Nonsense...... you can never get the bonus

Please help me with anything I have not eating since please. I beg of you.

Dalil8:
Not among the top 10 best players in my book.

The present and the future.

Your book is book of wisdom

Tjah:

better wait for ur PGD.
by d way, wat were u doing in school that earned u common 3rd class....??
flexing

How did you come out of the womb?.
So obvious you graduated with a pass.

He suppose to be in jail

Arrewa:
The igbos started tribalism by killing sardauna of sokoto, Ahmdu Bello, Abubakar Tafawa Belewa!!!

the Igbos had good relations with the North & as such the Igbos had more appointments in government from Southern Nigeria.

The same Igbos launched a coup d’état that not only removed Tafa Balewa but killed him as well. The Igbos never complained of
marginalization under Tafa Balewa.

Their son (Nnamdi Azikiwe) refused the right to include the secession clause that Awolowo had proposed. In his words ‘WE ARE ONE NIGERIA’. Ahmadu Bello even proposed to include Awo’s secession but Nnamdi Azikiwe refused.

Nnamdi Azikiwe knew that about Major General Aguyi Ironsi’s coup beforehand and ran away. The same Major General Aguyi Ironsi scraped the Regional system that Nigeria had practiced & replaced it with a Unitary system. All efforts to make him return it back to the regional system fell on deaf ears. Before the declaration of Biafra, Major Adaka Boro had declared the Niger Delta Republic (so you see the word Niger Delta is not a Fulani or Obasanjo construct) & fought the federal forces in a 12 day war.

Guess who gave the order to capture Adaka Boro & who was tasked with capturing him? Major General Aguyi Ironsi gave the order for the capture of Major General Aguyi Ironsi & Colonel Ojukwu was sent to capture Adaka Boro. Ojukwu paraded Adaka Boro naked in the streets of Yenagoa but the same useless Okukwu included Niger Delta in his Biafran map without even consulting with Adaka Boro or any of our people. The same Ojukwu invaded Edo & Delta despite both states not being part of the of Biafra!!

Igbos are worse than anything they criticize!!

Why is it only Igbos who must view their success as an exponent of dominance over others?

That is Igbos for you. They want the right to offend others while refusing to accept the consequences of their offensive ways.

This is why they are currently political outcasts with no major Party willing to support their ambition to lead Nigeria.

Just if recent... They're asking other region to protect igbos...

But they enjoy attacking and killing northners on daily basis!!

You people are just going to pay!!!!

How did you find your way out the womb

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Dalil8:
Machala ��



[[s]b]They say; if ur money can fit into a bag or your pocket then you need to grind harder.[/b]
[/s] shit

Firstly idanre is ondo State not osun

Biggie2000:
Oga ur story is not making much sense. How can a fiancee just kick you out like that? Give more details b4 help can come ur way

I swear man it happened...if not for free opera mini I could have used Google chrome to upload our chats. I just need something to survive till my next salary. All my savings has gone on accommodation, thinking she would help, but lo and behold I was planning for myself.

AutoChick4U:
Depend on God not human

I do brother but things are hard for me right now. I just need help.....I know people won't believe my story. It's because I'm using free opera mini, I could have used Google chrome to upload our chats.

Biggie2000:
Oga ur story is not making much sense. How can a fiancee just kick you out like that? Give more details b4 help can come ur way

too painful I can't upload our chats

Biggie2000:
We need more details.

details as how

Good morning fellow nairalanders, i am begging you all to please help in a way you can. I went ahead last two weeks to secure an accommodation with all I have, lo and behold my fiance told me last week to give her space. Seems everything is shattered now. Please help in any way. I have nothing left in my savings till month end. I just need to survive till month end.

SmellySperm:
Then respect her decision and give her space na
After all you not even married to her yet living together like couples

we have not been living together

My relationship of four years with my girl is at the edge of collapsing. I posted earlier how she has been non chalant about us. I just paid for an accommodation for us to settle down because I was staying in a single room before. She told me tonight to give her space.... what does she mean .......I have beg her that she should just remember where we began but all to no avail. Should I still chat or call her.... through she told me to give her breathing space.

Please guys help me with anything oo....

Pussy paying olosho.... Wettin concern her now. Mosquitoes n body dey fight na wettin concern housefly

donbachi:
Love is a beautiful thing...but,a stingy self centered partner..is an abormination.

honestly up till now I have been doing things independently, I have never wanted to ask her anything. I have been trying to get another job with a good pay , she kept complaining that time is going

chatinent:


More reasons you need to diverse your income, not shift responsibilities.

I'm not diverting, just asking for a little help

chatinent:
Man up, bro. Build your hustles.

I really don't understand what you mean by testing...whereas, you are in the realities of life.

You have to be financially ready by yourself to settle down.

I know brother I have been trying but you know how the country is.

SarutobiEky:
Baba drop her like it's hot. Thank me later with that same 1k. That girl no good.

3 years relationship

I and my fiance has been planning to settle down. I am not really earning that much here in ibadan, as a graduate I earn 30k but my fiance earn 40k in the same city. Things have been going rough lately because I want to take a new accommodation but all the savings I have wasn't enough. So, I asked my babe if she could support and later I will pay back but bluntly told me she can't give a dime. Well I told my friend about it and he told me that that kind of lady would never support even in the midst of financial crisis. Yesterday, I tempted her to borrow me 1k that by Friday I would pay back, telling her I don't want to touch money saved for our accommodation but she immediately told me no. What do you think I can do? Because I don't want to make a wrong decision. Advise. We have been together for 3 years

Senate should be scrapped not this please

Hot letting �
5 bedroom duplex, situated at Olusoji , Oluyole extention with annual rent of N3m with all facilities inside and outside. Well furnished

Nairalanders please help a hungry fellow I take God beg you. UBA 2134997108

NYSC stuff I guess, their mouths are so sweet. Listen to men go learn anything skillful, might be web design, programing or tech generally or fashion designing. Those certificates in those professional courses are useless man. My HSE 1,2,3 certificate is useless, I could have used that money to learn something else

I will comment later

Baba iyabo fun rae

At least, this will serve them better. Looking like illiterate men in uniform

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

Plagiarism I have read this article online 5 days ago, and it's the currency was for Ghana not Nigeria mtcheww