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In banking laws/security detail, there are laid down security procedures that the banks must have before they open to customers.as long as this is done, they can't be held liable for any loss of cash not deposited as at the time of robbery.robbers wen de hold police station to ransome before dem rob bank na u de tell bank to provide more security?from where na? The crux of the matter is...as long as cash is still with you before the robbery, "you are on your own".

What the OP said isn't far from the truth,but this happens cos most times we call their CCRs,we are almost already boiling mad and they respond in same manner-even though it's unprofessional.for over one year I haven't been attended to by a rude staff.they've all been nice and profer solution for whatever my enquiry is-this is cos I always start out nice,polite and determined.they hear me talk and are forced to treat me right(I myt be an MD calling-LOL).it took practice anyway,but it has always worked for me and I've always gotten good service from them.

How about the situation where the supposed sinner who needs to be excommunicated is the leader of the church whom everyone is too scared to admonish?

@ OP, you're a good man and your type is very rare to come by. Don't listen to those that are saying she must have actually cheated on you and probably had an abortion cos she would have just done the abortion,cleaned herself up and you won't even know(seeing as you guys don't leave in same town)... Enjoy your lives...you both deserve it.

Having a CS does not make you less of a woman.had my first child through a section cos was told his heartbeat was going faint.when my mum and MIL heard,the only thing i was hearing was "why now? You for talk make we go church".i just told them to leave me be as i cant mortgage my life for thier fanatical belief in a man called pastor.gave birth to my 2nd and 3rd children through elective surgery anapart from my hubby nobody knows as we gave birth in the UK cos we got tired of the criticisms.for me,d only side effect is d big tummy.LOL.naija CS was painful sha but the other sections abroad was a walk-over as i could do my normal routine tasks after 5 weeks.

I kindda feel the writer.no matter how religious or educated i have turned out to be,there are some things that cannot be discountenanced...take for instance, my elder sis died on the day she told us she was going to die. She followed some neighbours to the river,came back home and said she was a mermaid and that she met her spirit mother who told her she will return to her on her 17th birthday.she was 10 then.she insisted and got married at the age of sixteen,actually told my pops he was wasting money on her education,gave birth 3mnts to her 17th birthday and died on her 17th birthday.she wasnt sick,no suicide case.she just called all of us together,told my pops to make sure i go to school no matter what cos i was going to go places before my 25th birthday.advised everyone and just slept off up until today.funny,since my 25th birthday up until today,i get favours left right and centre that im kindda forced to believe that somewhere beyond this life,unexplanable things do go on!my take!

700...Or less?

It's her belief...she should be left to stand for her faith.had a customer whom we opened an account forthat eneded with 666.she got her ATM card and it also had 666 amongst the PAN.she went but came first thing the next day crying and wailing that we should give her her money as she doesnt want to bank with us anymore.she said that she dreamt and she got the mark of the beast-we closed the account and opened another one.that's beliefs for you.leave them be.

Adulterous!

I got really depressed when i had my son which got worsened by the presense of my MIL as she expected me to do the cooking for her few days after having a c-section.i totally just ignored her cos i wasnt prepared to go to an early grave.i had to give hubby an ultimatum to send her home before i go crazy. PPD is real and it's easier to handle when one is aware of it.

@Annie2good...lol. You are very funny!but correct.thats what i feel but how do you tell that to a friend who is hurting from such harsh words said to her?

@mrbrownjay...actually a friend's complaint...like u said they married for d wrong reasons cos she got pregnant and the guy insisted they must get married as he doesnt want kids out of wedlock.unforunately she has 4 girls now.the hubby wants a MALE child!!!how can this marriage be worked on?

What do you do when your spouse is more concerned about his family than about you? Especially when he tells it to your face that after God it is his extended family before you.