8j:

Am i runing down d valley in my relationship? Been suspectn my gulfriend 4 about 2months now of seein a guy i had once met @ ha L8 grandmums burial. Its so glairn now that she's seein d both of us wych seems so hurtn. Am tryn 2bak out, bt am feeln very hurtn inside of me. Is it becaus i still love her despite her action? please Nairalanders, need ur advices! U culd stil mail me@ cassablanca102000@yahoo.com

odi4ever:

hi Nara landers, please i need Ur help, there is this girl i love, we have been dating 4 over 3yrs now,she lives with her Gran-mother and her uncle,when they get to no that she is going out with me,they started treating her bad.they told her to stop going out with me because i don't have money.am 23yrs and she is 20yrs.they call her mother in Lagos about what is happening and her mum said they should leave us alone.the problem now is that,they have sent her parking.they said since she don't want to stop going out with me.she can not stay with them.she told me every thing.she loves me and i love her too.her mother told her to come over to Lagos and she refuse she don't want to go.that she want to stay with me.the problem now is that.should i allow her to stay.because her mother is very nice to me.she never re-acted base on what they told her about me.she told me if she can stay with me that there is no problem.but am not ready to keep any body in my house now.am still young.u guys no what i mean.i have not settled down.what should i do now.i love this girl.please i need ur advise.
Odi

odi4ever:

i thank u all,but am not wicked to any of them.she even ask them what i did that make them to say she shouldn't call out with me.they told her i did noting.it was one day they told her why should he go out with a boy that does not have anything.that there are other guys out there.base on the fact that i no the pains she has pass through.after they have sent her out i can let her been in the street.and her mother never surported them.she told me that is because her mother did not surport them thats why she is still going out with me.but now they have send her parking.and she said want to stay with me. am so confuse.her mother even allow her dicision.please help me.please am so confuse

doyin13:

the granny and uncle and aunty prolly know[b] u are a ritualist. . . .[/b]

Repent you wicked person and free the poor girl.

lmfao
@topic
It morally wrong if she stays with you, and to me you are adding more gas to the fire that has already started burning.
Why don't you talk some sense into her to live with her for the main time, while the issue gets resolve?

TOYOSI20:

If u both have been in the relationsip for three years, . . . . .

why don't u take the relationship to the next level, and propose, that way if u both are living together,

no one would "raise any eye brows"!!!!!!!!!!!!!