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I appreciate and support Nigerian men just because I love my country Nigeria. A patriotic Nigerian is Onila , so i need 2 support my men

BUT the actual truth I have suffered in the hands of this men  I have been insulted, treated like dirt, humiliated in public by these men, I was also bullied on facebook and twitter by some mean Naija men years ago. Nigerian men are very insultive

look at what happened to the beautiful star "tiwa savage" yesterday on twitter. .a Nigerian man insulted her publicly. .that was so uneccessary

Ivorian men hmmmm

lol he is. .just that the tribal marks made him look weird

What a creativity,parents shld be careful. .did he fight LION?hahahahahaha

then which african country have the most handsome men in Africa? yr vexing me oo u said they are not the most then who are

;d

MsDarkSkin:
lol @ chima! sis!  with his busted a$$ talking about Nigerian women like
he is worth a nickle. 

seriously smh. Seedord I don't have your time anymore. . .
i guess ima have to try to keep the topic going by any means. . .

@Onila/poster so if the guy never turned you down would you have considered dating him? Do you believe it was only because you are African or is it some sort of paranoia?

i remember a thread that was created not too long ago where this AA girl created a thread and she was saying when she went to a Nigerian party, she felt so out of place and thought that she was being ignored and ppl were saying she was probably self conscious. It may be the reason for your feeling that way too.

[random] In terms of the issue with cultures being different and blasey blasey:

Now although I represent the opposite, i am in a similar situation. I feel ok when I am at African parties. Occasionally a few people might ask or say ignorant things but after watching black people in general we are a race of "shiet talkers/ renkers" so i dont take it to heart. However in my personal relationship, i am dating a man from cameroon, at first his mom seemed a bit stand offish at times but i knew she is just "scoping me out" to be sure that her son made the right decision. After we hung out at the mall and got to ask each other questions about the other's culture I've realized we are not the much different at all. My mom is not African however she is an old school woman. She believes in the whole "introduce him to me so i can interrogate" thing. She wants what is best for me. Sure she would prefer that I be with a Jamo man but she has learned to respect my decision. 

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I would have gotten 2 know him if he was really interested. ,Although i have never dated a carribean man before but I was just surprised the way he walked away. THAT shows many carribean men are not interested in African women. Many of my friends have also eperienced this

I am really proud of my boyfriend. .he has allowed me 2 keep my virginity. .he has never put pressure on me to open my legs, hes a sweet patient, kind, out going, easy going guy

PDPwayoo:
@onila
TRY READ AND UNDERSTAND MY COMMENT. I SAID NIGERIANS AT HOME. ALMOST 98% OF NIGERIANS ABROAD USE INTERNET FOR SURE BUT AT HOME IS LESS THAN 15% B4 THE SO CALLED BB.

IF U LEAVE IN ABROAD, HOW MANY EMAILS DO U RECEIVE FROM your MOM OR DAD IN A YEAR? I GUESS = 0 BUT OLD PEOPLE IN OTHER COUNTRIES COMMUNICATE WITH THEIR CHILDREN ON INTERNET OFTEN.

Nigeria has the most internet users in Africa. Nigerian even got the most twitter accounts in Africa. Africa is backbehind but Nigeria is the only one on the way. most of our parents are old school and aint interested in the internet

PDPwayoo:
NIGERIA CAN NEVER PLAY GOLF, RUGBY, TENNIS COS WE ARE NOT INFORMED. NIGERIANS AT HOME LACK INFORMATION AND THE GOVERNMENT IS BLIND.
BEFORE BB, WHAT IS THE % OF NIGERIANS AT HOME USING INTERNET COMPARE TO GHANA OR KENYA? = LESS THAN 15%.
WE ARE NIGERIANS, WE ONLY KNOW HOW TO MAKE NOISE AND CLAIM TO BE GIANT OF AFRICA FOR MOUTH.

I WAS A SPECTATOR OF 2011 WORLD UNIVERSITY GAMES, NIGERIA FLAG BEARER WAS AN OLD MAN PERHAPS A POLITICIAN WEARING AGBADA AND SHOKOTO.
BUT OTHER COUNTRIES, INCLUDING KENYA, MALI, GAMBIA FLAG BEARERS ARE STUDENTS, YOUNG AND WEARING SUITES AND TRACK SUITES.

I WAS ASHAMED.

sharrap Nigeria has the most internet users in Africa,  , why shld they wear suites? Nigerians are very proud of their culture and are willing to wear abada anywhere. .unlike other African presidents who wear suites Nigerian leaders proudly wear suites @ international events

most of my African friends have noticed this

because i remembered one day a guy from barbados came up to talk me. he was friendly and all but once he asked me where am I from

and  I said African. .He felt uncomfortable and walked away

Beauty of the day! Nigerian Vanessa Obonna

you have to be tough to date a Nigerian man. I like my Naija men but they are too strong, insultive and possessive, jealous and very controlling

they are like wild animals