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RomanceTop 10 Reasons People Go To Church In Nigeria (no 4 Reason Will Shock You) by Olabode09(op): 11:40am On Feb 06, 2019
Churches are popular places in Nigeria, while Sundays are known for their popular and special aura in the country, especially in urban cities.

Every part of the country today has been covered with churches, ranging from small to gigantic structures with large parking lots.

Nigerians are church people, no doubt but then this has not affected the crime rate in the country.

The question then is, why do people go to church in Nigeria. From our survey, Nigerians go to churches for several reasons, among them are these:

1. Nigerians go to churches to fulfil Sunday demands: many Nigerians go to churches religiously, they believe they just need to attend church on Sundays, hence it becomes a necessity.

2. Nigerians go to churches to socialize: especially in Lagos, Nigerians are the busy type, they are mostly occupied during the week including weekends, Sundays become the avenue to meet with people other than your regular office colleagues.

3. Nigerians go to churches for business connections: Big structured churches located in the heart of the city receives more members especially in Lagos, most of these members see the church as an avenue to connect with other “Big Men”. With this mentality, people go to becoming fervent in churches in other to gain business connections.


4. Nigerians go to churches for hookups: many singles see churches as an arena for searching. Many of these people mainly go to churches in other to meet their other half.


5. Nigerians go to churches to get employment: churches are generally regarded as a place to secure help, many young Nigerians flock big churches in other to gain recommendation for jobs, most of these unemployed or underemployed youths become active, joining service unit all in other to get employed.


6. Nigerians go to churches to fight poverty: most churches parade welfares publicly, and the country being the grandmaster and headquarter of poverty has left citizens with no choice, they will go anywhere food will be offered, most churches provide food items, clothing etc to attract some sets of people.


7. Nigerians go to churches to fight demons: some churches are regarded as deliverance churches, Nigerians attend these churches in order to fight for liberation from demonic oppression and bondage.


8. Nigerians go to church to listen to sermons: these sets of people are easy to identify, they are time managers and only gets to church during the pastor’s message, they are mostly not interested in other things.


9. Nigerians go to church to worship God: despite the numerous reasons for attending churches, some Nigerians claim they go to church to worship their maker.

10. Nigerians go to church to show off: Sundays services are more like a contest, while many show off their clothes, some parade their body structures, their cleavages, others take it as far as showing their expensive cars.

https://dailyfamily.ng/top-10-reasons-people-go-to-church-in-nigeria-no-4-reason-will-shock-you/
RomanceSee Shocking Thing That Happens To This Lady After 3 Years Of Marriage (photos) by Olabode09(op): 11:42am On Feb 04, 2019
A 25-year-old Facebook user identified as Chidinma Offor took to Facebook to celebrate her three years wedding Anniversary.
According to her claim, she has given birth to seven children in three years, she first had a set of triplet and later a quadruplet.
Although one of the children is dead leaving her with six children in three years of marriage.

She wrote, “at 25, within 3years of marriage, we’ve bn blessed with 6 beautiful babies. Trust me when i say it wasnt an easy journey, but it’s bn worth it. Say hello baby somkenechukwu (female), sobenna(male),somfechukwu (female),chimsonarii(female) newest addy to my not so lil family. My God is awesome! Ehee! Ndi gym i’m now ready o. Taking this slay game to an entirely new level”.

https://dailyfamily.ng/7-children-in-3-years-lady-writes-as-she-celebrates-wedding-anniversary-photos/

PoliticsFela Durotoye Makes Shocking Revelation About 2019 Elections (see Details) by Olabode09(op): 10:37am On Jan 24, 2019
The presidential aspirant of the Alliance for New Nigeria (ANN), Fela Durotoye has made a shocking revelation about what will happen in the forthcoming elections.

You can also read this: Oby Ezekwesili Withdraws From Presidential Race to Support A Top Candidate https://dailyfamily.ng/obi-ezekwensili-withdraws-from-presidential-race-to-support-a-top-candidate/

Fela Durotoye wrote a letter to Nigerians at the early hours of today, January 24, 2019, where he shared that he is ready to form a consensus with any of the presidential aspirants of the younger generation.

Durotoye saluted the ACPN Presidential aspirant, Obi Ezekkwesili for the decision she made to form a coalition as he also mentioned that he is ready to get into talks with other aspirants like Kingsley Moghalu and Omoyele Sowore.


Fela Durotoye Statement reads thus:

From: FelaDUROTOYE

Presidential Candidate

Alliance for New Nigeria (ANN)

Date: Thursday, 24th January 2019

I have always believed that leadership is about service and sacrifice and today, I would like to commend Dr. (Mrs) Oby Ezekwesili @obyezeks for leading the charge to forming a viable coalition to presenting a Consensus Candidate for the 2019 Presidential elections.

To ensure that an alliance is formed and we present a united front, I AM READY to come into any coalition talks with my brothers Omoyele Sowore @yelesho and Prof. Kingsley Moghalu @moghalukingsley and to submit myself to any transparent process that will help us arrive at a selection of a Consensus Candidate from amongst us.

To be clear, if the process produces any other candidate apart from myself, I AM READY to support whoever the Consensus Candidate is and to do all I can to support the coalition to win the 2019 Presidential elections for our generation.

Once again, I implore the frontline candidates in our generation. _

Let us come together and seize this historic window of opportunity for our generation to select one of us to go ahead of us … so that ALL OF US can come together and speak with one voice at the 2019 General Elections.

Read Also: Sowore Reveals Nigeria’s Problem, it is not Corruption, See Details. https://dailyfamily.ng/sowore-reveals-nigerias-problem-it-is-not-corruption-see-details/

Together, we can do the perceived impossible.

Our generation is depending on us.

We must not let them down.


https://dailyfamily.ng/fela-durotoye-makes-shocking-revelation-about-2019-elections-see-details/
PoliticsWhat You Don’t Know About Omoyele Sowore’s Wife And Children by Olabode09(op): 11:28am On Jan 22, 2019
Omoyele Sowore, one of Nigeria’s opposition leaders and presidential candidate of the African Action Congress AAC is no doubt a revolutionary leader.

Being an activist for 30 years, Omoyele Sowore has been to detention eight times before he left the country for US in 1999.



Being one of the consistent pro-democracy fighters, Sowore took the fight to the internet space in 2006 when he founded SaharaReporters in his room in Manhattan in the US.

Many people have been questioning the family life of the SaharaReporters publisher. He has not publicly displayed any member of his family, which makes people doubt if he is married or not, today I will tell you about his marital status, wife, and children. CLICK TO CONTINE.........

https://dailyfamily.ng/what-you-dont-know-about-omoyele-sowores-wife-and-children/
RomanceTope Alabi Makes Shocking Revelation Why She Will Never Call Her Husband “daddy” by Olabode09(op): 2:41pm On Jan 18, 2019
Nigerian popular gospel singer, Tope Alabi made a shocking revelation on why she would never call her husband “Daddy”.

You can also read this: “God blessed me with a Man that matched my destiny”-Tope Alabi Celebrates Husband

The gospel singer made this known while speaking with Teju Babyface in an interview, she explained that she can never call her husband; Daddy because he is not her father.

Tope Alabi also mentioned that calling her husband “Daddy” is not romantic in any way and that it is only common between Pastors and their wives to do so.

She said: “It is not romantic at all. Why will I call my husband daddy when I know who my Daddy is, I know where my daddy lives so why will I bestow such title on my husband?

Besides, that title is also used for Pastors and their wives, the Pastor can refer to his wife as Mummy and in vice versa.”


The beautiful singer shared how she met her husband, Soji Alabi in the year 1995. Here is what she explained:

“I was into theatre then, I used to do background songs for Yoruba movies and he was a studio manager then and we became friends, I liked him. Whenever I didn’t show up in the studio to record, he will ask those around about my whereabouts….then, he used to call me Aunty Tope but now we call each other my choice. He is my manager, keyboardist, band member and most importantly my husband.”

https://dailyfamily.ng/tope-alabi-makes-shocking-revelation-why-she-will-never-call-her-husband-daddy-details/

Romance15 Signs That You Are Under The Attack Of A Spirit Husband And Wife by Olabode09(op): 10:54am On Jan 18, 2019
One major area that is affecting many people without knowing is the issue of spirit husband and wife. Is it possible for someone to be under the attack of a spirit husband/wife without knowing? Yes!

Then, what are the signs that one is under the yoke of a spirit husband or wife? Read below:

1. Stretch marks:
Spirit husband and wife can be inflicting injuries on the body of their victim while sleeping. So, when you notice that whenever you wake up from sleep in the morning, there are lots of stretch marks on your back, tummy, arm or any other part of your body, you may be under the attack of a spirit husband.

2. Hatred towards your spouse:
When you suddenly develop hatred towards your spouse without a cause to the point of nursing murderous thought towards him or her. Such hatred will make you hate his/her touching and you also hate having sexual intercourse with your spouse, it may be a sign that you are under the influence of a spirit spouse.

3. Hatred Towards Opposite Sex:
Another sign of being under the attack of a spirit husband/wife is that when you have an aversion towards the opposite, not that you have been molested at any stage of your life by people of the opposite sex and yet you don’t want to have anything to do with them. This is not normal, the spirit spouse may be at work here.

4. Constant destruction of things:
Spirit husband/Wife can be so jealous of the physical spouse thereby causing damage on the things like car, generator, phones and other gadgets owned by the earthly spouse. This case is so mysterious that if those items are sold or given out to some else, it will function well. Many at times, it is the fellow who married a spouse with a spirit husband/wife is the one that bears the burden more.

5. Spiritual Sexual Molestation:
When you dream of constant Sexual Intercourse while sleeping, it is a major sign that you are under the attack of a spirit spouse. If you usually have sex in the dream, you need to seek for spiritual help through deliverance.

READ ALSO: Sex Scandal: Teacher Proudly Sends His Sex Video with Student Viral to Ward off Jealous Lovers (See Video) https://dailyfamily.ng/sex-scandal-teacher-proudly-sends-his-sex-video-with-student-viral-to-ward-off-jealous-overs-see-video/

6. Experiencing Lost Of Items:
Another common sign of life under spirit husband/wife is when you keep on experiencing loss of money and valuable items. Even if you are the only one living in a house and you discovered that you can’t find your money where you kept it, and your belongings are getting missing, you need serious prayer to be free.


7. Constant Miscarriages/Barrenness:
The wickedness in the heart of the spirit husband who doesn’t want his ‘wife’ to have earthly children can make him suck the pregnancy whenever the wife is pregnant. Cases like this are beyond medical attention and if not arrested early enough, it may lead to barrenness.

8. Sudden Death of A Spouse:
The hostility and jealous lifestyle of a spirit spouse can make him kill the earthly spouse. Some people have been having this issue that whosoever married them will die suddenly without prior sickness or health issues without knowing that it could be a spirit spouse at work.

9. Failed Business/Financial problem:
When you noticed your business keep failing and you keep recording losses in all your business attempts even when you obey all business principles. Yet, you can’t explain how the whole investment crumbles. Some can be so worse that even if they join a thriving business, the business it will nosedive at their inclusion. This is a punishment from a spirit spouse meted out to you for marrying his spouse.

Read Also: How To Be Free From Spirit Husband/Wife (Incubus and Succubus) https://dailyfamily.ng/free-spirit-husbandwife-incubus-succubus/

10. Breast Feeding In The Dream: If you have been dreaming that you are nursing a baby in the dream, it may be a sign that you are already married in the spirit world. The spirit husband may prevent you from having earthly Children or killed your earthly Children.

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https://dailyfamily.ng/15-signs-attack-spirit-husband-wife/

Romance#10years Challenge, 8 Questions You Must Ask Yourself by Olabode09(op): 10:12am On Jan 18, 2019
I suddenly woke up to see various pictures on social media attributed to the popular 10-year challenge currently trending online.
In fact, it has generated a lot of humour, my laughter was ceaseless for almost five minutes after checking out a friend’s picture on WhatsApp. How Biggie was a product of a ten years ago tiny and dark girl was a surprise, I ended my laughter with my usual idiolect “God is great”
Not only the case of Biggie made me laugh, but I also stumbled on some pictures that have produced a laughter generating factory in me, while some are adorable, some pictures seem to have been brought from the gallery of Mungo Park.
I have seen what transformation is, some from slim to fat, short to tall and surprisingly, I discovered some people whom I knew to be fair in complexion were actually dark ten years ago.

As I wanted to join the challenge, I challenged myself first, what have been your challenges in the past ten years?
It took me hours not knowing what to say, then I asked myself what picture will I post in the next 10 years?
It dawns on me that most people posting pictures of ten years differences don’t even know how the transformation came about, most people have been robotic in the past ten years, waking, going to work and coming back home, if the physical changes are just the only difference you have, then you need a rethink.

Read Also:8 Secrets to hijack your husband from side chicks (Every woman must read this) https://dailyfamily.ng/8-secrets-to-hijack-your-husband-from-side-chicks-every-woman-must-read-this/

Another ten years is close by, you will definitely be older, much more about physical changes, but you need to ask yourself these questions;
Apart from the physique, what has really changed about me in the last ten years?
Who really cares about my look?
Where will I be in ten years?
What will I be doing?
What do I want to change in the next ten years?
How can I invest in myself?
Who will I be in the next ten years?
It is not about the look, it is about your personality, the best challenge is that which you challenge yourself, you can start that today and set a goal for the next ten years.

https://dailyfamily.ng/10years-challenge-8-questions-you-must-ask-yourself/
RomanceRe: #10yearschallenge: See Touching Story Of Young Winner (photos) by Olabode09(op): 2:11pm On Jan 17, 2019
God is Good
Romance#10yearschallenge: See Touching Story Of Young Winner (photos) by Olabode09(op): 2:09pm On Jan 17, 2019
A young girl has emerged the favourite and what seems to be the winner of the 10 years’ challenge as her touching story has gotten a lot of attention all across social media.


You can also read this: Kemi Olunloyo Reveals Real Reason Behind #10YearsChallenge (Shocking Details) https://dailyfamily.ng/kemi-olunloyo-reveals-real-reason-behind-10yearschallenge-shocking-details/

The young girl named Miracle was given birth to 10 years ago, In the year 2009 to be precise as a premature.

She was delivered at 6 months and had to spend 3 months in the incubator living on blood transfusion without breastfeeding from her mother.


Miracle indeed has a miraculous story to tell as she exceeded the expectations and predictions of medical practitioners on whether she would live or not.

Today, the sickly baby born ten years ago is very healthy and has turned out to become a big and beautiful 10-year-old girl who is now very healthy.

https://dailyfamily.ng/10yearschallenge-see-touching-story-of-young-winner-photos/

PoliticsBefore You Vote For Atiku: 11 Shocking Things Everyone Must Know About Atiku by Olabode09(op): 1:45pm On Jan 17, 2019
Today, I will be revealing 11things you probably might not have known about Atiku Abubakar, the presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party PDP.

Alhaji Abubakar Atiku is one of the presidential aspirants in the 2019 Nigeria elections. Atiku also referred to as WAZOBIA is a Fulani man born on November 25, 1946 (73 years)

Atiku is the only child of his parents, his only sister died at infancy.



Atiku has a community as a family, having four wives and 28 children

Atiku had a divorce, Ladi Yakubu, his second wife, so he had five wives in total

Abubakar has four wives and is the father of 28 children.

Read Also: 10 Hot Questions at President Buhari Could Not Answer https://dailyfamily.ng/atiku-abubakar-throws-10-hot-questions-at-president-buhari-on-corruption/


Atiku is the first governor to bag GCON award

Atiku worked with the Nigerian Customs for 20 years

Atiku contested for presidency against MKO Abiola at the SDP primaries in 1993

Atiku won Adamawa Governorship elections in 1998 but became vice president instead.

Atiku has contested for presidency four times

Atiku is a business mogul with fleets of businesses

Atiku is 8 years old on Twitter, popular social media platform @atiku

https://dailyfamily.ng/before-you-vote-for-atiku-11-shocking-things-everyone-must-know-about-atiku/
FamilyA Touching Story Of Blind Couple And Their Children by Olabode09(op): 1:57pm On Dec 21, 2018
A Nigerian simply identified as Chioma has told a story of how her sister suddenly lost her sight in WAEC examination hall

According to Chioma, her sister’s blindness was allegedly caused by ‘spiritual attack’. The sister was in the WAEC exam hall about to write her exams when she began to scream “my eyes…my eyes…”. And that was how she went blind.

She further narrated that the sister has made something out of her life and now married to another visually impaired man, whom she met at a special school for the blind in Oji-River, Enugu State.

They are blessed with two kids.

Check out the full story as told by Chioma:

“Greetings everyone!

“Be thankful to God in all situation, God is God!!

“Appreciate God always and praise his name in all circumstances

“The family you all are seeing here are no other people than my beloved elder sister and her husband and kids!

“They are blind(the couple) yes, you read it well, blind!!

“The blindness was not from birth, it was a spiritual attack.

“The blindness started as a joke in 2007 when she was about taking her WAEC, she was fully prepared for the exam when she then sat down for the exam, she was given her answer booklet and question paper, when she started screaming my eyes! My eyes!!

“We got a phone call from the school and they informed us about her state! My father rushed to the school and brought her home.

“That was when it all started!!

“We started taking her to different hospitals, churches, any place that could solve her problem, but all to no avail..

“She was operated on one of the eyes, that was when the real situation arose! Chai!!! My sister totally lost her sight. She was really pained, she thought all hope was lost.



“Imagine she can’t see anything again! Not even the face of her loved ones or the color of her clothes, (life is unpredictable)

“As time goes on, she was enrolled in a special school for the blind situated at Oji-River, that was the place she met this man sitting with her in the picture who is now her husband, who has his own life challenging story,

“The two of them met and fell in love with themselves, after some many training in the school, they left for Lagos and enrolled in a skill acquisition program where they learned how to make beads, liquid soaps, disinfectants, and some many other things..

“He came for her hand in marriage which my sister accepted since she can’t continue living in depression, God blessed them with those kids you are seeing..

“I thank God for the life of my sister who is trying hard to survive this condition, I thank God for her husband, and I also thank God for the children he Blessed them with!!

“Glory be to God, I pray God to continue to supply their needs, give them life, locate their helpers and equally regain their sight for them, Amen!!!”

https://dailyfamily.ng/a-touching-story-of-blind-couple-and-their-kids/

RomanceTope Alabi Gets Romantic With Husband At Family Booster’s Dinner (see Photos) by Olabode09(op): 1:38pm On Dec 21, 2018
Popular Gospel Artiste, Evangelist Tope Alabi had a romantic moment with her husband at the Senior Pastors and Wives Dinner Organised by Family Booster Ministries International.


Read also: “God blessed me with a Man that matched my destiny”-Tope Alabi Celebrates Husband https://dailyfamily.ng/tope-alabi-celebrates-husband/

Tope Alabi attended the dinner held on the 19th of December 2018 at Sheraton Hotel, Ikeja, Lagos in the company of her ever-supportive husband, Evangelist Soji Alabi.

The couple was part of the many top ministers of God whose marriages were richly blessed and touched by the ministry of the family coach, Pastor Bisi Adewale.


Pastor Bisi Adewale put together the special dinner for Senior Pastors and their wives so as to help them create time to rejuvenate and reawaken love in their marriages.

https://dailyfamily.ng/tope-alabi-gets-romantic-with-husband-at-family-boosters-dinner-see-photos/

RomanceAnytime He Wants To Browse You Have To Open Computer. Pastor Tells Bride(video) by Olabode09(op): 2:32pm On Nov 09, 2018
During a recent church wedding, the pastor took her time to share an intimate and critical message to the bride. According to her, she disclosed that the bride must be ready to make love to her husband anytime he feels like.


She did not end there, the woman further disclosed that at least for the next one month both parties must be ready to make love to each other every day. Adding that, sex is the second thing man thinks about after food.

This video was shared on Facebook by one Jefferson Uwoghiren, in the video, the pastor was heard saying: “Regular sex is another thing that is going to build your home, as from today I don’t want to hear I am tired. For the next one month, you should be firing every day. Look here my sister after food for a man is sex. I am telling you the reality. I think he has paid your bride price, he is the owner of your body, and everything from your head to toe belongs to this man. So anytime he wants to browse you have to open the computer.”


Watch video here

https://dailyfamily.ng/anytime-he-wants-to-browse-you-have-to-open-the-computer-pastor-tells-bride-video/
RomanceShould I Tell My Brother? What I Saw On His Wife’s Facebook Page Left Me Shocked by Olabode09(op):
True Life Story: Should I tell my Brother? What I saw on her Wife’s Facebook Page left me Shocked.

My brother has been happily married to his wife for more than 4 years now. They have 3 children and are living very fine and comfortable. The Wife works with a secondary school which is not far from their house while my brother works as an Electrical engineer with one of the companies on the island.


As usual, I came to spend some weeks with them after our Semester break. I was Warmly received and treated like a brother-in-law indeed by his wife. Mummy Sharon is really a good wife to every member of her husband’s family and everybody loves her too.

On a fateful day, while surfing the internet on my laptop, Mummy Sharon requested of me if she could make use of my laptop to prepare for her lesson the following day. I gladly gave it to her because I was actually through with what I was doing by then and told her to shut it down once she is through with it.


I didn’t use the laptop again until after two weeks that I left their house. I had some unfinished assignment from school. I began to surf the net again to quickly finish up as it was a week to our resumption. While busy with the work, a message popped up from the facebook page. I ignored it because I didn’t want to get distracted by replying my friend’s messages, but it kept on coming in.


I had to quickly pause what I was doing to check the messages but was surprised that it wasn’t my own account. It was my brother’s wife’s account. When I began to check the messages I could not believe what my eyes saw. The conversation was from different men and centered on the romantic moments they shared together. I became engulfed with the revelation and began to dig deep. I discovered her nude pictures sent to these men. I found out that she has more than 10 men she moves out it and have sex with. The height of it was when I stumbled on a conversation with a man telling her that he would come for his son once he returns back to Nigeria.


I am confused! Does it now mean that one of my brother’s children is not biologically his? Should I tell my Brother? Although some members of the family are aware of it, but the couple remains in the dark.

Help! My Friend’s Wife Always Drug my Wife to Sleep with Me.https://dailyfamily.ng/sleeping-wifes-friend-also-wife-friend/

https://dailyfamily.ng/true-life-story/
RomanceHelp! My Friend’s Wife Always Drug My Wife To Sleep With Me. by Olabode09(op): 4:29pm On Oct 26, 2018
I am married to a good wife, loving and submissive. But I have been doing some things to break the trust she reposes in me and I don’t know how to stop it, she is yet to know but I know she will eventually know someday.



You may wonder what I am doing that is that bad. I am sleeping with her friend who also is the wife of my childhood friend. Four of us grew up together, attended the same schools from elementary to University and we decided to marry each other, it ended been a great decision.

But the problem arose when my friend travel to France for a six month course and I have to look after his family, I didn’t know that his wife has been looking forward to sleep with me, I foolishly fell into sexual error with this lady who set a trap for me and I fell into it.



I vowed never to do it again, but I fell several times into it. The woman kept on telling me that I was the one she desired to marry, not my friend. That she owns me. Now my friend had traveled to Germany for two years project from his office, he moved his family closer to my house so that I can care for them, now it’s like am married to two wives, many times this lady prefer sleeping in our house, so as to sleep with me, it was this morning I got to know that she always drug my wife so that she can have time with me without any disturbance, she will sleep like a log of wood why we make love everywhere in the house, it is terrible but I am stuck.

Also read this: Adesewa; The Pregnant Corper (A True Life Story)- Episode 15
Read Also: True Life Story: How I became a Pastor’s Wife After Years Of Being A Stripper
Now my friend had travelled to Germany for two years project from his office, he moved his family closer to my house so that I can care for them, now it’s like am married to two wives, many times this lady prefer sleeping in our house, so as to sleep with me, it was this morning I got to know that she always drug my wife so that she can have time with me without any disturbance, she will sleep like a log of wood why we make love everywhere in the house, it is terrible but I am stuck.

When I said the lady must not sleep in our house my wife fought me saying a good friend should not behave like that, so the lady and her 3 Children are practically living in my house now, my wife has no clue of what is going on, though she complains of sleeping too heavily nowadays, the fact I noticed but I did not know that it is this strange woman that always drug her drinks or food as she has taken over the kitchen until she told me herself.
I don’t know what to do, I am tired of this illicit affairs, and I don’t know what to do.

https://dailyfamily.ng/sleeping-wifes-friend-also-wife-friend/
Romance11 Facts To Know About Ooni Of Ife’s Newly Found Queen by Olabode09(op): 1:16pm On Oct 19, 2018
Over a year after the last marriage of Ooni of Ife with Olori Wuraola crashed, the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi has found a new queen- Queen Shilekunola Moronke Naomi.


Below are 11 facts to know about the Beautiful Newly found Queen:

1. Shilekunola Moronke Naomi is beautiful, adorable and full of gaiety.

2. She is the second born of the family with other four younger siblings.

3. She was born on the 15th of April, 1993



4. She had her Secondary education at Akure Academy and finished in 2007.

5. According to the queen’s facebook page, she from Ondo City and lives in Akure.

6. She is a Preacher, a model, and a writer.

7. She was honored with Young Women of the Year Award by Trace Magazine 31st Dec 2017

8. Naomi is the Founder/President of En-Heralds – an inter-denominal ministry based in Akure, Ondo state.

9. She started a public ministry at the age of eighteen and became a full-time evangelist in October 2011.

10. She is the third wife of the Ooni of Ife, after Queen Adebukunola Ogunwusi and Olori Wuraola Otiti.

11. Their Wedding is slated to commence from October 19 to October 21 at the Royal Palace

See more Photos of Ooni’s New Found Wife. https://dailyfamily.ng/see-more-photos-of-oonis-new-found-wife/

https://dailyfamily.ng/11-facts-to-know-about-the-ooni-new-found-queen/

RomanceThe Security Of This “hottest” Female Pastor Will Leave You Marvelled (photos) by Olabode09(op): 11:30am On Oct 19, 2018
Reverend Lucy Natasha, the founder and overseer of Prophetic Latter Glory Ministries, has been described by local media as Kenya’s hottest preacher.

The pastor rubs shoulders with prominent Kenyans including President Uhuru Kenyatta, Mike Sonko, among others.

She is also a much sought-after conference speaker and celebrated author of many books. Reverend Lucy is single but says she would love to have a family in the near future.

“I would like to marry a man after God’s own heart, one that will be my best friend and is sincere,” she said.


Lucy doesn’t go anywhere without her full security team. See more photos below.

https://dailyfamily.ng/the-security-of-this-kenyas-hottest-female-pastor-will-leave-you-marvelled/

RomancePromiscuous Teacher Caught Kissing Another Man, Goes Viral On School Whatsapp by Olabode09(op): 10:07am On Oct 19, 2018
Andile Masinguzane, a Kweneng Primary School teacher in Mangwe District, has found herself infidelity storm after “lewd” images and a video of her passionately kissing another man believed to be her lover were shared on the school’s WhatsApp group.


Reports say that Masinguzane is married to Obvious Masinguzane who is based in Plumtree where he works as an electrician.

Masinguzane’s video and images have been circulating in a school WhatsApp group while “behaving intimately” which made parents furious claiming she has a habit of bedding married men from the area.


A source from the school who sought anonymity also confirmed the incident saying the video was sent by some enraged parents in a bid to expose Andile’s alleged infidelity.

“The images are so bawdy that everyone at school is saying the two (Andile and the man) shared more than just a kiss and we are feeling bad for her husband.”

Though Masinguzane didn’t deny the video, she claimed that the allegation levelled against her was false.

She Said:

“I am the one in that video and it is none of your business to know the nature of relationship with that man. What I can only confirm is that all those allegations levelled against me are not true.”

Masinguzane’s husband could not be reached for comment. Read Also: My wife’s former colleague caught me with another woman in a hotel, what she did will shock you https://dailyfamily.ng/my-wifes-former-colleague-caught-me-with-another-woman-in-a-hotel-what-she-did-will-shock-you/

https://dailyfamily.ng/promiscuous-teacher/

RomanceRe: Help Me! I Didn’t Know He Is A Spiritual Husband by Olabode09(op): 12:41pm On Oct 17, 2018
A lot of people are fall victim of this kind of things but they did not know well let me show you the sign that you are under the attack of a spirit husband and wife https:///2E29Q1e
RomanceHelp Me! I Didn’t Know He Is A Spiritual Husband by Olabode09(op): 12:31pm On Oct 17, 2018
A lady has shared with dailyfamily.ng how she got into a relationship with a spiritual husband without being aware of the impending dangers.


Hello dailyfamily.ng, please help me share my story so that every other woman can beware.


My name is Iretioluwa. This is the story of how I encountered the strange man that has hindered me from getting married as I am now 48-years-old.

Twelve years ago, on a fateful evening, coming back from my workplace at Gbagada, Lagos, I stopped by at the noisy and popular Oshodi market to buy a beautiful piece of jewellery that caught my attention.

I loved the diamond-like design around the jewellery and I was already bargaining the price with the seller when a very handsome young man that looked absolutely spotless stood by my side and said:

“Hi, beautiful lady, let me pay for that and marry you.”

I didn’t pay attention to his last words “marry you.” Or perhaps, I heard him but I was overwhelmed by his kind gesture.

I was just so glad that the burden of paying for the jewellery had been lifted by this handsome-looking angel. I didn’t question the man’s decision to pay for the jewellery. Actually, I was glad that someone opted to pay.

The man paid for the jewellery even as I rushed to board the available bus home since it was getting late.

Little did I know that I was already married to the strange man. That night, he came to me in my dream and that was the beginning of our daily sexual encounters for the past 12 years.

Read Also: 15 Signs that you are under the attack of a spirit husband and wife https:///2E29Q1e

Read Also: How To Be Free From Spirit Husband/Wife (Incubus and Succubus) https:///2E4m3OT

I have visited many prayer houses but it has proved to be futile, for the man has refused to leave me alone.

Here am I now, at 48, with no husband to marry me.

Please, help me what should I do?

https://dailyfamily.ng/help-me-i-didnt-know-he-is-a-spiritual-husband/
RomanceRe: “happy Birthday My Ancestor”- Alaafin Of Oyo’s Young Wife Celebrates Him by Olabode09(op): 4:09pm On Oct 15, 2018
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Romance“happy Birthday My Ancestor”- Alaafin Of Oyo’s Young Wife Celebrates Him by Olabode09(op): 3:58pm On Oct 15, 2018
As the Alaafin of Oyo is celebrating his 80th birthday today, October 15th, one of his young wives, Olori Memunat Omowunmi Adeyemi celebrated him on her Instagram page.


Olori Memunat who was one of the queens that gave birth to twins earlier this year shared photos of her husband on her Instagram page and few hours to his birthday, she wrote:

“You are truly amazing. You are my everything. few hours to your birthday �My A N C E S T O R @alaafin_oyo #daddytwins”


Celebrating her husband on his birthday today, Olori Memunat Omowunmi Adeyemi wrote:

“Happy Birthday to my wonderful husband. You are the definition of a noble husband and a great father. You are always there to depend on. I’m proud to call you my husband. On this special day, I’m wishing you lots of love and laughs. I love you with all my heart. Happy Birthday.� #daddytwins”


https://dailyfamily.ng/happy-birthday-my-ancestor-alaafin-of-oyos-young-wife-celebrates-him/

Christianity EtcMeet Reverend Victor Muteru, 8-year-old Cleric With Deep Knowledge Of God’s Word by Olabode09(op): 1:06pm On Oct 12, 2018
Today, the image of a pastor is expected to be a middle-aged young man with Phd carefully placed after their names, this is what is mostly seen, however, worshipers at Bethel Gospel Assembly Ministry in Juja do not have to live through that as their preacher is not only professional but also oozes of youthfulness.

Victor Muteru, an eight-year-old pastor from Juja has taken the internet by storm after K24 captured him preaching with so much vigour at his local church. The young boy holds the microphone with so much prowess and spits the verses of the bible like a true pro.

Both the young and old sit tight and listen to the young, gifted cleric whenever he steps on the pulpit and delivers a mind-blowing sermon. According to the young boy, he discovered he had a gift of evangelism when he was just five-years-old. From then on, Victor has never looked back. He can recite the verses of the bible back to back and has a conviction that can put anyone to shame.

“I am not the one who decided to call myself reverend. God called me, I did not even know the meaning of that word in the beginning. My mother would beat me and caution me against it all. You have no idea the struggle I had to go through with my mum. It reached a point where I just wanted to end my life,” the young pastor revealed

Watch the video here: https://dailyfamily.ng/8-year-old-cleric-with-deep-knowledge-of-gods-word/

Christianity EtcMike Bamiloye Makes Shocking Confession, Seeks Wife’s Forgiveness (full Details) by Olabode09(op): 12:10pm On Oct 11, 2018
The founder of the Mount Zion Films and Movies Production, Evangelist Mike Bamiloye went online to seek for forgiveness from his wife, Gloria.

You can also read this: Mike and Gloria Bamiloye Celebrate 30th Wedding Anniversary In Style (See Photos)

Evangelist Mike Bamiloye shared the lovely write up he read to his wife on the celebration of their 30th wedding anniversary on October 8 2018.

In the write up which he titled Letter of Accolades, Evangelist Mike Bamiloye appreciated his wife for all her sacrifices over the years and he also used the opportunity to ask that she forgave him for all the time he had to abandon her for ministerial assignments.


“HERE IS THE LETTER OF ACCOLADES WRITTEN AND READ TO GLORIA AND CONGREGATION ON THE OCCASSION OF THE 30TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY.

On October 8th, 1988, on our Wedding Day, a member of our ministry met me as I was coming out of the Wedding Reception and said this profound statement that I have never forgotten since that day.

She said: “Bro Mike, Our ministry has now just began” And that was after three years that our ministry had began, a ministry member saying it was the day I go married the ministry actually began. I did not understand the statement, until I began to understand through diverse experiences.

Today, on the thirtieth year of the marriage that began 30 years ago, I can confidently say with proper understanding, that I would never have gotten any successful ministry without You GLORIA OLUSOLA ALABA.

If my God had not had mercy on me and had prevented all those sisters I had blindly proposed to initially to turn down my proposals,

If any of them had said YES to my proposals, I would have missed it in life and for ever, because I would have missed marrying you, GLORIA OLUSOLA

But God had mercy on me, they all turned down my proposals and I thought God was against me, not knowing that God was planning my future for me by guiding my feet to the actual bone of my Bone and Flesh of my Flesh.

I therefore, thank the Lord God of Heaven, that I did not make the greatest mistake of my life. I FOUND YOU.

I COUNT MYSELF VERY FORTUNATE IN LIFE, FOR GETTING MARRIED TO YOU.

NO Wonder things are working well for me.

No Wonder I am succeeding in ministry.

No wonder I am looking younger as I grow in age.

You have not overused me, I thank you.

I thank you for managing my Issues and Challenges.

No wonder, I have he peace I have.

AND NO WONDER I HAVE THE WONDERFUL CHILDREN I HAVE: DAMMY, JOSHUA AND OLUWADARA.

Who could have given birth to these types of Classy, Highly Intelligent and multi-talented children like these one if not SOMEONE like YOU.

GLORIA OLUSOLA

I know I have not loved you enough,

I am trying to read some books on how to handle a Gold

SO, I am trying to know how to love someone like you.

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RomanceI Am Not Enjoying Sex With My Husband, Woman Cries Out by Olabode09(op): 4:23pm On Oct 03, 2018
A 25-year-old married woman sent Kitwe Local Court into laughter when she confessed that she does not want her husband as he is not circumcised.

This is the case, in which Kabaso Mumba,25, of Kitwe’s Zamtan Area has sued her husband Francis Chansa,27, for divorce as he is not circumcised.

The couple got married in 2016 and k100 was paid as bride price plus they have one child together.

Mumba told Senior Court Magistrate Vincent Sondwapo at Kamfinsa Local Court that problems started in 2016 when the couple got married.

She explained that she knew Chansa as a Circumcised man.

“When we were in a relationship with my husband Chansa in 2015,l thought that he is a circumcised man. I asked him that is your penis circumcised? And he said to me that ‘yes’ but when we had sex when we got married,l came to discover that he is not circumcised. My lord, I want a circumcised man because his penis even now it’s not circumcised. Me I want a circumcised man whom I can enjoy sex with. Moreover, the truth still stands,l have not enjoyed his penis,” said Mumba.

In defense, Chansa said that problems in their marriage started when Mumba started having sex with other men.

“My lord, my wife whom I am married to, complains every day about the uncircumcised penis this makes me feel uncomfortable to make love with her, and sometimes she denies my conjugal rights. Most of the time after having sex. She would say you must be circumcised,” Chansa said.

“Moreover, problems in my marriage with my wife started when Mumba started having sex every weekend with other men. I came to know this because she used to tell me in my face that every weekend l have sex with circumcised men, not like you, who is uncircumcised and always she tells me that l don’t enjoy your manhood as it is covered,” Chansa added.

The court observed that the couple has lost love and respect for each other and Chansa did not make efforts for his circumcision process.

The court granted the once lovely couple divorce and ordered Chansa to pay a maintenance fee for his child k300 per month while household goods acquired together would be shared equally.

Also read this: If You Desire More Than 3 Rounds of Sex from Your Husband, Read This post
5 ways to help your husband last longer in bed https:///2JUKUIj


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Romance5 Things Married Men Should Avoid After Sexual Intercourse by Olabode09(op): 2:50pm On Oct 03, 2018
The internet is filled with a lot of things about how to have good sex, how to have an enduring sex life and the best position for sex. Yet, little is said of the aftermath of this pleasure involved in sexual intercourse.


There are lots of things married men ought to know about their women after sexual intercourse. They ought to know the pitfalls to avoid in their sexual connection with their wives.

To score high in your wife’s eye and stand a better chance of an intimate connection, Here are some things you must avoid after sexual intercourse:

#Fall asleep immediately

While this annoying habit can be avoided, it is not always the case because it extends to a chemical reaction. Orgasm releases a cocktail of chemicals that often work like a mega dose of piriton. Then again sex often takes place around bedtime, in bed, and after exerting themselves after a long day it is natural their body will want to rest. That, however, should not always be the case. Build some energy and get your partner a late drink or find something you can both enjoy.

#Turning on the TV

While it may sound like no big deal the truth is, it is. Turning on the TV or picking up your phone will leave your partner feeling abandoned and make her feel unimportant to you. According to Certified Sex Therapist and Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist Deborah Fox, by having sex with you, a woman has made herself vulnerable. If you disconnect, you’ll leave her feeling unsafe and insecure.


#Showering immediately

Not everyone enjoys the sweaty, sticky, smelly aspect of sex which is very understandable, and some people will scurry off to the bathroom to wash up immediately after. While there are some very good reasons why you should shower after sex, do not be in a hurry to do so. You will give her the impression that you’re washing her off. Linger for a while, hold a conversation, give her a massage etc. This will give her a clear message that you love all of her and you’re not in a rush to wash it all away.

#Asking her to leave

Nothing comes close to the humiliation a woman feels after having sex with you, you then ask her to leave your side. She will feel like a worthless piece of paper.

#Become physically distant

If you become distant, your wife will notice. Staying connected is very important to a woman according to the sex therapist, Deborah Fox. If you don’t touch, cuddle or say complimentary things to her, she’s likely to withdraw. Sex isn’t an event for her that ends in orgasm and it shouldn’t be for you either.

Read Also: Important Reason Women Should Urinate Immediately after Sexual Intercourse https:///2sRdlA8


https://dailyfamily.ng/5-things-married-men-should-avoid-after-sexual-intercourse/

RomanceAdesewa The Pregnant Corper (a True Life Story)- Episode 1 by Olabode09(op): 10:11am On Oct 01, 2018
This is a true life story of an NYSC member named Adesewa. Full of lessons to learn especially for singles (guys & ladies). Happy reading.

My name is Adesewa. I was raised by God-fearing parents who were blessed with six girls. My parents were deacon and deaconess in a Pentecostal church. I happened to be their third daughter, with three younger ones.

I had my HND at Yaba college of technology and was posted toKwara state for my youth service.

I had given my life to Christ since my secondary school days, and I used to sing a lot, sometimes I even compose my own song. I joined the church choir when I was just nine years old.

After the 3 weeks orientation program of the NYSC, I was posted to a secondary school at Oyan for the one year service. I was given a room on the school compound at the Corpers’ quarters.
On getting to

On getting to Oyan, I started looking for a Pentecostal church where I could be worshipping, and soon I was able to find one. Shortly after I started worshipping in the church, I

joined the choir. Fortunately, it was at the time when the choir leader just left the church, and there was nobody to coordinate the members. Before I knew it, I was made the choir leader after being interviewed by the pastor, Pastor Williams.

I was loved by everybody in the church, especially the choristers, because of my unique voice. Whenever I sing or lead a song, the whole congregation has a way of murmuring
“Huuuuunnnnn!” with a sigh of satisfaction when they hear my voice.

Most of the choir members were younger than me, so they call me “aunty” or “Sister Sewa”. One of them was Bode, who used to play keyboard for us in the church. He was so gifted when it comes to instruments; there was no instrument he couldn’t play. I always felt the presence of God whenever he was on the keyboard.

I was named Adesewa after my late grandmother, who passed away shortly before I was born. My dad loved his mum so much, and hence transferred the love to me, believing that his late mother was the one who came back, more so, according to him, I was the mama’s carbon copy. It was after he became saved, that he knew he was wrong. My second name was Yetunde.

My dad saw me as perfect. Anything I did or said was right, even when I myself knew I was wrong. In a nutshell, I was his favorite. When my mum noticed that daddy was treating me like the apple of his eyes, she wasn’t taking things easy with me at all. She spanks me at every slight mistake I made, mostly when my dad wasn’t at home.
Sometimes she would lament. ..”You that spoilt brat!. your father has spoilt u. See, I will make sure I deal with you before maggots start coming out of your body….”

My two elder sisters too, also made life miserable for me, especially, the first born, sister Temi. She would never tolerate any nonsense from me, she took after mummy, but her own was just too much.
By the time I was serving, sister Temi and sister Tiwa have married, but I have been tamed already.


Read Episode 2 https:///2DKhIEW


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Romance15 Things You Must Know Before You Marry A Pastor-part 2 by Olabode09(op): 9:33am On Oct 01, 2018
Pastors marriage is very important to the wellbeing of the Church and the society.Pastors are a fantastic set of people any lady can wish for in marriage but any lady that will marry them must be prepared for the following realities in a pastor’s marriage before tying the nuptial knot with him.
(16) No everyday romance:

Marrying a pastor comes with its own challenges and one of it is that the pastor will pray at night. So, sorry no everyday romance in a Pastor’s diary.

(17) It is a 24/7:

A pastor’s job is a 24hours of the seven days in the week, it fit the slogan FULL TIME.There may not be time to go out to your favourite restaurant in a long time because of the round the clock attention demand from his church members.Can you cope with this?
(18) Not an Oil Worker:

Before you marry that pastor, please wake up to the fact that he is not an oil and gas staff.So, conflict: money may not flow like you think.Although, God’s staff are the best paid in the world over but will you be able to wait faithfully for Him to pay? His timing is totally different.

(19) Church conflict:

Mama in the waiting, there will be conflict. Yes, even in the church, people disagree and sometimes flesh might be displayed in a dirty manner. They may form a caucus and gang up against the pastor. Are you mature enough to handle it?

ALSO READ: 15 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU MARRY A PASTOR-Part 1 https://dailyfamily.ng/15-things-you-must-know-before-you-marry-a-pastor-part-1/

(20) The Perfect wife:

You will be expected to behave perfectly, other women have the right to get angry and show it but not YOU, even your Prince charming expectation will be higher as he expects you not to demonstrate your displeasure no matter the circumstances.Are you prepared for this?

(21) Mummy Mission:

Before you marry that pastor, hope you do not have anything against living in the mission house especially if he is a pastor in a denomination where their Pastor must live in the mission house. please,be inform that the mission house is everybody’s house as the Church members can walk in at any time, deny you your privacy, eat your food, exhaust your water, messed up your toilet and you must not complain because the house is built with their money for them to have unhindered access to their Pastor



(22) Pray for all:

The elders, deacons, workers that hate your husband will be known to you and you still have to pray for them and with them, can you do this?

(23) Forgives and forget:

Before you marry that pastor, please be informed that you will be expected to forgive and forget offenses fast so as not to hinder the Church and the Pastor’s prayer. You must have forgiveness in wholesale because, members, ministers, deacons, good women, men, girl the youths and elders will offend you and you must forgive them if you want your husband to excel in his calling.


Your children are not expected to make mistake, display tantrums, be too playful, they are expected to be mini Angels. God help you, girl if they are not.

ALSO READ: 15 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU MARRY A PASTOR-Part 1 https://dailyfamily.ng/15-things-you-must-know-before-you-marry-a-pastor-part-1/

(25) All program :

Before you marry a pastor please note that you will be forced to attend all Church programs, no excuse of any kind. If not , the Church will be having negative impression about you.

(26) Fasting:

As the pastor mrs, you will fast and this is not a suggestion but a compulsory thing as it comes with your wedding package.

(27) Prayer Machine:

Before you marry the pastor, be inform that you will pray when you feel like praying and when you don’t feel like prayer.Prayer must become your hubby. As you become pastor mrs, you must know how to PUSH. That is praying until something happens and in the Ministry, we will never stop praying until Jesus come.

(28) Lead women:

Your good women leader might be as old as your mum, some will try to make you realize that they are older and want to intimidate you, will you be able to handle them with wisdom?

(29) Meetings, Seminars etc:

Before you decide to marry that pastor, girl note that he will be required to attend many meetings, seminars, and plan, organise revivals, crusades, meetings, seminars hepherd , etc You might be required to organise seminars for women, youths and pregnant mothers which may be quite big, do you have that capacity? he will attend some alone will you be fine?

ALSO READ: 15 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU MARRY A PASTOR-Part 1 https://dailyfamily.ng/15-things-you-must-know-before-you-marry-a-pastor-part-1/

(30) Demonic Attack:

Attacks are directed Shepherd so expect it, are you equipped enough for this? Are you a spiritually vibrant sister or a weakling?Do you have that strong relationship with heaven? Matt 26:31

https://dailyfamily.ng/15-things-must-know-marry-pastor-part-2/

RomanceWow! See A Nigerian Guy Running Football Commentary Like BBC (see Video) by Olabode09(op): 6:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
The world of soccer is missing the raw talent of a young Nigerian who is exhibiting his talent in the streets with passion.

His video has been trending online as he displays his fluency in running football commentary and surrounded by residents of Calabar.


https://dailyfamily.ng/wow-see-a-nigerian-guy-running-football-commentary-like-bbc/

RomanceWife Caught Her Husband Cheating On Her…what She Did Will Shock You by Olabode09(op): 10:00am On Sep 21, 2018
Five months ago, I caught my husband sleeping with another woman in my house. It was my only day off early from work in about a year so I wanted to surprise my husband with lunch but I was the one who was getting the surprise. Anyways, it has been five months since I caught my husband cheating on me and I am still in awe….

My husband and I have been married for 9 years. My husband has been trying desperately to contact me by sending me emails/texts/calls. I told him plainly it is OVER between us but I just can’t help but think why he did this to me. Would it be wrong to ask him WHY he cheated on me? I feel like I need to know to get closure on this. Yet I am still so sad, I honestly thought I provided for him every way possible whether it was emotional, physically, financially….

Read Also: How to Make Love with Your Wife During Pregnancy ( See Photos) https:///2C4X3VM

To make matters worse I know the married woman he was cheating on me with and I know her husband as well. I told her husband about the cheating and he broke down in front of me. He kicked out his wife and filed for divorce. The weird thing about this is that I’m starting to like the guy; he has been a great shoulder to cry on and talk to. Would it be wrong to love him (and if possible marry him)? I want to get a divorce yet I just can’t believe I wasted 9 years of my life on my husband. My husband calls me every day begging me to come back. What should I do?

Read Also: 4 Important Stages of Marriage Every Intending Couple Must Know https:///2qD2QOX


Dear readers, don’t just advise this lady but also share your opinion on this question: If you were the lady what will you do? and also if you happen to be the husband what will you do? please be sincere with your answer.

https://dailyfamily.ng/wife-caught-husband-cheating-her-what-will-shock-you/
RomanceTrue Life Story: See What Happened To A Woman After Being Raped By 5 Robbers by Olabode09(op): 12:49pm On Sep 20, 2018
I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. I have never been with any man until I was raped.

I didn’t know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it before. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life. I have two children from my marriage.

It happened that We traveled to my husband’s village during the last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by a gang of 5 armed robbers. It was a terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me.

The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothes and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn’t listen.

It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn’t so. I felt a kind of electrifying sensation that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn’t know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal.

Read Also: Important Reason Women Should Urinate Immediately after Sexual Intercourse https:///2sRdlA8

I was told that I was screaming very hard as he was making love to me. Yes, I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn’t been the same. The robbers turn on me in which I scream all through.


I don’t know what came over me, maybe it was my village people that manipulated me, but all I can say is that I haven’t had much experience with my husband.

My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they armed robbers left. He called me unprintable names like a prostitute, he said he didn’t know I am an ‘ashawo’ and he can’t have an ‘ashawo’ as a wife.

I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings. My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to Lagos. I was damaged. How could he do such a thing to me?

What was responsible for me to enjoy being raped?

How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body?

These were questions I kept asking myself. When I got discharged from the hospital, I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband, involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life.

My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a LovePeddler. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still in the process of healing, still seeing my therapist.

But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am. I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life.

I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me. Please, don’t judge me, because you don’t know my pains. By January I will be through with the divorce. I just want you all to wish me well in my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.

1. What could she have done differently?

2. Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?

3. Was the husband being fair to her?

4. Was divorce the only way out?

Please, drop your comments below.

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RomanceSee Shocking Reasons Responsible Men Don’t Marry ‘slay Mamas by Olabode09(op): 1:48pm On Sep 13, 2018
You must have been wondering why so many slay mamas have remained unmarried for years and some of them that get married don’t even get the good ones to marry.

You can also read this: 11 Ways you can avoid being kidnapped (You need to see the No 3) https://dailyfamily.ng/ways-to-avoid-kidnapped/

Being a slay mama may get you good status and fame but the truth is that it may not attract a good man that will love you honestly and with the whole of his heart.

Here are some reasons slay mamas don’t get good and responsible men to marry:

*Extravagance: most ladies don’t get good men to marry because they are very expensive, they want to ride the best cars, live in mansions, wears the most expensive clothes, bags and shoes.

Any responsible man wants to marry a woman who can help him manage his fianances well no matter how rich he is at the moment.

*Lack of value: good men tend to see a slay mama as a woman who lacks value and the right standard for life. These men try to avoid such women because they believe their lives cannot become better with such.

You can also read this: Revealed: Why Most Slay Queens Never Get Married https://dailyfamily.ng/revealed-why-most-slay-queens-never-get-married/

*Infidelity: the fear of men when they see a slay mama is that she will be a flirt with other men around and at the end lead to a broken home or marriage.

*Laziness: most responsible men see slay mamas as women who cannot do the work of a wife or be a good homemaker and mother. This tends to chase them away from such ladies.

Also read this: 5 Amazing Reasons City Men Prefer Village Girls https://dailyfamily.ng/5-amazing-reasons-city-men-prefer-village-girls/

*Feminism/Lack of submission: men see slay mamas as feminists who cannot submit and respect them as the head of the home.

Being a slay mama has more harm to do to any woman than good, wise ladies will choose to be a wife material than to become a ‘killer’ or ‘slayer’.

https://dailyfamily.ng/see-shocking-reasons-responsible-men-dont-marry-slay-mamas/

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