BigYash:
Its only a fool,I repeat.. Its only a big fool that won't bother or want to know about his or her partners past. And he or she will definitely regret it later.. You marry a womanizer and you want him to be saint in marriage? You married an olosho you want her to be faithful to you in marriage,right? Dey play..

Are u saying that people don't change or can't try to be a better version of themselves?

Apapa, u wan kwolect?

FalseProphet1:
I'll share this piece with my members during mid-week service.

This I have seen.

Kolo prophet

AntiChristian:
BAT is flying!

Frying u mean?

Apart from having xenophobic tendencies, South Africans re lovely people.

I love their culture and language (the one they use in their contemporary songs).

I also love their dancing style (the one, where they raise their legs and then stamp them on the ground,repeatedly).

I love playing SA amapiano beats....in fact, I had one amapiano mix on repeat since last week....dope hits.

I love their musical artists like, deep London, bohle, kaspa nyovest, aka, and the likes.



Samantha124, pls write abt their cultures, food,language, population, regions where they re found, etc.



Also, is marrying a south African Lady as expensive as marrying a south Eastern Nigerian lady?

Easylife2020:
i left home 4yrs ago because of hardship and move to abuja if there will be a better opportunity, still hoping for better opportunity and managing my life here in Abuja . i enter into a relationship with a lady, this lady got pregnant for me, we both decide to keep the pregnancy and get married i was somehow worry because of my present financial status but i summon courage and asked her to take me to her parent.

She took me to the woman she claimed to be her mother, but the woman open up for me that shes not her biological mother that she only asked for the lady to stay with her to train her.

However, We open up to the woman about the pregnancy. thinking the woman we eat me up, but to my surprised, she started calling the girl all sorts of names, she told me the bad characters of the lady. she narrated how the lady has been telling her she's is always a virgin, that she's not in for any boyfriend talkless of sex (me i didn't meet her virgin) Another thing that scared me is that the woman said the lady's village is tough and since she brought the lady to her house, they have being facing different attacks and things stop going well.... and so on. Now the woman said since I've got the lady pregnant i should prepare to follow her and the lady to the village to see her biological parent and introduce me to them that i will be the one to pay all the transport fare for the journey (now, i don't have enough money).

Another issue is about all these things the woman said about this lady, i'm seriously afraid to show up again for the journey to the village or to marry her. None of my family member is here with me. three days ago my phone screen got broken and cant get any of my relatives contacts. i'm alone here in Abuja.

Now i'm thinking to pack my things and run away.

Your Advice please.

Lol.....u want to pack and run away.




What were the things she told u about the the girl? Did u notice them in ur relationship with her?


If the girl is a good girl then forget what the woman told u and stick to her. But I will advise u shelve marrying her now until after the birth of ur baby

Drjones109:

Yesterday, I told my ladies you can marry a man who you are older than if he is God's will for you, you respect and admire him, he is not a mummy's boy, he is more mature and wiser than you are and the age gap is not too much.

Some ladies blatantly told me a man who is younger than they are CAN NEVER be God's will for them.

Some guys with ego issues also argued with the post claiming Adam was created before Eve so God is against that kind of marriage and it can never be His will!

To start with, if you use your head to analyse the scriptures, you will become very confused! The Bible is not written by logic, it is written by the Holy Spirit, you need your spiritual dimension to explain the things of the spirit lest you miss God and your miracle! I won't be going into unnecessary arguments lest someone experiences analysis paralysis!

No where from Genesis to Revelation is it written a woman must marry a man older than her or she will go to hell fire! Nothing under heaven makes it wrong, bad, sinful or against God's will!

You can only have issues marrying a man younger than you are if you don't respect him, he is not honourable! He doesn't have a good source of income, he is emotionally, physically, financially, psychologically immature, he fears you, he is not man enough to husband you, he fears you, etc!

What makes you respect a man is not age , it is MATURITY. Maturity is the acceptance of responsibility! How mature is he?

There are men far older than their wives who are very irresponsible and immature! They don't take any leadership role in the home and feed off their wives 24\7 all the days of their lives without any shame! They are not handicapped, nothing, they just chose to be irresponsible!

And there are husbands who are younger than their wives who are very responsible, more mature, wiser than their wives and take their leadership role in the home very serious.

Their wives bless God daily for blessing them with godly husbands, submit to their leadership, honour them, adore them and celebrate them.

Its better you marry a man who who is godly though younger and enjoy your marriage than a devil incarnate though decades older than you are!

The age gap should not be too much though. 1-3 years is okay. Women have the tendency to look older than their husbands especially when they are on the big side. You will do well to watch your weight, stay trim, match your husband's looks and endeavour not to look far older than you are. Having a small, trim stature is a big plus in this regard.

However, this is not a rule! It is not compulsory you must marry a man you are older than. If you honestly feel you can't cope for reasons best known to you and you know it is not God's will for you, please don't try it, your marriage will not work.

The post is basically for those who know the man is God's will for them but are confused because he is younger!

May you not be confused!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

My fiancee is older than me by 2 yrs....but she loves n respects me

Omo see so-called DSS agent English abeg.....this is what man know man can cause.


Una go leave people wey dey intelligent carry sensitive work like this give people wey no know their left from right.

peteregwu:


Dey play. That's the usdcad I have been holding.

Seen it...sorry abt that

Lillyagu90:


Check dear it has gone over 100pips. Followed him on this.

Ok

peteregwu:


I shared this usdcad last week or so and now it's in profit. It's 120pips in profit now. I no dey play.

This guy never reach 120 pips since u posted it na

ogashman:
Time to sell GU
Entry 1.2406
SL 1.2430

Closed with 14 pips loss....seems bulls are still in charge

OfficialP:


been a while boss mi

Yes boss, went on sabbatical but I'm back now....wishing u blue pips today

saintelvnn:


I wanted to say calm down boss...
Blue pips all the way

Thanks...let's see how it will pan out

Time to sell GU
Entry 1.2406
SL 1.2430

Facelessforum1:
I am still confused

Confused about what? Guy, some broke guys re dating very beautiful girls. It all depends on ur game as a guy.


How can u be telling a girl, u re not financially buoyant to date her.....ur orientation about dating as a whole is already skewed and I bet, with this mindset, u can't be successful with relationships.


I know one okada màn in my area, who should be in his early sixties. Even with age and the nature of his work, he still naking women way beautiful and who on a norms re above his league.

So it's all self esteem and game

Make una free that guy......soon fx go humble am then throw am into oblivion

HumbleTrader:
That buy doesn't look sustainable in the long run. It's only safe to scalp.

I know...the trade has moved over 50 pips since he made the call. So it is a good call. One thing about fx is bank some pips and bounce if not u might regret it no matter the direction of the mkt

Donsheddy:


Boss i really don't know what vap is but g.u has high bull momentum it will be suicidal to sell now...
I've got my s.l in place and risk so no worries

And you were right....GU has blown off the roof..

Monfkers, and mc oludetergent is still walking free

MusaChukwudi:


When are you BSTDS going back to the east?

We are fed up with you…..

Mumu boy.... Igbo's ain't going anywhere....we Wi remain and buy the remnant of ur ancestral lands....foolish boy. I'm sure I were against Biafra and now want igbos to leave...oponu like u

Almantra:
Pls how can I overcome this act of talking while am alone .I did not notice this until of recent my friend told me he was all listening to what am saying while he was at the door before knocking and my Room mate also approached me before the election break that why do i laugh and talk alone and that even today he heard me talking at the bathroom .I told him I will stop he said that it will be hard to overcome.so I started noticing my activities and I discovered that what they awer saying is True ,because I even create my own jokes and start laughing at them . I don't know the cause of this was it because that I was always alone and introverted. I am 24 going to 24

I started to shut my self off whenever I start but it's hard pls who has any recommendation for me to overcome this became I don't want it to grow to the extent that people may think am insane.

I feel it's unusual... Why would one be talking to himself or even laughing when u re all alone.... I ran away from one of my crushes when I realized she does something.


I'd be talking to her over the phone and she would be talking...when I asked her who she was talking to, she would say "herself". That's how she is wired.... I found it weird and bailed

Pentagon007:

Well, my monthly take home is 97,000 Franc Cefa.
Basic Salary: 50,000 Franc Cefa.
Lesson fee: 47,000 Franc Cefa ( I have 4 lessons i handle)
It is an English school. So, Most of the Children in the School are Nigerians with few Benenoiuse.
NOTE : The currency here have more value than Naira, so if exchanged, my salary will be above 100,000 naira. And also, i am looking forward to a salary upgrade.

Thank u boss

Pentagon007:
Hello guys. I am currently in Benin republic. I came over here last year, around August. I am into teaching work here. Life here is easier than in Nigeria. Most Nigerians here are Igbo people doing business. BTW, I am Igbo myself.
Over here there is steady light, Steady water supply, the streets are well paved and with street light. Security is Good, You can literally walk around by any time of the night you choose without fear of being robbed or anything whatsoever. I am not in Cotonou or Porto Novo, i am in a city called Bohicon and I must mention that i got the work before i came over here.

Can I have an idea of ur monthly salary? Is it better compared to what Nigerian teachers get?

In 2015,total votes cast was 28 million.

In 2019, it was 26 million.

Then in 2023, even with the increase in the number of new/first time voters and wide publicity the election received, the total number of vote cast was less than 24 million.


We all saw the massive turn out of voters. So normally the number of votes cast is supposed to be in the region of 32-35 million.

From this observation, it is safe to say that a lot of persons were disenfranchised by systematic manipulations by inec or by physical intimidation by security personnel and political thugs.

Hope he didn't vote for PDP?

sarrki:
Baba Buhari you have failed God and humanity

You pay good deeds with evil

You will be rewarded in good time 9 more days to go

Asiwaju is the next president

All Apc governors and G5 should follow Elrufai style

U don turn wailer finally.... So buhari is no longer ur Darling daddy?


The sweets go go round... E just dey start

David160:
Do u ever think that maybe we're judging Tinubu too harshly.

Am voting for Peter obi on the 25th but if Tinubu does end up winning, I don't think he'll be as bad as most people think.

I read his manifesto, which was quite good I must say, very realistic and achievable. Yesterday I read the recommendations that he made to the Cbn here >> https://www.legit.ng/nigeria/1519566-tinubu-schools-cbn-governor-emefiele-reveals-6-naira-scarcity-crisis/

They were very good and practical steps that could end the crisis.

Peter obi is without a doubt the best candidate and the best choice for Nigerians in 2023, but my advice is that you take some time off Twitter and do your own research into Tinubu.

PS : I no be Urchinz ooo

The question is "can tinubu defend that manifesto"?

No be to write be koko.....anyone could write it for him....if he so intelligent like u said, he would have attended the debate yday to sell himself

Tinubu is on his way to the debate.... Our car just passed him now

As an urchin, when I saw that majority of comments in this thread re supporting Obi...my head started headaching me

Deicide:
Have they paid anyone yet?

Lol....u just dey after the money when work never start

Berrityga:
the person without sense here is you. Ussd, ATM card, banking app. You want to tell me all three don't have network. Your a mumu man.

Na u no get sense bros