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segunsd:
I'm gonna flood you guys with photos soon

Agrika:
Let's be realistic here on a normal day which of these shows will get ur attention on TV, a live debate or live Beauty pageant,...and besides most beauty pageants goes beyond showing up with a pretty face, u are asked tactical questions, asked to dance etc...so the beauty queen herself is brilliant in her own way...besides debate get levels,...SOME PEOPLE ARE PRETTY, SOME ARE INTELLIGENT BUT ONLY A FEW PEOPLE GOT BEAUTY WITH BRAINS...so make una free the fine girl jor

Osahon7:
oh! am very sorry Sir!!!

Osahon7:
what Happened to nurses?

carefreewannabe:
Yeah but some school subjects are interesting and others are interesting and fun.
And you have your friends around and you don't have as much responsibility as you have in a job.

I am being nostalgic now.

carefreewannabe:
Cool, enjoy your free time.
School sucks.
(Joking.)

carefreewannabe:
I am fine. And you?

Are you back to school?

carefreewannabe:
No, thank YOU!

carefreewannabe:
I thought the law that grants women custody favors them. It is now a disadvantage? Very logical.



Proof?



Proof?



Proof?



You have to use tactics to have s*ex. I don't. Bad luck.



Nope.



As if men don't like to do it.



This is why I have been repeatedly annoyed by how clingy some men become.



Totally out of context as it is very normal in Jamaican culture to have kids out of wedlock.



And your snappish remarks will never put you in a more favorable position than mine.

carefreewannabe:

eleojo23:
I've posted this on this forum before but let me repeat it here perhaps it might be of help. Try the following and you may not even have to get angry in the first place.

1. Talk Yourself out of being offended
In the heat of the moment, try asking yourself these questions:
“What am I getting so bent out of shape for? Does this really matter? What’s the big deal?” Reason with yourself: “Did he really mean it the way I perceived it? ‘’what is he really trying to say?”
Remember, the reason we usually feel offended/angry is because of the meaning we attach to what is said or done: “That means he really doesn’t care!” “She’s saying I am no good!” “I knew he didn’t really love me!” “She wouldn’t say that if she was …” And so the internal interpretation goes. So simply reframe it. Talk yourself out of the offense. Know that the person is simply expressing his opinion. You will be happier as you learn to talk yourself out of offence.

2. Reserve Judgment, don’t be quick to conclude. Delay your response
Delay judgment until the conversation has run its course. You just may find there is no offense to be had or nothing to be angry about by the time you get to the end.

3: Accept Imperfection

We all have foibles, idiosyncrasies and personality and character flaws. Yours just may be different than mine. So don’t hold on to the imperfections of others so tightly that you strangle yourself in the process!
Part of accepting others’ imperfections is also learning to forgive them their past mistakes (so the current problem isn’t blown out of proportion as an extension of a previous problem unresolved) Remember, people are imperfect. You are imperfect. Life is imperfect.

carefreewannabe:
I have no problem with your choices. If you cannot imagine being with a single mother and accept her child, fine!
Why do you have a problem with men who make the choice to accept the child that is not biologically theirs?
Why the name calling?
Why insult these men and the children?

You want to have a choice, leave others theirs.

bukatyne:
Very nice thread

I am not happy though that a lot of people think the stuffs they did are crazy; the problem is that it was with the wrong people. When done with the right people, love sweet and we will do more than these

Ok stuffs I have done/still do and will continue to do

Share toothbrush/shaving stick/towels
Share sweets &chewing gum
Wait for him before eating
shave for him
Completely trust him
Daydreaming about him till I pass my busstop amongst others

sarutobie:
a tear or two accidentally trickled down when I watched "three idiots"..my God! that movie is the best movie I have ever watched in my life..

"pursuit of happiness" too got me red eyed and all watery..that guy suffer pass Job..can an educated man really suffer that much in America