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Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by Tonnyray: 7:43pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
iyaamoke:Deep. Thanks for sharing. 7 Likes |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 8:05pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Marriage is not about money or status, it is about true love from both sides; you both can overcome any circumstance. When there is money take care of your wife and children, develop her. Never marry a liability. Money makes Marriage sweet. 5 Likes |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by holocron: 8:08pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
greatiyk4u: @the bolded, It will come. Brace for it. As certain as night comes after the day. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by melzabull(f): 8:08pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Irupetepete:believe that stupid girl at your peril I bet my balls that she's one single, bitter, mishievious girl under -30 years of age and probably under-employed. No gainfully employed girl or married woman will be so jobless to be displaying stupidity every hour on naira land. I'm sure she'll be reading your comment and laughing at your naivity 4 Likes |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by missyblissy: 8:10pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Marriage is partnership and not a master slave relationship. You discuss everything and anything with your partner. Decisions are made and agreed together. Discuss finances, religion and how many kids you want to have and how you intend to train your kids. There's no book for all marriages. You read and tailor it to how it best suits you. Don't marry liability and the things you know you cannot endure or take from your partner... Tell them and make it loud. If you cannot please please just walkway. Dont enter marriage with the notion that he or she will changeor it will get better over time, na there your whala start. Most people plan for wedding and not marriage. You spend your time and money on pleasing people outside..... Give a good show outside so people we will say all is well with the family, meanwhile the husband is a beast at home. Communication and mutual respect is key in marriage. Listen to your partner and take corrections. You will definitely change when you get married. As there's so many things that you will stop doing once you are married. All marriages have their ups and downs. We have our disagreements and we settle our disputes within. No third party. You must learn to apologise and forgive if you want to succeed. I don't mean you cheat on your partner and ask for forgiveness oooo. You have broken the trust in your marriage if you do it. Forgiveness does not mean your partner should forget it either. You have to work really hard to gain your partner's trust again... Some may end up leaving the marriage if they cannot trust anymore. My two cents 4 Likes |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by nedekid: 8:22pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
nabiz:Good for you. So far all is great. 9 years is not a long time though. Meanwhile, don't share secrets, quarrels with anybody, worse still, your pastor. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by maasoap(m): 8:23pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zonefree: I don't understand what you meant by this, honestly speaking. Are you talking about Nigerian women as bad wives? Or Nigerian men under the age of 45 incapable of enjoying marriages? |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by awumen: 8:24pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Hmmmmm, marriage. Love,commitment are important factors, money/financial knowledge is key, forgiveness,sincerity,understanding are the bedrock and Tolerance is the tonic. 15 years,still on full throttle...we die here!!! 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by nedekid: 8:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Akwamkpuruamu:What if you don't have financial control over her, does that mean the marriage wount work? Imagine you both relocate and she gets a job, and gets empowered financially, I bet it the marriage will be in problem. Nacking and cash should not be used as leverage in marriage oh. NB: Hope you don't do that bullshit called joint account. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by maasoap(m): 8:32pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: That wasn't thriving, they were just able to hide the truth/abuses from the public or third party. 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by maasoap(m): 8:34pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Perewenkle1: Okay, how do one avoid this? Care to explain or give insight? |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:56pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
BigBashiru: Lol. When it comes to outlining men's responsibilities, you go bunkers. It's a man's responsibility to provide. And providing isn't suffering. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by Kobojunkie: 8:57pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
maasoap:1. They were together until the end naw... they were thriving according to Nigerian levels oo. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by Kobojunkie: 9:00pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
1Sharon:
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Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by deavicky(m): 9:25pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
My Marriage is so sweet and lovely. For example in my house now, they had turn me to baby nurse and a domestic staff. Before I go to work I carry baby and when I Come back carry baby again tell I sleep. Thank God for budwieser that keeps me away from home sometimes if not I for don craze 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by occfx: 9:59pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
EriMma1: May I ask you, how much money is enough money in marriage? I have seen couple who earns very well and yet have financial problems and I have also seen couples who sells kiosk and taxi driving living happily as if the world belongs to them. I no come understand. 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by BigBashiru: 9:59pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: It's a woman's responsibility to provide for herself.... Wake up.... 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by BigBashiru: 10:01pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Your own responsibility is to sit at home and stress a man financially and watch him die before his time.... 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
BigBashiru: Lol. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
BigBashiru: I believe in gender roles, baby. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by Octopusssy(f): 10:05pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
iyaamoke:Thank you for this deep insight |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by occfx: 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
lavylilly: I no no ooo, I dey enjoy my marriage ooo but Buhari cashless policies made it difficult... But it affected everyone |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by BigBashiru: 10:13pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Good luck with that 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by EriMma1: 10:34pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
occfx: Just have a high stable income and business on the side that will be generating steady income. this will require hardwork which is why I said young guys should strive to build their finance to a reasonable level and invest before going into marriage. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by kingboy(m): 11:28pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Marriage is all about communication, endurance, trust and forgiveness ....secret in marriages will break the edge. Over 15 years in marriage, we started in a face me i face you, a one room apartment. My wife came from a 3 bedroom apartment and decided to stay with me in a room where toilets are shared( unbelievable you will say) My wife slept on the floor with me. We set our priorities right, we sold our shares to get a 3 bedroom apartment in a choice area. Now we live in our own house. It has been tough, rough but with understanding and knowing who we are, it's been so far so good. Yes money can be a a factor but it's not enough.. 3 things you need to be a good partner as a man includes the following in moderation Owo(money) Ogbon( wisdom) Oko (sexual satisfaction). Finally the involvement of the holy spirit canot be ignored I so submit 1 Like |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by fayomim: 11:34pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
EriMma1: Are you married? |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by oladele00(m): 4:28am On Apr 03, 2023 |
It has been really challenging, but the keywords are forbearance and understanding. These two have kept me going. |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by randymirrors(f): 4:30am On Apr 03, 2023 |
ibechris: This nonsense up there. Yorubas do not suck their in-laws at all, let alone suck them dry. So next time, before you generalize, use your brain to think! |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by randymirrors(f): 4:48am On Apr 03, 2023 |
franchasofficia: Your contribution is the best so far. You didn't make any sweeping generalizations. Also, your points are strong, genuine and fair. Most importantly, it aligns with the teachings of the Holy Bible. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by tabaralph: 6:40am On Apr 03, 2023 |
[quote author=lavylilly post=122176579][/quote] Am 27years in my marriage but I can categorically tell you that there’s no thriving marriage anywhere it’ all depends on the level of tolerance, endurance,love and understanding between the couple , don’t let anyone deceive you that there’s a perfect marriage 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by HRHQueenPhil(f): 6:44am On Apr 03, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:five children? Wen am not tony elumelu..how d marriage go sweet with all day expense |
Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by Ogajohnbull(m): 6:45am On Apr 03, 2023 |
I 've been married for 15 years with four kids. The first 2 years was self -discovery, mutual bonding and threshold limits... why I left a relationship of 3 years supposedly leading to marriage to propose to a lady I meet under 2 weeks to pepper my ex. I married my wife barely 1 month we met. Thus, the quarrels and arguments within the first few years of the marriage. My gamble eventually paid off cos she is the best wife for me. Neither of us Can even remember the topic of our last quarrel 8 months ago. MONEY DOESN'T MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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