Family › Re: 16 Years Of Tears In My Marriage by ojukwu2(m): 3:18pm On Jul 14 |
Don't judge this case without hearing from the husband. I just saying this out of experience. amili66: I really wish I had never married this man. I dont know what is keeping me in the union but oh no, I dont have any happy time with him.
He is not committed at allllllllllllll, am in pain, deeply sad and sorrowful. He is promiscuous, have speech issues and maybe memory issues. Very had to please and make this difficult always.
He'd rather please outsider than me making me and the kids happy. When I got pregnant, I only received 100k from him to buy infants items as I had twins, I funded every other things and not that he doesnt have money. We build our house together but his family sees him as their Lord and this man train his cousins, nieces, and now had the mind to tell me again that he has adopted another child of his cousin to sponsor. He never pays our kids school fees 100%, I'll always have to balance the rest cos I do not want embarrassment from their school.
We moved abroad some years ago and no he says he'll drive my kids out of the house once they clock 14, but he is training his family children who are over 25 years old. Well, I don't have many, I can train them but I truly regret this marriage,
I am never going to advise anyone ot marry.
Coming abroad, this man would sit and call those in Nigeria for hours daily, he is never serious with his work and will chose to work form home until he got sacked and since then he's being struggling to get a job and I am getting blammed daily. He said his friends called him to warn him never to give me a smiling face, they dont know I have never had a smiling face from him and this man has gone from bad to worst.
You all who it to read social media comments over men who cry woes abroad, if I leave this one now and he comes on social media, you all will start to condemn the woman without listening to her. Am in pain, it has gone from worse while in Nigeria to worst here abroad. Everyday he says marriages dont work abroad, regret coming but go back he is refusing saying we must all go back with him. I cant, I rather remain here and cut off from all my friends and family.
Maybe I remained in the marriage because of shame from people around. And I am not from that loving family so they'll laugh me.
Am so sad; at times, I just feel I never said yes to him, I had many other suitors. but I considered him because he was nice then, things changed the very first day we got married, he started telling me all the evil advise his family had advised him.
I regret building with him; I should have invested on my own.
He has never bought even a shirt for his kids, shoes, toys, christmas cloths, nothing, i Mean notihng, never. when their school asked they buy laptops, he said they are not of the age, nothing. But this man dishes out money to others. I have been supportive enough, but still not appreciated. All i get is name calling, I have never since our marriage of 16 years received a gift, I dont know what it looks like. They have never owrn christmas dress bought by their father. |
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Shoes were what Peter lacked when he went to school. |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ojukwu2(m): 10:07am On Nov 05, 2021 |
Hello. These are used 2x single sitters and 1x double sitter sitting room sofas (used items). All the items are in good condition. This is a clearance sale. Price 70k. Contact 0 9 0 5 1 2 5 3 5 4 5. Thanks
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ojukwu2(m): 9:33am On Nov 04, 2021 |
Hello. These are used 2x single sitters and 1x double sitter sitting room sofas (used items). All the items are in good condition. This is a clearance sale. The price is 90k. Contact: 0 9 0 5 1 2 5 3 5 4 5. Location is Obadare Igando Lagos. Thanks
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Politics › Re: Femi Fani-kayode: The Enemy Within – A Final Warning To Nigerians by ojukwu2(m): 3:12pm On Feb 05, 2021 |
This is how they killed my neighbor who went to work at a building site in Isheri Lagos state last December. A 50 years old father of 7 children who lost his wife four months before. His crime? He "resembles" someone that stole their motorcycle the previous day. The man pleaded with them that he knew nothing about the motorcycle, that he just came there to work.
Even the man he was working for, whom the fulanis knew very well came to plead with them promising to buy 2 motorcycles for them.
Over 30 fulani Okada riders gathered round my neighbor and beat him to death. He was buried yesterday the 4th February. May his soul rest in peace. I feel for his 7 children who lost both parents under 4 months. The eldest is 17 years. |
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Saw this one on quora too.
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Died young leaving a good looking corpse. Rip bro. |
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