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Essenza01:
I really don't know anymore, i just did my budget for the month and i am scared, i have cut from everywhere possible and i fear for my self.. i dont have a GF, Wife, Children.. my salary is N400,000 and i have added side businesses and one or two's to even survive.. but with this fuel increase, what else is left... zero savings..

- Rent - N108,333/mth (1,300,000/12)
- Fuel for car - N180,000 (36k for 5-6days)
- Auto maintenance - N30,000/mth (service/repair)
- Fuel for generator - N50,000/mth (20ltr/wk)
- Feeding - N62,000 - (N2,000/day)
- Health miscellenous - N5,000/mth
- Dstv - N4,500/mth
- Data - N7,000/mth
- Recharge card - N3,000/mth
- Dry cleaner - N4,000/mth (Starch/iron)
- Hygiene maintenance - N10,000 (body spray/perfume, roll on, soap, cream) etc..
-  Gift to people - N10,000/mth
-  Family House contribution - N20,000/mth
- Eko electric - N10,000/mth
- repairs and maintenance - N12,000/mth
- Clothing, footwear etc - N10,000/mth
- Outings, restaurant, sit outs and provisions - N30,000/mth

Total = N556,500...

My rent is average rent for where i stay, its a two bed flat, i use the other room for home office..

Feeding is N2,000/day.. its not anything out of the ordinary.. tried cooking and spent more with time wasting.

Fuel for car is at the new rate of N500/ltr, my car is a 70ltr car tank..

Auto maintenance is basic brake pads, shocks, service 2mths, tire guage, police pr, tire purchase if any, minor touch ups etc... nothing major.

Fuel for generator is 20ltr/day (2hrs or less daily)

I need help.... how are you people doing it, what am i doing wrong? The rat race is killing me..

i stopped reading at the first paragraph when I saw #1.3m as your annual rent. If your 2months salary cannot settle your annual house rent, then you're living above your means.

Alliswell248:
Can you compare Roma budget with that of Man City?
Show me a world class player in Roma.
Mourinho tried..

Any team can enter Europa final. Roma was never a small club before Mourinho, and they finished the league outside top 5. Man City won 5 leagues in 6yrs despite not being the only team with huge budget. Mourinho was never on same level as Pep.

Omoluabi16:
Na wa.. after all these years, mourinho has not evolved. He still dey do Pak de bus..

yet they compares him with Pep who still brought in attackers after scoring 3 against Madrid in champions league semis. Some people just don't know football, or they just decide to be biased.

wumi2017:
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Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

for the fact that you tagged genotype compatibility as "for nothing", it's evident you're still in your early 20s cus that's an immature statement. So you guys dated for 10 good years without knowing your genotypes? I thank God say no be my mama born you.

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Don’t get it twisted. A woman knows how to make you ruin your relationship with her. All she has to do is to frustrate your masculine essence by
— comparing you with another
— downplaying your efforts
— hitting on your vulnerable sides.

Women know that men flourish better in their masculine frames. They also know that men become weakened when someone frustrates their masculinity

The problem is that most men yield too soon and keep trying to regain their masculinity by simping, apologizing and/or fighting. They don’t know the battle has alsready been won. She had defeated you long ago and is just letting you die slowly in your own pool of emasculation.

If you revolt in anger and get physical, you’d be labeled toxic (and rightly so). If you cry, you’re a finished man.

So What must you do?

Cancel her out!
I don’t mean k!Ll her, I mean — tune out completely to a point where she no longer exists. Go for her sister if she GENUINELY appeals to you. Her best friend is also a good option. You probably misfired in the first place.

You’ll kill 2 birds with one stone—
1. you’ll have accesss to another woman who would feel your emotional maturity/stability.
2. The emasculator will find you rakishly seductive for no reason.

This is bad advice and I know. However, if it gives a man an edge in the dating market, who am I not to share? It works 100% all the time.

Credit-#4th son

Whatever you can't finish, don't start. We humans are wired to get used to things like that easily.

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Am open for a nice fruitful conversation..pls be able to hold a good conversation...not DMing me when you have nothing to say or can't hold conversation.

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SavageResponse:
Signed or verbal agreement is worthless in Nigeria because most people here have no integrity!

that's true sha, but we all ain't same

phynotic:
with university 2.2 u can get a lecturing job in a poly of college of education as a graduate assistant and without ur msc, u won't leave the GA

Buh in university, u can't get a GA job with 2.2 unless u are doing ur msc and det are sure you will/have a Phd grade

a 3rd class holder who did PGD (score above 60), msc (phd grade) can lecture in university

the issue of 3.0 is not visible, I had 2.82 and did my masters at oau
I have someone who had 2.5 and did masters at University of Ibadan

did you do pg before UI admitted you for masters?

Syntaxbyte:
Hello,
I have been holding this money but I just thought of using it for something it can be used for.

Please advice me, what I can I invest it on?

Thanks in advance!

lend it to me and get 130k after two months. Yes, we can sign agreement

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LagosG:
You have two options;

Option 1: Lick your wounds and look for another job.

Option 2: Look for somewhere to fortify yourself against bullet (metal weapons in general), It will give you mad ballz and could influence you to become a robber yourself but remember once they find out bullet no dey enter you, na common 2 by 2 kpako go bring your end.

Choose wisely.

that your second option get k-leg….. he should use thousands of naira to do charm for a job of less than 50k as salary? That aside. Do you think if they shoot at him and the billet fail to penetrate, they’ll just leave him like that? They might just use stone to smash his head or strangle him to death. I would rather he start looking for another job.

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Lagos deal

pictures?