₦airaland Forum

osajojo: I have always said our state governors are nigeria"s problem.they r tifs and have no clue as regards improving the lives of their own people. Imagine pple in delta complaining of goodluck where their real problem is uduaghan. If our govnors sit tight the much await development will arrive faster.

Adanyebe: I Think Nadia's Father Is So carried Away by the fact his wife gave birth to an Half-cast. Instead of questioning the paternity of the child. LOL..... It may be that the mother is related to a white and that has been a recessive trait in the gene of the mother passed unto her daughter

Jabioro: I knw frm day one that whatever that come out of snake must be long and poisonous.PDP,Poisonous Destrotive Party.

KINGwax: go die jö

luvola: Amazing wonders

tosh26: Am presently in a relationship with a 20 year old, am 27.Depending on who she is-you could face challenges but I expect that your maturity will make up for her immaturity.

Basic: You try it first, and you'll see how it works. Airtel BIS plan does not recognise the device you are using. In fact, that's what I've been using on my modem for long. So, just insert an airtel Sim into any device and send BSM to 440 to enjoy 1G for the next 30 days. However, if network no good for una area, you're on your own!

nairawall: Whoa, this is so so hilarious. Nigerians are a fun people to be with no matter their level.
I just like this Farouk guy sense of humor.


Nothing will happen!!! Farouk knows it because he is privy to a lot of shady deals the entire democratic era (since 1999) has witnessed. Everybody within the government has a lot of skeletons in their cupboard.

Make dem try jail Farouk whether the entire government won't com down. All they can do is rubbish the report and not Farouk!!!

silibaba: really scared of this heartless sort of religion. religion that does not take life for anything.

pls seun, u have to do something before this bokoharam muslim here bomb nairaland

sholay2011: Na wa for all dis muslims sef....islamic bank, sharia law, islamic dressing....bbm for muslims...i hiss in arabic...wen wil bbm for traditionalists b made available den Dis muslims seem to always av a sense of divisn or shud i say segregatn frm odas? Abeg!!!

Cuddlemii: @op, you are right. Even as individuals without involving a relationship or being in a relationship,we all keep secrets at one point in time so as not to get judged, criticized, taken advantage of, be vulnerable or let people use it against us either through blackmail or aggression.

The trick is this, most couples or partners find one grievous or convincing secret to tell each other so as to get the trust of their partner but deep down its not everything that was told. For example, a former runs babe who aborted and was fought by her married man-friend's wife can decide to tell her bf that she was once a bad girl that grooved and made mistakes because her childhood was rough. That would quickly get the sympathy & trust of the bf that she is very open & sincere to him. But was she? Critically she wasn't, she only built his trust but she didn't mention the abortion, involvement with a married man and the fight with the married man's wife. So anytime anyone mistakenly gives account of her past deeds to her bf, he would overlook it as she has won his trust even if she cleverly didn't tell him everything but how would he know? Its a secret cleverly told with hidden elements. So people tell a fraction of secret so as to get into their partners psyche, build trust, impress them that they are genuine and prepare them for future gist that might spring up and destroy the relationship. Its part of the psychologies of game playing, mind playing and relationships. Some people can assume any role and act it convincingly but deep down their secrets rest within.

But no one would come out and tell you all the decadence in their past or present life except in rare cases with peculiar people that either have big mouth, no control of what they utter or they can't keep secrets or they are not good liars or they are also dealing with a partner who has a can of secrets too but told them most of it.