peterpen:

Chatting is no p, buh texting and calling, i need to improve, the last time i called two girls, i noticed i was free sassy and witty with one i was familiar with buh the other one i wasn't familiar with was a bit boring, i had to cut the call and jit myself with a pitch book, i am beginning to think i m not the problem buh the girls i approach

HARDDON:
Who To Date & Who not To Date....

Who To Date & Who not To Date....

This skipped mi


Some of the Red Flags , apart from d married ones, have critical exceptions......
Daz all for now

barrackbwoi:
Hardon,
There's this girl that likes me buh she's waiting for me to say " I Love You" buh ah don't wanna do it, she even gave me her handbad yesterday then later she told me to go get courage( as in for me to tell her I love her). Tell me how to tell her pls

Ustec:


it seems he was joking abt dat buying stuff...
im na my senior student here...

Ustec:


it seems he was joking abt dat buying stuff...
im na my senior student here...

HARDDON:


From d bolded clues, tell me what went wrong

HARDDON:

ur cross gee

Nairaboi:
This one is a big shit i think might just get me carried away. Am attracted in a very special way to this woman(she is married) has a baby boy for the hubby, she is really into me, but i don't know if towing the line of a married woman is advisable? One fay i sent her a text "how are you doing sweetheart, don't know why you hate me this much, but just know that you are always on my mind. She now replied "Haba! anyone who said i hate you is a liar,wished she met me before she got married".
if i don't call her within two days, she will buzz my phone and say i have forgotten her. I have never really contemplated having "body contact" with her. What am i suppose to do to break her defenses, and how do i go about such a task(based on married young lady parole)

Cc.HARDDON
OKWYPASCAL
OBIOMON
NLJONA
LORDZERO
USTEC et al all the bosses. . .

Japhet04:
Hello, all the gees in the house, kudos to all of ya

I am an ardent follower of these drills and I must say they really work, but there is this case...

A girl in year 1 (law) I started using the drills on her she was responding well to them until one day I got angry with her and walked out on her after that day she started dissing me and says that I am too authoritative and don't know how to talk, also told me not to chat with her again, I wanted to chat with her last Friday but the place was not conducive enough so she shifted it to Monday and also said that I should talk to her with correct mannerisms.

She is very hot and I really need to get her but she seems to have upped her game and is the type of girl that has many admirers, I don't know how to tackle her anymore...

How can I be that special guy in her life

Pls homies what is the way forward

Cc.HARDDON
OKWYPASCAL
OBIOMON
NLJONA
LORDZERO
USTEC etc..

HARDDON:


your birthday should do the trick.......

make sure the cos rep eat off your palms, if you know what i mean....this is the best way to break in and break off!

richkal:


Master harddon, I mean the boisterous and tomboy type of ladies.....

HARDDON:


kindly edit your post and wipe out that write up of his. ive taken steps against that post

HARDDON:
Some1 might be wondering, " what then is this light? How do i own it n glow in it ?"

Ansa is simple: Digest these drills , make it a life style, live in it! All that u hv learnt here, n wud keep learning.

U wud save ur self head aches, heart aches, fuggy fussy brain, money, time, energy n ultimately avoid d Fzone as a single guy

Wen its time to marry, u wud go in wit a clear hear n heart. N know d right one for u

In marriage, u wud know how to take hold of ur family ship rodder n direct it gallantly. Not for naught, were u born a man!

You wud appreciate d fact that real luv is not in singing it daily to her ears, nor selling urself short! But in unpredictable daily actions .

U wud know wen to clip anY wantom wings that wano sprut from ur wife cos of external influence. What u permit/ignore, takes hold of u


You wud know that daily, ur wify wud try to manipulate ( own , control ) u by tiny , seemingly harmless requests n msgs,. Dont fall for em. Cos b4 ud know it, she owns ur balls.
This is what brings boredome to r/ship marriages!
They always wud put u to test, to see if really u r an Alpha male or just faking it. Should u slip, she owns u, ur bright light dims out n she gets bored!
Then she starts to look out there for some guy that has some light.

Then , all a sudden, u cant connect with ur own wify again. Arguments, fight .

When these tins happen, man, u have become a boy.

This is when u now see guys raising hands against their own wifys just to maintain control. Unfortunately, u can never gain control by beating up a woman. If only guys know.

Obiomon:
Chai! e go good na. I go just chop all of them nice guys money finish I go con turn back to M, de advice them

Obiomon:
Oga relax they would always talk bout chu ! Just keep doing your thing don't flop and go out of your dominance you've started already, don't go and start saying you sorry you wanted to... You taught that... And all that! Just relax and watch the game change in a few amount of time. As long as you always smile,keeping your head up and having that alpha male trait of not giving a damn, as long as you always keep that smile on whenever you talk to others, just watch them ass they start drooling over you #experience so long after that, you don't start acting desperate then you've blown every single thing you've been on since day one

HARDDON:
@okwypascal

I used that alot back then in sch! Lol
Dress to class like u r a top executive in an oil company
( shirt well starched like Larry King's n tucked in always...... never really lived like a student in uni....maybe cos of big cousin's political rep in sch) ,

Take note in class with rapt attention, talk to no one, after class, ball home( where my 1hp National window unit AC, that never goes off, wud hv chilled d room b4 i arrived to d kul embrace n my ps console wet waiting for a sleek romance on its control pad)

Sometimes wen d class is boring, i excuse myself outside, sit close by, plug ma ear piece N be nodding my head like agama lizard to some exoteric sounds


There is something about guys that do their tins their own way, rarely talk or mingle, always looking smart with gud command of engllish n diction. Nice fragrance , money, no object with a smile that lights d world.

Did i mention a kul diastema to go wit?



U cudnt imagine d tins we used in pulling rep n attractiOn back then b4 we stumbled on this lane.

Ustec:


Laughing.....
Guys,like HArdDon have been able to MASTER AND PERFECT the ART of those TRAITS you mention...cos they know Ladies will generally fall for it,in other words Ladies get attracted to those trait,Not LOVE!

Thats why you see our most valuable player(hardDon) in Dating drills Fc telling us how he always score hatricks in his playing days..

At some point,he even went on to tell us how he scored the fastest goal in a match in the space of few minutes after kickoff of the GAME..I guez he still holds that Record in this club....

SO what am trying to say is that his been able to PERFECT the ART of ATTRACTING Lladies...

From the rules here,..I think love will always come after attraction...
He made us realiz that even after attracting them,..if you dont know how to play the game in the other room,you stand a chance of loosing all you have workd for in a blink of an eye...so they never LOVE in the first intance,they are just attracted by the alpha male traits!

HARDDON:


It wud be live feb 18th.

We need hands though urgently.... volunteers for now( we would sign an mou from our lawyer)

1) posh graphic designers ( note : u can do sample logo n send....wud hv given u clues but.... i like people to tap into their unlimited latent potentials ....

2) contributors with sound rep in d world of women

3) .........

4) Mobile Marketets

5) .........

We would have an electronic MOU signed then all hands must be on Deck to make it work.

So ya'all,

Here is throwing this open to every member here.

Do me a mail stating clearly what your skill set is.

If u hv done any thing related b4 , attach it also.

Here is to a properous new year

peterpen:
I do not seem to have an idea nw.....wuld be glad if u can give me lines from which I can string my reply

Obagoblog:

Lwkmdie... Bro you don fvck up oo...

You can only use those lines if you have attracted the girl physically before... I mean you guys have discussed before and you burst her brain with funny and witty lines or response... So, when she read your chat she will flow with you cos she already know you don't mean them...

And if you guys meet online, you shouldn't start with such lines... Just be funny in a way she will understand cos many Nigerian girl don't know joke... They might take it as pride and they hate it... First thing is attraction and letting her know your unique style of chatting herself...

Besides, this is new year bro. Everybody is celebrating it.. So many things to talk about that will make the girl like your style of chatting and will love to know you more...

Try and get response like: lol, Lwkmd, you are not serious, go jor.. See your big head... You just made my day, thanks... In fact, a girl just confess to me that "she love chatting with me"... [I can upload the screenshot for you to see]
She keeps asking when I will return to ibadan... [I traveled the next day I collected her number after church service]

You just insulted her... Not even once but twice...

Japhet04:


OK so I have been following you bumper to bumper and have been practicing your tips, and they have yielded great results but there is this one that happened today that I need expert advice on..

here goes

so there is this very hawt girl that was head over heels for me when I was in year one but because of my shy nature I resisted most of her advances and green light and now we are in level 300 and it seems like her likeness for me has dwindled because she's no more into me as before

so just today I saw her number in our class group and decided to chat her up via WhatsApp, the chat went like this

me: Kuliko Jana
me: Who do we have here

her: Lol
Happy New Year

me: Yea, HNY
: I discovered you kept on thinking about
me
: So I decided to holla at you

her: Whaaaaat

me: Whaaat?
: As in you want me to repeat what I just wrote
: Or you are so surprised at how articulate I can be
: Well, while you keep yourself busy pondering on that
: I have other issues to handle
: Ding

her: Articulate...?
: Thinking about you...?
: Really

me: No FREALLY!
: I don't blame you sha
: Apparently the Christmas rice you ate has made your brain unable to understand simple english
: Pff
:I don't think u deserve my time anymore

that is how it went pls harddon how did I do and what do i do next

thank you

ELITE12:
My Deepest Condolences to all the patient dogs and Mr Nice Guys out there in the world right now

Been Eating One very FatBone this yuletide season