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KennethEnyi:Hey , man just remove those names and pictures and insert those of your sisters there and then review your comment and see how that sounds now . Many times we make light of other people's grief because it has not hit home yet, but everyone will have their day of badluck , I really hope people don't make jest of yours |
Really sad news. I also think it's important that people learn some life savings skills such as swimming and kickboxing. I learned those when I was 14, and it's saved me many times. You don't need be an expert at least just learn how to stay afloat and swim to shore. It can be what saves you frim death. |
But Butna boy - "love to party" was already a hit in 2012,what's the weyrey saying |
LoL, Tinubu go find am something las las .. But not something substantial people like Wike are good to help do your dirty biddings after they are done it's either you pay them off and stay away from .them or you put them down like a wild dog, cause they'd always be a pain and a problem to you.. |
LoL I feel sorry for them, you want to hike price beyond the price the app gives, don't they know the trip is calculated by a fair algorithm that considers the time spent on road and cost of gas in the country plus considers other areas where the driver takes a route to increase fair price , they get penalized. They also forget, it's not easy to find alternatives , they think say na govt work then dey do, the strike will not hold because, many will go out to make trips, irrespective cos anyone verified can do trips be it part time or full time. The more they strike the more profit for those who remain |
Funny story but here's the deal, She should just deny it ,saying the guy has always made advances towards her which she refused cause of his age and she doesn't want her aunt to worry about his son, and that was why she left the house. Anyways, it was a wrong move to have kept the girl in same room with a teenager, women are dumb headed, she must have seen too d*CK and fantasized a lot, so it was easy to go with it when he suggested it |
Train kids on how to swim, it's a life saving skill, even my nephew is just 2yrs and she floats on water. Some life savings skills like swimming ,driving , self defence and kpekus destruction are key |
Either she no trust you or she don do hookup too many times, the experience wey she don see don put her for high alert |
NobleSeed:Bombs and ambitions are not work tools |
jerus:For bigger men to climb her ladder |
olatade:Back to her old profession |
He just need to get police to arrest everyone in his circle and business, anyone privy of his intentions should be arrested |
LoL this people no even send say Obi dey court |
pretydiva:. She's answer your question here, you no longer find her sexually attractive , so your brain doesn't get stimulated, and it's not about her looks, sometime it could be that you've actually seen too much to be aroused by her unclothedness. At this point, there's very little you can do to help unless you do a mind reconditioning , or you continue to imagine other women during sex with her. |
SwissMass:Lol, Nobody know your mama name , better go hustle make your family no remain a nonentity only known for banter on nairaland |
Fake skit |
LoL Baba better go do paternity for all your kids |
LoL, who this mumu that his words make any meaning or should be taken seriously. |
Back in school, I was the group leader of the practical chemistry course, I carried the group on my shoulders, did all the heavy lifting and tasks. My room mate also in the group volunteers to help the group submit the project takes every week to the lecturer for scoring , I never knew the dude would swap my file for his before , submitting and would rush to pick all our files after scoring to swap them back . He had time to copy my work and we always report same results per group,but this guy chose to swap my sheet for his empty file each week, and when we go back home or walk down he talks about how he admires my intelligence, I never knew he was working against me. I found out on the last week, when he couldn't make it to pick up the file early, so when I got the file and saw that he has replaced all of mine with his empty sheet. I was furious but I couldn't do anything , |
Police want to make an example of him, he'd end up spending money ,damaging his reputation and wasting valuable time. No. Matter how you slice and dice it, Seun ends up loosing in all this debacle |
CrimeKsmart:Is David an IPOB? You left the aggressor and aggreseee and channeled all your energy on a bystander. |
Once gambling takes root, it's hard to root out. Any money that comes to him would continually be sunk into that habit until he has nothing left, it's a very dangerous addiction, most gamblers run into debt and always believe that one day they'd make it big, but don't be deceived even when they make it big or make a win, they'd spend every penny back. Addiction problem is often recognized and treated as a mental illness abroad. Here are a few things you can do to help yourself ; 1) sit him down and have a talk, in the talk agree on a certain amount of money that should be given to you ,the house, kid and savings monthly then he can do what he likes with the rest. Once you reach this agreement, ensure he pays this money on the day of salary , infact you can take a loan in advance and let him be the payer of the debt monthly to avoid issues. You can use the funds to buy foodstuff in bulk at home, save for yourself and kids 2) identify the stimulant, most gamblers have things that trigger them into gambling , most of them are friends, many have joined telegram groups and Whatsapp grp or follow social pages that offer bet picks , these things trigger degenerate gamblers to part money thinking if they don't play they may miss out , if you find those items you can remove them, e.g destroy the sim card, make sure those friends don't visit etc. 3) Play the devil's advocate, most gamblers don't come to their senses until they see how much they've lost and the opportunity cost., I once had an addicted cousin and what I did to make him realize his folly was to join him, for every game he plays , I'd record the amount he used, we did that for 3 months, by end of three months I gave him the net of how much he's won and lost. He couldn't believe he has made that much money and spent it gambling, then by the side I wrote down all what that money could have gotten for him. When he saw the opportunity cost, baba shut down all his betting account and opened a piggy vest account. |
One rule from the law of power; Once you've achieved your goal, STOP!. History is riddled with sad endings of people who ruined their success by over stepping their target. |
As someone who came from a humble beginning just as yourself, I also had to go to farm after secondary school , it was the garri made from cassava farming (on someone land in a deep swamp), and vegetables and stockfish I sold that I used to finance my education to waec, after school I started computer graphics and used it to work in mini cyber cafe to pay university education you till now, I'm out of school and earning well even though not fully there,I've been able to pay for my siblings education from secondary school down to university level for all three of my siblings and elders. I'd tell you the truth, if you'd listen, Family can be a set back, and if you allow them hold you back they'd drag you and keep you stagnant for years, you have to focus to take your head out of water first then take them along, (not abandon them ,but give yourself priority first), because even if you don't support them, they'd find a way to thrive, and if you reck yourself trying to pull them when they aren't willing to move, you'd carry on emotional baggage that may never be appreciated , help them but first help yourself, only when you have succeeded that you can pull others up |
Silly blunder from her may ruin her political standing |
Falz no be politicians , him papa no be politicians. On the other hand, that short dwarf father is a politicians ,whose primary duty is to provide healthcare |
The man smashing her for money and roles would just be reading and laffing |
You dey laff person wey don settle him life and future generations ,meanwhile you still never get anything to your name, better leave that phone go hustle |
LoL, he didn't snub them na, see him leaving an apologizing to them that he needs to leave |
I can't judge,all man to his will and life, one thing I know is, it's very difficult to manage two women (not gfs) but wives. The man will have zero peace, just troubles till he is gone, even after he's gone, his kids continue the fight In the end, we fit die and go to the otherside only to discover fornication, adultery ,murder and rape are not sins. |
The guy tried inside by splitting bills and walking out. His only fault was allowing those girls boss him like that outside, he should have finished with the same energy he started. He should tell them.to go Bleep off, enter his vehicle and zoom off, not walk around and apologize or allow them put a camera to his face and talk trash . |
Just the rich ones, that have access to Twitter can come online to say all that, but in the end, nearly 80% of northerners live in abject poverty and worse still is that they have very little resources or skills to earn well. It is why they struggle to do well outside the country, or if they are from poor background, the rag to riches story is very little over there. I'd rather be down south, have my intellect and education than be over there abeg... Irrespective of what they say, the joke is still on then |

