sad that a supposed citadel of learning and knowledge like a university would so flagrantly violate the constitutional rights of sections of its community without regard to the potential harm or crisis it is capable of creating. Katsina State, being the home state of President Muhammadu Buhari, should not allow the stigma of religious intolerance and discrimination blight its image. It should be a shining example of accommodation and highest regard for the laws of the land. Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/no-discrimination-katsina-varsity/
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1. Gambia has only one university.
2. Equatorial G uinea is Africa’s only
Spanish-speaking country.
3. South Africa is the most visited African
country.
4. Nigeria has the richest Black people in
Africa.
5. Samuel Eto’o is the highest paid
Footballer of all time, he received about
£350,000 weekly in Russia in 2011.
6. A person from Botswana is called a
Motswana, the plural is Batswana.
7. A person from Lesotho is called a
Mosotho.
8. A person from Niger is called a Nigerien.
A person from Burkina Faso is called a
Burkinabe.
9. Nigeria has won more football cups than
England.
10. Zimbabwe’s President, Robert Gabriel
Mugabe is the world’s most educated
President with 7 degrees, two of them are
Masters.
11. Al-Ahly of Egypt is the richest club
in
Africa.
12. Didier Drogba is Chelsea’s highest goal
scorer in European competition.
13. Johannesburg, South Africa is the most
visited city in Africa.
14. Zinedine Zidane wanted to play for
Algeria, but the selector rejected him, saying
they are already many players like him in the
team.
15. President Jacob Zuma was once a
referee
in prison.
16. President Robert Mugabe was jailed for
11 years for fighting for freedom.
17. President Robert Mugabe is Africa’s
oldest Head of State and the world’s second
oldest Head of State. He was born 1924.
18. The Seychellois are the most educated
Africans. Seychelles’ literacy rates (Adult:
92%, Youth: 99%)
Zimbabwe is 2nd (Adult: 91.2%, Youth:
99%).
19. Rwanda is a better country for gender
equality than England and USA.
20. Somalia got its first ATM on October
7,2014.
21. South Africa has the most Grammy
Award winners in Africa.
22. Ethiopia has the most airports in
Africa.
23. Ethiopia’s economy is growing faster
than China's.
24. Eritrea’s President, Isaiah Afwerki is
the least richest President in Africa.
25. Ethiopia is Africa’s oldest independent
country.
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As we raise a toast to the New Year,
With a sparkle in our eyes, and a smile on our lips,
May the dreams we weave all come true,
and the days abound with richness & contentment.
May The Year 2017 Bring for You….
Happiness,Success and filled with Peace,
Hope & Togetherness of your Family & Friends….
Wishing You a…*’*HAPPY NEW YEAR 2017*’* |
Behold the past Obas of Benin kingdom.
History.
Eweka I (1180–1246)
Uwuakhuahen (1246–1250)
Ehenmihen (1250–1260)
Ewedo (1260–1274)
Oguola (1274–1287)
Edoni (1287–1292)
Udagbedo (1292–1329)
Ohen (1329–1366)
Egbeka (1366–1397)
Orobiru (1397–1434)
Uwaifiokun (1434–1440)
Ewuare (1440–1473)
Ezoti (1473–1475)
Olua(1475–1480)
Ozolua (1480–1504)
Esigie (1504–1547)
Orhogbua (1547–1580)
Ehengbuda (1580–1602)
Ohuan (1602–1656)
Ohenzae (1656–1661)
Akenzae (1661–1669)
Akengboi (1669–1675)
Akenkpaye (1675–1684)
Akengbedo (1684–1689)
Ore-Oghene (1689–1701)
Ewuakpe (1701–1712)
Ozuere (1712–1713)
Akenzua I (1713–1740)
Eresoyen (1740–1750)
Akengbuda (1750–1804)
Obanosa (1804–1816)
Ogbebo (1816)
Osemwende (1816–1848)
Adolo (1848–1888)
Ovonramwen Nogbaisi (1888–1914)
Eweka II (1914–1933)
Akenzua II (1933–1978)
Erediauwa I (1979-2016)
Today we have a new Oba who will reign
meritoriously
His Royal Majesty, Omo N' Oba N' Edo, Uku
Akpolokpolo, Oba Ewuare II Oba of Benin
Ewuare II (2016-)
Oba Gha Tokpere,
Ise!
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Many people out there desperately want to be
millionaires, and why wouldn’t they? While
money may not buy happiness it can buy a
better, less stressful and more fulfilled life.
However, before you can be a millionaire you
need to have the right strategy and know the
reasons why you haven’t met this goal
already.
Everybody who wants to be millionaire but
isn’t has excuses. “I didn’t pick the right
career,” “I can’t afford the schooling,” or
“I don’t have time.” These are not reasons,
but just excuses and excuses only get in the
way of your success. Here are 10 reasons why
people do not become millionaires.
1. You have no one guiding you in the right
direction.
You need to surround yourself with positive
people. Most importantly, you need to find
someone you can trust that will help guide you
in the right direction. The people you trust
most should be the ones pushing you towards
success. This is one advantage I did not have
early on. I am entirely self-taught, which is why
I have created my mentoring program to give
that advantage to others.
2. You aren’t willing to make sacrifices.
You really cannot have your cake and eat it
too, there are things that you will need to give
up. If you can’t sacrifice things like hanging
with friends or going out and partying in order
to focus on your career, then you will never
get the financial success you have been
looking for.
3. You fear failure.
You will fail, you will make mistakes, and you
need to learn to get over it. If you fear
failure, you will never overcome it.
4. Your goals aren’t clear, so neither are
your actions.
If you don’t have a clear goal in mind and
clear action steps in place to reach that goal,
you will never become a millionaire. Take the
time to do the planning and do it right.
5. You think other people can succeed but not
you.
Believe that you can succeed. Visualize
yourself as that successful man or woman who
you once envied. If you visualize yourself
being a millionaire success, and truly believe it
can happen, you are one step closer to your
goal.
6. You think your background or location
prevents your success.
Nothing can prevent you from success. Lets
repeat that: nothing can prevent you from
success.
7. You aren’t using the Internet.
The Internet has changed the world and it
continues to change the world. If you aren’t
using, you aren’t taking advantage of one of
the most powerful money making tools out
there.
8. You rationalize money can’t buy happiness
and forget that it can buy freedom.
Money is your ticket to the freedom so many
people want in this world. Freedom can lead to
happiness. To find your motivation focus on
the freedom that money can buy you.
9. You hang out with the wrong crowd.
The people around you should be your support
system. They should be the people there for
you, pushing you and keeping you positive and
focused. Your crowd of friends and family
should not be distractions or negative in any
way. If they are, it is time to find a new crowd.
10. You play long shots like the lotto instead
of building your skill set.
Building your own skill set and knowledge base
is better for you in the long term. Sure, it
takes more time and more work but it can lead
you to the long-term success that you desire.
Keep these reasons in mind when you are
working towards your next professional goal.
You will see first hand what you are capable
of if you just put these reasons off to the
side and focus instead on your path towards
becoming a millionaire.
11. You are ignorant of the laws of money and
how money works
Most of the time the difference between the
rich and the poor is the fact that the rich
know and apply the laws of money while the
poor just sit and dream about been rich
without having the right knowledge of how
money works. To be successful with money, you
must understand how it works and its laws.
Your becoming a millionaire depends largely on
what you know.
www.sundayadelajablog.com/eleven-reasons-not-millionaire-yet/ |
Many people out there desperately want to be
millionaires, and why wouldn’t they? While
money may not buy happiness it can buy a
better, less stressful and more fulfilled life.
However, before you can be a millionaire you
need to have the right strategy and know the
reasons why you haven’t met this goal
already.
Everybody who wants to be millionaire but
isn’t has excuses. “I didn’t pick the right
career,” “I can’t afford the schooling,” or
“I don’t have time.” These are not reasons,
but just excuses and excuses only get in the
way of your success. Here are 10 reasons why
people do not become millionaires.
1. You have no one guiding you in the right
direction.
You need to surround yourself with positive
people. Most importantly, you need to find
someone you can trust that will help guide you
in the right direction. The people you trust
most should be the ones pushing you towards
success. This is one advantage I did not have
early on. I am entirely self-taught, which is why
I have created my mentoring program to give
that advantage to others.
2. You aren’t willing to make sacrifices.
You really cannot have your cake and eat it
too, there are things that you will need to give
up. If you can’t sacrifice things like hanging
with friends or going out and partying in order
to focus on your career, then you will never
get the financial success you have been
looking for.
3. You fear failure.
You will fail, you will make mistakes, and you
need to learn to get over it. If you fear
failure, you will never overcome it.
4. Your goals aren’t clear, so neither are
your actions.
If you don’t have a clear goal in mind and
clear action steps in place to reach that goal,
you will never become a millionaire. Take the
time to do the planning and do it right.
5. You think other people can succeed but not
you.
Believe that you can succeed. Visualize
yourself as that successful man or woman who
you once envied. If you visualize yourself
being a millionaire success, and truly believe it
can happen, you are one step closer to your
goal.
6. You think your background or location
prevents your success.
Nothing can prevent you from success. Lets
repeat that: nothing can prevent you from
success.
7. You aren’t using the Internet.
The Internet has changed the world and it
continues to change the world. If you aren’t
using, you aren’t taking advantage of one of
the most powerful money making tools out
there.
8. You rationalize money can’t buy happiness
and forget that it can buy freedom.
Money is your ticket to the freedom so many
people want in this world. Freedom can lead to
happiness. To find your motivation focus on
the freedom that money can buy you.
9. You hang out with the wrong crowd.
The people around you should be your support
system. They should be the people there for
you, pushing you and keeping you positive and
focused. Your crowd of friends and family
should not be distractions or negative in any
way. If they are, it is time to find a new crowd.
10. You play long shots like the lotto instead
of building your skill set.
Building your own skill set and knowledge base
is better for you in the long term. Sure, it
takes more time and more work but it can lead
you to the long-term success that you desire.
Keep these reasons in mind when you are
working towards your next professional goal.
You will see first hand what you are capable
of if you just put these reasons off to the
side and focus instead on your path towards
becoming a millionaire.
11. You are ignorant of the laws of money and
how money works
Most of the time the difference between the
rich and the poor is the fact that the rich
know and apply the laws of money while the
poor just sit and dream about been rich
without having the right knowledge of how
money works. To be successful with money, you
must understand how it works and its laws.
Your becoming a millionaire depends largely on
what you know.
sundayadelajablog.com/eleven-reasons-not-millionaire-yet/ |
1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
Whatever will be will not be; YOU have to make it be.
You have a part to play in what will be in your life, so
don't leave it to chance.
2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
Why settle for half bread when YOU can get a full bread
or even own a bakery. This is a limiting belief that
positions you to settle for less and it is a mediocre
philosophy.
3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses to
let go of his foolishness . It is NEVER too late to
become wise because the day you wake up and wise up
is the day you CHANGE!
4. *"ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL"*
Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not equal but
that does not make any of them valueless. Lose one and
you realise that they are ALL valuable. You are not even
a finger, so why look down on yourself.
5. *"LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY"*
If you are below forty and believe this, I feel so sorry
for you because it means you are not yet alive.
6. *"WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN"*
Is your age coming down? Is your wisdom and
knowledge coming down? Are the price of goods coming
down? Think, my friend!
7. *"HE WHO LAUGH LAST, LAUGHS BEST!"*
Why laugh last when YOU can laugh always and why
laugh best when laughter is not a competition.
When we programme ourselves with these strange
philosophies, THEY LIMIT AND RESTRICT US.
Change the way you think and talk... You WILL
change YOUR world. |
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The Edo House of Assembly has lifted the suspension placed on its impeached Speaker, Victor Edoro (APC-Esan Central). The new Speaker, Mrs Elizabeth Ativie, announced this on Monday at plenary. The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that 16 out of the 24 members of the assembly on May 3 impeached Edoro at plenary for alleged high- handedness, dictatorial tendencies and financial recklessness. Edoro was subsequently suspended for three months for allegedly “ invading the hallowed chambers with thugs’’ after his impeachment. But speaking at plenary on Monday, Ativie said: “In the spirit of reconciliation, we hereby lift the suspension placed on the former speaker, Victor Edoror. “ He is by the announcement welcome back to the house,’’ she said. Also at plenary, the house elected members of the Principal Officers Council (POC). They are Mr Ogedengbe (APC-Owan East), Majority Leader; Kabiru Adjoto (APC-Akoko- Edo 1), Chief Whip; Henry Okhuorobo (APC-Ikpoba Okha), Deputy House Leader; and Patrick Iluobe (PDP-Esan North East 1), Minority Leader. NAN read more www.dailypost.ng/2016/05/09/edo-assembly-lifts-suspension-on-impeached-speaker/ |
Dear Readers , Since many readers have emailed me to ask me how they can stop acting like "nice guys", I thought I would write an article and give you a few ways to challenge yourself so that you can stop being a nice guy. Naturally, not all of the examples will apply to you. Skim through the list and pick out the ones that will fit you the most. Many of them will not be specific to dating but will help you in general. 1) Speak up and dare to disagree - especially in public. 2) Stop trying to compare yourself to others. This way, you will stop feeling like you have to please other people. 3) Learn to say "no". 4) Put YOURSELF first for once. 5) Live by this rule: If it frightens you, do it. (Unless it's illegal or someone might get hurt physically, of course.) 6) Focus on the "bigger picture". 7) Separate friendship from work or business. cool Be VOCAL about what you want 9) Stop making excuses. 10) ASK other people to help you. 11) Stop blaming yourself. 12) Stop thinking the world is against you. 13) Stop doing things in secret. 14) Don't let ANYONE waste your time. 15) Let OTHERs live up to YOUR expectations. 16) Change your situation yourself. 17) If you can't change a bad situation, remove yourself from it instead of waiting for it to change. 18) Be willing of letting go of what you have so you can get what you want. 19) Don't be afraid of letting go of existing relationships. 20) Welcome uncertainty. Thrive in it. 21) Learn public speaking. 22) Draw your boundaries and stand up for yourself. 23) Have a few role models with great ambition and leadership skills. 24) Let go of your mommy and daddy issues. 25) Let go of that ex. 26) Save your kindness for people who support you and show appreciation. 27) Take risks. 28) Try haggling or bargaining when you stop. 29) Admit and accept your darker side, including your selfish motives for being "nice" 30) Stop avoiding conflicts. Confront them. 31) Be CLEAR and DIRECT. Stop dancing around. 32) Be good to yourself. 33) Build yourself up through skills and knowledge. 34) Meet successful people and see how THEY do things. 35) Be open sexually. 36) Play competitive sports. 37) Make bold moves. 38) VALUE yourself, your ideas, and your opinion. 39) Try not to focus on what other people think. 40) Get your hands dirty as soon as possible when you do something. 41) Get some managerial training. 42) Be the one in the group who makes difficult decisions. 43) Have integrity yourself, and avoid people without it. 43) Don't try to "change" anyone - it's not your job to be their psychologist. 44) Have an OBJECTIVE that you can focus on, and don't deviate yourself. even when you face objections or criticisms. 45) Be persistent with your life goals. 46) Stop thinking masculinity equals acting like a jerk. 47) Don't settle for what you do not like or want. 48) Avoid anything that add shame - such as drugs, prostitution, chronic masturbation, or pornography 49) Stop trying to hide your perceived flaws and mistakes. 50) Stop wasting time. (This one is important - but I will leave it for you to figure what it means.) |
The result of the February 20 Benue South
Senatorial District Re-run election, has been declared
by the Independent National Electoral Commission,
INEC.
Senator David Mark of the Peoples Democratic
Party,PDP, had the highest votes cast.
Registered Voters: 522, 713
Accredited Voters: 165, 093
Total Vote cast: 159, 557
Cancelled Votes: 29, 273
Rejected Votes: 3, 744
APC: 71, 621
PDP: 84, 192
read more at www.vanguardngr.com/2016/02/benue-south-re-run-figures-from-poll/ |