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Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by mmimahbub(m): 11:07am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Very expensive 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by squaddy(m): 11:10am On Dec 15, 2013 |
milychocs: You can only cheat with someone you are familiar with cuz you cannot meet a stranger and in the next 30 seconds his d**k is in ur backside...you are supposed to have seen the signs the nigga or the lady is throwing at you..now if you do not want to make that CHOICE of banging him/her you would have severed the ties or increase the border line...it takes at least 5 minutes to get unclad and slot d**k in pussy...you cannot tell me you did all that without being fully aware of what you are getting into so don't give me that...and for all the niggas supporting the idea that cheating is a mistake, you have officially been inducted into the DUMB LOVERS ASSOCIATION but you just don't know it 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by olatpic(m): 11:17am On Dec 15, 2013 |
mikyke: Hello friends my name is IK, this was or still is the experience I had/am having as the case maybe. I may not be a constructive writer but will try to pass the message across in simple words and as short as possible. It sounded much like my experience...just that in my own case..she really cheated and got pregnant and the guy did "Ben Johnson". I also toyed with the idea of taking responsibility for the pregnancy because I truly loved her and couldn't imagine letting her go after 2years..but I got scared of the repercusion of such actions in the future (Thanks to all this nollywood movies I had watched ) @OP, I don't understand the rational behind the ladys action - allowing you to suffer for 2weeks and not even calling you until you called her. (Mehn..that too much suffering o..I have been there). Could it be that she was really pregnant..and aborted it? Just thinking out loud! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Sike(m): 11:27am On Dec 15, 2013 |
I think the OP needs to test her so-called "Strong Love" too like, confessing that he too has been cheating on her and that he just discovered he's now HIV positive. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by mmimahbub(m): 11:35am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Something like this once happened to my friend. He has been dating this girl for almost 6 years. They were classmates during primary school and fortunately they got admission same year into the university. He got a 5 year course while she got 4 years. Together they struggled after her first year to change her course so that he will be ahead of her and successfully they did. He does everything for her including registration, accommodation , sickness, going home or resuming , even getting materials for her course. Infact, she was even like a sister to him. All of a sudden after her 3rd year she started friending/dating other guys esp one guy in particular who wasn't a student. He claimed to be a staff of oil company in Ibadan but he spents almost 2 weeks in town and he claimed it's just because of her.My friend has been cautioning her but she kept playing him and dodging. After some months she called my friend and surprised him of getting pregnant but refused to tell the owner. He helped her go for pregnancy test and it was comfirmed 2 months + . They had to travel to another state to avoid any hospital around which they might meet a family member of friend. After several visits to the hospital, the pregnancy was successfully aborted. They came back to school with the secret. Few days after, she called my friend with another surprise again! This time around it was not another hit but to inform him that the mystery behind her pregnancy was uncovered! It was her ex-boyfriend that did juju on her and it was not even a pregancy but just and illusion that appeared. Meanwhile, she made sure all the tests and hospital papers were in her possession before updating him about the issue.... That's the point when my friend vex and broke the story. But the story is limited since there are no traces, evidences, witness or anything. Fear devil, Fear woman I tell you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by berbajiday(m): 11:37am On Dec 15, 2013 |
touchplay: Omor....ma gal has done worst ni...... Imagine a gal. I 'v bleeped uncountable times with out coats on..called mi phone on a gud day,n ws crying 4 allmost an hour...i felt lyk dieing wen she finally told mi she went 4 test in †ђξ morning,n she ws HIV+....it sounded so real,cos she ws kinda ill during dat period....i nearly die. Thank God i didnt go with my mind 2 drop 4rm were i ws receiving †ђξ call,my pent house. Mehn,no b small tin.....my head jst swell up,cm n see cold n sweat @ same time all over mi body....i took evritin maturely sha,n passed †ђξ f**king test...buh i warned her seriously,neva 2 play with ma feelings again..cos dat kinda test cud take smones life......gals n dia brain. Smh Buhahahahahahahahaha, Azzin hilarious tho |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 11:37am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Temptee101: Thank you for proving our point. So the Op, already knew she was preg and did an abortion all this while. The Op, is mad. He is just a confused being who doesnt know what he really wants. He shud do whatever he wishes. Dont know blw d Op and d girl who is worst. I rest my casei tot as much i didnt wana say it. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 15, 2013 |
you had passed her test and i will like you as well to test her. who knows weather she has gone ahead to abort it? tell her that both of you will go to check if she has not commited abortion. Ladies can go extra mile to get what they want.am talking from experince bro. All the best. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Champella(m): 12:04pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Na wa o. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Champella(m): 12:06pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Hmmmmmm! It is well 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by banito1(m): 12:33pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Tales by moonlight. Garrat!!! You fool |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by chronique(m): 12:50pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Hell no!!! I have failed a similar kind of test in the past and will still fail it tomorrow. The last thing I wanna hear is that you "bleeped" another man. It can make me go totally mad and destroy my life. I can't "STAND IT". If a girl should test me like that,we're breaking up;simple. The girl who tested me with this kind of stuff was angry when I said she should abort the damn child. She said I didn't care about her losing her life in the process. I told her I wasn't ready to explain to my family how I'm marrying a young girl who's carrying another man's child. It's a different ball game if I'm marrying a single mother. My father would always say this: "you can't work in coca-cola and earn salary in john holt". Whether you like it or not,let me be clear and sincere here: this is a very wrong way to test a man. Chances of losing him are 99.99%. Ladies,be warned. Don't make the mistake of trying this with your man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by andyanders: 12:55pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Well, that your so called test get as the something is. Let us assume that she actually cheated on you and wanted to know if you actually loved her by telling you she cheated on you same time is pregnant for another man, you triedoooooooooooooo. Joke is a joke, but let this not turn to be that she has been cheating on you for real and later, same trust you have on her to cheat more knowing fully well, you are a man who forgives. I will take her to a doctor to actually find out if she got pregnant within certain period of time or that she had an abortion. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Chrisx1x(m): 1:26pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
If it were me i wuld gradly fail the test,you got pregnant for a guy and the guy is no where to be found and you claimed to luv me,abeg GO TO HELL |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by thehunted(m): 1:35pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Nifemi_cutie: u're every gals dream..wow!!! Am really touch dat a man like dis stil exist.she s xo lucky i pray wen my time cums i shud be also lucky to find my own man ^^^^^ shut up u cheap thing. So every girls dream na this mugu guy. Op,pls Be wise. All These people cant be wrong. How old are you sef?? Is she your first girlfriend?? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Plumkin(f): 1:36pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
I think these kinds of tests are just unnecessary; a by-product of a twisted mind. It is like begging for something that will still be handed to you whether you want it or you don't. If we are still breathing, Tests Always happen in Life. We usually don't have a say on when, how or what it is. Those tests, that mother nature herself brings our way, are the real tests of virtue: strength,faith, love, loyalty, good morals etc.. Dear Poster, I think you played your part well. If you are truly in Love with your girl, I believe you'll never have cause to regret your actions. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by anitank(f): 1:57pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
ichidodo: But there is exception to that as in this case the O.P is an E-diot and both of you can take it to the bank.Which bank? Do they open on Sundays? |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by WackyJ1(m): 2:57pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
milychocs: SassyKwin: IN MY GIRLISH OPINION shilling: Hmmmm...why did she wait for 2 weeks though? Very odd. nekaa: She get mind o, how could she have waited for 2weeks leaving you in obvious pain before she came out with was she called the truth..... I couldn't have done such an expensive test, the risk in it are over the roof. temmysoremekun: Wowwww.......as i read thru ds i felt like crying...i know its a true life story....ds is so deep....it was an expensive joke/ test cos in d process she would have lost you...but i can seeee dt ur love is so deep...i can't do ds to test a man......bbut i conly wish dt God will make our men love us so deeply like ds n also God will help us ladies too to love our men sincerly...so dt there won't be need of testing d genuinity of the love. thegeorgy: yea 2 weeks is too long.if it were me,before you decide to come to KD,i would have told you its a prank or before you u even leave for Abuja,i'll come out clean.she might not be into you as much as u think.cos playing this kind of prank is too the extreme if at all it is...i believe someone was there stealing her attention from you within those weeks,cos for the sake of love,i CAN NEVER wait that long to tell u its a joke.a woman in love cant stay that long without getting in touch. u love her fact but she dooesn't love you that much,maybe she likes u cos u are nice guy and she's just hanging on to you till she finds someone she loves make e no be like say she no get serious relationship. OP LADIES HAVE SPOKEN. A WORD THEY SAY IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Onyenna(m): 3:26pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
lertee: That was too expensive but it was worth it. How do girls even get idea on how to test their partners,i heard it is good to do so once in a while. I've never done it. ,though i have never had a reason to test him. My dear, I'm glad you're yet to try such a 'Horrible' thing... Such a thing is very likely to ruin any relationship....OP's case is just one in a million.... @OP, she's truly lucky to have you....in fact, it's a miracle that you're still in that relationship...Such an EXPENSIVE joke...what she did is sickening.... You DARE not joke with such things!!! She even allowed you to travel all the way! "To and fro" that's bullsh*t!!! Just pray she loves you as much as you love her! Peace! |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Mannylex(m): 4:00pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
She doesnt love you and thatz a fact. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by coretechng1(m): 4:10pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
YcBeat: Op lemme make this clear to you, STOP being used like an utensil.........she had an ABORTION!!! It was cool to her wen she was doing d s.ex thang and since d other guy ran away, she wants to console herself with coming back to you.......BE WISE BROTHER, ITS NO TEST, USE YOUR BRAIN!!! Pere.....my 2penny.Thanks for saying the bitter truth.No test anywhere.Two agonizing weeks in the name of testing loyality?She is just a lier and cannot be trusted.She was actully pregnant.In my imperfect opinion though. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by RoyaleR(m): 4:20pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Fourcade: The lady took a huge risk! I won't pity her if she lost you in the process.If you have been through with her after all these years,what further tests did she need? |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Saraha1(f): 4:21pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Op, at this junction. What is your final decision? |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by ohemm(f): 4:26pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
@ OP, you're a good man and your type is very rare to come by. Don't listen to those that are saying she must have actually cheated on you and probably had an abortion cos she would have just done the abortion,cleaned herself up and you won't even know(seeing as you guys don't leave in same town)... Enjoy your lives...you both deserve it. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by binhozie(m): 4:36pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
*clears throat* Its either the OP is two years old, or the OP is..errm..3 years old There are so many alarm bells in this story to cause deafness. 1. 1st your girlfriend of 3 years through thick and thin as you said, wakes up one morning, stretches and decides to test you (As the Exam body that she is) 2. The test, which shouldn't happen at all or shouldn't exceed 24 hrs, now lasts for two weeks!!! TWO WEEKS!!!! 3. The test wouldve lasted longer than two weeks if the OP hadn't called to reassure her. How long it wouldve lasted?? Let me ask Ifa 4. This Test wasn't terminated during the reassurance call from the OP, but a day or days later...wtf? OP, how fast can you run? 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by dagbokoncept(m): 4:43pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Princess Ella: Wow! Wow! Wow! Dudes lyk u are rare!Don't search too far am here |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by SassyKwin(f): 4:45pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
ohemm: @ OP, you're a good man and your type is very rare to come by. Don't listen to those that are saying she must have actually cheated on you and probably had an abortion cos she would have just done the abortion,cleaned herself up and you won't even know(seeing as you guys don't leave in same town)... Enjoy your lives...you both deserve it.RUBBISH !!! Learn to say the truth 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Burger01(m): 4:48pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
I think the babe should really get preggy and tell Op she is 5 months gone. Now, that's what I call test.. I bet Op go tear race. I really don't blame Uncle Adam for eating the forbidden fruit in that garden of Eden.. Women! Smh. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by coretechng1(m): 4:50pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
WackyJ1:Hahahahah |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by GentleFrank(m): 4:50pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Good ! |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
I like the honesty of some of the women here. The rest going "OMG wonderful story. I wish I can find my own OP you can only move forward properly if you do your utmost to check the facts you are being spoon-fed by this girl and her sister or you will feel like a fool forever all your life always wondering what really happened....and you know this. After verifying the facts, THEN you can honestly settle your mind...otherwise you would be deceiving yourself as it will ALWAYS come up in your mental. The time span to get that check done is rapidly decreasing.... The fact derived from this fact checking is what you can then forgive....not the spoon-fed facts that is a possible lie. That would be manipulation. Unless you KNOW it really happened (and that she is lying), and you just don't care at this point. Sure you are not perfect, and nobody is perfect, but you would not be doing yourself a favor by marrying someone who would lie and cover up something like this from you (as it pertains Life and death) because she is trying to eliminate her guilt. That tendency to go this distance to eliminate guilt can come up in unsightly ways in the future e.g. The stuff required to kill and hide a body, afterall she has done it before. It is one thing to kill. It is another level entirely to lie about it. In all things, do whatever you must to be at peace with your spirit. This is the single greatest responsibility in everyone's life. Not school, work, relationship, etc. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Donjcco(m): 5:01pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Nuzo':I share the same tots with u bro. |
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