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Nevergree:
Sorry dear, the guy no get respect at all.

Just ignore him.

I already have. Thank you

sirchrislatestn:
Madam olosho is talkin

Wait! Are you mad? What kind of talk is that? Don't you have older ones in your family? How dare you call me that? It's not your fault, cos this is a faceless forum, you use your dirty fingers to type nonsense! Disrespectful idiot!

Sniper101:
Transgenders are hardly straight dear
they're either bi or they're gay

And who the hell is Caitlyn Jenner?
{sorry, I ain't got the time to look her up}.

Kim Kardashian's step dad

camobri:
becone I am not trapped, why so dumb why? is it difficult for u to grabs? just like asking why some are black or yellow. u can't pray such, doesnt work. person wey go trans go trans, it's frm stomach

no, I don't "grabs" nonsense. See who is calling another dumb. "It's from stomach". E for come from Anus na

ESSOHEngineers:
Work Place Sexual Harassment is common and both ways, however women are statistically more on the receiving end that the giving end. However as common as it is, it places a lot of emotional and psychological stress on the Victim. This is because it is just a step away from rape/assault.

Do not assume you are overreacting. Report him immediately to your boss. Escalate it. He is already stalking you by coming to your door. Perhaps creeping and peeping and listening.

Tell him you will report him to your boss. Tell your boss that you are doing so because it is the right thing to do in such a circumstance. The reason for reporting to your boss is not only because you want him cautioned. It is also because from an Occupational Health,Safety and Well-being perspective, it is simply the procedure to follow and the thing to do. Tell your boss to call a chat with you both and complain further. I am assuming it is a small company,hence no strong HR Team. Also, where possible report him to other male folk within the apartment. This is so that you have witnesses to show you have complained. If you want, also write a formal report of complaints to your boss and keep a copy.

And if he doesn't stop, tell him you will file a complaint to the police. Where possible avoid all manner of mundane and trivial gist with him. Keep your conversations and association formal.

Keep evidence of all his behaviors. You might need it. Where possible send him warnings via text messages and keep those too. Next time he does that put your phone camera on video record and make a video. Don't worry about if it is clear or if you got a perfect shot. Just make a video/videos of you warning him sternly about his harrasament and how you don't fancy it.

Harassers usually feel victims are playing hard to get. Generally for women they are usually harrassed by their Seniors. For men they are harassed both by their bosses and juniors as a matter of fact.

Where it is not conducive you might need to leave the job. It is better than living with the horrors and trauma of rape. The Nigerian hypocritical and patriarchal society is unforgiving to women assaulted. If you follow the trend, it is common for Nigerian men to lie and say the lady agreed to have sex for a specified amount and that when they didn't pay the woman decided to claim rape. He will even claim he has been dating you. Finally it moves to cognitive dissonance where they blame the Devil or blame the "thing that came over them" and how "they usually don't act like this" etc. At the end people will say why didn't you speak up. Why didn't you leave. Etc. So, be careful and speak out. Don't ever assume you are overreacting. Put a stop to it otherwise he will get bolder.

Eventually if it gets bad, you may have to decide if it is worth your continued stay of if you should leave. No one can make that decision for you.

One of Many Examples of Workplace Rape and Assault.

https://www.nairaland.com/5437096/man-rapes-co-worker-death-ogun

oil dey your head. You've said it all

Nevergree:
Where is .

So GOAT is a thief...?

He bought the award

Chaii!

Abeg I dey chop food wey get pepper, I no fit laugh too much. "so, goat is a thief"

camobri:
nobody wakes up to be transgendered. people are trapped in different bodies, u see dem women nut dey are men. dey need to transgender to feel normal. read wide and stop silly prayers

Why are you not trapped in a different body and decide to slice your p*nis for a vagina? The prayers are for my sons o, tenkiu

Geghen! Una see so?

E fit be but most of these street convos are staged

Thank God I'm no 5. No 7 tho the man don enter am

ornicus:
That remains to be seen.
It may look like a penis, but I doubt plastic surgery includes making a glans, cowpers gland, prostate, working testicles erectile tissue and all the endocrinology required to get am erection.

Me sef I don't understand

I hear a long time ago say dem dey do hormones too o

NobleAngell:
Lord have mercy on me by giving me very very normal children. I didn't give my parents headache.

Her/His mother don resign to fate. She/He is even thanking her for her support. It is finished!

Dear God, my sons are in your hands oo. Do not let them or one of them think of becoming a transgender o. Abi which kain thing be this?

IDEKEALUMONA:
I thought it was Bukola Saraki,the former senate President, and I was already confused, I was like, ' how', how come, wetin happen?

no be only you o. I was like.. dey don start

excel1960:
I just called d number now, it rang but he didn't pickup.

which kain wahala be this? Somebody help!

una sha don spell GRIMSBY. E don do o, no be dem send Liverpool to una last Sunday o

WristFashion:
People watching the match please tell us if the MKdons players are complete o

15% possession na all of them dey goalpost ni?

Our young boys balling with help from grandpa Milner "min-y" some boys from the red part of Chester are finding it difficult to find a goal. E don cast for them o

Una still never score? Just checking on you o

Angelfrost:
Liverpool can't lose to a division 1 team.

we have lost to MKDons before o. We fit win tonight but football is unpredictable

chukwuibuipob:
Nah who we offend wey nor gree forgive/ free us? Man U don sufa

Get in boys! Remember say MKDons eliminated us from this cup sometimes ago. E no go apun today sha

Maxwellshady:
Bleep liverpool knocked me off the champ league

e still dey pain you? Eeyah! E no easy

Area4Area:
If he didn't attend like every other head of state did, you'd say he's lazy or he can't express himself in English, now he's attended, na to embezzle money be excuse.
Only God knows what it takes to satisfy some Nigerians

even God cannot satisfy them. They complain always

Gartol:
oboli kids might not be as old as Mike but her first born is in his 20's, omotola is decent to considering the number of kids she has she is not really fat she he still very much okay. You haven't really met some hot moms. But I have met a lot of moms that are very much okay in shape. It ain't easy though Mike's mom is just few of a thousand that looks good.

some people are not worth arguing with. Using a single woman as a yardstick to measure millions of women is unintelligent. So that's how all abroad based women are hot right? They'll just be looking for silly opportunities to insult our women of which their mothers are part of. Kids everywhere. Nonsense!

LearnITsmash:
She is more beautiful than 80% of lazy Nigerian mothers

80% of Nigerian mothers are lazy? Jeez! I haven't read a more stupid comment than this in ages

KevinDein:
All deserving

you say?

[quote author= post=82503371]He deserves it.

CONGRATS Allison.

CONGRATS Liverpool..

CONGRATS OloriLFC!

#RESPECT. [/quote]Thanks

flowx:
Why are you so pained like this?

My brother the thing tire me ooo

Can't wait to have you back in the team Alisson

1-1, no wahala. Van Dijk will win the Balon d'or then

Okay o. Imagine Marcelo, Modric making the FIFpro. They had to squeeze Hazard there too and no Liverpool or City player? Issokay