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FamilyRe: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by okafor67(f): 6:18pm On Sep 29, 2022
Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.
9weeks without communication. Congratulations on ur divorce
CrimeRe: Northerners Jubilant On The Shias Killed (graphic) by okafor67(f): 11:07am On Aug 14, 2022
The hate in Islam is too much. All over nonsense
RomanceRe: She Has Gone Worst by okafor67(f): 2:46pm On Aug 12, 2022
Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.
How old are u
RomanceRe: She Has Gone Worst by okafor67(f): 2:45pm On Aug 12, 2022
Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.
How old are you
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by okafor67(f): 8:28am On Jul 11, 2022
igbizen:
I found out that my Axa Mansard was removed from my portfolio when I asked my broker they said it’s not registered in CSCS. I found out that axa mansard readjusted their shares last year. I had 200,000 shares last year. Sold 50,000 from balance 150,000. All of a sudden it disappeared. My MTN shares also disappeared. I have been disturbing my broker. All they keep telling me is that they are working on it. A few days ago, the MYN shares appeared together with UPREIT ( UPREIT- which I don’t have in my portfolio and I have never bought before). After somedays both the MTN and UPREIT disappeared again. Please what else should I do? Apart from waiting for my broker?
Who is your broker
PoliticsRe: Ifeanyi Onejeme Debunks Fake News About Peter Obi's Investment In SABMiller by okafor67(f): 8:59am On Jun 22, 2022
Pipefitter:
This same thing was posted yesterday as an investigation from Thecable.

https://www.nairaland.com/7189779/peter-obis-12.24m-investment-breweries

I don't know how Anambra commissioner pulled something online and signed it.
First I think we should verify the source of the news, now let's assume it's authentic, a lot of people who read that will fail to understand that the investment made profit considerably, excluding the dividends the must have gotten over the years, the value of the shares has grown from 1.9B to about 2.2B.

Get it, the investment was made in naira, now the exchange rate of dollar made it less than the invested amount, who do you blame for that? Who's accountable for a country's economy?
We a minority that think in Nigeria.
Nigerians don't read and think critically.
The investment has actually made a lot of money over the years but buharis destruction of the naira and inflation has made it look like it's lost money. Who ever is trying to push this false narrative of a massive loss is dishonest
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by okafor67(f): 7:24am On Jun 18, 2022
BabsO2:
Looking closely,

GTCO & UBA had significant net dumping by top fund managers based on this limited snapshots. Those with Morningstar premium access will see more. But this is fair enough info I guess.

While FBNH seem to have gotten a confidence vote from MAZI.

Not a bad idea to take these free snapshots monthly to get an idea of what some analysts holding peoples funds are doing.
Please what is Morningstar premium access and how can one get it
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by okafor67(f): 7:14am On Jun 18, 2022
yMcy56:
NSEMPA is quiet.
It's well o.

* Meanwhile, ZENITH's Dividend yield as at today's closing price, 21.95 is 13.93%......The stock with highest dividend yield in NSE so far......
* Followed by GTCO; 13.86%@21.50
* Followed by UBA 13.16% @7.55
* Followed by MANSARD 11.74% @2.04
** Next: UCAP 11.63% @13; FIDELITY 10.63% @3.26: ACCESS 10.47% @9.55
One question. I thought wapco was the company with the highest dividend yield last year. I am planning on investing heavily in them . What do u think

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