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Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Leriebloom(f): 9:08pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Well, if there is a Human Resources person in your company i think that will be the best person to speak with. From your own end, i think you should confront this colleague and let him know that his advances are unwelcome. Not just confront sef, warn him and let him know the next time such happens you would escalate it. He might think the reason why you are letting him do his rubbish and not saying anything is because you like it. Speak up and tell him to back off. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by olajide8(m): 9:11pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa: I don't know if it is only me but go back and check all the topic you started, it either rape or sexual harassment how do you handle it, how did the person that deflowered you end up? - it is as if, you are dreaming about being sexually violated some how, Abi Na only me dey read this kind meaning to your life ni? |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by oloriLFC(f): 9:13pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ESSOHEngineers:oil dey your head. You've said it all |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by femi4: 9:14pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa:Let's see your pinsure |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by dagreat4(f): 9:14pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
This is so not right. First tin first.tell him in clear terms you do not want those advances n will like to b very official with him as d word official n make him know you are serious.ensure to record all your conversations with him.if he is not bulging,report to your supervisor Officially n copy known women right organisation.you need not fear nothing,just b good on ur job.If you are threaten cos of your stand,get the women right organisation involved n things will work in your favour.you do not need to fear of sack n succumb cos as young n inexperience as you may be,if you hold yourself togeda n demand to be treated right,d high n mighty may be relieved of their job(s) if they cross their boundary.times have changed,the phones we have can get the world to hear us in seconds .goodluck |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa: This is a common trend in construction company especially, when working on site and you live in site camp. Follow the well outlined counsel . |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
You don't have a guy in your life that you can report to instead of coming to nairaland? |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Zimmermann(m): 9:21pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa:Get a guy you know, even if your brother or relative, to play your boyfriend for awhile. Tell the lecherous idiots you've a bf, and act like it. They'll leave you alone. Thank me later 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by NwanyiOkpa(f): 9:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Muyiwaipere: What do you mean by that? How am i supposed to dress in a corporate environment? I even work in coveralls. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by greggng: 9:27pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa: Give a child breast milk and he will stop crying. Let him have a little of your pussy and your worries will be over. That man will not rest until he had you...it seems you have charmed him with your beauty... |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by shineeye1: 9:27pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa: Poor girl! One thing is paramount, you cannot remain at the mercy of any sexual abuser! If you have made your boundaries clear enough, those boundaries must be respected! If however they are not respected, the onus is on you to enforce compliance through authorized action. Lodge a formal complaint against the abuser. Your reluctance to lodge a formal complaint after sufficient notice and warning is the reason why you remain a violated victim. Evil dreads exposure. The evil doer should be the one living in fear - not you! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by veraiyke(m): 9:31pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Warn him sternly n report to your boss even though he is a womanizer n do so both orally n written for it to be official. If nothing is done then you would have to make a choice between keeping d job n its consequences n leaving it. God iis your help . I wish u well. I know u have a hard choice to make 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by capitalzero: 9:32pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa: Rape victim in view and when it happens you will blame yourself for life. You do not need advice because you know what to do |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by dochenaj: 9:34pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Quietness over sexual harassment could come off as a subtle "yes" and thus embolden the harasser to try new things. You must sternly warn him, if it requires shouting at him in the public to embarrass him, do that. And if none of that works, make a formal documented report to your boss stating that you cannot tolerate such unprofessional conduct from colleagues and you have addressed the issue personally with the harasser but he would not change. If it will cost you your job, it is better to have your integrity and lose your job than lose your integrity over a job that won't last forever. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Makuos19: 9:36pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa: Any clothes you wear that shoecase your curves, laps, Breasts, Armpit, etc means you are a Seducer thats why they are harrasing you!!! |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Prayer is the key o Weytin girls no go see for the hands of men Na so some students & lecturers would just be harassing a lady (with heavy ass) in the school premises. The guys would snap her back & be posting on social medias. @OP, may God save you from these men o. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by shineeye1: 9:38pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
greggng: Your so-called advice is as nonsensical as your name spells. |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Hmmm |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by NwanyiOkpa(f): 9:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Makuos19: Well, i dress decently. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Makuos19: 9:46pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa:Then mention the clothes you wear that are decent...or how do u know you dress decently |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by NwanyiOkpa(f): 9:49pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Makuos19: Long skirt and blouse. what more do you want to hear? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Makuos19: 9:52pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa:And the long skirt and blouse is not showing your contour/hip shape, breasts/cleavages, armpit? Or better still post your picture in the long skirt and blouse lets see |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by greggng: 9:55pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
shineeye1: This things are always difficult to get out of ...that is why i decided to introduce comic relief. Only those willing to quit there job find it easy to report this matters especially to a boss that is equally a womanizer. ...that boss might be coming after her shortly |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by NwanyiOkpa(f): 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Makuos19: this is the end of my conversation with you. Goodluck with your life. |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Makuos19: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwanyiOkpa:Lol, i thought u claim u dress decently now u know the cause of your problem and u are looking for advice. |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by EmmyBiggy(m): 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tell him you want to report him to boss and he won't try it again |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by victorian(f): 10:00pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Makuos19: Lol Make she kukuma wear jalabial What a question! Men sef! Anyways for him to always snap her bum bum means she has a protuding round intimidating assz Which is no fault of hers, na God give her like that. Op, seriously just warn him off and threaten him your boss will hear of it. Also let him know u have recordings of how he behaves towards you. Always record any conversation between u too. Be firm about your threats. If he doesn't stop? Report to your boss. If boss no wan hear. Let your boss knows you have a boyfriend in the army and you've told your bf about it. But your bf says you should table the matter to the head before he handles the Randy colleague by himself with his own army colleagues if there is no change. Army in Barracks will come in and set things straight. Trust me, every man in that building will avoid u like plague, likewise the boss. I used such technique in my office building and it worked like. Magic. Lust clear for the guy eyes. Lol |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Makuos19: 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
victorian: Whatever the size, God gave it to her to cover it well for her intending husband not for punlic consumption. So get a dress/skirt that will cover it well. Clothes are meant to conceal not to reveal. Whats noe W the difference between her and the Prostitutes we see on the street |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by shineeye1: 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
greggng: On the contrary, a formal report against the harasser would be serving warning notice to the womanizer boss! No person of substance and integrity shys away from making his or her reservations known to all in non ambiguous terms. A formal complaint against a recalcitrant abuser is the principled way to go! |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by victorian(f): 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Makuos19: There are some assz! Or even boob's that no matter what one wears, it's still so obvious to the eyes. No matter what she wear. Or u expect her to wear bubu to work? Na WA o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by Cousin9999: 10:06pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Punch him and find a new job. |
Re: How Do I Deal With Sexual Harassment From A Colleague? by comodo: 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Begin dress like Deeper life people. Always with your bible. Thank me later. 1 Like |
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