Danhoys: I could totally relate to you dear op, but I'm sure we're the lucky ones.
First of all, you married someone you love, someone you find both romantically and sexually attractive.
That's a plus.
When I and my hubby were passing through this turbulent phase, what helped was having similar interest.
I'm hugely into politics, and so is my husband. Trust me, there is always something to gist on when he's back from work.
Aside from politics, we're both hardcore gamers too, and we're already saving to get PS4, and it doesn't stop us from giving our young kids the attention they deserve.
Aside that, we both have huge interest in other areas too, like science. There is always something to talk about.
I've always love men who are built, and my husband knows this.
Every weekend, we go running, and we help each stay fit. Sometimes I teases him that he should be a model, and I do take alluring pictures of him too.
I'm a super intelligent lady, (not bragging), so I ensured that my husband's intellect matched with mine before saying 'I do!'
We've been married for 5 years now, and the love and fun is still there. During leave, we always make it a duty to travel to another state, and see an interesting place.
A week vacation doesn't hurt, and it has a way to rekindle the love we have for each other.
When you marry your friend, you discover that your love is new every morning lol.
Work and children can't steal love away, that's an excuse people give to avoid talking about how they no longer find their partner attractive or interesting.
I don't want to talk about sex, cause ours is on a whole new level. Sex shouldn't be the traditional offing of light and missionary thrusting.
That's boring!!! It needs spicing every time or it becomes boring and a chore.
I wouldn't like to go into details, before some religious folks label us sinners.
You have work to do, and I'm sure you've gotten a cue from my write up. Wishing you more bliss in marriage. Lovu wantintin. I was shy reading your comment. |