In relationships it is quite normal to feel insecure at times.The reason could be anything, starting right from their childhood to something that happened in college. Dating insecure men can be very difficult and we don’t recommend it at all.An insecure guy doesn’t appear as one at all. It is only when you look at certain qualities that you realise that they aren’t what they appear to be.Here are some reasons behind you should not date the insecure guy.

Reasons why you should not date the insecure guy are:

1.Love Is Just A Representation: Loving another person is possible only when you are narcissistic to a certain level. We aren’t asking you to be vain but loving yourself is the first step towards loving another person. But while dating an insecure guy you’ll understand that love is just a representation from them. They are low on self-esteem and for that reason they don’t themselves the way they are.

2.Their Moods Depend On You: Dating insecure men can be extremely difficult because their life revolves around you. That can be mainly attributed to the fact that they are incapable of building meaningful relationships. Their moods are dependent of your moods. If you’re happy/sad, he’ll be happy/sad. But partners should lift each other’s moods, instead of becoming a part of it.

3.They Are A Jealous Lot: Insecure guys are jealous of any or most male friends you have in your life. They cannot handle the fact that you’re friends with other men. He doubts you whenever you say that you’re out with friends. Dating insecure men can be a serious pain in the arse.

4.They Are Impractical: Insecure guys often come with issues. They assume that you’re the answer to all their problems. And when you don’t meet their insane standards they will start moving away, looking for new people who will listen to their woes. They expect things to fall into place without their interference.

5.A Man Of Words, Not Deeds: Most of the times the insecure guy’s audio wont be in sync with their video. They are the biggest hypocrites you’ll ever meet. They manipulate you into thinking that they aren’t at fault. A valuable dating advice for women would be not to date an insecure guy.

These are the reasons why you should not date the insecure guy.

http://www.jeloser.info/2017/03/reasons-why-you-should-not-date.html



lalasticlala mynd44

Hmm

this is very true.... nice talk

Not to think that some gullible girls will take this piece serious down the road of perdition.

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FP Materials.. Onku Lala...... oya gbera...

An insecure guy is the worst thing that will happen to a woman.

Hhhmmmmmm

Very true! I'm one though, just that I make sure they dont have the slightest clue. Dump them when I'm done. Do I even date self?

Dannidom:
Very true! I'm one though, just that I make sure they dont have the slightest clue. Dump them when I'm done. Do I even date self?

Of course not, you're a user.

kimbra:
Of course not, you're a user.

Can I use you?

Dannidom:
Can I use you?

I am allergic to users.

Being insecure in a relationship is relative.

kimbra:
I am allergic to users.

I can cure your allergy trust me

Obsessed folks are those folks who'll threaten to kill themselves if you break up with them. Sometimes ladies stay back in a relationship because he threatened he'd kill himself if she leaves, so she doesn't want to be responsible for his death and she stays in. That's manipulation. Insecure men are masters at emotional manipulation.

Dannidom:
I can cure your allergy trust me

My allergy for "Users" is incurable.

Goodnight.

kimbra:
My allergy for "Users" is incurable.

Goodnight.

Bedtime is for users dearie... Ama form a mental picture of you, you are sleeping on my di*k tonight

omonighoblessing:


Obsessed folks are those folks who'll threaten to kill themselves if you break up with them. Sometimes ladies stay back in a relationship because he threatened he'd kill himself if she leaves, so she doesn't want to be responsible for his death and she stays in. That's manipulation. Insecure men are masters at emotional manipulation.

I've actually experienced that with a girl before.

DLGUY:


I've actually experienced that with a girl before.

am glad you can relate to this too dear......this is actually mostly the scenario in some case