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Wife Sent Her Nude Picture To Her Boss …what her husband did will leave you speechless

Mr.Arhamerene cries out that his cheating wife sent her nude picture to her boss who is a manager of Zenith Bank.


He narrates the ordeal of his broken marriage through social media after accusing his wife (now his ex) of having an affair with a colleague who is the operational manager of Zenith Bank at the Delta state university, Abraka. The heartbroken man shared his story with journalist Sapele Oghenek with the permission to post online.


According to the man, he legally married his wife when he was in second semester 100 level at Delta State University. Then the wife just graduated and was about to go for her National Youth Service Corp (NYSC).

They got married on the 16th of November 2016 in Warri, according to Jehovah witness laws and accordance in marriage.

He said he was working as a staff for Fidelity Bank with his Diploma in Computer Science, before he resigned and decided to further his education.

According to him, because he was a student struggling with schooling and family together, he decided to look for job for his wife in Zenith Bank, because he knows the Manager of Zenith Bank Abraka branch. He submitted her CV and she was called for interview in Lagos State. He said he spent close to N80,000 during two weeks she left for the exams and interview. She later got the job and was posted Zenith Bank Delta State University Abraka because of her marital status.


He said his wife’s character changed suddenly towards him in all ramifications not knowing that his wife was dating the operational manager of the bank, one Mr. Kingsley Okudide whom she allegedly sent her nude pictures to.


This was said to have led to a quarrel which made him beat her up in the process. The wife called her father, a welder identified as Robert Alerubo who stormed his house with some Warri boys and dealt with him as he took away his daughter and her son [his grandson] for six months now.


He said just recently the ex-wife posted on her Facebook wall, that ” he is the looser than she as gotten a job and a son she has nothing to lose.”

He said he approached the Zenith bank manager to see reasons with him, but he called his father in-law who got him arrested and was detained at Abraka Police Division for two days.

He disclosed that Mr Kingsley Okudide, the head of operations is the cause of his failed marriage and immediately transferred his ex-wife to Warri branch when he noticed people were visiting him in the office over the issue.

He said the news of his failed marriage is everywhere in Abraka community because he is a very popular student among staff of the university.


https://dailyfamily.ng/wife-sends-her-nude-picture-to-her-boss-what-her-husband-did-will-leave-you-speechless/

An elderly man from Sikapila village under Chief Sipepa in Tsholotsho shocked villagers when he openly divulged to have sexually enjoyed himself with almost all the women in the village using his mubobobo juju.

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Madlela, who could not count the number of the women he alleges to have molested reportedly claimed that his juju does not work on virgins.

‘Mubobobo’ is an act of supernaturally having sexual intercourse without having physical contact with another person by supernatural means.



The drama started after Madlela openly confessed during a witch-hunting exercise by a tsikamutanda, Mwembeli Moapa.

According to a source from the area among the items that were part of Madlela’s mubobobo was a red, white and black cloth, some beads, small pointed horn and some oily substance that was in a plastic container.

“He confessed that he woke up in the dead of the night naked and then takes out his muthi which gives him the power to sleep with any woman he desired. He said he would simply open up the door even if it was locked.

“He further said he would get into the room where his target for that night would be sleeping and push the husband aside and then satisfy himself,” said a source who attended the cleansing ceremony.

The old man openly confessed that he was disappointed with virgins as his juju was not effective on girls who have never slept with a man.

After confessing, Madlela reportedly apologized to all his victims saying he would never do it again.


Some of the village women who fell victim to Madlela reportedly demanded that he be chased away from the village as he had caused them untold suffering.

Some of them later opened up claiming during the night they had been experiencing strange feeling as if they were in the middle of a sex act before waking up with their private parts soiled with semen even when their husbands were away.

https://dailyfamily.ng/ive-slept-with-all-women-in-this-village-old-man-shocks-village-with-confessions/

Amazing Qualities of A Wife Material


A wife material is:

A King’s daughter, she is all glorious both inside and outside
A Favour, it is important to know if your man is progressing or retrogressing.
She is well groomed. Grooming is a personal effort you have to make, it does not stop even after the wedding. Areas you need grooming includes:
-Grooming in dressing

-Grooming in talking

-Grooming in domestic chores

Learn to plan your day.

She runs her life as a Ministry, she lives as unto the Lord. Her Ministry involves:
-Ministry of Purity. You have no justification to give your body to a man you are not married to.

-Ministry of Helps, help that man in your life. Don’t run vengeance, bitterness, envy ministry.

-Ministry of meaningful existence

-Ministry of impactful life

She is a wise woman. You need the wisdom to identify Mr. Waster, to identify Mr. Destiny neutralizer, and to identify Mr. Destiny Booster because he is the one you need.

You need the wisdom to be a builder, you need the wisdom to keep quiet when needed in marriage, you need the wisdom to relate with in-laws.

She is exceptional in Prayer, Multi-tasking, in Finance, Spiritual matters, in Managing Relationships, she must be a manager, relating well, balancing well.
She is a Game-Changer. Give your man a divine push even if he is not motivated
Pastor Mrs. Yomi Adewale advised the single ladies to align their expectations with the will of God for their lives and to learn so many things about men.

She said who a man will be in marriage will be influenced by so many things which are:

-Background

-Level of Education and where he schooled

-Temperament

-The environment he grew up and the one he is living presently.

-Enlightenment.

https://dailyfamily.ng/amazing-qualities-of-a-wife-material/

One major area that is affecting many people without knowing is the issue of spirit husband and wife. Is it possible for someone to be under the attack of a spirit husband/wife without knowing? Yes!


Then, what are the signs that one is under the yoke of a spirit husband or wife? Read below:

1.Stretch marks: Spirit husband and wife can be inflicting injuries on the body of their victim while sleeping. So, when you notice that whenever you wake up from sleep in the morning, there are lots of stretch marks on your back, tummy, arm or any other part of your body, you may be under the attack of a spirit husband.

2. Hatred towards your spouse: When you suddenly develop hatred towards your spouse without a cause to the point of nursing murderous thought towards him or her. Such hatred will make you hate his/her touching and you also hate having sexual intercourse with your spouse, it may be a sign that you are under the influence of a spirit spouse.

3. Hatred Towards Opposite Sex: Another sign of being under the attack of a spirit husband/wife is that when you have an aversion towards the opposite, not that you have been molested at any stage of your life by people of the opposite sex and yet you don’t want to have anything to do with them. This is not normal, the spirit spouse may be at work here.

4. Constant destruction of things: Spirit husband/Wife can be so jealous of the physical spouse thereby causing damage on the things like car, generator, phones and other gadgets owned by the earthly spouse. This case is so mysterious that if those items are sold or given out to some else, it will function well. Many at times, it is the fellow who married a spouse with a spirit husband/wife is the one that bears the burden more.

Please Read More To See More Point From This Link

https://dailyfamily.ng/15-signs-attack-spirit-husband-wife/

Marriage becomes beautiful when you have the required and appropriate knowledge before entering into it. This is why you need to know these urgent facts before marrying that Ondo lady.

7 Urgent Things You Must Know Before You Marry an Ondo Lady.dailyfamily.ng


Ondo State is located in the South-western part of Nigeria and people from the place seem to be different from other Yorubas and this is because of their closeness to other states like Edo, Kogi and Bayelsa State.



A lady from Ondo state have both good and bad qualities which you must take note of and they are:

Her colour is top priority: most people from Ondo state are fair in complexion and the ladies especially do not joke with their colour and they will do anything to maintain it even until old age. Plan to accommodate buying expensive body creams and other body treatments.
She loves Pounded Yam: the major food in Ondo state is pounded yam but the favourite soup to enjoy with it differs according to the different parts of the state. So, Bros, as you are preparing to marry from Ondo, please be ready to eat pounded yam frequently especially for all festivities.
Stubbornness is her major character flaw: it is not new that Ondo people are known to be very stubborn, this does not exclude the ladies as they are equally very stubborn and may insist on their own opinions most of the time. Be ready to manage this in your marriage as it won’t start nor end with you.
There is a tendency to marry another man: most Ondo ladies don’t end up eventually with one man. They may however not marry another but will have children apart from their first marriage after leaving the man.
She is attached to her family: an Ondo lady is a family woman, mostly very attached to not just nuclear but her extended family. This is because they all have a way of coming together even if they are staying far from each other and this includes even those overseas.
Her Ondo accent is strong: an Ondo lady especially those brought up in the state will definitely have a very strong Ondo accent that will interfere with her Yoruba speaking and even her English expressions too.
She is educated: an Ondo lady loves to be educated and may pursue this even into marriage.


https://dailyfamily.ng/7-urgent-things-you-must-know-before-you-marry-an-ondo-lady/

To every prospective husband or wife out there looking to get into the institution of marriage, it is important to outline some various steps that are present in every marriage.

You must be very vigilant as you will surely encounter some of these stages in your marriage. And as the popular saying goes “Knowledge is better than riches’’ and to avoid a divorce you must be careful with the second stage, remember he who urinates in a stream must bear in mind that his family will drink from the water.

4 Stages of Marriage


Remember that in every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find and continue to find grounds for marriage

The following are some steps every newly married couple must pass through as they journey into the institution of marriage

1. The Fantasy Stage: This is the stage where everything is looking all rosy, you just got married to this love of your life and you feel butterflies in your stomach anytime he touches you, anytime you see him around you feel you are already in heaven. This stage is always experienced at the beginning of a marriage, say the first 4-5 years of a marriage. The couples, here, love each other in a world of fantasy, everything looks like a Romeo and Juliet scripted movie. It is like when you buy a new shoe, you want to put it on always, if possible you might even want to wear it to bed. Wait until the shoe starts peeling from underneath and let’s see if you will still wear the shoe like you will normally do.


2. The Reality Check Stage: This stage is the stage I call the ‘’see finish’’ stage. In this stage, the reality starts becoming obvious, you suddenly start seeing those hidden unpleasant things you didn’t see in him/her when you guys were dating and doing all that Prince Charming thing. You start realizing how the girl is bad in bed, how she cannot cook a decent meal, for the females, you start noticing how he can’t wash his clothes, how he is lazy and all that. It is at this stage, you will hear stuff like “Oh this is not the man I married.” Madam calm down, this is the man you married, it’s just that reality has set in. This stage is very important in the life of every marriage, how you react to this stage goes a long way in making or marring your marriage. This stage is usually after 5 years of the marriage when eye don clear. But this is where patience and tolerance come in, yes because if you tell people to live together, you have indirectly given them the mandate to quarrel. A patient person is patient enough to gain longevity. This stage can either lead to a stronger happier marriage or can lead straight up to divorce.

3. Rebellion/Maturity Optimization: This stage is actually a result of the previous stage. What happens here is largely determined by the previous stage. It is either you become rebellious in the marriage, or your both grow in maturity. At this point, most marriages are already heading for the rocks, as the partners become disinterested in each other, everything he does, irritates you, even the gifts he brings home, looks like an abomination, you suddenly feel like leaving his house immediately, you automatically turn into a rebel, always rebelling against your partner. All you need at that point is just a peacekeeping mission, but then two disinterested crocodiles can never agree. On the other hand for those who have mastered the art of understanding reality this is just a step to optimizing their maturity level, they get closer and closer in this stage, they become more of siblings than just husband and wife, they know, respect and tolerate each other’s strength and weakness, to outsiders, the marriage at this point is looking like those beautiful love stories they see on TV, but then the child on the mother’s back doesn’t know how far the journey is.


4. Divorce/Fulfillment: This is the last stage, and what occurs in this stage is hugely dependent on the previous stage. After all the death that will kill a man begins as an appetite. It is either the rebellious partners call it quit or they continue in the marriage fulfilled. All oranges have the same skin, but not all oranges taste the same. All marriages look alike, but the challenges faced in these marriages differ, what matters is how you handle your own challenge. So many persons think divorce is a panacea for every marital illness but when they try it, they suddenly find out that the remedy is worse than the disease.

https://dailyfamily.ng/4-stages-of-marriage-every-intending-couple-must-know/

God help us ooo

please ooo not now

Primate E. O. Akeju of the New Holy Messiah Church in Ilasamaja, Lagos state on Wednesday prophesized that Alhaji Atiku Abubakar will emerge the next president of the federal republic of Nigeria.

Updated: Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu loses first son -dailyfamily.ng

In a series of prophecies released to Dailypost, the cleric warned the APC National Leader to be wary of supporting the re-election bid of President Muhammadu to avoid a tragedy in his family life.



The cleric called on him to be mindful of his health and be more prayerful for his children so as to avert “another tragic occurrence on any of them.


https://dailyfamily.ng/tinubu-will-die-if-he-supports-buhari-in-2019-cleric/

Bombshell: Buhari Blasts Nigerian Youths at Commonwealth
President Muhammadu Buhari on Wednesday claimed that many of the Nigerian youths just want to sit down and do nothing, banking on the notion that Nigerian is an oil-rich nation.

https://dailyfamily.ng/again-buhari-blast-nigerian-youths-at/

very beautiful bride

what concern me

i think something is wrong, maybe your man has done things in your body to prevent you from having affair outside or he using it for something else. my advice please be prayerful cos your life is in danger,

well i dont see anything bad in it, because Age is just a number

ooo boyy this one na super ooo i feel like drinking garri now

wow that's it wonderful pls how much is the fee

1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes.
2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there's a 50% chance you'll die within the next 3 years.
3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There's a 9% chance that you'll meet one of them in your lifetime.
4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger.
5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother.
6. If a part of your body "falls asleep", You can almost always "wake it up" by shaking your head.
7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing - food, attractive people and danger.
8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side.
9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odor.
10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years.
11. There are so many kinds of apples, that if you ate a new one every day, it would take over 20 years to try them all.
12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but you will only live 11 days without sleeping.
13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t.
14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.
15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5 times as much information as Wikipedia.
16. Our brain uses the same amount of power as a 10-watt light bulb!!
17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 minutes to boil 1.5 liters of water!!
18. The Ovum egg is the largest cell and the sperm is the smallest cell!!
19. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to dissolve razor blades!!
20. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day & while you walk, SMILE. It is the ultimate antidepressant.
21. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
22. When you wake up in the morning, pray to ask God's guidance for your purpose, today.
23. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
24. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, broccoli, and almonds.
25. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
26. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts and things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
27. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.
28. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
29. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Forgive them for everything.
30. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
31. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
32. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
33. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
34. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
35. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'
36. Help the needy, Be generous! Be a 'Giver' not a 'Taker'
37. What other people think of you is none of your business.
38. Time heals everything.
39. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
40. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. Each night before you go to bed, pray to God and be thankful for what you accomplished, today. What if you woke up this morning and only had what you thanked God for yesterday? DON’T FORGET TO THANK GOD FOR EVERYTHING.
43. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
Now: Think about forwarding this to your friends to help them lead a happier and healthier life, too!

http://www.familyparliament.com/7820/nuggets-to-maximize-your-life

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12 PROBLEMS OF MARRYING A WORKING CLASS LADY
Bisi Adewale
While there is nothing wrong in marrying a working class lady, in fact they help in augment the family income, but it has many negative aspect of it that I want all Men to know and prepare for if you plan to marry a working class lady and if you are already married to one of them, don't think she is just been wicked, by behaving in some ways, see the negative effect of marrying a working class lady here:

1) SHE LEAVES HOME EARLY
A working woman that need to get to the office by 7.30 will need to leave home early, in some cases as early as 5am,this will be serious on her family, sorry, you may need to take your Child to Crèche yourself.

2) SHE WILL ARRIVE HOME LATE FROM WORK
In the cities, a lady that closes 6pm may not get home until 9pm daily, this is always terrible for men that married them.

3) WILL HAVE LITTLE TIME FOR YOU AND CHILDREN:
With this go-out-early, come-home-late syndrome, I need not tell you that an average working class wife, do have very little time for her Children.

4) WILL COOK LESS AT HOME
Forget eating your wife meal regularly, you may enjoy that may be on Saturday or Sunday, but eateries may need to help during the week or you have to jump in to the kitchen as a "full time house husband"

5) YOU WILL NEED TO EAT SUPPER BY 11pm If she arrives home 9pm everyday, if you can not cook, then you will need to wait for her to eat your dinner by 11pm.

6) LESS CASUAL AT HOME
They tend to get serious at home, the way they are in the office, they don't have time for "frivolities" ,spending time with you or visiting your family

7) OFFICE PROBLEMS WILL COME HOME WITH HER: When a working class lady has problem in the office, her husband should ready for it at home, and forget s*x for that period, she practically not in the mood. Sorry oo.

FORGET EARLY MORNING SEX: Expert says, early in the morning is the best time to enjoy s*x as all sexual hormones are at their best at that time. sorry, you may not enjoy that as your wife is rushing out in the morning, to make it to the office before 8am,so pity you early morning s*x is not for you Monday to Friday. Saturday morning she want to sleep more, Sunday morning she is on her way to Church.

9) REDUCED MID WEEK SEX: Expect many "Not tonight darling" "cant you understand dear" "my head, my back is paining me" from her. She is always tired, spending hours in the traffic to and from the office, working many hours under a boss that has no good word for her simply means, she is drained of every energy in her for sex. Pity you, you need her badly.

10) MAY BE PROUD: Some in the top most position can be proud, since she controls many men like you in the office and may be she makes more money than you, unless she is well brought up, she will struggle for the control of the leadership of the home with you, just the way she plays office politics.

11) YOU ARE NOT MARRIED BETWEEN 7am-5pm MONDAY TO FRIDAY: Of course you know you are "not married" between the hours of 7am - 5pm,somebody else own your wife at that period, she may not even be allowed to pick her calls in some organizations like banks.

12) MORE PRONE TO OFFICE ROMANCE
A working class lady is more prone to office romance. She spends more time with guys who are always well dressed, they work together, share their minds and issues, if she not a discipline type she can easily fall into the hands of office play boys.

http://www.familyparliament.com/1896/12-problems-of-marrying-a-working-class-lady-bisi-Adewale

Bisi Adewale
One of the easiest ways to choose a life partner is to go the worldly way.This way does not put God into the picture at all,choosing to satisfy ones present urge,desire and selfishness. This is the reason many people are suffering in their marriages today.
This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual and devilish. (James 3:15 KJV)
There are two kinds of wisdom- earthly wisdom and wisdom from above. A whole lots of people; children of God inclusive are using earthly or WORDLY wisdom to choose their life partner .That is why many children of God are having the same kind of problems people of the world are having in their marriages.
Here, I want to open your eyes to the worldly wisdom of choosing a life partner.

1: FIND THE RIGHT PERSON: Many people believe that the key to a lasting Relationship and Marriage is about finding the right person.
"Be on the look out for that mr or miss right" they believe true love is magical or mystical. "All you just need is to wait. You can meet the person in the movies, at the shopping mall etc,just be sensitive and find that right person and you will live with the person happily ever after"
This is what we see daily in our films and Movies, also in romance novels which are presented in almost a real life situation that make many of us to believe that, that is the way of life to a successful marriage,but this is not the way of God.

2: FALL IN LOVE: "When you find that right person something will snap inside of you, a butterfly will rise up inside you,your Chemistry will connect,you will feel crazy and out of control,you will feel a storm rising up inside of you starting from your heart straight into your brain,with great sensation in your blood stream, affecting your nervous system making you to misbehave a times. Then you will know you are in love and ready for marriage"
Marriage is not movies where you can fall in love with total strangers or even a masquerade but in reality you don't fall in love you grow into it.
''There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death''. (Proverbs 14:12 KJV)
3: MAKE THE PERSON TO FALL IN LOVE FOR YOU: Another worldly wisdom for choosing a life partner is "make the person to fall in love with you": yes, as soon as you fall in love with the person, do everything to make him or her to fall in love with you. Buy card,get flower,go on a date,dress your best,put your best foot forward,smile a little,just be your best until you make the person to fall in love with you.
Gospel according to movies and romance novels prescribes all these to get your "flash point" to fall in love with you. Send notes,text,mails,r go to movies with him,give s*x if he demand for it, give her expensive gift,get the money by all possible means. These are all worldly counsel to make your dream man or woman fall in love with you.

4: GO AHEAD, HOOK THE PERSON THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY: Hook only the person that can make you happy,the person that can serve you and make you feel great. Hook him,get her don't allow him or her to go,tie down that special person in your life,do everything possible to make him or her yours forever. Fight whosoever want to take him or her from you. Enhance your bre*st or bums if he complain they are too small,hook on drug if that is what he or she want,dance naked if that will make him or her happy. Send your nude pictures if that is what he demanded for. Involve in all manner of sexual perversion if that will fulfill his longing.Steal in the office if you can not meet up with what she demanded for. By all means hook this special person in your life because your life depend on him or her.
5: TEST WHETHER THE PERSON IS YOUR MR OR MISS RIGHT BY ASKING THE TEN "ME"QUESTIONS": Gospel according to romance novels and movies called something "ME QUESTIONS",which they said you must ask yourself before getting married. They stated that you must ask yourself the following me questions:
1: CAN HE OR SHE SATISFY ME SEXUALLY?
2: CAN HE OR SHE TAKE ME THE WY I AM?
3: CAN. HE MEET MY NEEDS FINANCIALLY?
4: CAN HE OR SHE MAKE ME HAPPY?
6: CAN SHE COOK FOR ME VERY WELL.?
7: CAN SHE MAINTAIN HER STATURE FOR ME AND NOT GROW FAT?
8: CAN HE OR SHE HELP ME TO TAKE CARE OF MY PARENTS?
9: DOES HE OR SHE LOVE ME SO MUCH THAT HE OR SHE WILL BE READY TO DIE FOR ME?
10: DOES HE OR SHE FIT ME AND MY SOCIAL STATUS?
If you look at the questions very well; you will discover that,they all contain the word "ME",that is why they call it "ME QUESTIONS"
But what is fundamentally wrong with this is that good,great,blissful and successful marriage is not built on 'ME' (SELFISHNESS) but on 'YOU' (SERVICE) and 'WE' (Unity).
When youth and singles go in search of a partner based on'' me'' they go on getting married based on selfish interest and wrong expectations which do leave them utterly disappointed at the end of the day.
Another problem with this is,it give room for two people who had ask the me questions to get married, that is two selfish people,two "service hunters" ,two people with wrong expectations connecting.Do we need to ask again why divorce court are filled to the brim today and divorce lawyers ate smiling to the bank?
Don't choose base on "me questions" but on genuine love ready to serve and make sacrifice for the other,if two people's mind of service are joined in holy matrimony, the result is always glorious and joyous
5: "FIX YOUR HOPE AND DREAM ON THIS PERSON FOR YOUR FUTURE FULFILLMENT": Let your life revolve on this person,forsake your old friends, abandon your family,make it a 24/7 relationship,call endlessly,call in the day and don't fail to wake him up in the night for the free midnight calls. Don't put your trust in God, let your future plans,vision ,dream and fulfillment be on this person alone.Be rest assured that tomorrow will be well even if you know nothing about matrimonial life as your beloved will accept you the way you are,even if the way you are is the worst you can be. To you, love is enough for the success of any marriage, the marriage will work ''at least we are in love'' is your claim.

All these are foundation for a life full of regrets in marriage. If you based your marriage on all these, you will be basing your marriage on shaky foundation and wrong assumptions.Divorce courts are full of many guys and ladies who had these same assumption years back and went into marriage based on that,given themselves plenty things to regret later in life. Unfortunately, young ones in this generation are falling cheaply for this satanic lies just to prepare them for matrimonial tragedy of the future.
''Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths''. (Proverbs 3:5, 6 KJV)
Join us for Breakthrough For Singles
Date:30 September 2015
Time:2pm
Theme:Purpose Before Marriage
Venue:Eden comfort place,17 Alade Avenue,opposite Airport Hotel,Awolowo way Ikeja
Ministering:Pastors Bisi&Yomi Adewale
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Dear Wife,

I've noticed lately that you've been a little down and hard on yourself about your body image. I'm not sure why, because honestly, I think you're perfect! As your husband, there are three things I want you to know about your body.

1) You're drop-dead gorgeous

There's no need for me to beat around the bush here - I think you are stunningly beautiful! I hope you never forget that. I'm very much attracted to you and want to be with you forever! Yes, we have chemistry!

I may not always say what I'm thinking (I am a man after all!), but I'm constantly telling myself how amazing you look and how lucky I am to be your husband. Sometimes, when you see me do a double take, or sneak a peek, you might think I'm measuring you against some unrealistic standard - but that couldn't be further from the truth. The truth is, I just can't get enough of you! You're that good looking!

2) I love you just the way you are

I appreciate all that you do to take care of yourself and look your best. It's one of the many little ways I know you love me - and it totally turns me on. I love our date nights out on the town and feel so lucky and proud having you at my side.

But there's one important thing I want you to know - I love you just the way you are! In today's world, it's become less than shocking to see women revealing every curve and bit of skin possible. Unfortunately, marketing images are often digitally altered - creating an even more unrealistic image of beauty. It's everywhere - magazines, billboards, television, online ads, etc.

You are constantly bombarded by pressure to look a certain way and to "measure up." I know you feel it. I see you staring at yourself in the mirror, agonizing over a pound gained or a wrinkle found. I know I can't entirely solve this problem for you, but let me at least try to put your mind at ease - I love you just the way you are!

I'm the lucky person you've chosen to share everything with, and let me tell you - you're beautiful on the inside and out! My love isn't conditional on how you look and there's no one I'd rather grow old with - wrinkles and all!
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3) Your smile lights up a room

We've been married for a while now, and I love holding you in my arms and being intimate with you! But I want to remind you that long before I saw all of you, I saw your smile from across the room - and that's what sparked the attraction. Certainly, that attraction has grown over time, but it all started with that beautiful smile and those sparkling eyes.

Your smile is simply contagious! It lights up a room - just like you light up my life. If I've had a bad day, nothing can pick me up quite like your smile and the sound of your laugh. Your optimism and fun-loving personality are energizing and super attractive! You don't have to wear the latest trends and sport the newest looks to grab my attention - all you have to do is smile!

So, dear wife - with all the stresses and pressures of life, please don't let your body become one of them. Even though I may not verbally express it enough (I'll try to do better!), you are beautiful. Thanks for being my everything. And remember, I LOVE YOU!

- Your Husband

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One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn as a married woman is how to serve and love my husband regularly and well, without expecting anything in return.

Before getting married I had a fairytale perception of marriage. On my wedding day I said, “I do”, but with a list of expectations tucked firmly away in the tulle of my wedding gown. The ulterior meaning of “I do” was “I get,” even though I didn’t realize it at the time. I looked forward to all the perks of marriage, but forgot that marriage is more than anything I receive; marriage is an act of service.

In our culture, the word “serve” has a bad connotation because to serve makes a person a “servant,” and no one aspires to be a servant. Add the context of marriage to the discussion of servitude, and more specifically a wife serving her husband, and we join the never-ending debate of wives and submission. However, for a Christian, being a servant is what Jesus calls us to do – especially in marriage.

Christian servitude in marriage does not imply that the roles of husband and wife are not equal. It also does not imply that wives should serve their husbands more than husbands serve their wives or vice-versa. We are each called to be servants to one another because Jesus was a servant, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45)”. And serving others shows Jesus’ authority over our lives. “And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all” (Mark 9:35).

Since this article is written for wives, here are 8 important ways you can serve and love your husband on a regular basis. The first four are things you can do for his spiritual growth. The others are more practical.

1. Pray for him.

Praying for your husband seems obvious, doesn’t it? But how often do we intentionally pray for our husbands outside “Lord, protect him” or “Lord, change him”?

Our husbands are in a daily war as the enemy fights for their hearts and minds. From their workplaces to their social activities to their home lives, men battle an excruciating amount of temptation. Making wise, godly decisions in the midst of all their daily distractions is impossible without our intercession for the Holy Spirit to equip and guide them.
2. Show him with your actions, not your words.

The longer you’re married, the more you realize that you’re married to a sinner (and that he married a sinner as well). It seems that the list of characteristics you want changed in your husband grows, sometimes without any evidence of improvement.

The most encouraging verse in the Bible for me as a wife is 1 Peter 3:1-2, “Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct.”

My default is to try to get my husband to understand my point by explaining it to him again and again, reminding him of it, and nagging him about it. However, 1 Peter 3:1-2 explains that husbands are won over without words but by example.

I have found that this applies to conflicts in my marriage but also to habits that I wish would change in my husband. For example, I can’t expect him to eat healthier if I’m not eating healthy. However, instead of trying to convince him of his need to eat better, I motivate him through my example of eating better.
3. Allow him the space and time to grow.

After we pray for our husbands and encourage them my example, we must remember that it is only God who changes a man’s heart. It is God who grows our husbands.

First Corinthians 3:6-7 says, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth.”

It’s tempting to make our husband’s growth about us and not about him and his relationship with God. We have to ask ourselves, do we want our husband to change so that his relationship with Jesus will be stronger or do we want our husband to change for our personal benefit?

Our motive should always be for our husband’s relationship with Jesus to grow stronger. Otherwise, it is a selfish motive. With this in mind, we must remember that God initiates change and growth and it is always in Him timing, not ours. Sometimes evidence of growth is slow. We may never see it at all. But we have to stay faithful in prayer and action, showing patience for what God wants to do in our husband’s life.
4. Believe in him.

We can’t forget the definition of love. “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7).

As long as we may have to pray for our husband and be an example for our husband, we can’t give up on him. We must be his biggest cheerleader and his biggest ally, in his journey towards fullness in Christ.
5. Participate in his hobbies.

Before I was married, an older married friend told me she was going motorcycle riding with her husband. This intrigued me because my friend didn’t seem like the type of person who would like to ride motorcycles. So I asked her if she liked to go motorcycle riding.

She went on to tell me that she, in fact, did not enjoy riding motorcycles. But one thing she had learned in marriage is the importance of participating in the hobbies your husband likes to do.

For some reason this has always stuck with me, and now that I’m married I understand how true it is. When my husband is interested in my hobbies, I feel important to him. It’s proof that he wants to spend time with me.

Our husband feels the same when we participate in his hobbies. Participating in his hobbies is what makes our marriage a friendship.
6. Give him time to unwind after work.

Before bombarding your husband with the day’s news and issues while he was at work, give him space and time when he comes home to unwind from his day. Even prayerfully consider the best time to discuss important issues so that they don’t add unnecessary stress.
7. Speak favorably to him to others when he’s not around.

I am always surprised about how my attitude towards my husband changes when I speak well of him to my friends as opposed to when I complain about him or tear him down. Speak words of affirmation towards your husband with others because this affects your attitude towards him when you’re together.
8. Tell him “thank you”.

Often. Every day tell your husband thank you for what he does for you and your family. Even if you don’t feel thankful, thank him anyway.

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Last month, my best friend came to me with concerns about EVERYONE calling her two year-old daughter "pretty." Her concern was that "I feel like the world only notices her looks and is trying to place value on her outward appearance rather than her real strengths."

I can imagine people telling my friend and her daughter that they should just relax because they got the long end of the stick. However, I have spent most of my professional life working with children and teens with eating disorders and Body Dysmorphic Disorders. I have stood outside bathrooms listening to skinny 14 year-old girls forcing themselves to vomit because they didn't think they were skinny enough. I have seen lovely intelligent girls cut their wrists because they gained ten pounds. I hurt for these girls. I hurt for their parents. I hurt for the youth of this body obsessed generation who, according to a study by A. Chris Downs, will receive roughly 5,260 ads related to attractiveness per year (or at least 14 per day).



How can this be combatted? Can parents like my friend raise a daughter with healthy body image without moving to Amish country? Here are five keys I've picked up through my formal education, my professional experience as a social worker, my own childhood, and most importantly, my experience as a mother of a lovely daughter.
1. It starts with you

Peggy O'Mara once said, "The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice." Nothing is more true. Your daughter looks to you for guidance on making sense of the world, making sense of herself and her purpose in life. If you cut her down, she will forever fight that voice in her head. Your voice. Raise your children up. Tell them they are beautiful but more importantly, tell them they are intelligent, kind, and worthy. Last week I took my three year-old daughter to the doctor for a routine check-up. The first thing they did was put her on the scale. I asked her, "How much do you weigh?" to which she responded, "Just right." The nurse was shocked. I smiled and said, "That's right," and I had never been more proud.
2. Be gentle with yourself

Kids learn in three ways; example, example, example. Your daughters are looking to you on how they should behave and feel. They saythat the biggest indicator of how far a child will go educationally is how far their mother went. If you get your PhD, chances are your daughter will too. The same can be said about body image, if you feel fine about your body, chances are your daughter will too. If you do struggle with body issues, counseling can help you feel better about your body. The healthier you become the healthier your daughter will be.
3. Be gentle with others

Speak kindly. In Matthew 12 it reads, "On the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned." Whether you believe in The Bible or not, this is good advice. Be a parent who doesn't speak poorly of those without "ideal" bodies. Study the immensity of the universe, study Christ's teachings, study the butterfly effect, or read Man's Search for Meaning. There is so much good to learn, who has time to spend criticizing the shape of someone else's body?

The size of a person's stomach does not give their life meaning. The number on the scale does not define you or anyone else. The same day my daughter shocked the nurse we played at our local children's museum where we overheard two moms talking in the tot section about their next diet, the ugly parts of their bodies and form-fitting underwear. I usually don't talk to strangers, but I did that day. "Excuse me" I said shyly, "I don't mean to interrupt, but you two are so perfectly beautiful. Why do you worry about things like that?" They were almost speechless. I don't think they knew they were beautiful.
4. Be ready to talk

When questions do come, and they will, be ready to talk. We live in Oklahoma which is not the nation's healthiest state. When my daughter comes to me about body size differences we don't talk about attractiveness or body shapes. We talk about having a healthy heart. We talk about being physically strong so that we can do the things that our family values (basketball, hiking, horseback riding). We also talk about how other people value different things and how it is incredibly hurtful to talk bad about another person's body. People are sensitive about their bodies, the media makes sure of that. Raise your daughters to be a force for good in the world, to see the strengths in others rather than just a pant size.
5. Be a stinker about media consumption for as long as you can

Studies show that by first grade our personality/identity is formed and doesn't seem to change much throughout our lives. I know that the shows children watch, the games they play, and the songs that fill the room DO shape your daughter's life. Be watchful. Guard your children. Teach your children. Be an example of what and how much media to consume.



In the end, we cannot control everything our daughters think, feel, and do. They will make mistakes, and goodness knows, so will we! But at the end of the day, we have the privilege and responsibility to heavily influence the first few years of our daughters' brain development, which are apparently the most important. Hopefully, these steps help vaccinate your daughter against unhealthy body image.

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Can a married woman have friends of the opposite sex?
As a married woman, can I have a friend that is a man? There's some debate about this topic, but I think that it's possible if you follow these rules.

Ever since I was little, I was never good at being friends with the girls my age; I've always been friends with the boys. This was the case even when I grew up. In college and even through my career after school, I was friends with men rather

When I married, my husband was aware of my friend situation and wasn't bothered at first. However, his opinion changed, and it became something we talked about quite often. While I don't think that it's wrong to have certain friends of the opposite s*x when you are married as long as these things are being done to protect your marriage. Here are the essential rules I now follow:

Trust is crucial

The four foundations of a relationship are: love, trust, respect and communication. If any of them weaken, everything your marriage stands for starts to crumble. These four foundations are so connected that betraying one causes issues in all the other categories. That being said, your husband deserves to know the exact nature of your friendships. He should be friends with the people you are friends with. Your behavior with your friends is the same when your husband is there and when he isn't. Involving him in your friendships will let him know you trust him and that there isn't anything to hide. If your husband begins to feel insecure or jealous, cut off the friendship. A friendship isn't worth your marriage.

Respect can't be pushed aside

Here, respect means many things. It is respect for yourself, toward your partner, your friend and toward your marriage. When there is respect for all the different relationships in your life, there isn't worry that a friendship will lead to something else. Knowing your friend respects your marriage is just as important as you having respect for your husband. If this level of respect is missing in any category, discontinue the friendship.

Talk with your husband

Good communication needs to be part of any marriage, whether you have friends of the opposite s*x or not. But you must maintain solid conversation with your husband if you hope to keep your marriage and keep your friends. Good communication is based on understanding, listening and having a respectful opinion on both sides of the story. Let your husband know that he is the most important aspect of your life, and if he feels threatened by other friends, he can tell you about it.

Truth will save you

It's not unusual to hear comments about a jealous husband who suspects that these friends have an ulterior motive. How will you make your husband realize this is not true? Being open about your friendships will save you. Friendships change over time, but some things remain the same. A true friend supports you in what is right, but not in matters that are wrong. They will care for you, your husband and would never attempt to ruin that relationship you and your husband share.

Keep these friends close, but only the ones that deserve the title.

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A MESSAGE TO THE YOUTHS" FACTS ABOUT SEX"
1. It is not a sin to have an erection, but it is a sin to follow the direction of that erection.. (if you allow your erection to determine your direction you will end up in destruction)
2. Sexual sins are generational, there is nothing like casual sex.
3.Many destiny have been destroy because of sex,, your present day backwardness may be as a result of one careless s*x you have many years ago..
4. Sexual sin has no benefit @all, what you stand to lose is more than 5 or 10min enjoyment
.5.Sexual sin is a hard slave driver.
6. Disvirginity is a blood covenant, women of destiny are never lose with their virginal, women of destiny don’t just pull down there skirts @any slightest provocation.
7 Mutual relationships in the exchange of body is very dangerous.
8. s*x reorient ate your mind/purpose on earth.
9. Abortion is nothing but cold murdering of an innocent blood, (if u assist a girl to abort by giving her money or any aid @all,, blood will speak against you..)
10. s*x makes someone to have a divided attention.
11. Two becoming one is by spirit and by sex.

SEXUAL BEHAVIOURS YOU MUST AVOID
1. FORNICATION
2.ADULTERY
3.SADOMY
4. LESBIANISM
5. ORAL s*x
6. MASTURBATION
7. BESTIALITY
8. RAPE
9. PEDOPHILE
10.INCEST
The purpose of s*x is for pleasure .somebody who engage sin premarital /extramarital s*x will lose peace with GOD,, in addition if u are not a man (married) u are not entitle to sex,, U CANT CLEAVE UNTIL U LEAVE, For this reason shall a man leave his father n mother and cleave to his wife n they shall become one. TWO BECOMING ONE IS BY SPIRIT AND BY SEX.
MAY GOD HELP US ALL

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There are lots of ways to make a woman happy, but at the end of the day, we just want to feel like we're something special.


Here are 10 ways to show your wife you truly love her:
1. Tell her how you feel about her

Guys, even though you might not like talking about your feelings, we need it. If you want to make your wife feel important, and truly loved, you should look in her eyes and say, "I love you."

Eye contact makes a huge difference. The more eye contact you make, the more intimate it becomes.
2. Surprise her with little gifts

When you're walking through the mall, and your wife stops to look at something that she likes, try to remember it. Do your research and ask your mother-in-law or her sisters for a gift idea or two (you'll get brownie points from them as well).
3. Stop, look, and listen!

Notice when she wants to talk. She's not asking for you to fix something or be her hero; she just wants someone to listen. Make her feel like a million bucks by being attentive and making her feel important.
4. Date her

Try to go on a date at least once a week. Get a babysitter, recruit a grandparent or trade off with another couple. Keep the romance alive. You won her over once, do it over and over again.
5. Build her up

Encourage your wife to pursue her interests and the things that make her happy. Compliment her in front of others! It will make her shine like gold.
6. Do things around the house

There are a lot of things that women do that are sometimes taken for granted. A great way for husbands to show their love is by helping out around the house. Clean up after dinner, get the kids ready for school or take the next turn with the baby. The next time you notice your wife looking a little tired, say, "Why don't I clean up dinner? You can take a bubble bath." (Then I highly recommend giving her a foot massage.)
7. Leave her little notes

You don't have to be Shakespeare, just try to make her smile. Text her love notes when you're at work, leave sticky notes on the mirror in the bathroom, send a romantic email or put a little note in a book that she's reading.
8. Be more physical!

Don't forget small, meaningful touches: Hold your wife's hand or put your hand on the small of her back when you're leading her through a door. It doesn't really matter what you do - just touch more.
9. Give her a surprise date

Get off work early without telling her, pick up her favorite movie, grab some take out from that place she loves and have a surprise night in. Relaxing romance can be the very best kind. Cuddle on the couch, share popcorn while you watch the movie and offer her a back rub when it's over. It'll be great for both of you.


10. Leave her time to be herself

Make her take a break and do something just for herself. Tell her to go for lunch with a girlfriend, give her time to take a class or join a book club. If you want your wife to feel loved, she also needs to love herself.

http://www.familyparliament.com/436/10-ways-to-show-your-wife-you-truly-love-her

Just in case you missed the baby drama in the news lately, I will update you. The Uches became news after 34-year-old Mrs. Ruth Uche took her six children – three pairs of twins – on a ‘save-our-soul’ visit to the Lagos State governor.

She begged for help after her husband, Emeka, ran away from home in April 2015 when he learnt that his wife was having another set of twins – their third.

Emeka absconded because he felt he could not cope with the overwhelming responsibility of caring for six kids with his present earnings.
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After much financial assistance from government and other philanthropists in the society, the father of six is back with his family in Ogun State. The jury is out as to whether or not Emeka should be welcomed with open arms after he shirked his responsibility to his loved ones.

Doctors say we all must learn from this incident. According to them, the drama may have been avoided if the couple had taken a conscious effort to guide against the situation. In other words, they could have prevented the last pregnancy through contraception.

The use of modern contraceptive methods is still very foreign to many sexually active women in developing countries like Nigeria. Women who need these essential services, which are widely available, shy away from it due to ignorance, fear of cancer, infertility and other health-related factors.

However, experts warn that their reluctance to access these essential services puts them at risk of having more children than they can cater for. They note that increased uptake of family planning methods among Nigerian women could significantly reduce the poverty rate in the country, as more women would be able to contribute their economic quota to the development of the country and their families.

According to the Co-Principal Investigator of the PMA2020 family planning survey, sponsored by the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, Dr. Funmilola Olaolorun, no research or evidence has shown that any modern birth control method causes cancer, infertility or other serious medical complications.

She says, “There is no single method that works for every woman. It is not a one-size-fits-all. It is the doctor that will determine which method best suits you, but we know that no scientific evidence has showed that modern contraceptives lead to cancer.

“Some of the methods, however, have their side effects but they are not life-threatening. For instance, we would not want to give a woman who has not given birth an intrauterine device popularly known as coil, because it can cause infection in her vagina, which can lead to pelvic inflammation. Yet, this is also very rare.

“If a woman is using ‘injectables,’ she may not see her menses for years till she stops, but it does not mean that the blood that is not coming out is stored somewhere in the stomach. Again, for a woman who has reached menopause and does not see her menses again, it does not mean that she would have cancer.”

It is not only a matter for women; a man can also do something about child spacing.

Condoms

Condom also reduces a woman’s chance of having an unwanted pregnancy. Medics say that improved condom use will reduce the number of women who seek to abort unwanted pregnancies.

According to Consultant Gynaecologist, Dr. Tayo Adeniji, more than 80 per cent of unwanted pregnancies, which arise from unprotected sex, are aborted by quacks who use unsafe methods that often result in complications.

Adeniji says couples should adopt condom use as a safe birth control method, which would not only help child spacing but also reduce the side effects of other contraceptive methods.

The medic adds that unlike pills and injections, the use of condoms will never affect a woman’s menstrual cycle, as condoms do not have any effect on the female reproductive system and physical health the way some contraceptive pills can.

He states, “Unwanted pregnancy is one of the complications that arise from unprotected sex. s*x is seen as recreation, not necessarily for procreation. When people are stressed out and do not know what to do, s*x is another way for them to relax. However, when an unwanted pregnancy arises from such activity, unsafe abortion is likely to happen.

“Many women have died seeking abortions of pregnancies that arose from an unprotected sex. Many homes have broken because the husband ran away from the responsibility of catering for many kids.

“Many homes have broken because of an unwanted pregnancy, which occurred because someone did not use protection. Low condom use in Nigeria is one of the reasons why the country has one of the highest rates of maternal mortality and unwanted pregnancies in the world.”

On sexually-transmitted diseases, Adeniji likens non-monogamous skin-to-skin s*x to an open invitation to STDs such as HIV/AIDS.

If used properly, the physician reiterates, a condom is very effective at reducing the risk of HIV infection during sexual intercourse.

When it comes to condoms, what comes to the mind of many people is the latex condom for male penis. But there are basically two types of condoms: the ones made specifically for male use and the second are the ones used by women. Of course, the most common type is the male condom.

The physicians, however, states that it is not only the responsibility of a man to ensure that s*x is safe, a woman can also protect her partner from STDs by wearing a female condom.

Some even say the female condom came into being because men did not like wearing theirs; so if your partner refuses to wear a rubber sheath, you can use yours.

Adeniji says, “It is the woman that bears the brunt of an unwanted pregnancy here in Africa. So, women should insist that their partners wear condoms. If he refuses, you can always use yours. Safe s*x is a joint responsibility.”
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1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate
behaviour.
2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you have lost them.
3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined
them regularly in public.
5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is bcoz when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want.
6. If your child is cowardly, it is bcoz you help them too quickly.
7. If your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is bcoz instead of speaking to your child,
you order and command them.
8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is bcoz you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.
9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is bcoz you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.
10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is bcoz you are not
physically affectionate enough.
11. If your child is openly defiant, it is bcoz you openly threaten to do something but don't follow
through.
12. If your child is secretive, it is bcoz they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion.
13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour.
14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is bcoz you are too quick to make decisions.
15. If your child rebels it is bcoz
they know you care more about
what others think than what is
right.
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