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HealthRe: Why You’re Seeing Two Different Lonart-DS Packs — Greenlife Issues Clarification by ofomilad(m): 3:42pm On May 23
Nice but a proper education of the public could had saved the misinformation that spread around few days ago
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Child’s Dad by ofomilad(m): 4:52pm On Aug 13, 2023
Reach out to a matured married woman with good marital experience for advice.
Then if u are serious on having a good marital life with a focus individual then private chat me
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Child’s Dad by ofomilad(m): 4:48pm On Aug 13, 2023
Reach out with matured married woman with good marital experience for advice.

If you are of good character and focused in having a good family contact me privately


I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



Thank you .

front page please

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Nairaland GeneralWarri Refinery Casual Staffs Protest Poor Working Conditions, Salaries Unchanged by ofomilad(op): 8:35pm On Apr 28, 2022
Activities at the Warri Refining and Petrochemical Company (WRPC) in Warri, Delta State have been grounded following an ongoing protest by hundreds of casual workers against the management of the Nigerian National Petroleum Company Limited (NNPC).

The protest, which is ongoing on the premises of the WRPC, started in the early hours of Thursday.

The protesters, some of whom have worked for 28 years, are demanding “conversion from casual to permanent staff, increase in salary, payment of all outstanding allowances, better working conditions and welfare”.

Some are requesting payoffs since the NNPC management has “refused” to yield to their demand for regularisation over the years.

Calling on the Group Managing Director of the NNPC, Mele Kyari to urgently address the matter, the casual staff, numbering 336, warned that there will be no resumption of work until their demands were met.

https://thenationonlineng.net/warri-refinery-casual-workers-protest-non-regularisation-others/

Art, Graphics & VideoRape Is Evil And Barbaric by ofomilad(op): 10:04pm On Jun 04, 2020
The recent event that took place in a RCCG church in Benin city has opened a wound in the heart of Nigerians that the law enforcement agency won't be able to look away.
Thanks to social media.
As regard the event and as a creative photographer I decided to protest in own little way to show solidarity to the family, uniben and the girl child.
I hope this goes a long way to end series of rape cases in our communities.

#justiceforuwa #punishrapist #unibenstudent #rccg #stopkillingoirgirls #stoprape #rapeisevil #rapevictimsspeakup

Christianity EtcRe: An Experience At Pastor Chris Okotie’s Church In Lagos by ofomilad(m): 10:30pm On Jan 04, 2014
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]guy u try to wait that long oooo grin
CrimeRe: HIV-Positive Doctor Molests Patient In Benue by ofomilad(m): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2013
This is another sad news from the medical profession.
Jokes EtcRe: The Definition Of Trouble by ofomilad(m): 8:46pm On Aug 27, 2012
very funny, ki dis is a good joke
Jokes EtcRe: June/July WAEC Examination Questions by ofomilad(m): 7:12am On Jun 26, 2012
The instruction is attempt all question.
RomanceRe: What Are Your Views On Pregnancy Before Marriage? by ofomilad(m): 7:39pm On Aug 08, 2011
Am an advocate of preg. b4 marriage. My intention can only change when am 100% sure she's a virgin. Coz wat gurls involve in these days can't be over looked. That's me for real!
RomanceRe: What Is The Difference Between A Relationship And A Friendship? by ofomilad(m): 3:04pm On Jul 25, 2011
[color=#006600][/color] They both possess a "ship" which is heading somewhere.

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