HARDDON:

Yea , we roll..... Where did we stop?

getting physical I think

Kalatium:
U guys are derailing the thread.
Harddon we need more drillz

how u take know my mind

ILuvGummyBearz:
......stop formin' baddo,itz unbecoming and unnecessary.

wow I see, ur unbecoming and unnecessary here also and won't wait to push ur sagged ass outta thus gc

ILuvGummyBearz:
hahaha no but they are over puffed

this one is jus a bored job seeker looking to gain back her degenerated groove with our young blood. Go force ur self on those sugar daddies, the might have some lil groove left for u.

ILuvGummyBearz:
if a man did all u say,believe id replace him
While he is forming hot commodity
I'll actually have the numbers and wont hesitate 2 pick his successor from them

dont think u read what he wrote properly, and this is not a good way to get my attention, impress harder. babe tbh ur on a long thing. the way u typed alone, I already know u dont even worth a nerdos side chick talkless of mine.
piss out, no offence meant

HARDDON:


Sleek!

i think with guys like u, wacky, lordZero and a host of others around, my work just got easier!

now i can focus on the main thingy while you guys handle questions. Perfect Blend

no wahala boss, we re chilling for more drills o. some of those gals still dey formu hard to gety OJERE

y4code:

thanks bro i will the instruction firmly

chilling for ur feedback, and also remember to be confident at all time. nothing dey happen.

y4code:
yes i read all thge tread and keepm following it but seems this case is different cuz I'm already dead in her friendzone and now was finding the way ou so i can friendzone her too...i notice she dont have anyone in her life she's just acting HARD TO GET and how do i break this off her?

1; start ignoring her, cut all calls and visits. jus start being busy 2, make her know u av a life of ur own, stop acting needy. don't show it that u re pained, jus be taking deep breaths and reply like a boss that av millions of gals at his beck and call
2; start growing some ballz and start catching new fishes especially in her hostel, jus go there not to see her(jealousy mode would be activated). make her see u spend time with the gals(hope u already know how to meet gals if u read from the first page).
3;And if she starts coming around, don't fall immediately. make her hustle for ur attention she never valued.
piss out
harddon still learning from u o

WackyJ1:


Bro. I am interested in what you're saying

BUT
Your approach as regards to the originator of this thread has been dis-respectful. HARDDON is someone that brought this thread from Day one to page 50+ and he deserves the utmost respect as a result of that. There are guys that have benefited from this thread regardless of whether or not they are coming back for more tips, Person no dey go school graduate in one day.

We guys are territorial in Nature and you have come to another man's territory to pitch your tent however temporarily, The man himself does not have a problem with that but the way you came in is confrontational and divisive.

Take a look at some of the words that I have bolded in the post above
First you're implying that HARDDON is concerned with loosing his status on this thread. Many things wrong with that implication. Firstly You have wrongfully assumed that HARDDON has attached much importance to status on this thread. He created this thread to help guys and helping, has been his primary motivation. Secondly, "Ego and Self-worth" attached to this thread? That implication is insulting.

Again, you say if "he was really interested in helping these guys", so are you saying that he just came to nairaland, opened this thread, takes time off from work to update it and respond to the inquiry of Guys that need help, for 5 months till the page got to 50+ pages because of Status seeking, ego and self-worth? After all that, the proof of whether he wants to help guys lies in allowing you, someone who came in just days ago, to provide his own advice and "Drills"? I say again, that is insulting.

You have even shown subtle disregard and disrespect for his own method and drills. Refusing to see even a tiniest bit of similarity in what two of you are offering and constantly pointing out the fact that guys are coming back to ask for more advice as a sign that what he does is not reslly working.

You have come into the thread on a confrontational Note, made wrong allusions to the OP personality and then made insulting assumptions, questioning the original motivations for this thread. How would you feel if it was done to you?

This is not about what you have to offer, but about diplomacy. Sure there are guys that want to listen to this secret you have to drop (Which by the way, in my opinion, you're wasting time dropping it especially with your seeking for followers) but nobody will be happy with you if HARDDON decides to leave the thread for you. You want to act like a Real G then act like a Real G towards a fellow G. There is a way things are done. After you do the right things then We'all be happy to see what you have to offer and even further discuss might be encouraged between you two.

I suggest you apologise to HARDDON.

Drop your own Ego and do the right thing

u na senior man, hope say ur ballz dey intact 2

WackyJ1:


Bro. I am interested in what you're saying

BUT
Your approach as regards to the originator of this thread has been dis-respectful. HARDDON is someone that brought this thread from Day one to page 50+ and he deserves the utmost respect as a result of that. There are guys that have benefited from this thread regardless of whether or not they are coming back for more tips, Person no dey go school graduate in one day.

We guys are territorial in Nature and you have come to another man's territory to pitch your tent however temporarily, The man himself does not have a problem with that but the way you came in is confrontational and divisive.

Take a look at some of the words that I have bolded in the post above
First you're implying that HARDDON is concerned with loosing his status on this thread. Many things wrong with that implication. Firstly You have wrongfully assumed that HARDDON has attached much importance to status on this thread. He created this thread to help guys and helping, has been his primary motivation. Secondly, "Ego and Self-worth" attached to this thread? That implication is insulting.

Again, you say if "he was really interested in helping these guys", so are you saying that he just came to nairaland, opened this thread, takes time off from work to update it and respond to the inquiry of Guys that need help, for 5 months till the page got to 50+ pages because of Status seeking, ego and self-worth? After all that, the proof of whether he wants to help guys lies in allowing you, someone who came in just days ago, to provide his own advice and "Drills"? I say again, that is insulting.

You have even shown subtle disregard and disrespect for his own method and drills. Refusing to see even a tiniest bit of similarity in what two of you are offering and constantly pointing out the fact that guys are coming back to ask for more advice as a sign that what he does is not reslly working.

You have come into the thread on a confrontational Note, made wrong allusions to the OP personality and then made insulting assumptions, questioning the original motivations for this thread. How would you feel if it was done to you?

This is not about what you have to offer, but about diplomacy. Sure there are guys that want to listen to this secret you have to drop (Which by the way, in my opinion, you're wasting time dropping it especially with your seeking for followers) but nobody will be happy with you if HARDDON decides to leave the thread for you. You want to act like a Real G then act like a Real G towards a fellow G. There is a way things are done. After you do the right things then We'all be happy to see what you have to offer and even further discuss might be encouraged between you two.

I suggest you apologise to HARDDON.

Drop your own Ego and do the right thing

u na senior man, hope say ur ballz dey intact 2. lol

hottest111:



Baba, even me got worst. In fact back in the days these pua rules n tip made be act weird n silly ( for my mind i was acting like bad boy/ alpha male ). Thank for those my roommates who knows whats up. These guys didn't verbally or directly teach me anything about women, I was the one who paid close attention to how they behave and how they interact with girls
Alright, Lets continue.
Like I said earlier, we need to tackle the problem from the ROOT. I'll call these techniques and tips you've been learning FRUITS. When your root and stem is strong n intact, you'll always produce good n nutritious fruits. So the truth now is that You've been collecting fruits ( techniques, tip, rules) from those gurus who have strong ROOT + stem and attaching those fruit to ur own weak root n stem. Even Bible says you can't pour a new wine into a old wineskin. If you do, the old wineskin will corrupt new wine and the new fresh wine will soon begin to taste sour. That's why after all the dating drills you've learn, after collecting pua fruits you remove your own fruits ( your bad attribute that's preventing you from being successfully with girls) and replacing them with those pua fruit, you always till struggle with women. As in, Your weak ROOT can't carry or cope with those pua strong fruits. That's why you always eventually Bleep up with women even after doing well at first.

OK, lets be frank here.. After collecting fruits (lines, techniques,drills) from those gurus, at first you'll be GETTING positive reactions from chics. When guys get that good feed back and validation from girls, they run here n start giving TESTIMONIES. They be like " mehn [gurus name], you're god of this game I did so so n so thing you told me to do and bla bla bla happened" . Yet they still come back here to collect more fruits, They must yet come back here because the fruit will eventually finish or they encounter a situation they haven't experience before with the girl, so they come back here or the internet to collect fruits(techniques,drills) to tackle that unfamiliar situation..

Funny enough, Most of these your gurus will not want to give you these root solution because they want you to keep coming back or patronising them.
Anyway me I don't care, I go expose the REAL truth

My counselor once told me that "The person who know HOW will get the job but the person who knows WHY will be his boss.
All the techniques and fruits are the HOW's and the ROOT and are the WHY's.
This same counselor of mine said "If you know WHY you want to do something then the HOW will take care of it self"
Why re you guys passing through all those stress, when you can just take care of the core problems that is preventing you from being successful with chics. Anyway that's what we're working on.. I neva start self, dis na just introduction
I'm taking it gradually, so m gonna be sure you're following. I really just wanna put an end to all these dating problems. So we can focus on other things like money, Nigeria problems etc

Just let me know if you following, so i can continue

guy hit the fucking nail at the head, be beating around an innocent bush.
about this ur HOW and WHY, there is no one who knows how to write(asin article) and doesn't have a reason for writing(money or humanitarian), or a footballer who doesnt know he is playing to win trophies. nigga here know there wanna be incharge of gals, that's why they re looking for how(the main key)

NLjona:
boss harddon... your boy is back ..with bigger balls.. obiomon where you dey?

them day1 gees, make una reason this hottest gee first

FutureSenator:


I go just siddon dey observe. I don't have a gf. I don't need one. I don't fancy girls.

the thread might work on ur gay ass niggas 2, u never can tell

FutureSenator:
I just discovered this thread sha.

I love Nairaland.

ur lucky o, jus read through the pages

hottest111:




Bro, I really I wanna help you but it's gonna be hard doing it in this medium. Anyway let just try.

The reason why I'm sharing this with you is because I want you (and guys like you) who're still struggling with girls to understand that being successful with chics is not about learning more n more dating rules, techniques and lines. It's not even about become a bad boy or Alpha male. It's about tackling the core/root problem.. As in, The SOURCE.
If you can kill the root problem, if you can close the source of the problem you're experience in with girls then every other thing will take care of it self. When dis root cause is taken care of, you'll naturally n unconsciously do all this dating technique and rules you've been leaning. In fact, you'll become an alpha male without knowing.

I realised dis back then in my first year in university(LASU) , It's been long sha!!! In those days, I know all pua tactics n drills n I can even lecture guys self if giving d opportunity, but i noticed some guys( my roommates to be precise) who don't even know the meaning of PUA, these guys don't even know about all these dating rules n drills yet dis guys were banging girls anyhow without spending much money. While i was there struggling.
Until i notice something different between me and these guys dat changed my dating life n make getting girls easier and fun. Since then, having been smashing chics like crazy.

OK lets tackle these root problems. It's simple as ABC
Let me tell you d huge but obscure difference between ME (hottest) and YOU (frankmoney) ..
Here is difference--- When you ( frankmoney) see a hot and attractive girl you like ( either online or offline) ,and you want her. Dis is ur mindset as in, your whole subconscious thought and action is like,,
" I need to get this girl to be attracted to me, I need to make her fall in love with me, I must have sex with her, I wanna date her, must try not be friend zoned, i must create sexual tension with her and so on"
You'll be trying applying all those dating rules, techniques and lines on her. In fact all your focus is TRYING TO GET HER.

But If I ( hottest) see a hot and attractive girl ( weda online or offline), and I want her. Dis is my mindset as in, my whole subconscious thought and action is like;;;
" Iet me see if I'm gonna like this kind of girl, Is she even good in bed ,What's is the possibility of banging her, Is she a bad or good girl, can she even give me Mouth Action, Is she my type of girl, what kind of girl is she, LET ME FIND OUT"
This is why I'm more relax n confident because am not even trying to get her to be attracted to me or anything related to that. That's why i m so so smooth with chics. In fact d other day one girl was like " Ife, you have sweet mouth and u know how to turn a girl on easily I hate you" LOL
This is the REAL reason you can get d girl you don't like but you can't get d one really like.

Now you've seen d difference.
Bro I still have more n more secrets and truth to tell you , so u'll see that learning and learning dating tactics is even making you worst without you even knowing. If u can work with me on these, you'll not need to learn any dating trick or lines. YOU'LL BECOME AN ALPHA MALE without even realising it
This is just d tip of the ice block.. M fucking serious.
It's people like me they call 'Yoruba demon' I'm sure u know what i mean

just let me know if you enjoy n grab something from wat i just taught you
so I'll know if i should continue

Gee I jus have few questions for you,
1; what is the difference between what u jus typed and harddon's theory.
2; is there anyone that is not happy coming across this this thread, see even Elite guy sef don dey do doggy(chei omo remain for us o).
Here no real gee has time for what a gal think, jus do ur thing and hang ur boots.

Obagoblog:


Bro, that boldest word, needy is not in my game... But you need to be persistent a bit.


The desire to want to Bleep the hell out of her without having control of yourself is sexy and women sense this. But most men will see this as desperate. But we aren’t trying to seduce men. Women see shit differently. Women see a bit of neediness while persisting as an IOI and aplus. That’s the point I was making and you see that now. A girl just wants to know that you are willing to push and push and back her into a corner. She wants to know that you’re serious about her and not just collecting #’s to brag.


I used to notice a lot that women will lose interest in me and I neverknew why. When I did my homework, I found that I wasn’t showing her that I really wanted her. I was being too distant, too safe and too hands off. I wasn’t chasing until they give in.

Most women see chasing as sexy, attractive, adorable and a sign of your interest.Just that you don’t want to chase over thephone.

That is the main difference and problem with most of us; we chase women over the phone and text, but in person, we don’t chase when in fact, we should chase in person and not chase over text.

The real reason women get turned off whenever a guy chases over text or phone call or the internet, is because he cannot realistically get intimate with her over the phone. So the girl feels as thoughshe’s wasting time. But in person and face to face, you should chase and appear a bit needy and do things that would seem a bit desperate.


I stand to be corrected

gee hope ur ballz is not with one ekaite there

u persisting bro, would lead to begging and by that ur balls re hers to break. wonder me now, in charge of my ballz, after cool pre-intimacy that made her pour her juice, I start wearing my cloth and leaving, that would be leaving her with the hardest riddle of her life(re my smelling, re my not good enough, don't I kiss well, is he impotent but I felt his jrod so no way). Guy next time she would be the one not trying to mess things up bcus she knows u sendless, in her life she cant give u those uncalled excuses. All am emphasizing here is u being able to be in charge of ur ballz, sacrifice that first or second one for millz to come. if she agrees after ur pleading, it the last time ur ever seeing her pants(balless don't worth it).
About the phone stalking and all, if ur sure u would be seeing this gal often to chase physically, y don't u seduce her(ignore her, talk to gals in her front, or even approach her and why she is laughing her ribs out u start talking to som1 else). Though I can't imagine myself calling a gal more than twice( I don't blame guys though, they fell in love which is what u should avoid). sometimes I recharge 100 and be like no gal worth it and endup calling them my checkers(my sis them). #TEAM SENDLESS

hottest111:

bro don't get me wrong,,i do get physical wit few of dis girl back then in my first year, but at the end of day there must always be a Bleep up..
Now, m not saying Mr Harddon is teaching u guys trash, In fact most of wat he's teaching u guys work. Like i said it worked for me back then.
But here's the problem
here is d issue
as in, dis what I'm still yet to understand.
This thread as passed 40 paged, and yet i see someone still asking "Pls there's this girl i know, i wanna bang her. I heard she always Bleep other guys coded. pls Haddon, how will I bang her"
I'm very sure d guy asking dis quesion has read dis thread from the first page to d 50th page, and yet he does not know wat actions to take to bang that girl

My point is gathering more dating knowledge will not help u.
In fact, In dis internet, free eBook and Google age, there's know dating advice guys haven't heard n yet they keep struggling.
Learning more n more tactics and technique is just complicating d whole issue..

even usain bolt still has a coach that guides him, even ronaldo still accepts advice from zidane after 3 ball on d or, even davido dey use humblesmith shine.

all am trying to say is u can't be good always

liljboy:
I want to know if you have a enough cash in your account, because trust me, if I should hang out with you sometime in the future, I'll let you spoil me to the best of your ability. remember awesome dudes like me are hard to come by these days.

thanks man

Obagoblog:

It was a boring Thursday... we were not informed before hand that there won't be class...

We actually smooch and had a Lil kiss before she left.. she came the following day which is Friday and on Saturday, she was crucified..

guy which side re u on, what else do u want this boy, hope say ur not lying cos u were really sounding needy
some of those gals u didn't get down with, u didn't know how to followup ur game. if I dey vex few mins alone we don dey smooch, if ur not ready dey go.
Lil drill over here, no matter how many u loose, millions re still dey, don't just get trapped in that world(love).

Obagoblog:


See this one... you make me smile..
There is this course mate of mine who asked for my number.. (fine boy)

I never called.. no money to buy airtime.. she does all the calling and I played the game perfectly...

I didn't invite her over but she came to my place under the pretext of updating her note.. This is a girl who have a permanent seat in the front of the class. She didn't even come with her note but insisted to go with mine and bring it to class the next day... see trick..

Just to collect note, she came around 1pm and left by past 7..

I tried going physical but she stopped me and start asking my surname, state of origin, etc..

She ask for my phone but I couldn't give it to her cos I have one of my girls nude in the gallery... Omo see drama... the girl cry small... well, she is just 18

All she needs me to do is ask her out.. but I didn't cost her ex is a cultist . I got her by performing the boyfriend role and calling her my wife and others

U got her by performing a bf role but u didn't ask her out shey?, they re gals that also don't need the bf role, use either way.
About u not getting physical with a gal that stayed 7hrs in ur room, bro u no try or u didn't know that part, I like myself(too harsh). send her away, babes plenty, highest I go library than to waste that kinda of time for nothing.
Bro it depends on how they know how u portray ur self to them, they re guys(like me) that if some gals re visiting they would jus wear ordinary gown bcus they know getting down is sure. but ur type maybe she probably wore THICK JEANS(rape set na lie), this is bcus that's how u portray ur self #he cannot do anything

hottest111:

Ifecoded.. l'm Ife by name. maybe we're namesake
See ehe, back then in university in my first year to be precise, I'v tried all these techniques u'r learning here. It worked for me at first (as in, girls re always attracted to me)but at d end of the day I didn't still got d girl.

.I noticed my roommates were not playing the kind game i was playing (i.e techniques u guys re learning here) but dis guys were banging hot girls regularly and funny enough, dis guys were broke(as in, dem no dey spend on girls). In fact na girls they spend on them.

while I got so many girls to like me, that was all. They'll just be attracted to me but that was all.
Until I noticed a BIG difference between me and the guys(my roommates), That was when my dating life changed totally.


In fact, let me just stop here. I don't wanna talk further.
Enjoy yourself.. more dating technique and tricks to ur elbow. keep learning and learning, one day u might become a guru.. The sky is ur starting point.

gee u never knew how to get physical, u jus know how to seduce and get digits, maybe u were even friendzoned. maybe used as a clown sha, only making them to laugh.
Meet harddon to teach the full book, u only stumbled through the torn papers

harddon if u re thrown this kind of question, what would be ya responseS
.
what do u wanna know about me (I need to burst her brain)
boss us the que that long ni

ba7man:
Roman goddess reminds me of Hippos on Natgeo-wild.

u correct

harddon wetin make I con do, this gal isn't demanding and she doesn't even know about the hotel stuff, I jus want invest my stuff quick bcus lots of guys have been zoned in her hand

bros harddon, baba for ur gals
how far some lil help, about one Bae way we jus do small stuffs but now I want 2 jam her for the main stuff. is taking her 2 an hotel OK? what re the dos and dont. and abeg I just want 2 make her 2 desperate that she could even pay the hotel bills

If u went 2 sec skul as a day student, u only passed through skul, if u were a boarder na una school pass through. Experience

They were all informed right from the beginning, that only 30 that would be admitted

Boss boss, after u na u o
Help alert, I still av this approaching problem but after she is gone I start reoccuring what I should av said. But am good with my oldchicks in the same dept or fac. But the one on the road, bank, eatery that's my p

Boss hardguy abeg they is this gal I asked her out and she saaid no bcus she doesn't bliv I love her. Just want 2 stop playing gals and focus on one. She wants me 2 use that L word Which I av never used 4 her or even “miss her”