Thanks for all the contributions. I really appreciate them

NOW I'M MUCH MORE CONFUSED , NO WHY ME , CAN SOMEONE JUST SAY SOMETHING REASONABLE? If I'm to condemed tell me why and what did I do wrong?, If I should do something else please tell me. PLEASE !!!!!!!!!

Well Thanks you you all. It;s only because you dont understand what has happened to me in the past. A date of 8yrs with no other girl claiming she's a virgin and later came up with a pregnancy I know nothing about. A girl I never touch for 8 good years why wont I mess arround after all? It's just a big shame that I have been a fool for 8yrs , I need advise on what to do at this stage. The mistake has been made and notthing can change it. Please I'm sorry, this goes to everyone. Need a solution to my life that's all

I don’t know what to do about these people, I'm having a girl (Gbemisola) that we have been dating for 10 yrs now she just some months younger than I do, but she seems not to be the person I know since we have started dating, she has totally changed and I know she did not have any other man but me, maybe this is her behaviours since we have been dating but the love I have for her blind folded me this far. A friend always tells me that I have pamper her too much when I was still in love that makes her the last born , lol. But now I think the love has gone. She has made everything hard for me. mmmm , The most funny part is that she just had a baby for me 2 weeks ago and I love my daughter. My parents did not know the kind of behaviour she's having but they want me to get married to her as soon as possible, not because they like her but for the fact she's having a baby for me.

Sometimes 2008 I met this small girl (Tolu) she's 9 years younger, but parole I used to enter her was different (I only want to have sex), then she used to tell me she has a boyfriend and we keep having sex. Later I realized that she has never set her eyes on this guy she talks about and the first time this guy came the had sex and after she did not love her again. There was still other guy that made love to her when she first enter to her school and she mad me to know she terminated a pregnancy for him just once and after all these she wants me and want to marry me. She's very good, respectful and stuff like that, even if she gets you annoyed she will apologies just immediately and make sure everything goes well. Even Gbemisola testified that she's such a wonderful girl but I never love her. She knows I have some other girls I date like 7 of them. She advised me to quit all these girls and stick to one not know I will quit her if I take to her advice. Not later soon I took to her advice

The day I was deciding to take to her advice I met another Girl (Mary), wow this girl is brilliant, beautiful, prayerful she is more than TOLU but she's AGRESSIVE AND EAZILY GET MAD ABOUT ANYTHING. This is just the only problem she's having and it has became part and all of her but I LOVE HER MOST. Now I took to the advice of TOLU but I was left with Gbemisola (because she was pregnant then) and Mary (because I love her)

Now I'm facing these troubles from them both and I have quit the relations between Tolu and I and she has new boyfriend.

NOW I'M CONFUSED OF WHAT TO DO.

THE ONE I LOVE GETS MAD (ANNOYED), THE MOTHER OF MY DAUGHTER LACKS UNDERSTANDING AND GETS ANNOY MOST TIMES AND THE GOOD GIRL IS GONE

I'M CONFUSED !!!!! I'M CONFUSED !!!!! I'M CONFUSED !!!!!

Please Advise me on what to do

Please I'm having a sum N200,000 now and i dont know the kind of business to go into that will make profit for me. I have sometime spend a lot of money on different kind of business which I lost all my money there in. I'm not very young but I have just been looking for away forward inlife and I think I'm finding it difficult. I dont want this token to waste as i have wasted over N300,000 on DSTV show sometimes 2007 and also wasted about 600,000 on Traveling and about N 200,000 on FOREX Trading.

Please Help me out this time I DONT WANT THIS TO BE A WASTE AGAIN. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks to everyone that contributed to this post. I think by now I should have known what exactly I have for here and I'm taking this step right away. THANKS SO MUCH EVERYONE

Guy, this is not only your issue but it's for both of you. She does COMPLAIN about the age issue, that means she is even bothered about it herself. Well just NOTE one day she might conclude on leaving you and the will hurt your heart not eveen hurt your heart but will break your heart. WATCH OUT!!!!

This is a gal I met sometimes last year, she lives about 4hrs 30mins far from me. She has came to my place 3 times now but i have never went there for once, she has always bring something for me each time she comes, Now she insist that this time it's my turn to come. A very first time to go to her Please I DONT KNOW WHAT TO BUY FOR HER and it's almost Valentine.

2 YEARS? men it's getting a long way try and make decision. But my advise for you is that never get married out of pity, and make sure you dont beg her for no reason, if she loves you she will definitely come back.