₦airaland Forum

trem321:
@ toksbisola i am speechless, the wisdom in your post cannot be quantified with words, fantastic, classical, excellent etc are all grossly understatement should they be used to quantify your words, i am deeply grateful for the time taken to pour those gems, thanks a lot, the point is i just have to pray more and seek divine direction, she is not my 'girl friend' though as no pre-marital affair of any kind had occurred, we are just members of the same congregation, but the church is supervising our marriage program though they are not aware of this, we will report back after two months and the outcome determines the next step, whether to continue or discontinue, yea, thanks to all, so far so great

boyka24:
Hello guys, am in need of a job, i stay around meiran here in lagos state. am a graduate but still waiting for nysc come june or july....any help would be highly appreciated......pls i no dey gnld

enedoboy:
Please am in need of help ASAP before I loose my mind. I went partying last Friday with some friends (Guys). Due to the fact that we were just Guys we decided to go after random girls so as to make the night interesting .

We sited some ladies seating alone and decided to approach them, my friends went before me , the girls accepted to hang out with us, me been a shy guy I was reluctant in speaking to any. My friends mounted pressure on me so I talked to one and she responded nicely.

After taking some drinks ,we decided to leave our friends and stay alone, we chatted for about 30mins . She told me her name , her state house address etc. I became relaxed and we bonded so quickly. I collected her number .

Things became very intense , so we left the party and headed to a nearby hotel, I paid , went into the room, then we started kissing, in that process I felt something more like a sensation moving through my throat down to my stomach.

I became very afraid at that moment and I told her that I was no longer interested . she became angry and left. I went back to to my friends and I realized Dev left for .


I went back home , I slept off. The most scary part of it is that I saw this same girl in my dream and threatened to deal with me for having refused her. for the past five days now I have been dreaming about this girl with different acts. I have been feeling an awkward movement in my stomach as if something is bitting me.

I really need help I have been to different prayer houses and they are I really need to find the girl. I went to the address she gave to me, to my greatest surprise the address is an empty land. her phone number has been switched off .

Her friends don't seems to know anything about her .. right now am dead .

I need help

masseratti:
wow,see an intellegent one with her full name,surname on a faceless forum.

Yes age is a factor in relationships but it all depends on the people in it,some like their mates others prefer older or younger,we all cant like same things,oh well i guess you still a kid,when you grow older you will understand.

masseratti:
wow,see an intellegent one with her full name,surname on a faceless forum.

Yes age is a factor in relationships but it all depends on the people in it,some like their mates others prefer older or younger,we all cant like same things,oh well i guess you still a kid,when you grow older you will understand.

UIA04:
Well My BOYFRIEND doesn't mind my Referring to him as such. His younger ones even refer to him by his first name .




that's why I'm crazy about him he doesn't act like a typical Nigerian man very open minded

lonelydora:
Oga Apostle, please as a man of God which you are, forget about the damages. Facts have been established that you didn't touch the yeye lady. Continue the good work of God which you are doing.

davo90tico:
bro Pls I never insulted you so you have no right to insult me we are all humans if you don't like my opinion then Pls state it without any vulgar insults that have nothing to do with what we are discussing God bless

shamecurls:
100k in Ekiti, Ibadan, Osun, Abeokuta e.t.c is like earning 250 in Lagos! Better quality and comfort in those axis

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

DuchessBlue:
She's damn right

Mophasa:
I truly love her and wouldn't mind staying with her without sex, I even told her but she wouldn't have none of it.
Claiming there is no Way we could be together without having sex.
Am actually ready to do anything just to be with her,

Misypee:
smh

Misypee:
i dont understand

Misypee:
Just for fun, no fights please

iguita:
Worth the way the OP wrote, I knew (s)he was an insider. People just talk ignorantly but I am happy with your conservative analysis. Despite not making money from the venture, the man went on to build another in Kwagala, why? Because he wants to raise a new crop of leaders. Has he been perfect? NO. Successful? 110%

olagunjumariah:
#FANLIVENG

Edubrazilnwa:
tonight's game
confidence level 95%
3GQPMG8

Afam4eva:
In Christianity it's called "Courting" and not a relationship. And courting happens when you guys have already agreed to marry each other with the blessing of the pastor and that's after you guys must have prayed and seen each other in the dream which is a clear sign that you're each other's will of God.

As far as limits goes, I think the way Deeper Life sees relationships should be the standard of every true Christian relationship.

1. You guys should never be seen together except in a public place where you can be monitored by people.

2. Don't touch each other. if a brother or sister tries to touch you, shout blood of Jesus and run

3. Don't look at each other lustfully. if your eyes will cause you to sin, pls by all means pluck it out.

4. After every encounter which each other, you guys should pray and purify yourself.

5. Never say "I love you" to each other. it's better to remove that tongue than to sin.

it's funny that most people who claim to be Christians don't abide by these things. The present day Christian can fvck for Africa. If brother and sisters in the lord fvck for you here, you go bow.

bezimo:
Better to look stupid giving God tithe and be blessed with tangible returns than eat the tithe out of greed because I want to be wise yet be a spiritual daft and a loser in the end.

If I choose to pay tithe,what's your problem? did we tithers tell you we needed your opinion. Better take your nonsense opinion to the rotten garbage where it belongs.

Afterall no one has threatened you or put a gun in your head that you must tithe because it's not by force.

dabrightt:
I do pay tithe and it works for me..The secret about tithe is that if you don't pay it to God you will pay it to devil one way or the other..Example many people has paid tithe to M M M