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How long will you guys realized that girls are now having fun same as guys in this age and time? Ehn! How long?

The way you look at one girl and you fall for her shape or breast or backside or light or shining dark skin is the same way girls are looking for the features in men too

If you like be a pro like johnny Sin or someone better. The world is changing and it is not like the olden days they used to tell you guys or the type you grew up to know. Girls can have sex with you for any kind reason and move on like nothing happened.

Bro, dust yourself and move on with the new world that we are in. It is either you align or you stuck in the past. But one thing you need to know is that, there is no back in the days.

Op, do you love a woman for just being woman? If you have a type of ladies you like, then that is a conditional love because she might not be attracted to you if she doesn't have all those qualities you saw in her.

You love an intelligent or good looking or tall or short or hardworking or well dressed woman, bro that is a conditional love. If she doesn't have all these qualities as I said, you won't near her.

Why are men so mad that women love conditionally? Please can someone answer me that question? Women love you for this or that. What do you love women for? Tell me you love her for being an intelligent lady, then your love is conditional because there are lots of unintelligent women out there that will be loyal to you for life.

If it is for her beauty, that is also conditional because there are lots of ugly women(besides no woman is ugly) out there that will be loyal to the end.

If you choose one quality or more in a woman, then she is right to choose one quality or more in you. But if those qualities she found in you are no more there, let the contract be terminated. You yourself know say you no love her unconditionally.

Mummy's boys are everywhere now, that will allow there mama to disrupt there marriage. Family start with two people which are husband and wife. Which oyinbo people called nuclear family. While your mama is part of your extended family. We all know that nuclear family is greater than your extended family.

What I am trying to let you know is that, your wife must come first before your mama. No argue on that. Love your mama and take good care of her. But do not allow her to put you in a position that she will have to let you choose between you or your wife. She can't take two families for herself. She already has your father. Another woman is for you. That will be selfishness on her part taking your father, also won't let another woman have you. Let her take one. Either she release your father to another woman and have you or she take your father and let another woman have you. Chikena.

Life is boring until you make fun out of it. It is the reason why some people go to church or mosque to interact with fellow worshipers, some go to club, bar and other nice places. Some will even subscribe on there dstv but will still decide to go and watch a match at the viewing center because they believe it will be so boring watching it alone.

Now imagine having a partner in the house and you still feel like you are living alone. You can't gist together, gossip about things happening around you, going out together some weekends and creating an everlasting memories together. I will rather live my life alone than having a partner like that.

Don't mind people that says you can't joke with your family. Crack some silly jokes even if it's funny or not. Carry your wife expectedly around the house like two little kids playing. Tickle her. Take her out and some time have spontaneous kpanshing. Create a lot of memories that when she remember, she will desire you more.

It is not a problem when the woman made you breakfast before you wake up on bed, packed your lunch that you will eat at work and made you dinner before you come back from work. But immediately a man do something to make his woman feel special it has turn to a simple man.

I want to make you feel bad today, op. A man like that you hate is more than the one you love to be.

So therefore, women don't have to worry about how you feel because you are like a tears in an ocean.

Don't bother to ask her out again. Just flow with vibes and act like her boyfriend.

Take good care of her and be nice.

This should not be a problem for any serious man to do and a man that truly likes you.

What is transport money that I can't send a girl or money to buy a cloth which she will wear to the same date that I am inviting her.

We the men should understand that the more we try to impress our girls or appreciate them, the more they will consider us capable being a man and worthy of having serious relationship with.

Before our time, they let men fight over beautiful ladies. Some men will have there teeth removed with blows to later win the fight and got married to the lady after many blows that almost blind his eyes and removed his teeths.

What has the generation of men done to impress women? You people don't know how precious women are. Oh my God!

As an African man, it is an abomination to wait for a girl to chase you because that is not our culture or way of life. We have never raised sissy men until recently that men are becoming cowards to talk to a lady.

You should not be ashamed of talking to any girl even if she embarrass you just because you try to tell her how you feel for her. Bounce like a man and walk up to another girl. That is who we are. Do not turn to sissy like the whites, who will hide behind his keyboard to search for many dating sites just because he so cowardly to talk to a girl face to face. Rubbish.

Express your mind like a gentleman with a smile on your face and aura of an African man.

Loving a woman, treating her right and showing so much care to her is now a forbidden thing to do nowadays. It is like the more the economy hardship, the more our love life in this country dwindling. May God help us.

If loving my lady and taking good care of her will make me a simp, I am gladly a simp and more. I am going to do every thing in this life to make sure that my woman won't regret the day she met me. Even if I have to stop taking care of myself.

Who cares if she won't let me go down with her. As long as she won't resist me of kissing and pressing her booty and boobs I am okay with that.

I will not force a lady to do what she is not ready to do at the moment and I can wait till eternity because my love for her is not infatuation or lust. All that I care is for her to know that I am her boyfriend.

Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

My prayer is that I do not come across this type of girls because the day that I encounter a lady like this, I am done working for myself and development.

The girls that I have spent so much on didn't even do this much. As a lady, you only need to be sexy or good looking. That is all for you to deep your hands in my pockets and collect all you can.

This is too much for me to handle. Please pray for me that I do not meet this type of ladies oo. Or else ma di gbewu dani straight.

This is the aspect I believe men should be different. What in nature is a birthday celebration for men? This thing should be reserve for women and children.

Some guys will even vex for there friends say them no wish them on their birthday. Nonsense. Married man will get angry because his wife didn't buy him gift on his birthday.

Well, birthday celebration is not for me and I don't care even if my wife doesn't remember to wish me on that day.

Shey it is not in the marriage dey say for better for worse. If I as a person married to a lady that has been used by a yahoo boy or any man or a prostitute that have aborted many babies. Is it not my obligation to make sure that we do everything possible to make sure that she conceive a baby or we collect back her destiny.

I use "we" because whatever she going through, I am going through it too and as long as I made a vow for her on our wedding day, I shall stand by my words.

Marriage is not a date or going to the cinema or amusement park or beach or bar or club or Santorini Greece. Marriage is for two people to join hands together to turn there imperfection into perfection. You and I know that it takes a lot of work to do that.

I am happy for you that the infection is curable. I know that spending so much money on an infection that you don't even contract from a prostitute can make a man not to ever rate any woman in this world again.

Some people will tell us about there predicament on this forum and someone who doesn't know them from Adam will bless them. Some will even pay for there hospital bills.

What did you do to make sure that that angel is free from that infection because you and I know that this thing is not follow come. Na someone go infect her. Try to get over what has happened and the amount you spent. Go find the girl, let her know that she is carrying an infection inside her body and could cause many damages in her body if she doesn't treat it on time.

Forget about relationship right now, be humane and do this one thing to save the world. If she infect someone that doesn't have that kind of money to treat himself. You and I know what is going to happen. Peace.

When has it turn a crime to appreciate a beautiful girl when you see them online or offline?

Beauty is in the eyes of beholder. What is beautiful in your eyes may not to me and what it is to me may not to you.

What is this life turning to in the name of being an alpha male. You can't love in peace. You can't show admiration to women. You can just tell a lady she is looking beautiful. There are many men that are ready to castigate you for being romantic, affectionate and loving to a lady.

Good news to all the women in the world. Boys like that guy are still abundant, that is ready to treat you so good, defend you no matter what and let you know how beautiful you.

Yeah, definitely there is love at first sight. I have loved so many ladies on seeing them for the first time, but there was this one particular lady that I had to followed to where she was going even though she was not aware that I was following her and unfortunately she was going to her boyfriend's place.

Her boyfriend's house is the only place I am sure of that I can see this girl because I don't know where this angel fell from but I do sure where she dwell anytime she comes around.

So, I will hide somewhere near her boyfriend's house waiting under scorching sun or heavily rain for the girl to pass and I can talk to her. One day, I was fortunate to see her and collected her number. Believe me, it's worth going through all that struggle for. She too fine.

You see, I am not against a lady having fun but she should try and give it to someone that will worship that place anytime she open her legs for him. Someone like me.

Anyway the good news is, no matter how much you encounter this kind of men like the op, just know that people like me is out there ready to treat that place like a temple and worship inside of it every day of our lives.

Women too sweet abeg.

Isn't you and me against the world they used to say. So why do you want to be sharing your woman with outsiders, family members and other irrelevant people.

Go and ask some older men, I mean the old ones. They will tell you that to have a peace of mind in the house, you have to let woman think she is in control.

Some old men will even give their wives there monthly salary before they pension and even there monthly pension. So tell me, you want to live peacefully with this genZ and you won't let them have total control of your life and everything. Na die you dey.

For me, I have make peace with my mind. I have understand that to live long with a woman under the same roof, you will have to hand over everything to her and let her take charge of the house. I don't want to die young.

I am sure that you are not new on nairaland because you would have come across many news on front page of women stabbing their husbands. It is because they don't let the women take charge.

Lailai. Never will I ever become an ingrate to my Nigerian women. These same women that are the one giving me motivation to become somebody and still making me to push beyond limits. Tufiakwa.

Even though when I was broke, these girls will make me go through hell before I can kiss or smooch bobbies and the kind of shege they use my face see, no be here my brother. But I won't still leave them for any woman in this world.

Yoruba adage says, Ka ki eni ti o ri ni to moju, opo eyan ni ko wo ibi ti awa.

Shey na Americana or African or Latina ladies wey I no see for wen I dey broke give me kiss or bobby to press? Like I said, I will never turn to an ingrate. The one that do the work should enjoy the most.

So therefore, my Nigerian women, you rock and i dey with you.

A virgin? Who still care about that in this generation. Me that I don't care if the woman that I will marry today kpansh another man a day before our marriage.

You people still hold onto some unimportant things. Why are men so scared about women having fun? Why are you so worried about another person thing? If she choose to give you when it is sealed, fine. But if she choose to give you when it is loose, then it is fine again.

If you choose to love her body, brain and fine face, then love what she present to you in between her legs.

We have heard of stories of armed robbers that become pastors and prostitutes that become deaconess. If these people can changed to better people, so why can't a woman that just had fun in her younger years to become a good wife.

Bro, stop worrying.

Why is it so hard for a man to help a woman with no strings attached. Many times I have helped single ladies, single mother and the widows. The only thing they repay me with was a thank you and I am much satisfied with that.

There was a day a lady called me on video chat. She was in a room I believed could be hers, with this rugged man beside her with no shirt or singlet on. They are all over each other while I was talking with her on the video chat. She asked me, Olokobintin, please can you help me with some cash so that me and my babe can have something to eat this afternoon. To be honest, we are just friends and I don't see the reason why I can help my friend.

I login into my bank app and I transferred some cash to her immediately because I have her details already. She said thank you and log off immediately.

I was happy I came through for a friend. Common guys, you all can do better.

Women are the sweetest thing in this world. The way they smile, talk, walk, laugh to your silly jokes and sometimes act like they are angry at you is so amazing. Especially a girl that truly loves you.

Op, I put it to you, please gather some courage and walk up to a beautiful girl on your street. I am telling you this that if the girl stop to talk to you even though she later doesn't give you her number, and there are some boys in your area watching you guys standing together. Go and write today's date, you will always be respected by them area boys.

Now think about if the girl kon gree to date you. The respect men and women in you area will give you, you will think that you win a lottery.

A beautiful lady is everything to a man. I will continue to chase beautiful women until thy kingdom come because without the most sweetest thing in your life. Then I ask, what is life?

There is love everywhere because I don't know why people are fixated on a certain age to find love. Anybody can love and cherish you as long as you are there kind of man.

I don't know how old you are talking about, but to me, there is no age limit because I go for anyone as long as you are beautiful to behold and you are ready to treat me right because I know for sure that I am the man for every ladies. I treat my woman right and show her true love.

Don't doubt your guts, go for her, make her yours and live happily together.

What is the essence of having a lot of money without a beautiful angel beside you to spend on. There is this special feeling when you are with a beautiful girl with fresh skin and succulent boobs and yansh. Especially with the one that has a very soft skin. Bro, I hope you that you are feeling me?

Go get the mula, find a girl for yourself that you will cherish and give all your heart, money and everything to.

There will never be a man without a woman and there will never be a woman without a man. Olokobintin says so.

In the olden days, the time of our forefathers and our fathers. They will never be allowed to near a girl that they have not paid her bride price not to talk of coming over to spend many hours together in a room alone with them. But you don already kiss this one o.

You see our forefathers do not ever complain even after many things they brought to the houses of all their women fathers and mothers, and still they won't be allowed to near these women. Tell me, how much have you spend on her? How many things have you given to her mother and father? Have you convinced her brothers and sisters with gifts so that they can defend you if she bring home another man.

These are the things our forefathers do to secure a woman they loved.

So therefore, you have to do more to convince this girl enough that you are cable of being a man like our forefathers.

My kind of woman, the one that will act like my mother and point out my mistakes even if I have to be slapped for it. Ain't no big deal here. Someone need to sometimes reset your brain to factory default.

I will like to tell everyone before you start haul insults on me. I know myself, the kind of person I am. Most of the time I overstep my boundaries and this is no good for marriage or any good relationship. I need that woman who can take control and be in charge so that our family will never break away.

Ya'll understand me now.

The last picture, the one with fat yansh looking so adorable, is she also one of the actresses that we are going to perform on set together? If yes, then I will do it for free. Just send me location.

It is unmanly. I pay for the bills, Uber and will also buy her takeaways plus for her younger ones at home. I'm a ladies man.

Look for a help the helper can gain in it. Looking for a totally free help won't move you forward.

If the man is tired of her and her kids, send her to me please. He doesn't deserve them.