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ZarZar:
Wow, you're a saint!

Well, I've been accused of being a nag before & I'm unapologetic about it because I do not believe I ask for too much from people or in relationships in general. I'm an independent, easy going (for the most part) & don't-like-to-be-a-burden type of person, so when I do make a request about something, you best believe it is NECESSARY or URGENT. Because if it was something I could do by myself, I would have done it without asking anyone for help. And if the "nagging" concerns something about the relationship, again, I don't ask for much, so show a little consideration when I do raise an issue because it wouldn't even come up if it wasn't something that really bothers me in some way. When something bothers me, it's highly unlikely that I will let it go just because you're not acting on it. Impossible! I will keep bringing it up until it's either fixed as soon as possible or we go our separate ways because I also don't enjoy repeating myself. To me it almost feels like I'm trying to change a person or like I'm trying to force them to do things against their will, which I'd never want anyone to feel. I'm very black or white

iron lady in action


wehdon ma

Caringguy:
Oh yea.. and what's yours?

my name not related to yours?

lolz


this gal no go change...
If it makes u happy continue oh.. Not against it. But you making the single ladies jealous but they are not showing it..

Caringguy:
No be you babe... na that my name sake fredooo...

lolz

na fred una two dey share...

fredoooooo:
You Bae

you Boo

Caringguy:
Comot your eye from Army man salary

trouble finder who u dey tell

dacovajnr:
Be serious nau

i no see ke

BeeBeeOoh:
I go do am na inside church I dey since morning

huh

are you a priest.. Even though you are, priest don't stay in church all day...



Guess youth program in your church.. May God accept your offering and thanksgiven.

dacovajnr:
Did you get it? I'm seriously seriously I actually sent you a PM

what didn't you drink this night

fredoooooo:
Peace of mind over everything, I love my life and I will never allow any woman to nag me to death .

Option is Bae

no woman can send u to early grave for me oh.....




alwayz the superb boo

dacovajnr:
I sent it already..Check your mailbox

seems you have drank kunu this night

dacovajnr:
I know you can't do without but...ayam watching though , just lemme know when it scale through..

lolz

you want it to pass through the second reading

If *Yes* send it, if. *No* keep watching why another pass the test.

mikelrex2:
For me I can't and will never make the mistake of marrying a nagging woman, no matter her other good qualities. I have experience it with an Ex and I don't wish to relive that experience even for one week talkless of the rest of my days with my wife..sorry I can't and I won't even if your papa na dangote I won't marry u if you nag ...peace

lolz

nice to hear your own opinion...


You will never date a nagging lady again.. *Once beaten twice shy*

Splinz:
My dad married my sweet mother- a cool and calm woman for himself. And today, they're living in matrimonial bliss.

So my prayer is: "Any woman that will come into my life and nag and nag and nag! Oh, may 'APC's wind of change' change her from my direction by fire by force!"

lolz

a big Amen sir

dingbang:
lwkmd.. It will make her to stop nagging and humble herself...

you think so


Well if you are her last bus stop, i guess she will change....




Thank you.

babyfaceafrica:
I can't cope..simple

ok
thanks boss for airing your opinion also.

dacovajnr:
Shebi you're free now...ayam thinking of submitting my C.V

lolz

yes i'm free but ur C.V will still pass through second reading

lolz

babyfaceafrica:
why the support of bad thing?..na una sabi sef

i'm not supporting bad thing.. Just asking questions on how you can cope with a nagging partner even though she has all other qualities you like..


Can you cope her nagging attitude since you like/love other things about her...





If i have pass through a hand of a nagging partner and i didn't enjoy it why then should i support it...

dacovajnr:
Guys who nags are Timed Bombs waiting to explode.Therefore they should be avoided,although few are able to control themselves whenever they're in the midst of ppl they love.

seriously the kinda nagging guy i met cannot control his self in midst of loved one.. Even though u try to give him signs to calm down. That's when the nagging will even increase....

Happy l'm free from that world of nagging..

Lolz
very funny.

luscioustrish:
Keep quiet and press your phone or shape your eyebrows... Simply make him look foolish,with time he'll get the message n stop nagging,real men don't nag.

thanks dear


thank God i'm out of the relationship..

babyfaceafrica:
what you are campaigning for is the cause if the high increase in divorce rate?...why should love blind you to things that are real and acidic to a peaceful union?.....some flaws are bad and should be avoided of the person does not want to change.....some people are loud and saucy...am sorry even if you are miss world I won't marry someone like that....it is better to be single and happy than to be INA toxic relationship just because of ""love"".......thunder fire that love

lolz

easy please take a sip of water...

I'm not the one nagging but she your girlfriend so please don't pour all your anger at me oh...

Just here to hear the opinion of you guys on how you cope with a nagging partner.

In a case where he says no premarital sex till after wedding, if finding out he is impotent? What should i do?? I can't simply leave him course he is impotent.. I believe in miracles..

YoungBlackRico:
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*. It's what I'm saying. We have many divorce cases these days 'cause of this same issue. Most folks hide their flaws to get a partner or even throughout courtship only to start showing these flaws after they've tied the knot. Will you stay put with a man who says you guys should not have premarital sex only to discover he's impotent after wedding even if he has other outstanding qualities like you said, will you?


*. First of, we can't be in a relationship if I can't live with your shortcoming. A man gotta know what he wants or what's best for him. And I gotta remind you that I'm only speaking for myself, if your partner has qualities that can make you overlook their flaws then by all means go ahead and stay with them. [/color]

[color=#848b79]©YBR[/color]

anyway thanks for airing your opinion....

dingbang:
silent treatment..

jezz

*silent treatment* please will just advice you end it all.. That can make her to commit suicide...

Please don't dare try it..

luscioustrish:
Simple.,,.the guy should shut the nagging girl up with his cor.k in her mouth.

seriously....



what about my own case whereby the guy was the one nagging what do you expect i do

dacovajnr:
A Nagging Partner is a No no no for me,having been in a relationship with such, I know how it feels and trust me the relationship wasn't a pleasant one as I was forced to end it,as I wouldn't want to hit a lady for anything despite being tempted to touch on several occasions.

Btw,Some ladies are korodome(Drums) who derives satisfaction from being hit by their male partners hence they misbehave in order to make em raise their ✋ against em. Therefore it's advice able to avoid such relationship in order not to fall victim of spousal abuse in future.



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Vickotex

well said but you know some guys do nag


What do you have to say about nagging guys??

dingbang:
I said I don't know...

ok lets say you don't know for now.


But imagine you dating a nagging girlfriend what will you do and how will you cope with her

SmellingAnus:
Excessive Nagging wether done by male or female is not good for the relationship, whoever, I must confess that certain lifestyle or behavior may increase the risk of nagging... On my own part... I will prefer less nagging but if she more than makes up for that shortcomings i of hers in other areas I find very important , just maybe I may tolerate her and continue with the relationship. If it's marriage, well I honestly don't even have a choice than to work it out or tolerate her... Truth is that, we are all imperfect, it only depends on the level of imperfections from our partners/spouses that we are willing to tolerate.
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Thank you boss. You so hit the nail on the head. Like you knew what I went through with him. Yes he nags but it bearable. And again he's got other qualities to compensate for what he lacks. So I said if he is able to strike a balance between his shortcomings by leveraging on his strength, it a great thing.

Most people don't see things in your perspective but it a good thing to understand people..

YoungBlackRico:
[color=#CC6600]Of course, we all have our shortcomings. But we don't have to force ourselves to live with something we don't like/want just because "no one is perfect". The reason most relationships don't last these days is 'cause people think love or whatever quality attracted them to their partner can overshadow their shortcomings. [/color]

[color=#848b79]©YBR[/color]

Hmmmm, I must say your taste of things is superb. What do you do in an event where your girlfriend pretentiously cover up her flaws just to get you.? If you happens to be in a relationship with someone with shortcomings, are you seriously gonna forfeit her other outstanding qualities just because of her flaws??

CaptPlanet:
Im glad you did! Today is friday, i'm sure you're gonna turn up somewhere.

there is no place to turn up here.

dingbang:
Nowadays I don't even know which one is better.. Whether living single or being in a relationship...

which do you prefer

VickyRotex:
Sweetheart!
Question's for guys. Let's hear from them.
Btw, I got you this sweety.

thanks big sis..
Please no derailling today... This is a serious issue...

Btw i got you something too.

YoungBlackRico:
[color=#CC6600]Hell no, can't cope with a nagging partner . You can't change people and you definitely can't keep pretending you're okay with what they do all your life. You'll get pushed to the wall someday, and it will all come crashing down.[/color]

[color=#848b79]©YBR[/color]

Yes we can't change people but are you aware of the fact that no one is perfect? Do you know that we all have our shortcomings?? By you harbouring the notion "you can't change people" only prove that you are an island.