Romance › Re: Difference in Being A Female And Being A Woman In Relationships And Marriages. by Onyewarri(op): 11:01pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Same goes for being a man and being male. |
Romance › Re: Difference in Being A Female And Being A Woman In Relationships And Marriages. by Onyewarri(op): 10:57pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
According to him, A woman will make a good spouse but a female cannot make a good spouse.
That for a female to make a good spouse she needs to first become a woman.
This has nothing to do with age or maturity but mindset and values.
What do you guys think about this. |
Romance › Re: Difference in Being A Female And Being A Woman In Relationships And Marriages. by Onyewarri(op): 10:40pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
If you know, you know. |
Romance › Difference in Being A Female And Being A Woman In Relationships And Marriages. by Onyewarri(op): 10:32pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
A friend once said "There is a huge difference between being a female and being a woman in relationships and marriages."
Can anybody expantiate on this? |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 5:30pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Contekbbc: Las Las, no be money all of us dey find? I dey tell you! |
Autos › Re: SOLD- Awoof Sale Of Foreign Used 2012 Jetta by Onyewarri(m): 10:01am On Mar 22, 2022 |
uniquetechng: Oga if you are interested in buying the come down with your mechanic, the car is 100% condition, Tin can cleared. This is not Toyota its Volkswagen, I guess you know they dont sell fast as Toyota and Honda or even Benz cars ?
The car came in early last year, so its tying down capital. Ok. Apologies for stressing you. I am interested. I have 2.3. I will chat you up now. |
Autos › Re: SOLD- Awoof Sale Of Foreign Used 2012 Jetta by Onyewarri(m): 9:55am On Mar 22, 2022 |
uniquetechng: which one is catch inside, its a distress sale.
Bring your mechanic and scanner when coming for inspection, test driving is free .
No upfront payment of any nature, nothing hidden. Bros. Leave distress sale matter. If this legit and in good condition any car dealer will give you more than that. So once again. What's the catch, be honest |
Autos › Re: SOLD- Awoof Sale Of Foreign Used 2012 Jetta by Onyewarri(m): 9:51am On Mar 22, 2022 |
What's the catch? Why are you selling an 012 car for 2.5m.
Regardless of the make and model. It's too cheap to be true.
Pls be honest. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is Backing Off/Backing Down A Sign Of Weakness Or Strength? by Onyewarri(op): 8:26pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Backing off/down doesn't mean you are letting go or giving up, regardless of what others might think. It means you chose not confront or engage an opposition at that particular time, place or under certain circumstances.
Depends on how you use it. It can even be of advantage to you. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is Backing Off/Backing Down A Sign Of Weakness Or Strength? by Onyewarri(op): 8:08pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Uprightness100: If there are 2 Captains in a ship, the ship is very likely to Capsize. In a Home or office Scneario Backing off/ Down in an argument is maturity and Strength.
Personally, I Hate to Exchange words or Banters. What I do is that I tell you what I know and I leave you argue with yourself.
Same here. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is Backing Off/Backing Down A Sign Of Weakness Or Strength? by Onyewarri(op): 8:01pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
chatinent: It depends on the situation. Regardless of the situation. We shouldn't let our emotions or ego get the better of us. |
Nairaland General › Is Backing Off/Backing Down A Sign Of Weakness Or Strength? by Onyewarri(op): 7:49pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Often times during disagreement or confrontations most people hardly back down or back off. This is because people often associate the act with weakness or see it as a win for the opposition.
Hence, issues that probably would have amounted to nothing or ended with verbal talks ends up being escalated to very serious problems sometimes resulting in deaths and or heavy damages to life and properties.
Marriages destroyed because a spouse refused to back down.
Businesses and interests ended and destroyed because a party or team refused to back down.
Disputes escalated to full blown wars because of leaders refusal to back down.
Families thrown into chaos because a family member refused to back down or back off.
Personally, I see the act as a strength, a show of maturity and a form of rational thinking in the face of opposition.
After all, " A good warrior knows when to fight". |
Family › Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Onyewarri(m): 5:37pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
It depends on what is success to you. But in all it's entirety marriage is a huge distraction to success .
Forget about the public perception of married life. If you truly know what they are going through privately, you may decide never to get married.
If there is a reset button for married life that erases marriages and it's timeline from people's life and memory, there would be Less than 3% of marriages in the history of mankind.
Truth be told , you have no idea what spouses and marriages has delibrately and indelibrately cost people. Most Married couples are deeply regretting and sorrowful in private and but come out smiling and feigning happiness in public.
Most people's personal life stops growing after marriage, be it career, spiritual, financial and all that. Do you have an idea of how many people marriage have destroyed.
Take a closer look at couples around you. How many truly happily married couples do you see? Most of them are still struggling in their marriages because of their children.
Ever asked yourself what a spouse saw in his or her husband or wife that made them marry that person?. That is one of the things marriage does to a person.
Unless you are willing to give away everything you worked for and believed in. Marriage is a MIGHTILY HUGE DISTRACTION and THE MOST OVERRATED INSTITUTION IN THE WORLD. |
Career › Re: by Onyewarri(m): 9:18am On Mar 16, 2022 |
kingscare1: 1) Affiliate marketing - Sell someone else product online for sales commission 2) Importations 3) Do crypto trading since you already on the niche 4) Freelance as a programmer on upwor, Fiverr etc till you grow more experience then become a professional programmer 5) Call or write persons or businesses to advertise on your YouTube platform. 6) Play Betting (5 ODDs upward) 7) Do Forex trading 8 ) Chat with a white woman with your face, small time she would transfer money to you. 9) Resale Cheap Jijii Products 10) Follow your heart.. You too much bro! Nice one. |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 7:59pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Just this evening, I was on the phone with my cousin and she was lamenting how difficult it is for her to get a block moulder/brick layer for her ongoing project.
According to her, all the artisans she got kept giving her excuses and telling her to give them more time even though she has waited for some of them for over 2 weeks now.
At some point she became worried and started feeling that something else is wrong.
I told her not to get herself worked up, that it is not peculiar to her. That it is the situation of things now and it may get worse with time. She also confirmed that her husband said something similar to what I told her.
So guys, you see. What an elder sees sitting down......... |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 10:13pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Schprobs: Many artisans out there they labour with pain and hungry are not riding okada keke or conductors just to survive.
Same Nigeria when u render service to customer to pay your balance it's a big problem.
Nigeria must suffer it for treating us likes trash Some people actually find it hard to pay for services rendered, artisan or not, it's their nature. Same way others also pay heavily and still go as far as giving tips and thanking you, like you did them a favor when they are satisfied with your courtesy and professionalism. Such is life my bro, don't let those difficult ones discourage you. |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 8:49pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Shoodboi: On the other statement, digital/tech money is not quick money. You'll spend years rolling in the mud before seeing anything. You could start earning few weeks/months after learning but you'll almost never achieve your full potentials until a few years. Most people don't know that. They think is quick money or easy money hence the rush into it. |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 8:31pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Shoodboi: First, this is not true:
Secondly, I knew you were going to mention internet fraud the moment I started reading and you didn't disappoint.
Plus the fact that you included it with things like content creator, a programmer, content writer, and then added "and the likes" at the end instantly discredits your argument in the faces of people in those fields (including me).
What links do those careers have with fraud? Seun Osewa who owns Nairaland is a programmer.
But I'll put that aside since I understand what you're trying to say (unless you have hidden intentions).
You need to understand how the world (and the method of generating wealth) is changing and how people follow those changes, without even realizing it.
In the past, wealth was generated from farms. Basically, the more farmland you had, the more money you had.
Wealth later moved from farms to industries (factories, etc.) during the industrial revolutions. And people followed...
That's why we had lots of craftsmen and technical schools in the 80s and 90s compared to today since there were lots of industries in the world and most of the tech stuff we take for granted today were evolving at the time.
Now, wealth has moved from industries/factories to services and people are following suit.
That's why you're seeing less people in craftsmanship these days.
And let's not talk about our increased population, The increasing complexities of skills required to become a craftsman, The destruction of the middle class who are the biggest spenders, which means fewer jobs for craftsmen, The massive deindustrialization that has been happening in Nigeria since the 70s due to poor government policies and forced us to focus on importation over manufacturing/assembling, and so on.
That said, you'll be surprised to know that everything you're saying now was the same thing everyone else said in the 80s and 90s:
They complained about people leaving the farms for craftsmanship. And now, you're complaining about people leaving craftsmanship for the digital world.
You'll be surprised again to learn that someone in the future will make the same complaint about people leaving the digital world for something else.
It's just the world happening and is nothing to bother about. I have no issues with yahoo guys and content creators and their likes. I just cited them as a form of reference The thing is that everybody wants quick money and the easy way out. |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 8:19pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
NnamdiN: Pay hourly and have a standard wage, a lot of people will do a lot things. Abi make I leave 250k per month soft hustle go do welding because of passion? True talk bro. But a good welder earns more. Trust me. Don't let their appearances fool you |
Career › Re: Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 8:14pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Kate06:

Look op...I dont know you but I am sure you will not dare do a job that will take you 35 years to save #100,000 in this economy.
I doubt if you know how much pure water for a bag cost now or what food prices are saying . When are you gonna settle down with this our Nigerian ladies that don't want to date poor guys with your daily wages of #5000 or less?
Right from when I was small,I have decided my faith and dream of no stress job like going to the office from AC to my car with AC but as soon as one graduated and start facing the reality in Nigeria,nobody will tell him to learn a digital skill and do freelancing or join a forex broker with 97% win rate .
Na ur type go see small legit hustler for street with a car and you will tag him yahoo boy. How old are you?
Have you forgotten we are in the 21st century when almost many skills are fading away with the advent of robot who do such works and other program applications?
How come you don't know digital skills like programming,graphic and design,digital marketing and a host lot of skills are taking over the conventional skills you used to know.
You had better change your mentality and meet this new generation young boys to show you the way.
Edited: If you want to join the 2 trading companies I am presently getting alot of income each week,DM me. Mind your language boy. I am clearly not your mate. It is mindsets like yours that brought us to where we are. I am not rich yet but I am damn well comfortable. Married with two handsome boys, living in a lovely 2 bedroom apartment in the heart of PHC. A landlord and currently driving my second car, a 2009 Toyota Camry (spider). Started my own company after resigning as technical head from a well known multinational company you would kill to work for and I am still in my mid thirties. All these are possible not because I have a degree in computer science or a diploma in computer engineering but because I learnt a technical skill during my one year I.T. A skill that opened doors that my formal education couldn't. A skill that took me places and gave me connections beyond my imagination. So once again. Mind your language boy. |
Career › Artisans And Craftsmanship In Nigeria: A Looming Crisis. by Onyewarri(op): 1:56pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
In recent times I couldn't help but think about how the artisan and Craftsmanship industry of Nigeria will be 10 years from now.
I remember back in the 80s and 90s, it is common and even a thing of pride whereby people sign up for apprenticeship for a couple of years to get the required skill in their field of interest.
Some Parents like my father even insisted on adding artisanry to formal education as plan B. So all each children had to learn a skill while waiting for admission or during the one year industrial training period in higher institutions ( A legacy I will earnestly follow with my lineage).
Aside the fact that it is a huge boost to ones C.V., you will never beg for food unless you weren't serious with your training.
But today you hardly see youngsters, learning Craftsmanship or artisanry. Every body wants to be a content creator, a programmer, content writer, Yahoo yahoo and the likes.
Nobody wants to be a plumber, an electrician, a technician, a mechanic, a bricklayer or tiler, welder, iron bender and the likes.
Have you noticed how difficult it is to get an experienced and skilled artisan these days. Sometimes you have to wait for days for them to come and do jobs for you in your house.
The crux of the matter is the crop of experienced and skilled artisans and Craftsmen and women presently available are those from the 80s and 90s. Most of their apprentices are actually with them just to make ends meet thereby prioritizing the need to make money above that of properly learning the skill from their master.
Personally I think it's just a matter of a couple of years before we realize the dire situation of artisanry and Craftsmanship in this country. Maybe by then we will start looking for foreigners to fill in the gaps.
What do you guys think? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zelensky Signs Ukraine's Official Application For EU Membership by Onyewarri(m): 8:51pm On Feb 28, 2022 |
SarkinYarki: The drug addict is looking for ways to turn his beautiful country into rubble's ..even in the next 1000 years Ukraine can never have peace if they choose this route ..see how tiny Ukraine is near Russia It is not a matter of geographical size my friend. Japan is one of the smallest countries in Asia but she single handedly almost took the entire Asia continent during the second world war. Overrunning land mass giants like china in a matter of months and even taking the fight half way around the world to the Americans. Germany is almost half of Ukraine but it almost took the whole of Europe and Asia and parts of Africa combined. Ukraine is over 2 times bigger than the whole of the United Kingdom (England, Wales, Scotland and northern Ireland) combined. I believe Russia will never consider invading the U.K. because they know the consequences Hence, in war landmass hardly matters. One key factor that has proven itself over and over again in times of war is ALLIANCE. That is something Ukraine is gaining on everyday and it is what RUSSIA doesn't want UKRAINE to have that led to the invasion in the first place. I am not taking sides in this war but one thing I know for sure is whether Russia takes Ukraine or not. RUSSIA WILL NOT WIN THIS WAR. THE REST OF THE WORLD WILL NOT LET THAT HAPPEN BECAUSE IF THEY DO, RUSSIA WILL NOT STOP AT UKRAINE. |
Sports › Re: PSG Vs Real Madrid by Onyewarri(m): 4:57pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Madrid can never win this match.
I have a proven and trusted formula and it says Madrid cannot win. |
Family › Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Onyewarri(m): 12:01pm On Dec 20, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz: I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing
How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids. He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.
The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games. If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them. He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them. A grown man begging his kids to go to bed.. Wtfffff And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.
He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.
Some men are not fit to be fathers some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids. Shut up your mouth! You go person house for holiday. He fed and accommodated you yet you carry your wide mouth come nairaland come Dey talk thrash. How is his parenting style your bizness? Do you have kids not to mention 4 little onez? do you know what it takes? Do you even know the stretch your stay in his house is adding to his bills? I can see the home training you got from with all the beatings your parents gave you, that is why you still dey insult the man you call uncle for inside him own house after everything he's done for you. If at all you get sense you for try discuss am it him so you will know how you can help. But i can see that you forgot your sense at your parents house or wherever it is you went from. Senseless Muuguu. |
Romance › Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Onyewarri(m): 11:06am On May 18, 2020 |
funkmrflexx: We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .
I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.
Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship
But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out
So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.
My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).
That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her
The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.
So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .
I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her
So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .
I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house. For the past seven years I haven't posted or login on nairaland. I just read topics and comments as a guest. But because of the importance of my message i had to login. My message for you is RUN. I mean take off your shoes and RUN cos your life and future depends on it. I will be honestly blunt with you because I don't want you to suffer what I am suffering. I have first hand experience. First let me tell you the pattern of events as they have, are unfolding and will unfold. Initially when you guys started you noticed some of this things and you thought it was just as a result of the relationship being new. No 2 persons are the same so you believed you guys can work it out. At this stage some persons will try to warn you but you will not listen. Then you moved to the next level which is commitment. Then you will start building and investing in her. She will become more relaxed and comfortable with you hence you will see more of this nonsense. But being that you love her you will overlook and forgive her easily especially after she apologized mostly with tears in her eyes or she tries to make it up to you somehow. At this stage people will leave you guys alone, only those really close to you guys will try to stylishly warn you but you will not take them seriously. Then to the next level which is where you are now. It is intent to marry/ proposal/family meeting. This is when you bring out your extra eyes and senses to scrutinize your spouse and know if he/she is the one. Then you will begin to see and realize things that will get you confused and begin to ask questions. At this point when you seek counsel, her family members will make excuses for her and your family members will tolerate her in other to be at peace with you. Only few neutral people will tell you the truth. The truth is, she may change but she will never stop being who she is. If she cannot be submissive to you or tolerate your mother for a few days especially at this stage of the relationship then she is either using you or she will make a really terrible partner that will make you a bad person or make your life miserable, either way you will regret it if you don't end it now. If you marry her you will end up quarreling and beating her every now and then hence people will see u as a bad husband or you will swallow her shits and end up in misery with high bp. Because whatever you are seeing now there is usually more after marriage. And don't think that u can divorce her easily because it is not that easy. In life I have come to understand that the two most important virtues in marriage is patience and understanding with these a whole lot of other things falls into place. Anyone who is short tempered has fallen short of both. You can make a wife out of a woman but you can't make a woman out of a wife. Before she becomes a wife she has to first be a woman. But what do I know. |
Music/Radio › Re: Fear Of The Unknown ; Music Career Wahala, Pls Advice Me. by Onyewarri(op): 3:19pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Freiburger: ^^ What kind of music are you into? r and b, pop and afropop |
Music/Radio › Fear Of The Unknown ; Music Career Wahala, Pls Advice Me. by Onyewarri(op): 11:31pm On Jun 23, 2013 |
I have been composing and writing songs for close to 10yrs now but i haven't recorded any yet. with over 80 songs in my diary i am still confused on whether to take it seriously or the next step to take. The thing is i am scared of putting so much time and resources and then turning out to b a superstar wannabe. I dn't know if i will make it with so many good musician struggling 2 survive. I know dat it doesnt take only talent to make it in music, alot of other things are involved, most of which i dnt have. I tried forgetting about it it but every nw and then a rhythm comes into my mind and nw it is even worse because every sound i hear is a rhythm and any voice i hear is a note. I have never really sang 2 an audience b4 but i want 2 start makin arrangements with a very good top producer in p.h. Should i go ahead or there are other things i need to know first. Pls i need all d advice i can get. |
Celebrities › Re: Karen Igho Blasts Artistes With Bentley Yet Live In Rented Apartments by Onyewarri(m): 10:47pm On Jun 16, 2013 |
martyns303: Na person wey no fit buy beer dey talk say ey too bitter. |
Celebrities › Re: Karen Igho Blasts Artistes With Bentley Yet Live In Rented Apartments by Onyewarri(m): 10:45pm On Jun 16, 2013 |
martyns303: Na person wey no fit buy beer dey talk say ey too bitter. ...and na person wey drink too much beer dey sleep 4 gutter. Use ur head |
Sports › Re: The Confederations Cup Brazil 2013 - Preview by Onyewarri(m): 8:31am On Jun 15, 2013 |
hollandis: Please who is our striker? *in a husky voice* it's me baby, where do u want me to play from? |
Family › Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Onyewarri(m): 12:34pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
slimyem: My friend's father had two wives. He built his house such that each wife had her own duplex and lived in it with her children then the two duplexes were linked together with a small apartment and a large conference room that housed him.
He was hands on on everything. Their clothes were brought in boxes and if there were 10 boxes,it was going to be 5 for each mother. Food and schooling of each child was well taken care of too. They were RICH. All the children had the best of everything. There was no favouritism for anybody. On the surface,all was very well.
But all these didn't stop the silent competition or the buttoned up ill will or the innumerous issues that came with it when the man died.
Forget economic whatever. Nothing makes polygamy cool! Nothing makes it enviable either! the happiness of a polygamous home cannot b built on Money. For those of that was thinking dat my father was rich, he wasnt. The best we had was a four bedroom bungalow outside warri. A benz 230e car, a 504 station wagon for d family. And LOTS OF LOVE. |
Family › Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Onyewarri(m): 12:10pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Fussbot: lwkm
I used to say all dis until I grew up..infact I didn't know I was born in a polygamy cus we live in dfrnt apartments with d oda wife..
Chilax small,den go soon show you u are from a polygamy!lol..I can only speak for mysef sha what are talking do u think u are talking 2 some kid or something. Dat one na ur bizness If ur parents use ur head. Hw i wan chilax reach again when i, d fourth son is almost thirty and still can't remember d last time words like polygamy and half siblings were used in my family. cos u dnt have it does not mean others dnt. NA PEOPLE LIKE UNA DEY REMIND US OF OUR MATERNAL DIFFFRENCES. Garb. |