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Klass99:
Lol.

At the bolded parts, I am curious about you too, how did you get to see a beautiful Nairaland female for the first time?

@Oliviajones, is this your first break up in life? If it is I'll understand all your drama but if it's not you need to get a grip and get it real fast.

Reality check - you may never get back together and right now you should focus on recovery, your personal recovery and not focus on winning this guy back at all cost.

Do this IF you want to heal and recover fast - cut off all contact and communication, don't even text or call on birthdays, no checking up on him and no stalking him on social media platforms to see what he is up to. Do not respond to his texts or calls either, block and walk!

It is not my first relationship.

I want him back. Ignoring his calls and messages won't help me with that.

Styluss:
that decision is for him to make.... If you guys are meant to be, he'll surely come back... Just move on and be happy. I lost a year relationship last week, this one even blocked me everywhere . I had to travel 3hours just to plead. I was locked outside, couldn't even meet him. It Was painful but i had to move on. I don't even feel it anymore. Just be free and engage in activities. You can check up on him once in a while just for him to know you still care. If you meant to be, he'll come around.
Your happiness is important, seeing you sad will make him more happy and justified. Be open to new people. Live and love life

Thank you

Styluss:
try to move on. It's easier if you find solace in a friend. Just maintain convo with that person and you will gradually forget about him. Acting this way wont make him bulge but grow more wings

Yeah he said he wants space and time. I think I should give him that now because my pleadings aren't doing much. If anything, it's pushing him away. Will he come back after thinking things over? We had a beautiful thing going.

dingbang:
you messed up thats why he ditched out.


I am glad you have accepted your flaws. Starting a new rship afresh can be so difficult these days. Just let him be.. He will come by later and you two will continue.

Are you sure?

Xmen149:
You sound more like in remorse than heartbreak. Are you the course of the breakup ? What did you do wrong

I am.

crackhaus:
I'm going to take your post serious for a few minutes because honestly, I think you're just catching cruise.

Regarding the bold text, that's the MO of a guy who is dating/sleeping with another chic.

I shouldn't be exposing this format on a public forum and spoiling work for my brothers-in-arms but do your investigation... Your bobo is already involved with someone else and the excitement of that new fling is making him confused.

If you're lucky, he'll get over the excitement quickly and remember you...might even come back begging.
But if you're unlucky, you will see his wedding invitation on FB within the next 6months.

Why on earth would I be catching cruise on a something like this? He said he's not seeing anyone yet

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KimberlyWest:
Sorry about your breakup.

You're scared he will move on? Wow! That's serious. If you ask me, I'll say let him move on. If it's meant to be, it will.

Delete his number. Stop all forms of communication. Trust me, you'll only hurt for a week, and then you'll start to feel better. Try meeting new people, too.

The issue with most of us is, even when something is clearly not working, we find it difficult to accept the reality. We keep praying and wishing that things would be different. Or he'll wake up one morning and realize you're the best thing that ever happened to him. It doesn't always work that way. Let him go!

Did you say he'll wake up and realize I'm the best thing?

Saintmary:
He's had you, you're no longer new to him.
That's what we call see finish.
If you love yourself, cut off all contact with him, dust yourself up and meet a new person.
If you talk to him, he'll only manipulate you into giving him free sex, you can never win that game.

Moveeeeeeee on.

Modified:
And next time, be stingy with sex, very stingy. E get why.

He doesn't even want sex. I'd give him that if that's what it takes.

Mods, do NOT push to front page. THANK YOU

Coffee Stand. get a large umbrella, Make some pastries, hot water cooler and set up store in front of a busy stop. Mak e

Raphael81:
There is the Glory of God upon your life, a church represents a place of security and comfort, water means renewal and hair means Glory.
In the context of your dream, God wants you to work for him and when you work for him, he is going to renew your strength and make you pleasing to him, pray that God should secure your glory too. Shalom

Thank you sir

Raphael81:
Thanksgiving opens the door of expansion, pray with Psalms 113 and give thanks to God

Please help me interpret my dreams.

I dreamt I was in church serving and somehow I decided to bathe in church. While pouring water on my head, all my hair began to fall off. It was just a short afro left at the end.

dangotesmummy:
I'm talking about MOTHER BY PRACTICE.as in REAL MOTHER not womb owner that colluded with sperm donor

You Don dey shift the goalpost. Now no be mother again, na real mother. Swerve

Caleycashh:
Same thing happened to me... use a computer, it will work

I'm on desktop. I've been trying to take the test. Still showing verification failed