HARDDON:


I did?
Nah,we rolll that soonn

chilling over here

HARDDON:


Now i know what it is: Tension
You obviously havent mastered ur inner self.
This is .worse tin that can happen to a guy. N the really teasingly hawt gurls wud make it even more difficult once they sence ur lack of confident n breath losing.

Itz all in ur head. Sendless n gain all.

And hey, stop been mean, its not her fault u cant take hold of ur testoterone

The inner man needs constant word dose, constant victory to grow n king.

thanks for the brushing

but gee I wasn't being mean o, that's Bleep up cos it would be like ur really pained, I jus stopped talking to her,
and boss dont move my attention from that stuff u wanted to send

HARDDON:



i get your drift....!
Itz normal...... it is not only magnent that have invincible force fields . Humans do too.

Just like u cant date everybody, convo too is same.

Tension can cause this, her lack of humour sense can too, ur not livng ready cud n so many other factors.

The best move is mos def to just go n dont act a fool.

There is something else i cant say here. Just makes ur mind blank.....

boosss

exactly how it happens o, me I do easily leave them bcus u might jus end up over doing.

but boss this something u can not say here, nawa o, help a bro na, atleast u can send it as a mail biko. bcus if u know the kind hot chick I jus let go, u would borrow me ur skills to get her. now am just being mean to her to retain my ballz.

HARDDON:

@Drnoel,

N hey, i didnt Say there is a manual on how to hndle ladies.
How cud i sAy that when the heart n relationship/ marriage r as individualistic as ur finger prints?
That said, they mostly r sisters under same cloak of flesh when it comes to certains things eg MR NICEY

You must have read i always advise guys to think on their feet n come up with reaponseS to prevailng circumstances ( quick wit) . If i was making robots wit manuals, i wudnt say this. I'd just lay d rules.


What i hv been doing here is nothing but unravelling d thinking pattern of women n how guys can use that to their aDvantage.

Demystifying d world of women. Not laying rules, hence the accompanying Sense Pills

thanks man, after u na u

But they is this stuff I noticed guy, u can't jus flow with every gal, I dont know if u av experienced it, like the convo won't just be connecting not that she is forming hard to get but I dont jus know. boss whats ur possible solution cos I do end up leaving them

reksly:
@drnoel but u didn't pay for her food na when u guys did lunch together.

That in itself my friend is the bad guy's paroz. That's exactly how bad guyz roll.

And also ur approach was totally different. It is exactly what HARDDON and others have repeated said from the very first page of this thread. U didn't ask her out but yet u were able to shine her Congo repeatedly.

U my friend is the baddest guy in town, who sees himself as a nice guy....

help me ask the wicked player o, a gal left ur house by 2am, u know shake body to go find am and u call urself a nice guy. the thunder that would locate that guy ehn

NLjona:
but he is a guy naw.. gee u sure say u neva smoke sumtin lately??

thought Hardon had settled this stuff,

Kalatium:
If you want to be good with girls, the first thing you need to understand is that the game exists. And if you can’t see that or refuse to accept the rules, I promise you one thing: you’re going to get played. You might not like the rules but you need to respect them. You need to recognize that you either play or get played and you need to play by the rules if you want to succeed.
The game, just like nature, is amoral and unless you want to be celibate you have to play. What you’re playing for is sex and affection from women. That could be through multiple women or through a monogamous relationship but the rules are the same.
With that said, learning how to be a player doesn’t mean you should play with a girl’s emotions. You can be and you should be honest about what you want. Not just because it’s the right thing to do but it’s what men do, you set your terms and she can either accept them or leave. And don’t worry, most girls, deep down would rather have a piece of a real man than all of a weak man.
When you play by the rules you’ll get the most out of your relationships, avoid drama and not do anything to embarrass yourself that you’ll regret later. Not only that, but by playing by the rules you’ll make the women in your life happier, no girl wants to be with a guy that doesn’t get it.
Girls will come and go but your actions will stay with you forever, that’s why its important not to break your discipline and stay on top of your game.

like this ur last statement bro

Obiomon:
. Who you say you de look for

this was obiomon replying u

NLjona:
boss harddon... your boy is back ..with bigger balls.. obiomon where you dey?

gee this was u thinking ur talking to ur fellow guy

LordZero:
Here I am jamming some rock songs and thinking about the relationship advices I've heard from people... Just wanna give my view on some and I guess Harddon and other Gs in the house can talk about others. .
Here we go...

1. BE YOURSELF: Have you ever thought about/assess "yourself" and see if you are what you are proud of (are you a man or big child). The "yourself" they are asking you to be is the one resulting from the way you were brought. An average Nigerian dude comes from a family where the mother is more influencial in moulding the child's character cos the father is busy trying to get them the best life they can get. Therfore, most spent less time with their father. A household where you are not allowed to watch movies with sex scene on your own, a household where you cannot talk freely about girls. Also, our mothers try to shield us from the influence of other males (mostly the ones they labelled players/corrupt) in our environment.
People from our environment taught us to be respectful of the female gender, treat them like queens, put other's needs/happiness b4 ours. So we grow up believing this things will help us. Treat girls like queens/princesses = when she misbehaves, you accept you caused it, you still tell her sorry(this makes you the bïtch). Put others b4 u= she ask, takes and gives nothing back (u end up as a maga/mugu) e.t.c..
The only thing y'all should be is the best version of yourself (am talking about a man that knows his worth, a man that can survive on his own, a man that can stand by his words/actions/decisions no matter what's at stake( even if you are going to lose a lady), a man that can control his jrod not the other way round..
Until then, never try and be yourself(bïtch ass) but strive to improve YOURSELF (real YOU).

2. A SPECIAL SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE (clasical caouse of neediness): I believe this is root cause of guys trying too hard in a relationship(u end up messing it up).. When you believe a girl is the special someone for you, you take their bullshii, you try too hard to impress her, you waste you time and money and energy trying to keep her.. we all know who is charge of such a relationship. .....
What made me change my mind is the rate of divorce recently. They all claim they've found their better half only for them to divorce months/years later, what's up?. How about people that remarry or something tragic happened and are unable to marry their initial partners(if the first person is their soulmate, why do they marry again and live a happy life?) OR those with more than one wife?.
I believe the soulmate theory is wrong. YOU can only mould someone to your taste and be happy with that person. .

3. DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY THE COVER: It doesn't apply to human relation. Woman are equipped to weed out week/low value men by just looking at them without necessarily talking to them.. Same way a guy will see a girl who dresses slůtty(even if she's not a höe) as a fück material and respect a well dressed girl (even is she's a bïtch) until he interacts with her.
So u believe people won't judge you based on your cover (appearance/sometimes body language and behavior) are on a long thing..


#justSOMErandomTHOUGHTS..

Bosses drop your views..

guy ur good, right from that ur first post. that post saved boys, keep it up

Obiomon:
lol am a guy jor! Na we first de here! Ask Oga Harddon na

gee I remember u die, them early ogas. but choi guy the way u denied Nljona, that's bloody o. the guy still be confused bcus after una rolling together u jus turned out to be and imagery gal, tbh I shock too o.

Obiomon:
lol am a guy jor! Na we first de here! Ask Oga Harddon na

gee I remember u die, them early ogas. but choi guy the way u denied Nljona, that's bloody o. the guy still be confused bcus after una rolling together u jus turned out to be and imagery gal, tbh I shock too o

africanman85:
U are trying bro but u have to treat difficult situations too like
a) Wen u meet a girl u like in a bus and she is forming not looking at u and she is not doing anything to spark up Congo
b) Wen u meet a girl on d street and u play not interested and she too plays d same
c) U friend girlfriend came with a friend u like. I want u to drop a gud pickup lines for each of d scenario. Pls I need name of good Cologne and affordable for men and gud mouth spray thanks.

gee for ur first question, me I don't have an answer to it cos I never calm inside all this tight buses to talk to a gal, maybe in a brt tho but I haven't try it sha, harddon would assist u.
to ur second question, guy u can't make any positive impact by always going negative, if u noticed already and start play not interested that means she us already in the game. Just one day go approach her and be like wandering why some stuffs re happening in the crib and also make fun out of it and get her digit(now u av made a step), now it time to go back twice. don't call atallz o, jus chill and now double ur sendless, she go find u come and that is bcus u av registered this funny sweet guy in her mind and now it her turn to keep u to her self.
this ur third question sef, we re no pickup artist here, it all about making u be a better man with good self confidence and always be ur self and be able to think fast according to the situation. pickup lines do fail cos gals have heard it alot and they re limited, did u see me giving u any line pertaining the second question.
about this situation jus try to carry the crowd, jus crack most of the jokes and be sure of ur self without looking at her, after the whole thing man she would fall in place.

Obiomon:
go look for where
you fit in! definitely not here!

hope u av not forgotten the name of this thread, smallie ur also intruding, so jus leave with that one, her problem is a problem

vizkiz:


To get updates before 30th you might have to join the whatsapp group...but if you'd rather not a thread will be created two days before the fixed date where you can know the details in full.

check ur mail for my contact

Genea:
lolx, owkay... Fine by me

wish there was an ass to rock sef

softiebae:

Venue: elegushi beach,guys are to pay 3k while ladies are to pay 2k. Its happening on jan2

are u guys even publicizing this stuff or it strictly nairalanders.
lastly what is the possible amount of guy turning up.

vikiz add me to that GC the, already mailed u

see guys I can't go through those pages now, jus tell me where and when shekina

HARDDON:


U already know now: women want what they cant have.

Itz a simple concortion really .... Just Send her Less.

Asin boss it works like magic

simple quote. "if u want them to come around, make them look shitty(too small for u), if u want them away make ur self look shitty(which most guys do unknowingly)

ELITE12:


Yea Bro....kisses r very paramount during pre-intimacy..don't underestimate its power girls love to kiss... am really workin on my self to b a good kisser

The trick is knowing wen to make it light, deep, soft or long or short or dry or wet or powerful n passionate or combing any

I never really had issues going down on girls but making the move and


talking to them was my challenge but with this great forum.... and drills those days are past

as for your girl not feeling any thing does she hav a baby even if there are ways of touching with just the right pressure combined with this touches on other parts of her body to heat up

bro explain more on this kissing stuff, really need to up mine

ILuvGummyBearz:
did the booty u just kissed taste good

this one sef, I don't know what jazz Ogah used o that is always magneting u back.

lazeal:
Hello Harddon and everyone.

Just out of curiosity.

What could make a lady who claim to have a boyfriend want to meet another guy on 25th of December, invited him to whatsapp and even willing to let him know her parent's house?

Harddon, you know who I am referring to here lol.

chai, this guy av started using love charm o, this one can go to jail for u

HARDDON:
Why im i tellin thiis tale?

3 days after, u were @ her crib she wudnt let u in n tru d winDow, u spoke in flows n touched in lines. N luckily, due to some works of an unforseen hands, d door unlocked. U slip in humbled. Tears on her eyes, ur heart heavy, u spoke soul piecing words n after a moment of resisting ur touch, u pulled her close, n hugged her , nonchalantly messaging her weak spot, n b4 u know it, lips locked, her tears flowed, heart pounded, cloths flew , starved she was, hungry u were!

N d rest? Is written in d journals of hawtest make up s3x u ever had!

Weak spots Rocks!

boss boss

it sinking in, more grease over here.

but how far that spoiling em in public

ILuvGummyBearz:
hmmm. Kay

watevz

Esdb3:
did you miss road?

jus providing prayer help, don't prefer cold food

VeeVeeMyLuv:
lol, do you mean tear rubber?

tight rubber, that explodes every minute

ILuvGummyBearz:
hahaha what are u doin' here in my mentions?

was passing by o, saw a drowning guy and felt like throwing ropeme I cannot not come and help him here, he should come to us.lol

Esdb3:



Abi. They still looking fine in the mirror when they check and the cream still works. When it stops working they start acting a mumu to get in

this guy I reject every spirit of secondhand product operating in ur life. so u no like to dey like open show. I would pray for u specially

ILuvGummyBearz:
he can seek whatever he wants but has no right 2 complain when he cant find a 'good girl' .he should not be so shallow.Bye new

the gal dealing with bloody players, why don't u refer him to the thread for drills or u don't want more of them growing and threatening ur gals. Hardon won't treat ur Bleep up this time, boss is on cool mood

SOLARPOWER1:
Baba Hardon I need advice badly on this. How do you handle a girl who after applying necessary gaming principles starts respond to ur calls to come around seems to like being around you but hardly asks personal questions about you like she is not even interested in knowing you more. My confusion here is though she respects me, my instinct is telling me she is not feeling me 1 bit. My question is what does she want from me then. She has once used the popular feminine quote of I don't like STINGY guys when I asked her what she likes and dislike about guys and she likes navigating towards money when we gist sometimes. My greatest suspicion now is that she is coming for my Benjamin (MONEY) even though she doesn't look like that type......

U jus fell in love bro, now asking nice guys question (what re ur likes and dislike), so u can play along and not make her annoyed right.
who cares about what she thinks, she should be the one asking that cos women are meant to care, the one that is supposed not to make u vex.
show her the money, make her smell it(buy her stuffs) but don't let her touch it. see guy trash the life out of this kind of gal, cos she is not a relationship type(that I see u desperately want).
jus enjoy her while she lasts with u, she doesn't worth u.
let me not criticize u bro, at times even we dey fall hand sef, na after the Bleep up u go dey recollect. jus go back to ur drawing board.

liljboy:
some people sef, you've been reading all these drills and you still can't figure a way to tackle this kind babe.... you even went ahead to ask this needy relationship question, what she like or dislikes.... position your nyash for flogging.

loooolll jboy abeg come borrow my koboko, ahn ahn.

Kenshinmunac:


Thanks bad bullet but all these ladies matter don tire me. I no wan send again, I wan just live my life peacefully and make myself happy. Make them all go die. I spent 18 years old my life in school learning to become someone in society. I don't think right now at this stage I want to read books or learn anything concerning women anymore.

They can all go to purgatory or go suck a cock, I don't care anymore. Gee.

gee I saw ur post on ur thread, all I can tell u is
1; if u don't read this thread from page 1, ur selfpity is jus starting bcus instead of u playing them they would be playing u. Go build ur self-confidence and learn how to love ur self. one more thing, even the best hunters miss shots, and u my bro is a learner, walahi u would loose a lot. learn to accept rejection, everyone can't like u.
2; u said u do admire couples u do see on the road lol, my broooda go and marry then u can av ur own property. And pray all this bosses here don't feel like tasting ur wife, cos the would dig her and go.
3; To help ya sef, jus start from pg1. and save ur self a lot, including the money ur already making