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That is the spirit of true Ndigbo, hard work combined with industrial and technological talent.

Happy to be an Igbo man tonite. Free from hate and tribalism.

Anambra Adigo Mma

babymama3: My dear you did too much ,next time don't do all that servant and slave sumtin
Women think they win a loving place in a man's heart by becoming lower than dirt


Hear this from a veteran who has been in this marriage business a while


Men love and respect a woman who loves and respects them and is also strong woman who can hold their own
The biggest mistake you made was agreeing to be a housewife
Don't ever allow yourself to be controlled financially ever again
There is a level of respect you gain by having some independence
No matter how much a man provides,you must bring something to the table to be respected
The same man will turn around and call you a liability when the thing go shele ,don't put yourself in that position
Men by nature are controlling
It takes the wisdom of a woman to set limits to his control
You have to subtly lay down the rules of what you will put up with and what you will not
If a man decides to come in at midnight ,he certainly won't be getting dinner from me and if I were to massage his feet,it will be with razor blade
You could be doing these things and always trying yo please because you think by not working,you are somewhat diminished so you need to "love more"
That is not love, love doesn't hurt
If you had a job,at the end of the day,the last thing on your mind is massaging any feet
Did he ever massage yours?
Let that be the last feet you ever massaged Nne,you have massaged enough


[b]Just before my wedding,I would sit Up and talk with my mom well into the night and she would tell me words of wisdom night after night
One of the things she said is " my daughter, you go into marriage because you love but you stay in it and enjoy it with 100% wisdom and commonsense" and that is so true.Marriage needs a whole load of commonsense .
Another word my mother said was " my daughter,anything you know will be going out yourself to do and anything you know will cause problems when you stop doing it,don't ever start it" then she told me a story of how she used to wash and iron my father's clothes till the babies started coming and she was Still working full time and washing and ironing his clothes and finally had to tell Him to wash his own clothes and the man sparked, a major argument ensued but she stuck to her guns.
I learned a lot from that.
Don't take on more than you can handle from the get go
Love and also apply a whole load of sense and use style to teach the man to do things for himself and not to disrespect you.
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He may kick against it at first,they all do but eventually he will go along with it,I am speaking from experience here
You need to train your man to respect you.

Nice points there....

My question is, how does your husband cope with your roll of FAT? Is he FAT as well?

if he is- Then I have another question, how do you guys, both FAT and most likely ugly have sex? Does he cover your face with a pillow? To avoid the smell from your fat body and obvious mouth odor..

The most important question is, do you guys do a big stomach greeting like sumo wrestlers to amuse your kids?

I await your response my dear Igbo sister

Anambra Adigo Mma

manny4life: Before people begin propagating lies

Ok is this all you spend your time on Nwanne?

Why not concentrate on your life? You keep running helter skelter from pillar to post, Maryland to Houston, no hope, no focus. Years in Obodo Oyinbo, no result yet you are partaking in tribalism. The man you are questioning whether he owns Gatwick can feed you and your generations for life. What is your own achievement in life?

This my Igbo people self. I tire for una.

Anambra Adigo mma

OlaJohnson1: Odinma1, thank you for being honest.

I have taken this duty up to educate hungry posters from my land in Alaigbo.

I will continue to be honest- always.

Anambra Adigo Mma

customized07: dog will feed on your private part that moment you stop being igbo, nkita ga ta fu gi amu

Lazy man with no future ambition, online 24/7, every blessed day. No job, no hope. Stop pouring your frustrations on a fellow IGBO man.

If you see me in real life, you will worship me and beg for forgiveness for all your rudeness

Anambra Adigo Mma

Adelaide2: From impersonating Igbos on Nairaland, you soon will graduate to impersonating them in real life. Na so e dey take start.

Contrary to your narcotically induced mind, I am an IGBO man. A proper Awka man representing Ndigbo.

You need to get over Biafra like smart Igbos like me have done. It is over, we were pummeled and disciplined by the Nigerian superior firepower and intelligence.

Let us move on and stop the HATE. Your behavior here shows that Yorubas are Superior to us

Anambra Adigo Mma

gratiaeo: Nkita ala rachaa gi onu ebe ahu. Asi m chineke gboo gi oku.
Dirty Yoruba pig

Na so the truth dey pain you Nwanne?

Onye Nzuzu. Your Nne says thank you for the curses as it has being sealed and delivered to your household

Igbos are the problem with Nigeria and you know it

Anambra Adigo Mma

Adelaide2: This is pure sarcasm. You be real baba sala Another Yoruba impostor

You are the comedian here Nwanne, you must be really high on narcotics if you dont realise that we Igbos are the champions of crime and disunity in this we country. From SA to China to Malaysia to Indonesia, we are well known for our industrious talent in criminal activities.

That is why I set up an NGO in my town in Awka to make sure the upcoming generation do not toe the same line and it is working. I will make sure customized07 and dozzybaba sign up so that they can stop being jobless touts and vagabonds so that can make their poor parents proud for once.

You can sign up too, just send me a PM. Our motto is "NO IGBO YOUTH should be left behind to smuggle drugs"

God bless Ndigbo

Anambra Adigo Mma

customized07: orlandoowho is here, he has like ten different monikers, he's the odinma1 imposter.

Bunch of jobless vagabonds and miscreants making noise on a faceless forum. Chaiii God punish the people chasing una from your villages.

Instead of you to use your two hands to do something constructive, you are shouting and constituting yourselves as nuisances.

You customized07, are you sure you are an Igbo man? I doubt it. You are online 24/7, 7 days a week, you no get job? Lazy man with no ambition, I will join your parents in prayer for the restoration of your brain.

@ OP, you should declare 7 days dry fasting so that your thinking faculties that have evaporated due to weed smoking and hunger can be recovered asap. Instead of blaming innocent Yorubas for your failure in life, it is time you accept the reality- we Igbos are the problem with Nigeria.

Anambra Adigo Mma

What a pity, Chika's mother is from my local government in Awka.

Can this be true?

Anambra Adigo Mma

customized07: the moment you stop being igbo, your scrotal sac shall shrink into thin air

Reply with your real moniker pls. Who banned you? Mynd44 or Ngwakwe?

Igbos are the problem with Nigeria. I stopped reading the thrash by the OP when he said-why are other tribes persecuting Igbos? What a ridiculous claim.

Most of my Igbo people on NL are pompous, have zero interpersonal skills, day dreamers and ungrateful human beings.

Ndigbo are wonderful people generally, come to Awka and see proper Igbo people. Respectful and not boastful.

Anambra Adigo Mma

HandOfChukwu: Shame about her hair though, it looks rubbish.

Show us your hair for comparison??

My Igbo people always disappoint me.

A well brought up girl doing Nigeria proud. God bless her

A very fine and sexy Igbo man. why the hate?

Anambra Adigo Mma