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Can I have the link to your website? I like to view your site first.

I agree with Madambini: 'stolen water tastes sweet'. And I must let you know that you are not alone in that struggle, a lot of women do it. So, dont let people with caustic tongues on this forum make you feel like dirt. You're just being human and woman. Everyone wants variety when it comes to sex, because 'variety is the spice of life'. Unfortunately it's too late to stop the lust. You've tasted and enjoyed the stolen water, and you'll always want more of it, either with the new man or another. Unless you get some genuine help, (sexual therapy) you'll always compare your husband's performance with the new man's. You would even be imagining him making love to you while your husband is physically doing it to you. That's why you need help. Not to mention the difficulty of ending the lust while you're both working in the same building. You need help; get help quick. Wish you well.

You're simply a wimp and an idiot to make such sweeping statement about our mothers, sisters, girl friends and wives.  Let's be honest about this, are you not the silly one who phoned her and invited her? God knows how long you spent on the phone and how many times you called before she agreed to your invite. And sex? virus?  how do you know she is coming for sex? Even if that's what she is coming for, is that not the reason you invited her in the first place? Could she force it on you if you dont want to? And what's wrong in two adults agreeing in private to explore friendship at whatever level? Have you never hear of something called condom that keeps the devious virus at bay?

Perhaps you dont realise the damage you did to the confidentiality of the forum by bringing into the open, the matters that you discussed in the corner of your room with an innocent, decent young woman that you met through the forum. That's a betrayal of trust. All the men of the world and all users of this forum deserve an apology from you, not to mention the millions of decent women whom you gave a bad name.