Question: How did he get into the house? Does he have a key? Or did your wife invite him in.
Whatever, you need to tell your wife, or else he will try again.

You need to warn him off visiting your house, calling your wife or being any where near her. If he fails to comply, expose the guy, notify the police. family, friends etc....

The wheel.
it is even used as a proverb - trying to reinvent the wheel.
other inventions have been reinvented, but not the wheel.
Fire, electricity etc were not inventions of man. Man simply sicovered them.
Fire is one of the natural elements of earth.
the natural elements are: wood, fire, metal, water and earth.

Abraham is neither an Arab nor a Jew.
Jews are technically descendants of Judah, the son of Jacob [Israel], the grandson of Abraham.
They later came to include the tribe of Benjamin [when the kingdom was divided into Israel and Judah] and descendants of other tribes who migrated to Jerusalem and its environs when the kingdom of Israel slipped into idolatory.
Arabs are daid to be descendants of Ishmael the biological first son of Abraham.

HELLO NAIRALAND!
COMPLIMENTS OF THE SEASON!
DOES ANYONE HAVE A IDEA IF AND WHERE ONE CAN GET PERSONALIZED DOG TAGS IN LAGOS?

THANKS FOR YOUR PROMPT REPLIES.

Dude!
How long do you have until your rent expires at your present location?
Engage an agent and start looking for another house.
At the appropriate time, inform your wife of your impending relocation and give her a conditional offer to join you - the return of her mother to her own place of abode.

I don't believe in divorce and would love for them to reconcile, but the way things are right now it is obvious that she is not thinking straight.
Maybe this alternative will jolt her senses and get her back on track.

If they beat you once - ok s, t happens!
Twice? ok coincidence
But 3ce - hey you have become an accessory to your own victimization.
Dont wait for a 3rd attempt.

HELLO!
CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHERE I CAN BUY CARVED WOODEN AFRICAN JEWELRY IN LAGOS?

SirJohn.
I am not a member of his church nor have any affeliation with the organisation.
I dont believe u. I dont see any reason why anyone should take your word for it.
It is easy for anyone to stand up and say what he likes on ablog behind a mask.
I could just as easily make outragious statements about you.
Who really knows the agenda or the agro that you have.
You say your faith was shaken - faith in who man or God!
'If anyman sees his brother commit a sin that is not unto death, he should prayer to the Father for life and restore that brother' Remember that quote from the bible?
Oga, get a life.
If you were busy making a success of yours you would not be spending time undermining others.

For all you Bishop Oyedepo Haters, on question?
How amny you have built anything, whether in your name, the name of someone else or God, that has been a blessing to anybody who is not directly connected to you?
If not, please take a chill pill.
1. No man is perfect, no matter what he has achieved.
2. No matter how smart or informed we think we are, we only know very little about life. So on the surface it might seem as if he was wrong to curse them,and you may be right, but on the other you might be wrong.
Remember,Mariam and Aaron confronted Moses about marrying a woman from another race. Their position was based on what God told them about interracial marriages.
The same God, confronted these two people about their effontry to criticize Moses (their younger brother). mariam was duly punished for it. God told them that normally talks to prophets in visions and dreams. Thru these means you cannot get an accurate interpretation or understanding of the information being bassed acrossed. With Moses there was no ambiguity, but face-to-face discussions.
What i am saying is that there is more to God & Life than what we know, so pls dont be eager to teard down amna who has dedicated his life to helping others.

yes we are!
I hope we also get barry without losing alonso.
still need a winger.
YNWA

a guy who says you re 'hot' is only thinking of you in a sexual way.
He has no thought for what you think or your values - he just wants to get you in the sack.
Hopefully, a guy who calls you beautiful has spent time observing you and has come to appreciate not only your physical beauty but your internal beauty which he has caught just a wisp of.

Hi
I am a guy and i can tell u that it is only a wimp or an exceptional man who can forgive his wife for cheating on him, no matter how many times he has done so. This might not be fair, but that is the way it is.
I think you need to ask God for forgiveness for this act and also forgive yourself.
I also think that your sexual problems with you husband could be as a result of one or both of the following:
1. You never really forgave him for the false accusations he made when you were dating. Thefore, you are unable to be vulnerable with him (which is needed to enjoy sex) - 'they were naked but not ashamed'.
2. He does not spend enough time on pre-intimacy or is not gentle in pre-intimacy or is not attentive enough to identify YOUR erogenous zones during pre-intimacy.
Sista! you also need to forgive him for the false accusations and also for the affairs.
Then you need to let him know that you are not getting 'enough' - not because is inadequate or inexperienced or because you are rigid but because you are both getting your wires crossed.
Please don't 'grin and bear it'. from what I have come to realise, for us men sex is fun but for women if done right is not only fun but enhances there psychological well being. I am not saying this to patronise you.
Finally, there are may predators out there who can detect a woman whose is in this state and prey on her.
don't be a victim again, at another man's choosing.

Hi dearie!
i would recommend that your friend forgive her, but let her go.
Forgive her in the sense that he hold no grudges or bitterness against her.
But he should not continue with the relationship because of the person she was involved with - his brother!
if he continues to see her, she will continue to come in contact with his brother, not by design but because of the family connection. this will give opportunities for them to succumb to the 'temptations of the flesh', whether they planned to or not.
This will eventually lead to serious breakdown in the relationship with his brother (imagine if she becomes pregnant by the brother). the whole family can be split in two at best or someone could experience grievous bodily harm or death.
The alternative would be for him to break relationship with his brother to sustain the relationship. When the family eventually becomes aware of the reason for this, she will become persona nongrata - an outcast and an enemy trying to destroy the family.
The relationship is not worth the pain it will eventually cause.
he is not God, so his loss to her will not be the end of her life - who knows the pain of losing him might actually be what she needs to set her life straight.
Let her go- pray for her to get the right partner and also for her financial wellbeing.
let him forgive his brother - then talk to him.
he needs to forgive him first so that he can tell his brother how he feels about the issue without emotions clouding his judgment - we would not want them getting physical, anything could happen!