₦airaland Forum

NwaAmaikpe:



That's a gross violation of their fundamental human rights.

Why hold them against their will and still prevent them from being contacted by their family members?

The IGP should be ashamed of himself for openly proving that the Nigeria Police has no regards for human rights.

my brother, if SARS detain u, u will wish them worst. Human right is not in their job description. They restrict detainees or suspects from all form of external contact. For me, i wish that WORST

Op, this details are not cheap oh at all

Pls o bro, tell ur brother not to offend her o, to avoid some chuku ckuku for sleep. Me I don dey fear Hausa women

shezzy93:
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Chisos! Aunty pls remove ur picture. It's discouraging the men of God

Benita27:
You all haven't answered my question. Would you tolerate and love back your cheating wife like nothing of that nature ever happened?. Since I don't want to commit murder 'cause I could be excessive jealous, I'd rather remain single than marry a cheating man. Where's the respect in the first place?.

I also encourage you to remain single Ma and retain ur joy because cheating is usually not discussed or plan for. We guys don't plan to. I don't plan to. I am not immuned from it either. For ur question? Yes it will hurt bad but in my own place, U don't throw away the baby with the bad water

Benita27:
I don't need to be married here to know my deal breaker. I'd tell my spouse the day I say "Yes, I'd marry you" that any day he finds out I'm cheating and I'm guilty of that charge to divorce and through me out, while I file for divorce when I get a whip he's cheating. That's one thing I can never tolerate and would not. Marriage or not, kids or not. I can't be happy knowing my man is a dog.

that's why u are not not married. Better forget marriage if u can't deal with offences and tolerance

Queenlovely:
I will transfer airtime to the first person to text me good night my dear queen. I am dead serious.

goodnight my dear Queen.

pasqal09:
You want him to go and dash someone 300k?

i have bought twice and sold once. Same with my colleagues and friends. It's legit

U can. Just log into olx app go to the auto section. Filter thesite to ur location. Thank me later (most people that want to sharply sell off their cars advertise there)

U sound like you already know what to do but just want justification to do it. Oya, forgive him, move on. Don't always be quick to run out of serious relationship, u don't know what the next guy will be made up of.

HR people, if it's an employee, it will be a performance issue. Take the liability. Chasing the case is exposing ur mistakes more, and u know its not good for a career

One thing I have realized from reading comments on this website is that a lot of men do not understand that some women have certain financial standards when it comes to dating, and nothing can make them lower those standards. So guys, when a lady says she can't date a broke guy, try to first ruminate on the information I want to pass across before deciding to label her with derogatory appellations.

When I say some ladies, this "some" constitutes a certain category of ladies. This category includes ladies who are ambitious, hardworking and goal oriented. They are aren't idle or ignorant. They are intelligent, well informed and most times are financially bouyant. These are the kind of women I am categorically referring to. If this kind of woman says she can't date a broke guy, then she is justified in making such statement, and any guy who insults her for making such statement or tries to refute her statement with the kind of pathetic comments I read here, is indeed pathetic.

How does anyone expect a woman who is working towards being financially successful and expending time and energy towards this goal, to settle for some guy who earns WAY less than she does? How can a financially ambitious woman lower her standards and spend years waiting for some guy "who has potential" to make it? Let me unpack this last statement because it's a bit radioactive. There are different gradations of potential and that's why I used quotation marks. There are men who have an education that confers a high competitive advantage in the job market, or skills that can catapult them to high rungs on the financial ladder. If a financially ambitious woman meets this kind of guy and he is working hard everyday to become financially stable and secure, then she can lower her standards a bit and grind with him, but only for a while. If after few months or years and this guy isn't making any progress and she decides to go, no one should blame her. Maybe the guy isn't smart enough or isn't just lucky enough. She has the right to leave him and find someone who is financially compatible with her. Yes.
But this only applies to men who have real potential, not some guy who just has a degree or skills and isn't taking diligent steps to improve his finances.

What most guys don't realize is that being broke or just having enough money to subsist, are indicative of certain traits women in general aren't attracted to. Traits like laziness, unintelligence, lack of ambition, bad luck, and a lack of good education. It's not the fault of a financially ambitious woman who is financially bouyant herself if she doesn't want to mingle with broke people, let alone date them.

Instead of dating a guy that has good qualities, the kind of women I am referring to would rather find financially bouyant and ambitious men like themselves, and then proceed to look for these good qualities. And YES they are justified in doing that. Abi is it only broke guys that have good qualities?

Lastly, if any guy is asking out women who don't fall into the category of women I am referring to, then such guy has low standards and deserves the rejection he is receiving from his fellow broke girl.

Dear NL,pls introduce dislike and hate button, so as some can express their opinion without typing.