Funny thing is, I am in the same situation as you, only not married with kids. I can't even look at other women except this one. But you know, when you are being taken for granted. You just gradually pull away, you have to, otherwise it's a life of misery for you.

ScotHarvath:
I have been noticing this things for the past couple of months. She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me, I wanted to call for a separation after hearing such strong words but she pleaded and I acquiesced.

We have two kids.

Yesterday which was Father’s Day, she woke up at 10 o clock, before she did, I had slept the house and prepared breakfast because I felt she needed to rest.


I went out to with my friends around 6pm and came back around 10pm and asked her to help make toast for dinner and she boldly told me to go the kitchen and make it myself.

I really blame myself for this situation now, I made myself to accessible to all. I barely keep friends. So I made her my best friend, tell her everything about my finances and all. I treat her as an equal.


Is it wrong to treat a Nigerian woman well this days?


Everybody is advising me to get a side chick but I’m not that kind of man, I’m not sneaky or crafty enough to maintain two relationships.

I have been told to stop spending time with her at home but I’m an introvert, I don’t like frolicking with other people unless it’s absolutely necessary and besides I work from home.

I have also been advised to treat her like a stranger in her house and not talk to her for days but once again I don’t want that kind of life. I feel truly trapped.

immortalcrown:
How you have been coping is how to cope.

Don't listen to those who advise you to divorce him. They have no guarantee that your next husband will be better. Cheating on you is very bad. But I advise you to bear it since you don't suffer domestic violence and starvation In the marriage.

How do u mean bear?. What if he brings HIV and other STDs. What if it was your wife cheating...will u bear it?. Why are u people like this. You have no self respect and honour....sleeping with anything that comes their way!

You are misleading people and stop being ignorant. You should consult with professionals in mental health or better still Google. Schizophrenia is a mental health issue. A major one.



That's a lie


I know a guy with schizophrenia that's doing well more than the average dude [/quote]