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funkkybabe:
I was contributing to the post based on what i found out, am not fightin with u!

You took the words right out of my mouth. thanks

No offence to anyone, but i think if the guys stop going, the girls will not have a choice but to stop. While at Unilag, it was stress even walking from my hostel to class to read without at least one guy stoping you to proposition you with money for sex, some of them so old, you are too emabarassed.

Thank God I am well brought up, but imagine girls who are broke are just greedy, it was easy to always find men (they always say everyday is valentine's day in UNILAG due to the influx of men in their flashy cars)

Please men, stick to your wives, all you do is corrupt the girls and you will still end up marrying or your sons marrying.

Many uni girls now have the mentality that their husband will cheat when they get married so they will do theirs while they are young, so what you men sow, you will probably reap at some point.

venue : Romance section
topic :Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men:
URL : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-386576.0.html
content : Nigerian men in the UK are liars, they are cheats. they are siliy and i.diots. what should i do, i have money. i am educated, i am not a looser, i have degrees, i work with white men, in Buckingham palace, i have had dinner with the queen, i am above all of them Nigerian men ?


Sam Milla : You are actually a looser to think you can intimidate Men with where you work.


[color=#006600]Very good!!! Sam Milla, it's nice to know we have such talent. Since you have so much time on your hands, hopefully you are putting it to good use as  well?[/color]

its society. All it does it makes d females very secretive when they cheat and u never catch them.

I have a couple of married female friends playing their husbands big time, dont think d woman is a fool when she keeps quiet on u cheating.

On the other hand, i dont always believe guys as a man that is a virgin will claim that he has slept with 100 girls, while a girl that has slept with 100 men will claim she is a virgin.

Nothin spoil

Funny, i just did a google search on dating a Nigerian man and all i got were girls from diff parts of d world heaping insults for the cheats that they consider 9ja men to be.

Nigerian politics  = 0
President            =0
economy        = 0
International positive recognition = 0
even football is shaking now,
9 ja men too have added their own to the list of our disgrace worldwide

na wa

no response to ur post? guess we are not romantic in 9ja. Quite sad. Sorry, dont ve a response but was hopin to get some tips

I am also not an old loser, I am 27 yo, while that is not exactly the youngest of ages, d reaosn i have decided to stick it out is because of my aged parents who prefer 9ja man.

I dont want popsy to get a heart attack because of me, but still i think its my life.

It s sad that 9ja guys see cheating almost as a right more for their egos tahn anything else, my 20 yo couisin was tellin ,e that she knows her future husband will cheat on her so she will catch as much fun as she can while she's young!!!

It will be nice for you men to evaluate yourselves, if you want to sleep around, at least let d girl know, dont deceive ppl who place u on a high pedestal and give u d benefit of doubt only to mess them up.

Read all the responses from my previous posts and came to the conclusion that there prob will be no end to this mess with 9ja guys.

Gone back to my ex and yes he's white and before you'all crucify me:

- I am no looser, i have a masters degree and work professionally mainly with whites in the city,
-My standards are not ridiculously high as my ex was some 9ja bar man, but dumped him quickly when i saw he was trying to borrow money from me etc
-Those that said i should look at myself as mayb d problem, i did and you know what conclusion i came too, i am a good person! i do not lie to anyone i love.

Those that always blame the woman are d reason for low self esteem amongst females in our society today. Why should i be blamed when a man you did not like in the first place chases and begs even sends his friends to beg that he really cares about you. but then starts to mess up?
If a girl is at fault, y not tell her what she did wrong so she can adjust, rather than d guy just messing her about and lying.

I am not an expert on black or white men, but d truth is the 9ja guys have dated/ met/ seen with friends, most have been liars and cheats, while the white ones at least say d truth. if he only wants a black experience he will tell u! They dont carry sex on their head the way desperate, silly 9ja guys do

Yeah, have my ex oyinbo guy on my case still, will prob go back to him, we had a great time and he no dey lie. Will try to still hold out for that 9ja guy sha. Surely there must be a nice, caring, TRUTHFUL one out there for me.

Dont want  my father to ve a heart attack when i tell him i wanna marry oyinbo!


Uche2nna (m)
USA
Posts: 6594


@ topic

In all your relationships , there is only one common denominator: YOU.

If u continuously find urself in nasty relationships, I suggest is time U sit back and look in the mirror. The answer might be staring right back at U.

Do relationships really work?  I cant believe it's me ALWAYS meeting the wrong men.

I am not a bad person, not ugly (not necessarily miss world), not a bad girl (tho not an angel). I go to church,

like all d usual things girls like, but still homely, well brought up but being very unlucky with men, especially Nigerian men.

the last one just told me that he thought he would prefer a casual relationship, cos i said he never picks my calls. Yet kept begging me after i broke it off, obvious;y wnats to eat his cake and have it!

I have tried dating outside Nigerian men and while it was a great relationship, didnt think there was that click btwn us.

I am not one to generalise but just find Nigerian men (the ones ve met in London) to usually be liars, cheats and not truthful to what they say at the start.

At my wits end, dying of boredom, feel very sad and sorry for myself, maybe become a lesbian (lol)

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