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PhonesRe: I Lost My Huawei Y9 Prime In Tricycle This Afternoon by Ofadaman(m): 5:36am On Feb 14, 2024
Its gone bro,
Get a new one..
EducationRe: How Are University Students Surviving In This Harsh Economy? by Ofadaman(m): 7:01am On Feb 03, 2024
All the girls dey hookup. All the boiz dey yahoo or beyond naija
RomanceRe: What Should A Married Man Do In Situations Like This by Ofadaman(m): 2:01pm On Feb 02, 2024
She may not be cheating just that there's a lot of things she discusses with him that she can't do with u,
I have many few ladies I have real platonic relationships with, we talk alot but never discuss sex and all, we even take time to joke about each other spouse but nothing really serious...

Trust me, she won't stop communicating with him.. she will just go more secretive the more you pressure her
PoliticsRe: Desmond Elliot Shares Perfumes & Books To His Constituency, Nigerians Reacts by Ofadaman(m): 1:55pm On Feb 02, 2024
Treadway:
politics is def for him. Na him third term be this. He is winning in life, unlike the pathetic unfortunate bunch.
Lol, the question is, are you winning?
SportsRe: Osimhen Taken In For Random Dope Test After Cameroun Game by Ofadaman(m): 4:32am On Jan 29, 2024
Most people watching dont know there are analytics that tracks each players activity around the pitch, they compare it its normal avg work rate expected of a player if you are consistently above work rate. They tske you in for.a drug test
CelebritiesRe: Tacha Vs Mummy Zee: The Real Story by Ofadaman(m): 1:15am On Jan 28, 2024
Never give a man more than what he deserves, cos person dey bite the hand wey dey feed am..
-- Wizkid

Many celebrities don't have the substance but we give them the fame they don't deserve ,they did not work hard. They have no skills or talent, just luck , luck is not reproducible
PoliticsRe: Video Of Nigerian Army In Another Brutal Encounter With Bandits by Ofadaman(m): 5:05am On Jan 20, 2024
after watching this, all I can tell you is that, we are on our own in this country.

Just look at this mess , no formation , no tactics, no modern gadget or strategy.
Just men shouting like boyscout and shooting randomly hoping they get lucky.

This is what you get when the politicians and security chief steal all the budget for security, and nepotism is favored over merit in their recruitment
PoliticsRe: Video Of Nigerian Army In Another Brutal Encounter With Bandits by Ofadaman(m): 5:00am On Jan 20, 2024
The shout too much, even the bandits don know our moves. Our problem is lack of strategy and coordination. We need more intelligent people in our security apparatus.

We may have chased them away or overpowered by using brute force, but this will do no good against a smaller strategic foe
CrimeRe: Kidnappers Kill One Of Six Siblings Abducted In Abuja by Ofadaman(m): 5:00pm On Jan 14, 2024
You capture a man and his daughters. Da fvck do you want him to do, a man who is meant to be the protector in captive while you rape and kill his kids..

One thing is sure, this kidnapping may be coming from a family or close relative, detective need to be at work,
FamilyRe: Do You Have This In Your Bathroom? by Ofadaman(m): 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2024
It's because you keep a bowl for the soap,why not use the standard soap holder, and buy your soap in packs so you don't have need for this
CrimeRe: Child Marriage: Bayelsa Govt Summons 4-Year-Old Girl’s Parents, "Husband" by Ofadaman(m): 11:55am On Dec 31, 2023
Johnycastro18:
"The little bride said if she was not allowed to marry her husband, she would have no other business in Akeddei community, and that she was going to die peacefully and go her way."

Dammmm what sort of superstitious believe is this, and the girls parents approved of it sad
So she can't wait till she grows up to 20yrs and the 54yr old man no get wife before, fvcking pedophiles
CelebritiesRe: Tony Elumelu & His Wife Checkout Davido's Diamond Chain At Their Party by Ofadaman(m): 11:08am On Dec 25, 2023
They just amusing him, there are levels to this wealth, they could easily buy 10 of those chains
SportsRe: Cristiano Ronaldo Drips Hard As He Arrives In Style To Boxing Match (Pix, Video) by Ofadaman(m): 11:06am On Dec 25, 2023
These Saudi princes are in real money, you can see in it in their attire, their energy ,attitude and swag,
Christianity EtcRe: Will God Answer This Lady's Prayer? by Ofadaman(m): 1:17pm On Dec 24, 2023
Thank God say God no be man.
The ways of God are different from the ways of man ,
On this earth, have I seen things, when sons of slave sit on chariots and princes walk.
For the Lord uses the foolish things to confound the wise.

All the days of christ, he chose people who nobody expects why didn't he just join with the Pharisees ?,
Amongst his disciples, did you see any of them which was a pastor , the women he saved and confided in, mostly harlots and prostitutes.

Baba, no dey reason am, God is God and his ways different
HealthRe: I Have Man Boobs (Gynecomastia). Please I Need Help by Ofadaman(m): 1:09pm On Dec 24, 2023
Lazy punk,
Go to the gym and work that fat out to muscles , wakanda males is the world producing now
CrimeRe: House Boy Cuts Off Aged Master’s Manhood For Money Ritual In Anambra by Ofadaman(m): 12:22pm On Dec 24, 2023
He no steal anything na old man prick he collect, i dont even understand the story. One side said he killed the man ,another said the man has been rushed to the hosptial
FamilyRe: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Ofadaman(m): 7:05pm On Dec 23, 2023
babaYIBO:
You people aren’t seeing this thing in the same perspective as I want, but I understand, this is the internet until it becomes your reality.

I’m talking about someone that go about acting broke and all the family would not mind contributing to donate to her.

Funniest thing is, non of our parents know and my dad to death complained about the fact that she’s the most different amongst us. I was defending her in front of my dad. Begging him to forgive her whatever she must hav done.
People are different even amongst siblings.
We often make the mistake that we know people so much that we can tell what they can or cannot do,
So they get disappointed when people act out of character, but the only person you know is ourselves.

Know this and know peace. Focus on your life, help others without expectations,
FamilyRe: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Ofadaman(m): 11:22am On Dec 23, 2023
People owe you nothing ,because you yap about everything is the reason you expect others to do the same.

Plus exactly this kind of attitude of self entitlement is what made her not inform you.
Why do you feel entitled that she must tell u about her finances ,why do you feel pained that she built a house without telling you, if she told you would give her a penny?
CareerRe: Japa: From Bank Manager To Skyscraper Cleaner by Ofadaman(m): 10:58pm On Dec 17, 2023
ChybuzzDD:
You lack the ability to understand simple things.
Btw, who told you i'm in Nigeria?

What my post meant was that sky crapper cleaners and other people in that category can't earn 5-6pounds/month in the UK, as you wrongly claimed.
That's the salary of senior workers and professionals.
Who cares where you are, you can be in the antarctic or inside sahara desert ,your life , your choice.
Oga my last two jobs have been 3.5k and 4k pounds remote, and I'm no senior officer or professional.

Una go just dey blab anyhow, how much do you think fire fighter and electrical /construction workers earn a month in the UK, it will pay a bank manager salary here in Nigeria three times.
CareerRe: Japa: From Bank Manager To Skyscraper Cleaner by Ofadaman(m): 12:09pm On Dec 17, 2023
ChybuzzDD:
Story! No be only 5-6k pounds per month
If e easy go earn am for naija,
Only 5-6k pounds as if you dey earn reach 400 pounds per month got naija here. Get sense
RomanceRe: What Can I Do About This by Ofadaman(m): 4:57pm On Dec 16, 2023
She'd never settle for you, women places the worth of their men based on their capacity and social standing, what would her friend think of her to be dating a cleaner..

Weyrey better wake up, you think this life na bollywood movie , I once knew a cleaner where I worked for, during spare time the guy bought himself a laptop and was learning to do graphic designs and excel, not long he applied for teller job, got it now he's gone to do his education and still in full employment. You're there listing after a staff and running errand..
CareerRe: Japa: From Bank Manager To Skyscraper Cleaner by Ofadaman(m): 4:47pm On Dec 16, 2023
Does News like this make you happy,
does it add meaning to all your wrong life choices ,
Does it make you feel not so much of a failure ?
Does it form the basis for your reason to not japa or a good argument against those you envy who have relocated.

Truth is, what many of you suffer from is confirmation bias, you want to see them fail so badly that you look out for stories like these to help support your argument, and make you feel better about your life.

But did you count the 1000s of others doing much more better than they were in Nigeria, you left the 95% who are having a better life and focused on the 5% that are struggling , to add a thing or two to this, most workers earn more over there, a bank manager may earn at most 750k -1m, with this sky scrapper job be may be going home with as much as 5-6k pounds per month
FamilyRe: I Made A Mistake For Asking My Wife For An Open Marriage (story For The TL) by Ofadaman(m): 2:43pm On Dec 09, 2023
cococandy:
Said all that to say nothing
Truth is bitter, but must be said,
FamilyRe: I Made A Mistake For Asking My Wife For An Open Marriage (story For The TL) by Ofadaman(m): 9:20am On Dec 09, 2023
cococandy:
if her demands are being fulfilled as well. Then who’s losing?
No one is, its just trade, as long as both are satisfied.
My point made is, dont conflate attention for interest, peoole can pay attention to you for their selfish reasons, it doesn't mean they are interested or want anything lasting or beneficial. If in thr process you achieve your own aim then its good but again, its not about the women. Even flies are attracted to shit..
FamilyRe: I Made A Mistake For Asking My Wife For An Open Marriage (story For The TL) by Ofadaman(m): 3:09pm On Dec 08, 2023
cococandy:
Sounds really special to me if at 70 y’all still can’t stay away

BTW that comment “men will fvck anything” is not the flex you think it is. Bit embarrassing for y’all actually
Depends on who is losing , he's not losing as his demands are met
FamilyRe: I Made A Mistake For Asking My Wife For An Open Marriage (story For The TL) by Ofadaman(m): 8:21am On Dec 08, 2023
cococandy:
Most men will bang anything? Okay.

So your woman has more options than you. How does that go against my point?

People that like to suggest open marriage should be mentally prepared for that
Yea she does , even a 70yr old mad woman, still has men that sneak in to take one or two, it has nothing to do with her but the men, in the end. Its superficial, the same men still go after other women irrespective, it doesn't make her special , she's just a plug for temporary satisfaction
FamilyRe: I Made A Mistake For Asking My Wife For An Open Marriage (story For The TL) by Ofadaman(m): 5:06pm On Dec 07, 2023
cococandy:
This open marriage thing always sounds good to the men who suggest it at first. Probably because they’ve grown to believe the lie that women are undesirable after marriage and child birth. For their mind they’d really be roaming about town with various different women and their wives would be pining away at home because no one wants her.

Reddit is full of stories of regretful husbands whose wives are living it up in their open marriages meanwhile the men can’t even get a date. Any girl who even wants to look at them must insist they pay up. But the women are getting free dates and are even being spoiled financially on top of it all. It’s almost as if them married dudes are the ones who are actually undesirable unless they have money to buy a little affection.

Little do they know how many men would actually jump in and take their place when they slip.

Keep suggesting open marriages when you know you can’t take what you dished.
Most men have high libido and will Bleep anything, if a woman wants sex tonight ,she can have even an acquaintance come.to her house for it, its that easy. So not bout attractiveness, its just sex
FamilyRe: I Made A Mistake For Asking My Wife For An Open Marriage (story For The TL) by Ofadaman(m): 5:04pm On Dec 07, 2023
lol, she's always been seeing other men, yu just gave her the permission to do so, meanwhile, its always easy for women to find mate, unlike men unless u have money to spend
HealthRe: 19-yr-old Dies Of Drug Overdose During Intercourse With A Lady In Delta (photos) by Ofadaman(m): 4:58pm On Dec 07, 2023
19yrs old has no self confidence that he has to pay 50k to have sex and even drug himself to perform.

Madness all over the world
RomanceRe: Another Groom Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Wife-to-be Visited Ex (pics/vid) by Ofadaman(m): 4:45am On Dec 05, 2023
Before you go, give me one for the road, give me one for the road, give me one for the road....
TravelRe: Lagos Mechanic’s Car Crushes Mother, Two Children In Ajamgbadi Area by Ofadaman(m): 8:21pm On Dec 04, 2023
Customers car burnt
Three lives lost
And yet he felt the need to save his own life, imagine the unimaginable sorrows and pain he's brought upon another family just because of his stupidity and overzealousness
PropertiesRe: Lagos Issues Stop Work Order To A Developer In Lekki (Photos) by Ofadaman(m): 9:25pm On Dec 01, 2023
Actually, I don't think its an igbo /Yorba thing, houses if Yorba landlords got demolished as well, its a law thing, the problem is the system ,agencies don't approve building plans or give it out, most of the houses you see around aren't built with an approval, estate agencies package those areas and sell them to unsuspecting people.

Truth is, even if its a tribal battle, I think the igbos won, because you must really own a lot to leave your place, come to another man place, buy his land in a big area and push the indigenes.further into the creeks.

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