babaYIBO:


You people aren’t seeing this thing in the same perspective as I want, but I understand, this is the internet until it becomes your reality.

I’m talking about someone that go about acting broke and all the family would not mind contributing to donate to her.

Funniest thing is, non of our parents know and my dad to death complained about the fact that she’s the most different amongst us. I was defending her in front of my dad. Begging him to forgive her whatever she must hav done.

People are different even amongst siblings.
We often make the mistake that we know people so much that we can tell what they can or cannot do,
So they get disappointed when people act out of character, but the only person you know is ourselves.

Know this and know peace. Focus on your life, help others without expectations,

People owe you nothing ,because you yap about everything is the reason you expect others to do the same.

Plus exactly this kind of attitude of self entitlement is what made her not inform you.
Why do you feel entitled that she must tell u about her finances ,why do you feel pained that she built a house without telling you, if she told you would give her a penny?

ChybuzzDD:


You lack the ability to understand simple things.
Btw, who told you i'm in Nigeria?

What my post meant was that sky crapper cleaners and other people in that category can't earn 5-6pounds/month in the UK, as you wrongly claimed.
That's the salary of senior workers and professionals.

Who cares where you are, you can be in the antarctic or inside sahara desert ,your life , your choice.
Oga my last two jobs have been 3.5k and 4k pounds remote, and I'm no senior officer or professional.

Una go just dey blab anyhow, how much do you think fire fighter and electrical /construction workers earn a month in the UK, it will pay a bank manager salary here in Nigeria three times.

ChybuzzDD:


Story! No be only 5-6k pounds per month

If e easy go earn am for naija,
Only 5-6k pounds as if you dey earn reach 400 pounds per month got naija here. Get sense

She'd never settle for you, women places the worth of their men based on their capacity and social standing, what would her friend think of her to be dating a cleaner..

Weyrey better wake up, you think this life na bollywood movie , I once knew a cleaner where I worked for, during spare time the guy bought himself a laptop and was learning to do graphic designs and excel, not long he applied for teller job, got it now he's gone to do his education and still in full employment. You're there listing after a staff and running errand..

Does News like this make you happy,
does it add meaning to all your wrong life choices ,
Does it make you feel not so much of a failure ?
Does it form the basis for your reason to not japa or a good argument against those you envy who have relocated.

Truth is, what many of you suffer from is confirmation bias, you want to see them fail so badly that you look out for stories like these to help support your argument, and make you feel better about your life.

But did you count the 1000s of others doing much more better than they were in Nigeria, you left the 95% who are having a better life and focused on the 5% that are struggling , to add a thing or two to this, most workers earn more over there, a bank manager may earn at most 750k -1m, with this sky scrapper job be may be going home with as much as 5-6k pounds per month

cococandy:


Said all that to say nothing

Truth is bitter, but must be said,

cococandy:
if her demands are being fulfilled as well. Then who’s losing?

No one is, its just trade, as long as both are satisfied.
My point made is, dont conflate attention for interest, peoole can pay attention to you for their selfish reasons, it doesn't mean they are interested or want anything lasting or beneficial. If in thr process you achieve your own aim then its good but again, its not about the women. Even flies are attracted to shit..

cococandy:


Sounds really special to me if at 70 y’all still can’t stay away

BTW that comment “men will fvck anything” is not the flex you think it is. Bit embarrassing for y’all actually

Depends on who is losing , he's not losing as his demands are met

cococandy:



Most men will bang anything? Okay.

So your woman has more options than you. How does that go against my point?

People that like to suggest open marriage should be mentally prepared for that

Yea she does , even a 70yr old mad woman, still has men that sneak in to take one or two, it has nothing to do with her but the men, in the end. Its superficial, the same men still go after other women irrespective, it doesn't make her special , she's just a plug for temporary satisfaction

cococandy:
This open marriage thing always sounds good to the men who suggest it at first. Probably because they’ve grown to believe the lie that women are undesirable after marriage and child birth. For their mind they’d really be roaming about town with various different women and their wives would be pining away at home because no one wants her.

Reddit is full of stories of regretful husbands whose wives are living it up in their open marriages meanwhile the men can’t even get a date. Any girl who even wants to look at them must insist they pay up. But the women are getting free dates and are even being spoiled financially on top of it all. It’s almost as if them married dudes are the ones who are actually undesirable unless they have money to buy a little affection.

Little do they know how many men would actually jump in and take their place when they slip.

Keep suggesting open marriages when you know you can’t take what you dished.

Most men have high libido and will Bleep anything, if a woman wants sex tonight ,she can have even an acquaintance come.to her house for it, its that easy. So not bout attractiveness, its just sex

lol, she's always been seeing other men, yu just gave her the permission to do so, meanwhile, its always easy for women to find mate, unlike men unless u have money to spend

19yrs old has no self confidence that he has to pay 50k to have sex and even drug himself to perform.

Madness all over the world

Before you go, give me one for the road, give me one for the road, give me one for the road....

Customers car burnt
Three lives lost
And yet he felt the need to save his own life, imagine the unimaginable sorrows and pain he's brought upon another family just because of his stupidity and overzealousness

Actually, I don't think its an igbo /Yorba thing, houses if Yorba landlords got demolished as well, its a law thing, the problem is the system ,agencies don't approve building plans or give it out, most of the houses you see around aren't built with an approval, estate agencies package those areas and sell them to unsuspecting people.

Truth is, even if its a tribal battle, I think the igbos won, because you must really own a lot to leave your place, come to another man place, buy his land in a big area and push the indigenes.further into the creeks.

Your sister is also a single mum, what if the man's mum also see something wrong with it

Porrfolio diversification..

Old man tackles the older generation market, while the young blood gains market share in the younger market and gen z.

In the end, money takes its usual path, it flows from the poorest to the richest.

For those who would come for me, the question I ask you before hand is? If one pastor says his church is where the living God is, why does be appoints another and why did he leave his first church to start up his own. Understand that this is business, and like every other apprenticeship system, the student eventually leaves the master to seek profit, in some cases the master gives his blessing, in other, its taken by force.

Dangerous situation for the man , white woman wey fit wake up shoot u

Franzese:
Fear Women....Especially when scorned

Since the day I read about a woman that wanted a new born child TO BE CUT into 2 equal halves because she was contesting for ownership and the other one requested for someone's head on a platter as birthday present.

Since then i've been very careful with my dealings with these daughters of Jezebel.

Ignore my advice at your own peril.

Adam no hear
Samson no hear...

If you like no hear ooooo.

You forgot the one that took down the strongest man in the Bible bu shaving his head?

North: cheap but unsafe and no night life except Abuja which is expensive.

West: Fairly cheap poor qualify night live except for lagos which is very expensive.

EAST: Affordable high qualify night life and very safe.

So in the end. You have to go east to either Enugu, Owerri or Awka.

LoL this country na cruise,
Defence agency dey behave like cultist now.. he should abobi for leg, make we gather men go mount for their cabal, even army senior officer dey come out to validate the news

Imagine if this was all a ploy to get donations from Nigerians

Don't understand this adopted daughter frackas, hows she adopted when she has parents who are still alive, either ways, im more concerned about his health, i hope this int downhill for him. He's lost a leg already, another thing Is, most times when money starts coming in from donations, family begin to fight each other thenmoneu will likelt be used for other things

Omo since baba jam that babe ,no more music, his songs hit different , he's now becoming a model of wht his wife wants.

He's gone to school, trying to build a music label everything has better shape and formal ,may not be what he wants who knows , he may feel trapped or just decided to be on the low..
Good luck Eazi

ruggedtimi:
who want cancel am Saudi Arabia get it time

No mind am , Saudi men no dey allow women. Even talk for same room, and them dey marry four five wives, what's their own

LoL,
Change whose life, what is she doing at the moment to take care of the kids, last I checked the house, clothes,kids schooling , her feeding , cars, everything is being taken care of by him.

He was already playing at top flight and even made it to nomination of African player of year before he met her, just life every other girl she mentioned on that list, he was also singled out by him, cos he wanted to try out someone from her class- a beauty queen, she was used, so when she call others she should not refrain from calling herself as well.

Even Israel no leave hamas to God they are bombarding them, na you wan come leave the matter to God?

Wahala ma shele

When wife of president they inside FEC meeting

Story doesn't scare anyone again, HIV is a totally manageable disease, and partners who are not both infected now get married and have kids that are free of the disease.

People die of worse illness like cancer, brain tumor, liver, kidney and other genetic disorders, yet doesn't matter , getting ill is not anyone fault and this story lines of using HIV and other std as basis for morality stories is baseless, there are people who do not engage in any form of those but are worst humans youd come across rife with malice, ego. Jealousy and envy.

It is very expensive to hide , disappearing on the run is very expensive and difficult.

He wanted the mother to take cash from him so he can have some self comfort, how can you kill somebody child and offer money for burial. Is that not madness