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pls tell me what to do,i have no this girl about a yr now, she going to be 18yrs in 2009 why i will b 24yrs by may 30 2009,she want to be going out with me.i think she is still very young. but she disturb me every time with calls that she is coming to my house.she is a mummy's girl, she is also a virgin.i have been avioding her.i dont no what to do now.i like her any way.pls i dont no if she is ok to my age.i mean if our age gap is ok.pls i want guys to tell me wat to do.

we have been together since childhood,there was one love with us b4 this girl friend of my causin came in.b4 she came we were living happily.there come a time tins started going rund.if this girl is around and my causin is not around she can never feel free and base on am the only person at home i will try as mush as possible to make her happy and to make her feel at home.sincerely speaking i dont have any thin in mind over her.am just trying to be a good friend and a good brother in-law to her.she has being doin this so i now told me causin about it and he told me that may she is shy of me.that she will talk to her so that she will get use to me. is only when my causin (her boy firend) she is free and does things happily.me i dont like it that way so when ever she comes around and my causin is around,i will stay i while them i live so that she can be free and do every thin she needs to do freely.i dont really no why she is acting like this.me and my causin are staying together in one room apartment, i have alomost 90% of the thins inside the room.some months later thins started changing between me and my causin,we use to donate money if we want to cook and we do alomost everything together before now.but this day if i ask my causin for money he will tell me he dont have but if this girl is around he will get money to buy indomie and egg for her.not only that, the way they both of them are now using my tins any how they like.my causin dont sweep the room again and he use to do this things before and he doesn't wash plate and other things any more.and am a year older than him.there was a day he took my fone that i told him i want to give to my gran-mother he gave it to her girl friend on my behalf.when i came he told me he has giving the phone to her girl friend to use for a while that he will bring back the phone in 2weeks time.3 months past i ask my broda about d phone, the way he answer me was very anoying.i jst control myself.i ask him another 2months after, he told me not to worry that he will tell her to bring the phone.i said ok.my gran-mother started disturbing me about the phone i promise her and he was there.i bought my granny another phone waiting for my causin to bring back my phone.he seems not to care about it any more and i did not ask him again.still thins still remain the same.one the i called him and ask him why he has charge his ways that this is not how we use to live before that i want to no if there is anything bodering him and if i have offended him he should tell me so i can say sorry.after teling him all this, all he can tell is''guy nor worry, we nor d quarrel''so i siad ok, since we nor d quarel y ur ways come change.i told him both of us no that we dont do things the way we use to do .what he told me is ''guy no dullin we nor d quarel just that so many things too mush my head.''to me i think that not an amswer to the question i ask him. now i think i should park-out of the room 4 him.since things is not going well as b4 and since i dont no his mind any more.me am not confortable with the whole thing.

there is this friend of mine who is living with his child old causin,both of dem are staying together in one room apartment.both of them pay for the house rent.but my friend frank owns 90% of the things inside the room.both of them have being living together happily.problem started when the other guy jude introduces frank his causin to beautity the girl he (jude )said he loves very well,.before this girl both of them have been living peacefully.frank my friend started complianing that his causin Jude has change that some times when they are at home both of them do donate money to cook. but this time even when he frank will ask his causin Jude for money,he will say he dont have money.but if the girl (beauty) is around his causin Jude will now have money to buy Indomie and egg for himself and th girl(beauty),even to d extend that Jude collected frank phone on his behalf and give it to beauty(Jude girl friend) now frank is sayng he want to leave jude and look for his own apartment.since there is no coperation any more.now i dont no what to say any more have told him not to leave.he (frank)even told me that both of them are using his things the way he doesn't like.i want both male and female to look into this matter

i thank u all,but am not wicked to any of them.she even ask them what i did that make them to say she shouldn't call out with me.they told her i did noting.it was one day they told her why should he go out with a boy that does not have anything.that there are other guys out there.base on the fact that i no the pains she has pass through.after they have sent her out i can let her been in the street.and her mother never surported them.she told me that is because her mother did not surport them thats why she is still going out with me.but now they have send her parking.and she said want to stay with me. am so confuse.her mother even allow her dicision.pls help me.pls am so confuse

should i allow her to stay with me?

hi Nara landers, please i need Ur help, there is this girl i love, we have been dating 4 over 3yrs now,she lives with her Gran-mother and her uncle,when they get to no that she is going out with me,they started treating her bad.they told her to stop going out with me because i don't have money.am 23yrs and she is 20yrs.they call her mother in Lagos about what is happening and her mum said they should leave us alone.the problem now is that,they have sent her parking.they said since she don't want to stop going out with me.she can not stay with them.she told me every thing.she loves me and i love her too.her mother told her to come over to Lagos and she refuse she don't want to go.that she want to stay with me.the problem now is that.should i allow her to stay.because her mother is very nice to me.she never re-acted base on what they told her about me.she told me if  she can stay with me that there is no problem.but am not ready to keep any body in my house now.am still young.u guys no what i mean.i have not settled down.what should i do now.i love this girl.please i need ur advise.

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