The boy has done nothing wrong leave him alone.

@op My Bro with God on your side you can make it. I went back to Nig for 2 years and i am now back in the UK i lost all my money. Let me give you some tips never stay in Lagos or with any family member stay on your own by this you are in full control. If whatever business you want to do will be in Lagos rent somewhere in Sagamu its cheaper and close to Lagos in fact try as much as possible to avoid Lagos too expensive. Divide that money into two only use 5,000 to start whatever you want. Never trust anyone especially people that start every sentence with IT IS WELL.My bro you can make it i am still going back to Nigeria to me its best place to live.

Very nice i wish her the best what i like about T B Joshua is you never see him talk or brag about his family and does not take pictures with his wife as if the Church is a family business this man is a true man of God.

Zim angel

Where are you based

I Thank you God for my life and family.

Freiburger:

@Bro r231 Enough has been said how do we help this family? its doesnt make sense if we have a 50 pages of discussion here and we 're still yet to act. where do we start from?

You are right Freiburger to get the ball rolling the person that went to visit them today can be used to give them the money if we have any banker in the house he or she should help us open a bank account so that we can start sending money as soon as possible.

Etuksbaba asked you some questions you never replied thats means something is fishing.

sadhusband My Bro be very carefull o i would say you shld talk to her and see how you can both move forward.i hate to say this i bet this woman does not love you u love her more be glad that u dont have kids yet if this does not work u can still find someone that loves u the moment she has a kid for u u are in it for life u have been warned.

Pls guys i need to know if Ilorin has a passport office and how much and how long does it take to get a new passport.Thx

@ ThiefOfHearts I am not saying i am waiting for the husband to reply what i am saying is looking at the consequence of divorce look at all options before taking that step have it in mind that a kid is involved. ThiefOfHearts i think i deserve a apology from you for calling me ode because this forum is mainly for us to to give our views not to abuse.

@  debrief08 You see when the devil is at work the guy will say i wont beg same with the woman even if she begs him first that does not mean she is the silly one the husband might see sense then. All what i am advocating is peace.

@ ThiefOfHearts thanks for calling me ode it does not matter i wont abuse you because two wrongs dont make a right.

@ debrief08 I am not saying the guy is right what i am looking at is the longterm it is easy to say leave him but from the vibes i am getting from the poster she is not sure of what to do i think we have to look at both sides of the coins before we make decisions its good to see how this wahala can be sorted than just taking the easy route out

debrief08 LISTEN TO BOTH SIDES BEFORE YOU PASS COMMENT VERY IMPORTANT.

So they should end it poster that was what i was telling you most female will say end it but u are the one that will suffer so think and sort it out DONT LISTEN TO  ThiefOfHearts

Thiefofhearts i think u are just too negative when their is a problem we have to sort it out not make it worse i am very sure the poster will not tell us the full gist only her knows but the main thing is too settle the wahala

I will say settle the problem i am very sure u will be more happy doing that than divorce call him.

Poster look at what you have done wrong take responsibility then beg your man . Some women will say let him go but i can assure you that most women dont love each other if you let your man go for good most times the same so called female friends will talk behind your back. SO CALL YOUR MAN AND SORT OUT THE PROBLEM AND NO 3RD PARTY.

Dyt pls contact me very important on onemanshow17@yahoo.co.uk thx.

My sister true talk.

Poster i have never gone through a tread on NL like your own if you don't feLe your bf no wahala. I was in love with a girl years ago she did exactly what u are doing now i was all over her but she said i am not the one she stopped picking my calls and call me when she is coming from Abuja to pick her up and use me as her driver this happened both in London and lagos at that time i did not see the mumu in me guys if u are in love u do stupid things. Guess what today she calls me i do not pick her call wanted to add me on facebook i no gree why because i know such women no get concise .The last time she texted me she was asking for forgiveness she ended up with one big man for Abuja but now she wants to talk to me if she is happy she nogo call me. I wish ur guy can read this you out of his life will be the best thing that can ever happen to him because the feeling you dont have now will only come back until you try someone else then you will see the difference by the time you want to come back your bf would have gone. I like his courage when he said he wont call you again TO ME THAT MEANS HE HIS GETTING OVER YOU.GOD BLESS HIM.

Who is saying the truth

Brutality: Tekena slapped Porbeni's worker - Ex-minister's aide

Chukwudi Akasike, Port Harcourt

Mr. Paul Bassey, Special Assistant on Media to a former Minister of Transport, Rear Admiral Festus Porbeni (retd.), has accused Mr. Lawson Tekena of slapping one of Porbeni's workers when he was accosted by naval ratings for wrong parking of his car.


Tekena after he was brutalised

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Tekena was said to have been brutalised for making a U-turn in front of Porbeni's house when some security aides of the retired naval chief gave him the beating of his life.

But Bassey, in an electronic mail sent to our correspondent on Tuesday said Tekena's account that he was only trying to make a U-turn in front of Porbeni's house was misleading.

The ex-minister's aide insisted that Tekena parked his car in front of Porbeni's house, blocked the entrance gate and left the vicinity.

Bassey said, "As a disciplined and responsible retired naval officer, Admiral Porbeni in his usual characteristic does not condone any act of lawlessness, and therefore could not have allowed his security details to brutalise a harmless and innocent civilian.

"Porbeni's men are not brutes. They understand the principles he (Porbeni) stands for and cannot carry out acts that are clearly contrary to those principles. The Admiral is so simple and civil that even the navy sentries in his house are always in mufti.

"When the civilian security staff of the Admiral discovered that a strange car parked right in front of the gate, they made desperate efforts to 'fish out' the owner.

"When Tekena was found, he was politely asked to remove his car, a request he bluntly rebuffed. When an argument ensued, he was said to have slapped one of the Admiral's member of staff."

Bassey said due to the security situation in the Niger Delta and the recurring bomb blasts in the country, it was necessary for one to be security conscious.

He said, "That (security situation) should put every right-thinking person on red alert. Because of his (Tekena's) refusal to remove the car, the security operatives felt that a bomb might have been planted in it and they forced him to enter the car.

"The naval ratings in this case were as civil as possible but Mr. Tekena acted like a criminal."

But Tekena faulted the ex-minister's aide's claim, saying Bassey's position was an afterthought.

The brutalised man demanded an apology from the Nigerian Navy and Porbeni, warning that if this was not done within 10 days, he would sue Porbeni and the Nigerian Navy.

Tekena said, "I am a graduate of the University of Wales. I am not a tout and I will not slap a military man. It is a blatant lie that I parked my car and left the vicinity because as at the time they stopped me and began to assault me, my car engine was still running.

"It is surprising that in all this, they have not thought of apologising to me. With the way they are going about it, it means that they have not repented. It is unfortunate that they are lying against me."

He vowed to go the extra mile to get justice, adding that since Porbeni's aides had resorted to lying, he might have no option but to take the matter to court.

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I live in the UK i will like to meet any nice lady looking to settle down.

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Just wondering why this happen in the UK.

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