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Science/TechnologyRe: 17-Year-Old Boy Helps Polytechnic To Build Nigeria's First Locally-Made Drone by omonighoblessing(f): 2:00am On Apr 04, 2017
this is such good news.....
NYSCRe: Graphic Pics::corp Member Mobbed In Ekiti..demands Justice.. by omonighoblessing(f): 8:48am On Mar 29, 2017
every corps member has individual rights.he shld report to his LGI immediately.
RomanceRe: Uber Driver Narrates How She Picked Up Her Guy's Side Chick Who Was Visiting Him by omonighoblessing(f): 8:39am On Mar 29, 2017
funny enough you see these signs early.......but we choose to tell ourselves lies.
CelebritiesRe: Which Celebrity Rocks Her Baby Bump The Best? (photo) by omonighoblessing(f): 2:30pm On Mar 24, 2017
1/5
CelebritiesRe: 2face And Annie Idibia Celebrate 4th Wedding Anniversary by omonighoblessing(f): 9:20am On Mar 23, 2017
it's beautiful having that one person who truely loves you through thick and thin.....no matter the mistakes,love always find a way to correct !.
happy ANNIEversary to them both...
CelebritiesRe: 2face And Annie Idibia Celebrate 4th Wedding Anniversary by omonighoblessing(f): 9:17am On Mar 23, 2017
it's beautiful having that one person who truely loves you through thick and thin.....no matter the mistakes,love always find a way to correct !.
happy ANNIEversary to them both...
RomanceRe: Ladies, If He Exudes Most Of These Traits, Pls Consider Marrying Him by omonighoblessing(f): 7:47am On Mar 22, 2017
cummando:
LADIES KEEP WAITING FOR THE MAN WITH THOSE QUALITIES




JESUS IS COMING SOON
To marry y'all....
I already have the man with those qualities
RomanceRe: Know These Difference Between Love And Attachment by omonighoblessing(f): 12:47pm On Mar 20, 2017
emphasis on point 4,as much as you value your partner as a lady.....try not to make him the centre of your world.this tends to be the reason some men are nonchalant towards their ladies....value him.but lean to stay without him.that way your partner craves more for you even for as little love as you show him.note that this dosent change the fact that you " value the other person more than yourself",you are only diplomatic about it.
CelebritiesRe: Uche Maduagwu Says Popular Actress Kissed Him Because He Looks Like John Legend by omonighoblessing(f): 1:12am On Mar 20, 2017
eeehen! obido kwa ozo undecided
CelebritiesRe: Bbnaija: Efe Wins Head Of House by omonighoblessing(f): 9:23pm On Mar 19, 2017
my waffi repping
CelebritiesRe: Whatever Happened Between I And Bisola Wasn't Real: Thin Tall Tony by omonighoblessing(f): 9:22pm On Mar 19, 2017
JamieNaija:
The latest evictee from the Big Brother Naija house, ThinTallTony just made a very shocking revelation towards the romantic events that unfolded between him and fellow housemate, Bisola why he was still in the house.

According to him "whatever happened between me and Bisola wasn't real.'


He also revealed alot in the video
attach source of the gist.
CelebritiesRe: Whatever Happened Between I And Bisola Wasn't Real: Thin Tall Tony by omonighoblessing(f): 9:19pm On Mar 19, 2017
undecided his problem..
CrimeRe: Occultic Students Of Fedpoly Oko Caught During Initiation (Photos) by omonighoblessing(f): 8:50pm On Mar 19, 2017
shocked eeeeh CHINEKE!!!!..so finally my school enter nairaland. ........and na for bad thing.huh nawa ooooo
CelebritiesRe: Fvck Y'all, I'm Not Doing Any DNA Test Again -davido (photos) by omonighoblessing(f): 12:33pm On Mar 19, 2017
and what's my concern undecided
FamilyRe: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by omonighoblessing(f): 10:18am On Mar 19, 2017
ireneblush:
because your turn don de reach
yes oooohhh my darling... I will give you the testimony in two weeks.cheesy
NYSCRe: What A Corper Posted On Facebook Will Open Your Mouth by omonighoblessing(f): 8:54pm On Mar 18, 2017
wehdon call geh. ..lolcheesy
FamilyRe: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by omonighoblessing(f): 4:14pm On Mar 18, 2017
cheesy why am I just seeing pregnancy pregnancy this week......
RomanceRe: Reasons Why You Should Not Date The Insecure Guy by omonighoblessing(f): 12:29am On Mar 18, 2017
DLGUY:
I've actually experienced that with a girl before.
am glad you can relate to this too dear......this is actually mostly the scenario in some case
RomanceRe: Reasons Why You Should Not Date The Insecure Guy Part2 by omonighoblessing(op): 12:28am On Mar 18, 2017
Deprince2656:
Your write-up is boring and too long.
"m" undecided........typical
RomanceReasons Why You Should Not Date The Insecure Guy Part2 by omonighoblessing(op): 11:52pm On Mar 17, 2017
*contd......*


You know why a man gets insecure when he sees you around a guy?
It's because he feels there's something he doesn't have that the guy has, and with that you will leave him for the guy. The feeling suggests to him that he doesn't DESERVE you..

I had to take my time to explain insecurity so you understand..

Be careful of a guy who feel not worthy to date you. Honestly, he's insecure..

Be careful of men who lack confidence in who they are; no matter what have, they are insecure...

Be careful of guys who feel money makes a man. Many guys use money to cover up their messy and inadequate self. Without money, a man should not feel less of himself, if he does, he is insecure..

Be careful of guys who are possessive.
And now, there's a difference between jealousy and possessiveness. Jealousy is a normal feeling for anyone in love, but jealousy without control leads to possessiveness. A possessive man is a bomb waiting to explode, a possessive man is a future utterly physically violent man because possessiveness at some point blasts open and violence follows..

Ladies, stay away from a guy who uses your relationship with him to validate himself. Without the relationship, he claims he cannot live and his life will be meaningless. That's insecurity; low self esteem at its peak. Such guys, at the thought that you're cheating, they'd do anything to hurt you because they feel like they've been cut off from their source..

You need a real man. A man who knows the truth that without you he can still be happy, live a beautiful life and blossom. You don't need a man who lives through you. Insecure men would want the really to be their breathing room. That's obsession..
Insecure men are obsessive.
Obsession is an emotional disorder; it's addictive attachment.

Ladies, figure out when a man loves you and when he's obsessed.

Obsessed folks are those folks who'll threaten to kill themselves if you break up with them. Sometimes ladies stay back in a relationship because he threatened he'd kill himself if she leaves, so she doesn't want to be responsible for his death and she stays in. That's manipulation. Insecure men are masters at emotional manipulation.

I have a lot to say. I understand the psychological complexities of insecurity and how it expresses itself but here is too small to pen them all down.

All I'm telling ladies: Look pass what a man has, many rich dudes are insecure, no hate tho. Of course many broke dudes too. Look beyond what he has, look into how he feels about himself. How he values himself, does he think he deserves good things?

When a man thinks he doesn't deserve good things and he has you, he'd even ignorantly abuse you just to keep you because he feels he was only lucky to get you and after this opportunity, he won't get someone as you.

Do you really get my point?

An insecure man is worst that a broke man.
I'd choose a secure visioned broke dude over a multimillion dollar rich insecure dude, if I were a girl.

An insecure man controls you. He dictates where you go, who you talk to, where you work, and everything because his insecurity won't let him believe you can be faithful without his force.

Insecurity makes a man see what isn't there. He suspects even pure actions. His insecurity is always suggesting to him the things you've not done..

I'm done.
Don't date an insecure man. He man should have figured out his value and worth before talking about having a woman.

Some ladies feel a man has money means he has most things or everything. Beloved, building an ideal and healthily relationship is deeper than THINGS.




Solomon Buchi Bartholomew
Life Coach/Motivational Speaker
RomanceRe: Reasons Why You Should Not Date The Insecure Guy by omonighoblessing(f): 11:49pm On Mar 17, 2017
Obsessed folks are those folks who'll threaten to kill themselves if you break up with them. Sometimes ladies stay back in a relationship because he threatened he'd kill himself if she leaves, so she doesn't want to be responsible for his death and she stays in. That's manipulation. Insecure men are masters at emotional manipulation.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Man Dashes Random Akara Woman 100k Naira: She cries by omonighoblessing(f): 10:34pm On Mar 17, 2017
and God will bless this man more.....and those who out there doing same...
PoliticsRe: Nasir El-Rufai Studying For PhD In Holland by omonighoblessing(f): 2:55pm On Mar 17, 2017
hope otobo will be able to give u updates all that wayhuh
RomanceRe: Aderola15: Happy Birthday To The Sweetest Sweetie by omonighoblessing(f): 1:30pm On Mar 15, 2017
Happy birthday sweet
RomanceRe: What Your Handwriting Say About You? by omonighoblessing(f): 10:17pm On Mar 13, 2017
well cry I do have a small handwriting.....just like this one cool grin
CelebritiesRe: Leo Mezie Reacts To Apostle Suleman's Sex Scandal, Speaks In His Defense by omonighoblessing(f): 10:10pm On Mar 13, 2017
The series of reports coming out from the Apostle Suleiman and Miss Otobo's story are quite serious. This would be my last comment on the issue , I must say unequivocally that Miss Otobo is a very unprofessional liar. She should have come to me for a more professional script. Whoever wrote that drama she's acting must be a very stupid script writer. Every single word in her script is deceptive, boring and reminiscent of Nollywood movies. It's even more appalling to see her gathering a horde of sentimental supporters;. Any discerning mind would see that there are too many discrepancies in her essay. I can neither deny nor confirm that Apostle Suleiman is a "bad guy" but trust me, he didn't do this bit-ch.... HE DIDN'T DO IT . I urge every well meaning member of the (of the planning committee to defame the clerics' person) to throw this issue out through the window. It's ridiculous in absolute and on the long run, this issue would only make you all look stu-pid because even a discerning child can see that Apostle Suleiman didn't do this.
Christianity EtcRe: Actor Leo Mezie, Who Was Once Helped By Apostle Suleman, Speaks In His Defense by omonighoblessing(f):
The series of reports coming out from the Apostle Suleiman and Miss Otobo's story are quite serious. This would be my last comment on the issue , I must say unequivocally that Miss Otobo is a very unprofessional liar. She should have come to me for a more professional script. Whoever wrote that drama she's acting must be a very stupid script writer. Every single word in her script is deceptive, boring and reminiscent of Nollywood movies. It's even more appalling to see her gathering a horde of sentimental supporters;. Any discerning mind would see that there are too many discrepancies in her essay. I can neither deny nor confirm that Apostle Suleiman is a "bad guy" but trust me, he didn't do this bit-ch.... HE DIDN'T DO IT . I urge every well meaning member of the (of the planning committee to defame the clerics' person) to throw this issue out through the window. It's ridiculous in absolute and on the long run, this issue would only make you all look stu-pid because even a discerning child can see that Apostle Suleiman didn't do this.
CareerRe: Too Much IQ Level In A Single Picture by omonighoblessing(f): 9:35pm On Mar 13, 2017
wherehuh
NYSCRe: Identity Card Of A Corper Who Died Today At Enugu-onitsha Express Way by omonighoblessing(f): 9:14pm On Mar 13, 2017
I don't even know what to say again.......pls LORD save us ..keep us safe untill we finish our service year. AMEN!
HealthRe: 3yr Old Girl Badly Burnt Afta Falling Into Hot Oil In Frying Pan In Maiduguri(Pi by omonighoblessing(f): 9:06pm On Mar 13, 2017
sorry baby.....but mothers too be very careful!
RomanceRe: Happy Birthday Omonighoblessing by omonighoblessing(f): 4:01pm On Mar 13, 2017
CoolFreeday:
you're welcome, hope you had fun?
sure huni....I sure did.Thanks sweet

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