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HRSweetness:
Great .

So, I must say you're doing great. He's missing you already keep the distance and create some suspense LOL. No he didn't call you cos he thought you did something crazy, he called cos he actually missed you Girl power.

And success in your exams

Thanks a bunch

HRSweetness:
Hey babe @oliviajones, where you at? Come let's gist.

I may be at your location next week, attending a conference. Trips not confirmed yet cos I'm exhausted. Done a couple of round trips these past months so I need a break.

If I don't succeed in wriggling myself out of this, will hit you up. Maybe we can hang.

Respond to this message oh. LOL.

Hi Sure. Please hit me up when you come around. I have exams next week but I can make out time.

HRSweetness:
Emotions aside, can you really tell if he was into you?

Definitely

HRSweetness:
Bummer... If we were in the same location, I would have gone out of my way to do the unusual by connecting with you cos I can tell that you're actually a sweet girl.

Sis, you're going to have lots of private messages as a result of this post, especially since you've revealed you're financially well off!

Trust me, don't take the messages from the guys seriously, cos it's those boys that pretend to be alpha males on here that'd be all over your PM clowning themselves LOL. (I know they'll come for me for exposing them, but like Buhari, I no send)

Infact, if you find any interesting message, take your time and research the person's history on NL before engaging in any form of convo.

You need to create emotional distractions so you can slowly get your mind off le boo but be careful to avoid entanglements cos you're really vulnerable right now.

Are you sociable?

MODIFIED

just saw you edited your location, will do same.

You're very kind. Thanks a lot .

I'll just talk to some people in real life and throw myself into work to keep busy. Yes, I create time for fun.

Hopefully, I get over this phase quickly and God willing, he doesn't meet someone else. Because it's a possibility.

HRSweetness:
Awww you're more than welcome.

Now you have to deliberately take on activities that'd replace whatever reminds you of him.

Where's your location?

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HRSweetness:
He will ONLY come back when he can trust that you have dealt with your anger issues and immaturity. Tough advise sis.

Truth is, you had a fine young man, which is an exception to what we have these days. I mean, you're on NL, take a look around you.

He won't listen to you cos this is not the first time you've messed up and apologized, so now he don't trust you no more.

You have to earn his trust again and to do this, genuinely work on your insecurities and give him the MUCH NEEDED space he's asked for.

I've heard you. I understand. Thank you

Xmen149:
Thought as much,know this: everyone deals with anger differently. If you brought the problem.. allow him handle his anger.. chip in a message after 3weeks and if no good reply on the relationship delete him from your memories learn from your mistakes then move on.

But if what you did is cheat(as you have refused to say) then move on and let him be please.Good people don't deserve torment

I didn't cheat. It was just a behavior issue he couldn't deal with.

Styluss:
I realised they value peace more... Mine was just negligence and a lirru touch of drana

yeah

Styluss:
please be safe...stressing yourself is not worth it. I believe he'll come to his senses. Btw... I hope uve not acted far off Cos in my own case... I took the blame of negligence.... I had grown up shit to cater for

I acted unnecessary drama thrice. He doesn't like that.