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Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by fait10(m): 11:03pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Danhoys:And ur son is already 17yrs from ur previous post Danhoys:And ur son is already 17yrs from ur previous post |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by PearlFid(f): 11:03pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Qatar2022:that comment was very stupid 2 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Lagoon0: 11:04pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Ishilove:What do you mean by satanic post? You're just ignorant . holier than thou peeps. Make sure sey you make heaven iranu |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Alexaonfleek: 11:05pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
justosee:very sick comment,I tell you. The only thing he could think about was to have his way with a married woman. The worst is the number of likes and shares it gathered 3 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:05pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Nice of you to share, here's what many people going into marriage do not know. It's not going to be adventurous and romantic 24/7. Sour days will come. These days, i'd advice people to spend more than 6 months knowing a person before settling down. The reason is because there is usually a lot you will never know in half a year. About sex life, it's easy. Switch things up. Try to communicate better with him and if possible find ways to bring back the memories that brought you both together in the first place. Rhodaogunpeju: |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Goldbw122(m): 11:06pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Kylekent59:All comes at the right time, no skipping. you are right. |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by samnaija: 11:07pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Rhodaogunpeju: Just 7 years you are complaining, do you really believe marriage is all sex, boyfriend and girlfriend chasing up and down. It's an institution I am very sure you have no children yet that's why you are less busy thinking about boyfriend and girlfriend runs. If na naija you dey immediately after marriage another member is added into the marriage this makes bonding more btw man and woman. Because you go hussle to take care of that pikin together.in naija you are minister of education, power, and housing no government help. So tell me if you are busy hussling to meet up you get time for this ..just 7 years....haha.ba. go born pikin. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Irennediva(f): 11:09pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Everything is not all about sex. your husband can stay one year without touching you. as far as both of you are still together all is well. sex is overated. The future is Female! 2 Likes
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Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by wildikeman(m): 11:12pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Marriage is not sweet not love |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by doxijaw: 11:13pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jonra: Lolz , she's no rare breed. Just doing her, it could be different for others. An introverted couple may enjoy their introvertedness the same way she enjoys extra activities. Btw when did video games, exercising become something exclusive . 2 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by edoairways: 11:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:This comment nailed the root cause of cheating in marriage. To me, that marriage vow need to be scrapped 5 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by arimahoseloka(m): 11:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
The excitement and fire can never be the same like when you are newly married or newly dating. But nonetheless love is beautiful, it's not all about hot sex and attraction. There is dedication, loyalty, care&support, long suffering, sacrifices, endurance, patience, sometimes you have to give yourself a break and just be dedicated to your partner. 4 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Lagoon0: 11:20pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Feddytune:I was talking to a lady one time. I told her that its not that I can't be romantic and give attention but I'm too discipline to engaged on irrelevant activities. She was like she'll want a guy she could visit in the office and do one round. A guy that can give attention , bla bla bla.. I was just looking at the mumu. I can never marry such person. She didnt even talk about how we'll make money together. We were talking about dream lover onetime, she was just saying tall, fit, financial, caring bla bla bla.. Me myself I'm just 5'9 short and skinny . I no fit her category. When she ask me of my dream lover , I told her any lady that knows how to make money finish! She was surprise. If your wife sabi make money your marriage go sweet. All we have are just overrated house wife. Marriage is a big scam! Make I no vex speak in modii voice 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Liposure: 11:21pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
What keeps marriage going is not love what keeps it going is tolerance, perseverance and endurance. |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by knowhowk: 11:23pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Marriage is not a Must ..Go for it ,stay in it if U can . Don't even go near it if you can't ....Wetin dey for Marriage self .Washing of Clothes Dry Cleaner Dey, Washing is some men hobby ,Cooking of food , Restaurant and Mama Put dey .U can even cook urself .Sweeping of Compound ,U can hire Cleaner ,Wetin dey for Sweeping self ,Sebi no be whole Town .Sex ,This is one of the easiest to get .Children : Yeah this is the only reason woman is Needed ,Child Bearing ,But wait ooo , Surrogacy don dey now , Surrogate Mother dey ,No need for Marrying self ,Surrogate mother just carry d baby for u ,Born am u pay her ,Not a must for breastfeeding Joor ,U get Food laced with enough Lauric acid ,same that makes woman breast Has enough Vitamins for Child's Development.Abeg save yourself of Unnecessary Nagging ,Stress ,Wahala. Marriage don send many people go Grave Joor 2 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Liposure: 11:24pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Irennediva:nah! The future is united |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Bluffly: 11:26pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Rhodaogunpeju: There is no drifting except you define it as such. There is what they call reality. Marriage is not a novel or Nollywood movie. If you want your marriage to always be about you, then you are selfish. Marriage does not mean you shut out your environment. What is wrong is discussing politics. He asked you to eat does not mean he doesn't love you again. There are stages in life and they are not the same thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Lagoon0: 11:30pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
doxijaw: Im highly introverted and I avoid my kind seriously. I've deliberately cut off my kind. When I'm with introvert girls I try to be extroverted but they act too complicated and I don't have time for all that. Me wey just dey sacrifice my introversion for you, you wan com stress me. But the extrovert ladies are always running their mouth � . I just smile at their many talks, they'll always have irrelevant thing to say. The good ones will listen to my correction. When you offend them they'll voice out immediately. But those introvert ones might deal with you silently . I no go like dey with dangerous babe 1 Like |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Femilekan233: 11:32pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Qatar2022:thank you for that comment. |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Sheriman(m): 11:32pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
This thread is for the married Nairalanders so let a single guy like me just be reading jejely and learning from all these wonderful couples.. I want to learn more so please keep commenting!! 1 Like |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by BusterG: 11:33pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Alberta finally got boring. Unfortunately it’s not like Lagos where you can quickly conjure one untraceable work related training and quickly collect some good D or have a “pussy hungry” colleague take you on a boat ride in Ikoyi and drill you after. The only person I’m happy for is your husband. He did the right thing at the right time. Took you to the country where it will be difficult for you to start any cheating drama even if you wanted to. I can bet my balls that if all this happened in Naija, you’ll be busy riding a dick by now. But it’s kinda harder to do there cos of obvious reasons : 1) you gotta get ur ass to clock-in for ur 8 hrs and get back in time for your kids. 2) you probably no longer have d goody body to pull a Kanye at work cos ure just a dark woman trying to sort part of d bills. 3) there’s no random fucker dat will want to screw you for free over thr except for d few naija guys that don’t have a work. Or the Jamo guy. I see through your rants sis. Carry your cross. I know husbands are not saints too...Bottom line is these bitches ain’t loyal either. Position yourself well guys. Lastly Nothing lasts forever. 5 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by pizzzy(m): 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
people are no longer contented with what they have I bet the op is craving for extramarital action. The grass is always greener on the other side. Lastly all things being equal, I think it's cool to get married to someone who has impulse control because you meet people who are cute, sexier ,rich etc than your spouse and if you don't impulse control before you realise you have slept with everybody 3 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Lagoon0: 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Irennediva:@bolded iffa give you better knock! By the way , why do ladies demand more do sex in marriage? Is it due to joblessness? |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Nobody: 11:35pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Rhodaogunpeju:You are lucky you got to experience what mind-blowing sex feels like. A lot of married women cannot relate. They were doomed from Day 1. Rhodaogunpeju:You're lucky to have experienced being turned on at one point. A lot of women got married to men they were never sexually attracted to. They don't even know how being turned on feels like, particularly if the husband is in boxers. They find their husbands to be very repulsive. Good thing you did not paint a fake picture of your marriage like many do. 2 Likes |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by chrizzyace: 11:38pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Seriously, I don’t know why some couples always find it difficult to adjust when a partner is noticing some things that could possibly affect the marriage, I mean if yoU marry someone for love, you must be ready to always do things to spice up that love and keep the fire burning. And one must ensure he or she notices these things on time, so it can be worked on and everything goes smoothly. You don’t expect to live with someone forever, that at some point you won’t feel like you need your single life back, that’s why one must be prepared psychologically before marriage, no jokes... Like someone said here, you need wisdom to keep your home safe and secured from external forces. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by karnap(m): 11:38pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
FreeSpirited: |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 11:40pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
kaymart: Apparently a lot of couples who can are doing that now. So long as it's done under mutual agreement and not under "vex" conditions |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Onelove508: 11:40pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Danhoys: Lovu wantintin. I was shy reading your comment. |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by letitrainnow(m): 11:41pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
This is an interesting post 1 Like |
Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by franchasng: 11:44pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
The reason people feel disappointed in life, in marriages and in their affairs with other people is having too much expectation from others. Lots of women make this mistake. They have a lot of expectations from their future husband; my husband must be tall, dark, fair, graduate, oil company worker, must be wearing suit and tie to work and the fine native to Church on Sunday.....he must be excellent in bed and very romantic and ready to pet me everyday. He must be so gentle and be serving me breakfast in bed. He must be faithful and very handsome. He must own his own house and good luxury cars. He must love what I love. We will have 3 kids; 2 boys and 1 girl. This is where ladies start to have problem in life; too much expectation from men. When their expectations are not met, they start to feel irritated and frustrated with life. Dear ladies, expect less from men and you will live a happy life. Op is suffering from girlie fantasies. In fact you are a boring spouse. Imagine you cannot even sit down and discuss politics that affects your whole life with your husband but you want him to be doing nonsense Tom and Jerry love. You really need to change your orientation about life. For your info, I am married and enjoying my marriage to the fullest. Its as if I am single, no stress. And how can you exhaust all topics to discuss with your partner Don't you guys have jobs or business or something that make you come in contact with people everyday which will automatically create topics for you and your hubby. My wife will come back from call sometimes and start to gist me what happened; especially when there is a serious or interesting incident that happened. She knows I love politics, not just Nigerian but world politics. US oh, Europe oh, Asia, etc, I am in. Once I step into the sitting room or her room, she will change the station to a news station unless she is watching an interesting movie episode or something. Op, you and your husband didn't court enough. That's why it's not good to hurry marriage nowadays. Stop choking your husband with your clingness, it can be irritating. Give him some freedom to feel like a boy. Stop being too clingy as a wife, it turns men off. Your husband shouldn't be your 247 routine, have your own life and schedule and allow him have some breathing space before you push him into the arms of strange women 13 Likes 4 Shares |
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