I don’t know what to do about these people, I'm having a girl (Gbemisola) that we have been dating for 10 yrs now she just some months younger than I do, but she seems not to be the person I know since we have started dating, she has totally changed and I know she did not have any other man but me, maybe this is her behaviours since we have been dating but the love I have for her blind folded me this far. A friend always tells me that I have pamper her too much when I was still in love that makes her the last born , lol. But now I think the love has gone. She has made everything hard for me. mmmm , The most funny part is that she just had a baby for me 2 weeks ago and I love my daughter. My parents did not know the kind of behaviour she's having but they want me to get married to her as soon as possible, not because they like her but for the fact she's having a baby for me.

Sometimes 2008 I met this small girl (Tolu) she's 9 years younger, but parole I used to enter her was different (I only want to have sex), then she used to tell me she has a boyfriend and we keep having sex. Later I realized that she has never set her eyes on this guy she talks about and the first time this guy came the had sex and after she did not love her again. There was still other guy that made love to her when she first enter to her school and she mad me to know she terminated a pregnancy for him just once and after all these she wants me and want to marry me. She's very good, respectful and stuff like that, even if she gets you annoyed she will apologies just immediately and make sure everything goes well. Even Gbemisola testified that she's such a wonderful girl but I never love her. She knows I have some other girls I date like 7 of them. She advised me to quit all these girls and stick to one not know I will quit her if I take to her advice. Not later soon I took to her advice

The day I was deciding to take to her advice I met another Girl (Mary), wow this girl is brilliant, beautiful, prayerful she is more than TOLU but she's AGRESSIVE AND EAZILY GET MAD ABOUT ANYTHING. This is just the only problem she's having and it has became part and all of her but I LOVE HER MOST. Now I took to the advice of TOLU but I was left with Gbemisola (because she was pregnant then) and Mary (because I love her)

Now I'm facing these troubles from them both and I have quit the relations between Tolu and I and she has new boyfriend.

NOW I'M CONFUSED OF WHAT TO DO.

THE ONE I LOVE GETS MAD (ANNOYED), THE MOTHER OF MY DAUGHTER LACKS UNDERSTANDING AND GETS ANNOY MOST TIMES AND THE GOOD GIRL IS GONE

I'M CONFUSED !!!!! I'M CONFUSED !!!!! I'M CONFUSED !!!!!

Please Advise me on what to do

Mccccccccccccccchew!

See why they advice u should stick to one person? Different people different wahala. If I'm one of the girls (which is impossible) I wouldn't want to end up wit u. Well this puzzle is for u to figure out urself. Good luck

some ppl are f, cking jobless all they do all life is to hump around, imagine stupid story!

this is a wind up right

just a simple sentence from me 190

this poster is a HAIR OF A DOG!!

u wanna know wat to do? Die
silly story, hisses in every dialect

Stupid post 4rm an idiot. Eranko

@ poster

are you trying to brag that you're a player
when your were looking for holes to put your rod in you never knew the consequences
you're a confused person who doesn't have a vision for his life Mccccccccccccccchew!

You got yourself into this mess so get yourself out you don't need naira landers' advice,kabish!

Jumping from one woman to another. Where has that gotten you? Don't you have self control? See the kind of people coming around you- you only attract what you are! Like Economics tells you- human wants are limitless &insatiable. You can't want EVERYTHING my friend! No human being is perfect, even you. We work on our imperfections to make it easier for people to relate with us. Why don't you try and help someone around you/you love, manage their weaknesses? Anger can be controlled, provided the person accepts it and is willing to help himself/herself.
On the other note, you're expecting a baby by somebody- mindful of that, you are still jumping from one girl to another. If you re no longer interested in your child's mother at this stage, then that means you're not interested in your daughter. I only pity the woman- being pregnant for you and receiving these insults to boot. A child hasn't even come to the world and already the parents are thinking of giving her a single parented home.

Old player,
Another tale by moonlight

Should this topic be scarped?
those 4 say hi
those against say Na

Na has it,

solution, jump off a bridge

[size=16pt]shld i advise u on what to do?u need to visit a psychatric hospital.[/size]

pls don't be confused, just get some more new girls to calm your nerves

you are an a.ss hole

U r just a silly WASTEEEEEE MAN  
Utter rubbish
At ur age keep "HAVING" "HAVING"  

Im sorry how can you date someone for 10years? I stopped reading after that sentence.

dating for 10 years, thats

Well Thanks you you all. It;s only because you dont understand what has happened to me in the past. A date of 8yrs with no other girl claiming she's a virgin and later came up with a pregnancy I know nothing about. A girl I never touch for 8 good years why wont I mess arround after all? It's just a big shame that I have been a fool for 8yrs , I need advise on what to do at this stage. The mistake has been made and notthing can change it. Please I'm sorry, this goes to everyone. Need a solution to my life that's all

What a waste of my precious time!

i think this dude is sick

@ poster you're really really confused, you don't have any reason to be a He-Goat

You need deliverance

NOW I'M MUCH MORE CONFUSED , NO WHY ME , CAN SOMEONE JUST SAY SOMETHING REASONABLE? If I'm to condemed tell me why and what did I do wrong?, If I should do something else please tell me. PLEASE !!!!!!!!!

ogbadun!

A man comes here looking for advice and the only thing everybody here is doing is berating the man and raining abuses on him. Nairaland sef, abeg if you no get any thing to say move to another thread. @poster I think your major problems stems from having too many women around you. This leads you to say that Miss A is a good cook,Miss B is a good girl while Miss C is a freak in bed. You can not get every thing you want in one woman, the sooner you realize that the better. So pray about this matter and take stock of all your chics and choose the one you think you can live with forn the rest of your life AND STICK WITH HER FORGETTING OTHERS!!! If none of your present chics meet this criteria then discharge them all but for heavens sake never forget your responsibility towards your daughter

Thanks for reiterating that.
@OP, Are you trying to say the child she's carrying isn't yours? You never touched her for those eight years?
If yes, then what the heck are you talking about- 'your daughter this, your daughter that'. I don't get you!

@OP, Are you trying to say the child she's carrying isn't yours? You never touched her for those eight years?
If yes, then what the heck are you talking about- 'your daughter this, your daughter that'. I don't get you! Huh

u didnt get d picture. the one he dated for 8yrs is a diferent case and she's long gone and they never had sex. the one that has his daughter, her dated for 10yrs. ged it?

A man comes here looking for advice and the only thing everybody here is doing is berating the man and raining abuses on him. Nairaland sef, abeg if you no get any thing to say move to another thread. @poster I think your major problems stems from having too many women around you. This leads you to say that Miss A is a good cook,Miss B is a good girl while Miss C is a freak in bed. You can not get every thing you want in one woman, the sooner you realize that the better. So pray about this matter and take stock of all your chics and choose the one you think you can live with forn the rest of your life AND STICK WITH HER FORGETTING OTHERS!!! If none of your present chics meet this criteria then discharge them all but for heavens sake never forget your responsibility towards your daughter

GBAM

@ poster, i dont think u need any more advice other than this. u may b in a mess but its not the end of life

Silly thread.

initially going through this thread,i thought of how complicated your life is,and how stupid you are.but then you said you were deceived for 8 years.agreed that's enough to get you mad at everything,wanting to play every girl. this girl has gone now!abi?the best thing to do is to take a grip of your life now,before further complication. considering your daughter,you love her.don't you?you shouldn't let her be raised by a single parent.thats endangering the child. imho,i think you should stick to her mother.doesn't this saying still mean anything to you,if you cant be with the one you love,love the one you are with.shikenah! and bico,stop messing around!it isn't worth it!

Thanks for all the contributions. I really appreciate them

you are the problem of your misdemanour if only you can control your gullible desire its fine but if you go on with this way your marital life is at risk good luck