Politics › Re: Dapo Abiodun: Most Handsome Governor by OLOKOESHIN: 7:39pm On Oct 15, 2024 |
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Crime › Re: How Bobrisky Spent Jail Term In Kirikiri Special Cell by OLOKOESHIN: 6:27am On Sep 28, 2024 |
Shim dey return back there. Nonsensical |
Health › Re: Open Defecation In Nigeria By State —statisense by OLOKOESHIN: 1:36pm On Sep 14, 2024 |
Lizzysamuel: If this data is accurate, there's no way Oyo and Ekiti won't be leading, followed by Ondo and Ogun. I did my NYSC in one of these states..
Statisense I doubt this one o Fool |
Sports › Re: Ronaldo Hits 1 Billion Followers Across Social Media (Photos) by OLOKOESHIN: 7:37am On Sep 14, 2024 |
Rossikk: I honestly don’t know what people see in that guy.
I would understand if it was Messi.
But I’ve never seen this guy dribble anybody on the field.
Just this his “by force” style of playing. We all know you can't appreciate your enemy even when he/she does something special. Yesterday the 40 year old man still dribble well. Go and watch the clip small boy! |
Politics › Re: FG To Remove Tax On Food Items, House Rents, Public Transports, Others by OLOKOESHIN: 5:22pm On Sep 03, 2024 |
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Family › Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by OLOKOESHIN: 5:18pm On Sep 03, 2024 |
Successtube: I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.
Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.
“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.
But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.
My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.
I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.
The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.
I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.
Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush! This is one sided story sha but if this is the truth then RUN May be your Gbola dey scare her. No lie you don use dick enlargement |
Travel › Re: UK-Based Nigerian Woman Relocating Back To Nigeria For "Better Quality Of Life" by OLOKOESHIN: 9:08am On Aug 30, 2024 |
gaby: After acquiring the best education and a first world passport that will land you an expatriate job in Nigeria...
Deceive the gullible no be me...
My bags are packed and I'm jetting out... Poor man dey talk |
Politics › Re: Photo Of Bianca Ojukwu In Her Late Teens When She Won The Miss Martini Contest by OLOKOESHIN: 11:56am On Aug 21, 2024 |
vanbonattel: Igbo people!
Beautiful people Nigerian men joy givers Igbo women too sweet for side chicks ehn |
Food › Re: Who Else Has This Queer Habit? by OLOKOESHIN: 10:42am On Aug 21, 2024 |
Tokskob2008: When you no be chicken  You know whether nah DJ chicken impregnate his mum...well e fit be |
Politics › Re: Buhari, Jonathan Attend Council Of State meeting, Obasanjo Absent by OLOKOESHIN: 2:51pm On Aug 13, 2024 |
Racoon: Why are Gowon, Obasanjo, IBB and Abdulsalami absent? They are the only people who can exert real power to rein in the balabloo-blu-bulava heroin-infested brain with his aloofness and defiance despite how he has messed up this nation. Jonathan was the last steady growth template but the 2 Disasters Nigeria never deserved. Wake up Obi has gone to school |
Foreign Affairs › Re: See Kamala Harris Rally Crowd Sizes So Far (Wisconsin, Michigan, Arizona) by OLOKOESHIN: 6:25pm On Aug 10, 2024 |
This is too much for Olodo pikin na WorldRichest: Cry ooooooo Weep ooooooo Wail ooooooo
After crying blood, then tell us how many votes your 3rd Class Philosophy graduate got in all the Core Northern states which have the highest voting numbers. Now I understand why your candidate studied Philosophy, to add 1 + 5 + 2 is difficult for him and his headless mob |
Autos › Re: Top 5 Cheap Cars You Can Buy Now On Carmart.africa – Starts From 1 Million Naira by OLOKOESHIN: 5:09pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
emnite: Are the cars in good condition? Dem no born them well to reply this comment |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid's 34th Birthday Celebration by OLOKOESHIN: 2:23pm On Jul 16, 2024 |
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Celebrities › Re: Wizkid's 34th Birthday Celebration by OLOKOESHIN: 8:27am On Jul 16, 2024 |
EreluRoz: They are always in their 30s this boy is close to 40. I don't like him, there's nothing to like about a serial babydaddy impregnating women all over the place. Babydaddys are big redflags. Bye Keep growing Sad on anoda person mata |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Creates New "Federal Ministry Of Livestock Development" by OLOKOESHIN: 8:12pm On Jul 09, 2024 |
OZIOGU1: Misplaced priority, what happen to ministry of Agriculture? Nigerian leaders always thinking from their nose Mumu |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Visits Grimad College Of Nursing Sciences In Kogi, Donates N10m by OLOKOESHIN: 10:24am On Jul 09, 2024 |
Kingsmeal: Today, HE Peter Obi was received with enthusiasm and excitement at the Grimad Catholic College of Nursing Sciences in Kogi State Nigeria.
HE Peter Obi also made a huge generous donation to the college of Nursing Sciences In Kogi State Nigeria. Catholic owned nursing school |
Business › Re: Ex-konga CEO, Imudia Did Not Commit Suicide — Family by OLOKOESHIN: 6:27pm On Jul 01, 2024 |
AqualinaXYZ: Before I comment who did this man support in the last presidential elections
Because from now my condolences and RIP will be channeled based on merit
You can’t go and vote Tinubu and be surprised when Thunder fire you Nobody go mourn you and your owners when una kpai self |
Politics › Re: Hardship In Nigeria: How These People Are Surviving? (pix) by OLOKOESHIN: 7:03pm On Jun 27, 2024 |
Shalommy: Aboki beggars? I can't help them.  I will keep giving. Even at point of death. I will still give |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Returns To Abuja After Attending Ramaphosa’s Inauguration In South Africa by OLOKOESHIN: 10:15am On Jun 21, 2024 |
0001Lagos: Yeye president
After disgracing himself in South Africa Obingo You and your Obi including your generation no go smell that presidency seat IJN |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden Greets Pope Francis With A Forehead-to-Forehead Hug At G7 Summit In Italy by OLOKOESHIN: 1:38pm On Jun 16, 2024 |
Bamss1: They kuma fit kiss like that, I no trust all this oyinbo people Both of them no dey get erection again na |
Crime › Re: Ogun Lady Arrested For Inserting Firewood Into Private Part Of 12-Year-Old Girl by OLOKOESHIN: 3:51am On Jun 15, 2024 |
Offpointng: Those breast right there look 65yrs for ah 25
wtf man who was responsible Dem don squeeze life outta of that bweast aswear |
Health › Re: Cholera Outbreak In Nigeria, 65 Confirmed Cases, 30 Dead by OLOKOESHIN: 2:29pm On Jun 14, 2024 |
DMerciful01: Fake cholera...another means to divert fundz. Sense Far From You |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Clean Office Job Of 100k Salary Or An Unbefitting Business Of 400k? by OLOKOESHIN: 6:11pm On May 22, 2024 |
Ayokequeen: Kindly give your candid opinion on this matter. As a master holder what would you rather go for; a clean office job of 100k salary or a legit but unbefitting business like selling pepper that makes a profit of 400k monthly? Werey Unbefitting business wey send you go school |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai Attends Harvard University Alumni Reunion (Photos) by OLOKOESHIN: 9:48pm On May 18, 2024 |
HenryWilliams: When is Chicago State University having their own Alumni day? Wanna check something...or someone Na when palmwine tapper association that your Pman belong go get meeting at Agulu Market square na?  |
Sports › Re: Joselu’s Heroics Send Real Madrid To Champions League Final by OLOKOESHIN: 7:23am On May 09, 2024 |
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Celebrities › Re: Portable Celebrates After American Embassy Approved His US Visa (video) by OLOKOESHIN: 5:06pm On May 05, 2024 |
Mrniceguy007: No man knows or owns the secret to make money. To be a graduate is good but all these graduate's should stopped seeing themselves as the rightful heir to make money. Everyone is bound to make money regardless of their educational status. You graduates should stop wishing brokness for this guy, na school una go, no be money making factory una attend!!! Everyone can be rich regardless of his/her educational status. The founder of Disney is also poorly educated and can be classified as an illiterate. Education is an opportunity, so lets stop wishing this guy bad!!! Some graduates got same opportunity like him and still can't keep up. Know this and know peace Check your thoughts |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Atalanta Vs Liverpool: Europa League (0 - 1) On18th April 2024 by OLOKOESHIN: 8:45pm On Apr 18, 2024 |
GanagiBitrus: I will give ₦100m to first 10 people who quote me, if Liverpool advances tonight.
Money na Water.  Wow |
Music/Radio › Re: Ruger Ft. BNXN - POE (Official Music Video) by OLOKOESHIN: 12:03pm On Apr 18, 2024 |
Dem no dey quarrel again ni? |
Celebrities › Re: "I Will Never Try It Again": Mike Ezuruonye Cries On Walking On Suspended Bridge by OLOKOESHIN: 6:51pm On Apr 16, 2024 |
Juliusganduje: If Nigeria is working under Ebola Tinubu, Junior Pope would still be alive Try wear pant pikin |
Politics › Re: Obidients Declare Operation One Borehole Project Per Community In Support Of Obi by OLOKOESHIN: 12:23pm On Apr 13, 2024 |
Joshintua: Noted, how many communities will it cover and will it be throughout the country?? Someone wants to eat their hard earned money again Someone is playing on their intelligence again Someone is planning evil again |
Celebrities › Re: ‘I’d Rather Go To Hell Than Sign With Wizkid, Davido Or Burna Boy’ – Brymo by OLOKOESHIN: 3:56pm On Apr 07, 2024 |
Righteousness2: Ladies and Gentlemen, Hell Fire is not a place of fun Hell Fire is not a place of Laughter. Hell Fire is not a place of Party. Hell Fire is not a place of Merry making.
Hell Fire is a place of Everlasting Torments Hell Fire is a place of Undescribable Pains Hell Fire is a place of Toture. Hell Fire is a place of loud cries, wailings and Lamentations. Hell Fire is a place where the Worms do not Die. They feast on the people continually and continously.
In Hell Fire, Everyone Repents and Surrender to JESUS CHRIST, unfortunately, it is too late. In Hell Fire, Everyone Believes in JESUS CHRIST, Unfortunately, it is too late. In Hell Fire , Everyone will do anything to return to earth to carry bible , Unfortunately it is too late.
Hell Fire is real Folks. You dont need to Experience it. The Lamb of GOD, JESUS CHRIST Has paid the price for you and I to escape it.
REPENTING, BELIEVING AND SURRENDERING TO JESUS CHRIST is the Only means to Escape Hell.
Now that we Have Life and Breath in us is the ACCEPTABLE TIME. Now that the Rapture has not Happened, is the ACCEPTABLE TIME. The next Moment is not Guaranteed.
Without JESUS CHRIST, ALL are Heading to Hell Fire.
Your hell fire doesn't exist guy |
Politics › Re: LP Crisis: I Didn’t Promise To Build New Party – Peter Obi On Convention by OLOKOESHIN: 3:38pm On Mar 30, 2024 |
ScratchDtoto: The Brown roofarian moozlems always hear or listen to back of television and they read newspapers upside down.
Typical sophistication generals You are thinking with your ass |