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NOETHNICITY:
Here’s a refined, clearer version while keeping your tone and message intact:

You people can be funny sometimes.

Many years ago, my best friend and I applied for a federal government job. When it was time for the screening, interviews, and tests, he refused to go because he believed it was impossible to get an FG job without connections. I did everything I could to convince him to at least make an effort before drawing conclusions. He even promised to show up—but he never did.

Ironically, he had a better chance than I did, with his BSc and his brilliance.

Lo and behold, I got the job, and he has remained jobless to this day.

So please, stop discouraging people from trying things that could lead to positive outcomes.

Let him write an anonymous letter describing the location and the people involved.

If you’d like it more formal, more persuasive, or more concise, I can adjust it!

yemmit90:
Ok.

yemmit90:
Nigeria solution is true federalism or total disintegration. Anything short of that is like fetching water into an empty basket.

Amingol:
We should be mindful of the things we promise.
You were going to send me a VN to explain everything. Since then, u never bothered to keep to these words. Its not funny sir .

Integrity is very important!

Sparsy:
Big Men dem.

When will I ever get to a point in my life where ordinary food will no longer be my problem? A level where I can reach out to the downtrodden?
Life isn't easy on me at all.

Dry kitchen, Dry stomach, Dry pocket. No family. Struggles everyday. What a life!

Goodnewsforlife:
that username doesn't sound mature for someone of your age guy.

bodex196:
2338 that's the last 4 digits

bodex196:
DM 080 six 4 eight 6 2412

bodex196:
DM 080 six 4 eight 6 2412

Ibkay32:
With a moniker like yours, how do you expect genuinely innocent people to feel comfortable connecting with you for friendship? It’s one thing to make a connection, but it’s another to turn around and make people uncomfortable with inappropriate behavior. That’s exactly why people say a good name is better than silver or gold. Your username alone is enough to raise eyebrows and discourage sincere interactions.

Honestly, if you’re serious about building meaningful friendships or connections, you might want to consider changing that name or creating a fresh account altogether. Presentation matters, and first impressions go a long way. No offense—just speaking from a place of concern and reality.

Senkasa:
Please help me sir. I'm ready to follow the religious route sir. Desperate times calls for desperate measures I beg you sir. Gambling have taken me five to ten years back sir

Senkasa:
Hello everyone. I'm in my mid twenties and at the most critical point in my life. I finally found the courage to speak out.. they say a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I started playing bet9ja virtual soccer around 2013/2014.. and I first quit around 2018/2019 then I started again around 2023.

When I resumed again in 2023, my plan was to recover my losses.. but the more I play, the more they chop me. Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life. I quit my work, sold some properties and spent all the money my friends and siblings sent me to recover my losses in bet9ja but nothing worked. I find it hard to let go of the money bet9ja have taken from me this year alone which is why I keep going back there.

This year alone 4 or 5 friends and family have sent me over 200k and bet9ja have taken it all.. I feel angry honestly.. I'm in a deep pit and I want to stop digging but will I ever forgive myself for the money I lost to bet9ja? A friend promised to give me 100k but gave me 50k first to complete it this week and last night I lost the 50k to virtual soccer.. I need big help.. I'm d y I ng in silence

From January 2025 to april 2025 this year, I have lost 400k to 500k in playing bet9ja virtual soccer. I don't play any other form of gambling except bet9ja virtual soccer. Once a friend or family member send me 40k or 50k, I'll enter bike and rush to town to recoup the ones they chop me last time.. and I'll still end up losing everything. I have lost 40k/50k under a day or two highest (it has happened like thrice this year)

I have sold my properties and lied to my mum because of bet9ja. The only thing I haven't done is to steal or borrow to play bet9ja. I don't drink, womanize, steal or even smoke or do hard Dr u gs.. bet9ja virtual soccer have ruin Ed my life.. where do I start?

The shocking part is that last year while I was still working and secretly playing bet9ja, my mum's pastor told her to tell me to stop playing bet9ja. He said that my luck is not in gambling.. that I should stay clear from anything gambling. I don't know how he knew sef and my mum asked me if I'm still playing it but I denied it sharperly.

I need help to stop bet9ja virtual before it sends me to grabe please. I don't want to tell my mum because she's hypertensive. I don't want to loose her please. I want to be useful to myself please.. I'm the only son.

Is there anything I can do that will restrict me from playing gambling for the rest of my life (spiritually)? Can I take an oath or covenant not to play virtual soccer? I need serious advice please.. not all those stop going to bet house because I don't even remember anything gambling when I'm broke.. infact I use to write down my goals and plans but once money enter my hand, I'll rush to bet9ja in town (I don't play it in my area) to recoup my previous losses.

I need advice from my senior brothers and sisters in the house please.. the day I stop bet9ja virtual soccer or gambling in general will be the happiest day of my life.. I'll never forget anyday I quit it. Where do I start at this point?🙏🙏

press9jatv:
nope you are wrong here. It’s:
1. adelabu of Apc - Ibadan zone
2. Teslim folarin of Apc - Ibadan zone
3. Ogundoyin of Pdp - Ibarapa zone
4. Senator Fatai Buhari of Apc in Oyo zone

Domainer1999:
I believe religion is a tool invented to placate those that have been struck with the unfortunates of life and promise them a state of eldorado in Afterlife.

Those that had encountered the negatives of life as regards their biological, environmental and natural make up.

It then become a potent tool in the hand of those wielding it on those they controlled hence you see that most religious rules only applies to the weak and low lives of the society and never those that have survived most life chaos.

It’s also a great tool to strike fear in human since its ultimate goal is to fear something/someone no one ever see but believes in his existence.


The only excuse I give for its reality is ‘afterlife’

I believe if someone truly creates this world then, there should be afterlife to balance the injustices and oppression of this world.

Cc CaveAdullam, pansophist, Samantha125, lordAdam16, Gerrard et al.

FODA:
depends on ur location and how fast you need it

Sapasenator:
Are you an IPOB?, Lagos is as developed as NYC and PARIS, When last did you visit Lagos? PBAT really tried for Lagos and lots of my friends here in the USA are dying to visit Lagos.

Sapasenator:
Who says Nigeria is underdeveloped?

Have you been to Lagos?

yemmit90:
Lolz, dey play. Education is not the reason we are underdeveloped but our cultures and traditions. Do I even need to mention numerous highly educated people in the public services that are hopelessly corrupt. These are professionals who earned their degrees in both Nigeria and first grade universities abroad.

The reality is that, black man cultures, particularly ours in Nigeria are exploitative and domineering ones. Every single soul in Nigeria are out there to oppress and make the other ones worship and beg for crumbs. You can take anything out of a black man but you can never take this innate attitude out of him.

In summary, everyone want to be king in order for others to worship, and the only way to achieve this is by holding an economic power and denied others the privilege to be like him. I am so sorry to say, we are not different from the same leaders we are blaming today. It is not our fault, but what we are by nature.