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u think

25 or 18 ?? which is ur age homeboy ?

aloib:
25 is ok,  I'm going to get married when i'm like 22 or 23,

i also plan to get married around that age , hopefully i would have found a man that acts right.

what is ur age mate ?

Badman888:
don't u think its kind of too much, u can bring it down to 5yrs

y should i bring it down ?? u wanna get with me or something ??

anyways i wont bring it down to 9 years talkless of 5

Badman888:
10 years older what thats much and that is at least so max 20yrs or so damn

yea. aint nothing wrong with that. abi

diddy4dt:
@bluenubian

that is gangsta. straight up hood. yeah dey should battle it out. just like d old times. that is how it goes down. like word.

y u forcing the slang ??

i want a guy @ least 10 years older.

efani just learn to respect ur elders. Ok ?

lmao

Efani:
it should mean sexy a$$ nigga lol j/k

if that was the meaning then u wouldnt have been given that name.

Efani:
i don't know wut my name means really.

ask ur parents or an igbo person. ur igbo right

Efani:
@ rhod
lol no offense but im too much of a playboy, mayb when i get older i'll change my mind

efani ur cute. wat does ur name mean ?

Efani:
i aint even gettin married

what if somebody falls in love with u ??

Badman888:
back to topic or i would lock this thread now   

who made u admin abi o ti ya we-re ni

Afeni:
Yes, many men are verbally abused. But I have no pity for a man that is being physically abused by his wife.

Afeni:
Omogenaija, are you denying that physical abuse in Nigerian marriages is not prevalent? I would say it happens so often that the police won't even persecute you for it.

i aint denying it. i'm just saying that its not only nigerian women that get abused, some of them might be getting abused.

Badman888:
yea something like that but involves rituals and stuff

wow thats scary.

Afeni:
omogenaija, the question is meant to inform you of the choice that many Nigerian women that are in abusive relationships face. Don't assume that they can just pack up and leave their abusive husbands.

Hence, if they waited till they got their lives in order, they would be more able to leave since they won't be depending on the abusive man for money e.t.c.

well, i would leave an abusive man. physical abuse can lead to mental illness or it could even lead to death. and not only nigerian women get abused by their husband. it can happen to any woman or any race. so afeni i advise you to get your statements together the next time you want to share them.

is cultism another word for gang ?

Badman888:
why are you people crucyfying Afeni what has he done again

i aint crucifing anybody. I just asked him where does he get his sterotypes from.

Afeni:
omogenaija, would you leave a man if it meant being homeless and not being able to afford food?  

why

Afeni:
I am not joking. Wait till your 30s to get married. Use your 20s to get your degree and your life in order. If you rush into marriage before you are set (stable job e.t.c.) if things don't work out in your marriage, you are stuck. Ever wonder why Nigerian women stick with abusive men? Think about it.

Afeni where do u get ur sterotypes from first u say yoruba people are cowards , and now nigerian women stick with abusive men. I hope u know thats not always true.

i rather be a house help. even though the asewo business pays more i can't do. my legs are closed. i will just take it as my destiny that i will be poor.

aye awon okurin ti ___________

*shakes head and walks away*

Any age is ok, as long as your mentally and emotionally ready. Plus its a good idea for females to get married before they reach the high risk pregnancy age which i believe is 35+

hopefully your sister will able to go to America and start getting treatment for her HIV before it turns into AIDS

just pray about this situation and i hope for the best. pele

gbogboade:
it is true that female cult exist.i will like to know more about them

what is cultism ??

Atorise, Dunni Olanrewaju,Busola Oke,  and Esther Igbekele are creative to my ears.