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I 've been married for 15 years with four kids.
The first 2 years was self -discovery, mutual bonding and threshold limits... why
I left a relationship of 3 years supposedly leading to marriage to propose to a lady I meet under 2 weeks to pepper my ex. I married my wife barely 1 month we met. Thus, the quarrels and arguments within the first few years of the marriage.
My gamble eventually paid off cos she is the best wife for me. Neither of us Can even remember the topic of our last quarrel 8 months ago.
MONEY DOESN'T MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE.

AmazonTopaz:
It was never about NATO.

Putin wants the soviet union back.

You are just ignorant with myopic and bias opinion. All your statements are sandwiched with insults and you are complaining of not wanting to be insulted... Abeg, go fry beans and hug transformer.

Sincerely speaking, dont take advice from the stupid feminist and foolish misogynist that parade themselves in this forum trying to outdo each other without knowing how marriage works( and I bet you, majority are kids). With 18years marriage experience, there has never been a formula for a successful marriage. Though you story is a personal narrative and can't be judged without hearing from the other party, I can only say that your husband complicated matters by moving out in the night. Like some good people suggested, improve on yourself such that your husband won't ve financial comparative advantage over you if the worst scenario is DIVORCE. But first, put your possible best to make the marriage work even if it 'll make you look like the foolish partner. Persist on knowing their relationship but come in a more softer and friendly tune. Engage him in conversation with a softer tune even if his temper flies above the roof. By default, men are unreasonble while in anger while women are reasonable when calm. That wont make you a loser neither ll it make him a winner. At his quiet period, he ll realize his mistakes and come back for the kids and you. WORK OUT YOUR MARRIAGE FORMULA AND DEPEND LESS ON THE TROLLS IN THIS FORUM ... peace

Honestly, it was a gamble cos I needed to marry at age 35 in order not to train my children with my pension. Met her in a month and propose marriage in less than 2 months. The relationship became official after 5 months and 3 kids were produce in less than 5 years. The journey was rough initially but understanding came in within the years. Most especially, I value her cos she contributes financially, emotionally and aspires me to my dreams. If it was a mistake, I 'll gladly repeat it again cos she is the best thing to 've happened to me.
But my previous relationships makes me hide my complete love and appreciations for her in order not to inflate her ego. She 'll be my indisputable queen in my kingdom. Shalom

They should sustain the tempo... honestly, military has intensified attack on this ISWAP, Though there are bound to be collateral damages. Glad we 'll be winning the war ...



And for those of you that keep shouting
"Innocent civilians ......"
"Death to military men ...."
"Buhari is the problem ..."

You have never lost a family or friend to this ISWAP.
You lots are the problem with Nigeria

I was 9yrs old. My sister's friend narrated how they played their father April fool on 1st april and the family laughed over it.... I decided I 'll play my father April fool not knowing he was owing the landlord for almost 2 years. Immediately i said " dad, the landlord is downstairs looking for you, the fear in my dad's face didn't allow me shout April fool again ......I 've to sneak under the bed while waiting for the unimaginable and praying to God to take my soul. My father exhibited all his kamaru usman style on me that all my siblings began to cry and pleaded with him that it was only a joke.... maybe, that's why am gentle and playful with my kids ..